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It's not just fleeting moments of pleasure, but a more enduring state of well-being. For contacting @AAAUU
Some men can be so toxic to your health. They don't want to love you properly, but they don't want to let you go either.
The more you give the less they appreciate, and the minute you've had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right.
So you give them a chance in the hopes they've changed only to realise it was all fake. You find the strength to walk away once more and here he comes again proclaiming his love for you and you give in, AGAIN.
A man showing anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it of isn't proof of love; its a knee jerk reaction.
A man kissing your ass or making flaccid attempts to be nicer for two weeks isn't proof that he's trying, its proof that he knows you well enough to know how to defuse you long enough to hook you once again.
Take away a toy, a little boy cries. Take away a relationship of convenience, a man cries. Just because he cries doesn't mean you give him what he wants.
Stop listening to what your man keeps promising and start watching what his actions actually keep telling you.
A lot of you women don't know what its like to be loved by a real man. You know lust, you know joy, you know passion and you know the fear of abandonment.
Stop chasing your idea of what love should be and recognise what love IS. Love isn't promising to act right after he gets caught fucking up time and time again.
Love is him acting right from the start because he doesn't want to fuck up.
Love isn't telling your grown man he needs to change so he can keep you; love is a grown man changing on his own because he cant imagine life without you.
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The Paradox of Contentment: A Rich Man Learns a Lesson:
A rich man went to a Monk, he listened about his greatness so he was curious to meet him. One day, he went to his hut and greeted him.
Monk allowed him to sit beside him and asked, “Tell me, what can I do for you?”
I have come here to get the answer of my unanswered question, can I ask you sir?
Monk smiled and said,” sure.”
What is the secret of happy life? Question raised by rich man.
Monk said, ”Just feel content with what you have.”
“You mean now I should be satisfied with what I have and stop earning further.” Rich man asked with doubt.
“I didn't say that, I have just told you to feel satisfied with what you have right now, and then you should move ahead in life. Whenever you achieve something, feel satisfied and whatever you have right now, be thankful to god.
Never stop earning but you should feel content with what you possess right now.” Monk replied.
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1. Never neglect your health.
2. Never get married for sex.
3. Never quit your dreams.
4. Never spend more than you earn.
5. Never ignore your parents.
6. Never be pessimistic.
7. Never forget who helped you in tough times.
8. Never please people.
9. Never put work over family.
10. Never let anyone control your life.
11. Never spend a day without a to-do list.
12. Never repeat a mistake.
13. Never discuss your secrets with anyone.
14. Never spend money spontaneously.
15. Never hesitate to ask.
16. Never text anyone back to back.
17. Never idealize celebrities.
18. Never remain friends with your Ex.
19. Never have high-interest debt.
20. NEVER GIVE UP.
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The secret to a happy life is a highly subjective and individual matter as what brings happiness can vary greatly from person to person. However, there are some common principles and practices that are often associated with a happy and fulfilling life:
Positive Relationships: Cultivating strong and positive relationships with family, friends, and loved ones can bring immense joy and support to your life. Surrounding yourself with people who uplift and encourage you can significantly contribute to your happiness.
Gratitude: Practicing gratitude and focusing on the positive aspects of your life can help shift your perspective towards appreciation and contentment. Keeping a gratitude journal or simply taking time each day to reflect on the things you are thankful for can boost your overall happiness.
Purpose and Meaning: Having a sense of purpose and meaning in your life can provide direction and fulfillment. Engaging in activities that align with your values and goals can give you a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.
Health and Well-being: Taking care of your physical and mental health is crucial for overall happiness. Eating a balanced diet, exercising regularly, getting enough sleep, and managing stress can all contribute to a sense of well-being and contentment.
Mindfulness and Presence: Practicing mindfulness and being present in the moment can help you appreciate the small joys in life and reduce feelings of anxiety and stress. Mindfulness techniques such as meditation and deep breathing can promote a sense of calm and inner peace.
Personal Growth: Continuously learning and growing as a person can lead to a greater sense of fulfillment and happiness. Setting goals, pursuing interests, and stepping out of your comfort zone can help you evolve and thrive.
Balance: Finding a balance between work, relationships, leisure, and self-care is essential for a happy life. Prioritizing self-care and setting boundaries can help prevent burnout and promote overall well-being.
It's important to remember that happiness is a journey, and what brings joy and fulfillment can evolve over time. By exploring what truly matters to you and incorporating practices that align with your values and goals, you can cultivate a life that is rich in happiness and meaning.
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KEEP IN MIND:
1. Don't advertise your happy marriage on social media.
2. Do not advertise pregnancy on social media.
3. Don't advertise your kids achievements on social media.
4. Don't advertise your expensive buys on social media.
UNDERSTAND THIS ABOUT LIFE...
1. Not everyone is going to be happy for you.
2. Most of the "nice" comments you get are just fake.
3. You just attracting the evil eye on you and your family.
4. You just attracting jealous people into your life.
5. You don't know who's saving your pictures and checking your updates.
6. You really need to stop this as because it may ruin your life, family, marriage and career.
BELIEVE ME - Social media sometimes is the devils eyes, ears and mouth, don't fall into the devils trap.
Let a part of your life remain private.
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HAPPY LIFE:
Life is designed to be made of ups and downs. Without dark you cannot appreciate the light. Without unhappiness you cannot appreciate happiness. However, it’s not healthy to always live in a cycle of unhappiness and then happiness. Ideally, we’d like to be happy most of the time. There are two areas which make you unhappy:
Expectation
Ungratefulness
I want you to imagine this scenario, your birthday is coming up and you’re expecting your family to shower you with gifts. You’re expecting a huge party to show everyone how happy you are with your life. Your birthday arrives and your family buy you one small gift, the thing that you’ve been talking about for the last 6 months months, and you have a small get together with close friends and family. You cannot hide your disappointment, which in turn upsets your family and friends.
This is a daily example of people expecting things from others. This expectation factor occurs every single day. For example:
Expecting your husband to buy you flowers because you saw it on TV even though you know he’s busy
Expecting your wife to dress the way other women do on Instagram even though you know she doesn’t like to dress that way
Expecting your boss to give you that promotion even though you’ve never asked
Expectation creates an image within your mind and when that image is not fulfilled, you end up disappointed. If this happens once a month it doesn’t really have an impact, but if this is happening to you ten times a day then you will be unhappy with your life. Remove expectation and you’ll feel happier.
You cannot remove expectation when you are ungrateful for the experiences and items that you have. For example:
You don’t say thank you and appreciate your partner for cooking you dinner even when they’ve been at work all day
You don’t appreciate a colleague going out of their way to help you with a task
You don’t appreciate the good things in your life
You can change this by taking the time to focus on all the positive things that you have in your life. Once you do this you realise start to remove the expectation factor and combined, you are happy majority of the time.
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