"Will you allow people to drink alcohol?" [adapted]
During their fifty years of Ba'athist rule, Hafez al-Assad killed forty thousand in Hama alone. His son killed half a million more. He displaced three million people to the ends of the earth. He bombed them with chemical weapons and barrel bombs, targeting them even in their tents. Over 200,000 people remain missing, their fates known only to Allah.
The gates of Saydnaya prison were opened, and the world discovered that all the literature written about prisons could not capture even a single chapter of its horrors. Yet, throughout all these years, Bashar al-Assad remained president, and no one—neither in the East nor the West—seemed alarmed.
In the East, he was invited to summits as a head of state. He ascended platforms to lecture about Israel's crimes in Gaza—crimes not so different from those he committed against his own people. Still, he provoked no fear, even though everyone knew he was the most ruthless bloodsucker of modern times. His allies whispered that he handed over their coordinates. They realized, too late, that his only loyalty was to his throne. Yet, until the morning of his escape, he inspired no alarm whatsoever.
Then the revolution triumphed. Syrians returned to their homes, families, and memories. But suddenly, the entire globe was gripped with fear.
Damascus became a hub for diplomats from every direction, all seeking to understand how the victors would govern their country. Television networks spoke about them, and they dominated the headlines. The BBC conducted an interview with their leader, posing an endless stream of condescending and nauseating questions. But with all the above in mind, two of the most baffling questions were:
"Will you allow women to be educated?"
"Will you allow people to drink alcohol?"
Now, all of a sudden, the world was concerned about the right of Syrian women to education. But where was this concern for their right to life? For thirteen years, women were bombed with barrel bombs and chemical weapons. For thirteen years, they were widowed, systematically raped, their children were killed, and husbands buried alive. Yet no one in the world moved a finger. Not a single feminist conference was held for them. Europe didn’t rise to their aid as it did for Ukraine. But now, the world conveniently rediscovered its conscience, asking:
"Will Syrian women have the right to education?"
This is an all-too-familiar pattern.
The world didn’t weep for Afghan women as they succumbed to years of aerial assaults, but the moment the U.S. withdrew, the world suddenly rediscovered Afghan women whose “rights needed protection.”
Similarly, who among the elites cries for the women of Gaza today as they face annihilation for 446 days? But you will see—once the genocide ends, Gaza’s women will suddenly have rights that need to be demanded.
And then there’s the BBC’s second question:
"Will you allow people to drink alcohol?!"
Where were you when the tyrant was drinking their blood before your very eyes? Where were you when men tasted utter despair and humiliation in prisons, when scores were condemned to executions on a daily basis, when women gave birth to their children in captivity, the fathers of whom were their very captors?
For fifty years, the regime was left unchecked, free to do as it pleased. In fact, Blair even suggested knighting Bashar, and was offered royal accommodation at Buckingham Palace—all while Syrians were being incinerated in mass graves.
But who cares?
Yet when the oppressed finally revolted and freed themselves, the world was suddenly gripped with fear, rediscovered morality, and asked:
“What about women’s education and alcohol?”
What a world of hypocrisy.
Our Ways in Making Decisions - Ep. 12
📹 https://youtu.be/Ae9eCN6AwTI?si=tpM1EsfTthCZUGIf
Khalid Nabhan: yet another face of Palestinian patience, defiance, and unbreakable Iman that the sadistic killing machine of Israel has claimed.
Their intentions are clear: a calculated effort to annihilate the remaining icons of Palestine before an eventual ceasefire, stripping the oppressed of any symbol from which strength might be drawn.
But they are too late. The reformation of hearts and minds has already occurred. His memory, and the memory of those like him, is now interwoven into the very DNA of the 21st-century Muslim.
Khalid—meaning "the eternal"—and Nabhan—"the attentive/alert one"—has achieved his name, having become an eternal source of inspiration, while simultaneously alerting the entire globe to the monstrosity of the oppressor.
What they feared would happen by keeping him alive has already happened.
"وَنُرِيدُ أَنْ نَمُنَّ عَلَى الَّذِينَ اسْتُضْعِفُوا فِي الْأَرْضِ وَنَجْعَلَهُمْ أَئِمَّةً وَنَجْعَلَهُمُ الْوَارِثِينَ، وَنُمَكِّنَ لَهُمْ فِي الْأَرْضِ وَنُرِيَ فِرْعَوْنَ وَهَامَانَ وَجُنُودَهُمَا مِنْهُمْ مَا كَانُوا يَحْذَرُونَ."
"And We wished to favor those who were oppressed in the land, to make them leaders and to make them inheritors, and to establish them in the land; and to show Pharaoh, Haman, and their soldiers through them that which they had feared." (Qur'an, 28:5-6)
It's as if ones heart has split right down the middle;
Half of it flutters in utter joy for us in Syria, whilst the other half of it cries for us as Gaza, Sudan and other parts of the Muslim world bleeds.
Ya Allah. Fulfill our joy.
Alhamdulillah, I'm honoured to announce our Waqf's chosen charity partner.
Ya Rabb, bless this partnership, allow it to ease the suffering of your allies in Palestine and to empower it's advocates globally.
The journey of a child and the parent's response for each phase.
📽 https://youtu.be/M4NcKdmj3kQ
Raising strong, dignified and righteous children in the 21st century
📹 https://youtu.be/lP5t-AKiJZA?si=1RrHFWJMHS9woYGQ
A four-part approach to coping with tragedy we witness on others or experience ourselves.
🇵🇸 https://youtu.be/fKwJaIKF_SU?si=hll-O0JauTYAMgtS
Our Ways Towards Parents | Episode 6
Countless mothers and fathers lie awake at night, their pillows soaked with tears, tormented by the backtalk, the cold stares, the disregard for household duties, and an awful sense of entitlement, posturing as though the world owes them something. What’s even more alarming is that nearly every parent will tell you the same thing—none of this happened a decade ago.
📹 https://youtu.be/e173ne2ysxU?si=3BHwE2mSNtaThomr
"My Istikhāra (prayer of consultation) failed.."
📹 https://www.instagram.com/reel/DD2QMPfxhCV/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Our Ways in Social Gatherings | Episode 11
We, the human race, are social creatures. Almost all of us desire the company of others on a regular basis. Seeing that every social gathering is a moment where so much is at stake with respect to good deeds or sins, it's key to ask: what are our ways in such gatherings?
📹 https://youtu.be/MmlhmrlUarQ
There are still thousands of prisoners stuck in the horrific Saydnaya prison in Damascus, mainly women. Although there are cameras that show the prisoners in their cells (who remain completely unaware that their country has been liberated), rescuers have no idea how to get to them because of the unknown whereabouts of these underground dungeons.
May the curse of Allah be upon all those who had a hand in this
https://www.aljazeera.net/news/2024/12/8/%D9%86%D8%B3%D8%A7%D8%A1-%D9%88%D8%A3%D8%B7%D9%81%D8%A7%D9%84-%D9%88%D9%85%D8%B1%D8%A7%D9%82%D8%A8%D8%A9-%D8%B9%D9%84%D9%89-%D9%85%D8%AF%D8%A7%D8%B1-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B3%D8%A7%D8%B9%D8%A9
Remarkable interview with Francesca Albanese
"Who are we to feel helpless? We do not have the luxury to feel helpless"
https://youtu.be/6oTS1EE0hWY?si=bZowFh7VoFIzJS3v
Our Ways in Raising Children Pt.1 | Episode 7
If you believe in death and in the Hereafter, then you’ll recognize that raising righteous and effective children is among the most important work, and neglecting it is the ultimate loss. How can we safeguard our children and ensure their Islamic upbringing in today's challenging environments? This three-part series seeks to answer that.
📹 https://youtu.be/O2c6QnHeGJY
The Gift of Pain | Australia tour | Sydney
Pain is not something that most of us would count as a blessing. Most of us, if given the choice, would prefer to never need to take painkillers. However, Dr. Paul Brand, a British surgeon and author of the book “The Gift of Pain”, offers a uniquely different perspective, arguing that pain is a gift that none of us want and yet none of us can do without.
📹 https://youtu.be/QzsDaFgRCwg