Ministering To Others (2)
āTherefore comfort one another with these words.ā
1Th 4:18 NKJVĀ
Professor Tony Campolo once attended the funeral of an acquaintance, and by mistake ended up at the wrong funeral parlor. The body of an elderly man was laid out, and his widow was the only mourner there. She seemed so lonely, Campolo stayed for the funeral and then accompanied her to the cemetery. After the committal service, as they were driving away Campolo confessed that he hadnāt actually known the ladyās husband. āI thought so,ā she replied. āI didnāt recognize you. But it doesnāt matter. Youāll never, ever, know what this means to me.ā Philip Yancey writes: āSimple availability is the most powerful force we can contributeā¦We rightly disparage Jobās three friends for their insensitive response to his suffering. But read the account again: āWhen they came, they sat in silence beside Job for seven days before opening their mouthsāā¦those were the most eloquent moments they spent with him. Instinctively I shrink back from people in pain. Who knows if they want to talk about their predicament or not? Do they want to be consoled or cheered up? What good can my presence possibly do? My mind spins out these rationalizations and as a result I end up doing the worst thing possible: I stay awayā¦No one offers the name of a philosopher when I ask, āWho helped you the most?ā Most often they describe a quiet, unassuming personā¦who was thereā¦who listened more than they talked, who didnāt keep glancing down at a watch, who hugged and touched, and criedā¦ someone who was available and came on the suffererās terms, not their own.āĀ ThatāsĀ how you minister to others.
Dad, Treasure Your Children
āThe children God has graciously given your servant.ā
Ge 33:5 NIV
We live in a day when kids have never been given more of the things theyĀ want, and less of the things theyĀ need. What do they need? You! Not trinkets, treasures, and toys, but yourĀ loveĀ and yourĀ time. Read these unsettling words in aĀ NewsweekĀ column entitled, āDear Dads, Save Your Sons,ā by psychologist Christopher Bacorn. He tells about an anxious mother in her mid-thirties who came to his office with her fifteen-year-old son. The boyās dad had left four years before. Since then the teenager had descended into alcohol, gang membership, and violence. The mother had nowhere else to turn, and it was obvious the boy was at best a hostile participant. After attempting for thirty minutes to crack the steel vault of this boyās heart, Dr. Bacorn realized the futility of it all. He wrote these poignant and sad words: āIāve come to believe that most adolescent boys canāt make use of professional counselingā¦What a boy can use, and all too often doesnāt have, is the fellowship of menāat least one man who pays attention to him, who spends time with him, who admires him. A boy needs a man he can look up to. What he doesnāt need is a shrinkā¦As a nation weāre racked by youth violence, overrun by gangs, guns, and drugs. The great majority of youthful offenders are male, most without fathers involved in their lives in any useful way.ā In Genesis we read that Jacob was a successful businessman, but he discovered that his greatest earthly treasure was āthe children God has graciously given to your servant.ā Dad, have you discovered that?
MIGHTY IN SPIRIT
Ephesians 3:14-16New American Standard Bible (NASB)
14Ā For this reason IĀ bow my knees before the Father,Ā 15Ā from whomĀ [a]every family in heaven and on earth derives its name,16Ā that He would grant you, according toĀ the riches of His glory, to beĀ strengthened with power through His Spirit inĀ the inner man
Everyone wants to be healthy in mind, body, and spirit. To become physically fit, we need to exercise our muscles vigorously and regularly. If our goal is to be stable in soul (our thoughts, will, and emotions), then we must apply our minds to learning and train ourselves to be self-controlled. However, to become mighty in spirit requires something more than self-effort.
You see, none of us were born with a spiritual connection to God. Because of Adam and Eveās rebellion, we were all dead in our sins and separated from the Lord (Eph. 2:1). No amount of personal effort can bring an individual to life spiritually. Although we are unable to change this condition for ourselves, nothing is impossible for God (Matt. 19:26). By accepting Jesusā sacrificial death on the cross as payment for our sins, we are forgiven, reconciled to God, and made alive in our spirit (Eph. 2:5). This is the beginning step of the Christian life.
Once we are born again, the indwelling Holy Spirit teaches us how to view life as Jesus did, embrace His values and priorities, and follow His example. The more we yield to the Spiritās control, the sooner weāll be transformed into Christās image, equipped to carry out the Lordās will, and strengthened in our inner spirit to serve Him.
God desires followers who will dedicate themselves to His plan and serve as ambassadors for Christ to a lost and hurting world. He doesnāt expect that we will train ourselves for this taskāHe has sent His Holy Spirit to prepare us for the work ahead. Have you answered His call to service?
Overcoming Temptation (3)
āHe ran from the house.ā Ge 39:12 NLT The Bible says, āJoseph was a very handsome and well-built young man, and Potipharās wifeā¦began to look at him lustfully. āCome and sleep with me,ā she demanded. But Joseph refused. āLook,ā he told her, āmy master trusts me with everything in his entire householdā¦How could I do such a wicked thing? It would be a great sin against God.ā She kept putting pressure on Joseph day after day, but he refused to sleep with her, and he kept out of her way as much as possible. One day, however, no one else was around when he went in to do his work. She came and grabbed him by his cloak, demanding, āCome on, sleep with me!ā Joseph tore himself away, but he left his cloak in her hand as he ran from the houseā (vv. 6-12 NLT). Note the words: āShe kept putting pressure on Joseph day after day.ā Josephās temptation kept happening when he was around a certain person: Potipharās wife. And it kept happening when he was in a certain place: Potipharās house. So he ran. Not because he was weakābut because he was wise! He understood that if you hang around temptation too long youāre playing with fire and setting yourself up to get āburned.ā So, what people and what places do you need to avoid? What sources of temptation do you need to remove from your life in order to live victoriously? Remember the old Kenny Rogers song: āYou got to know when to hold āem, know when to fold āem; know when to walk away and know when to runā? God isnāt dishonored when you runāyouāre dishonored when you donāt!
Overcoming Temptation (1)
āNor do we know what to do, but our eyes are upon You.ā 2Ch 20:12 NKJV When Jesus told Peter he would soon deny his Lord, Peter boasted, āOthers may, but not me!ā Yet within a few hours he was swearing and disavowing any knowledge of Jesus. It can happen to any of us. The Bible says, āEach one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own [particular] desires and enticedā (Jas 1:14 NKJV). We all have areas of vulnerability which, if not disciplined by character and commitment, have the potential to defeat or even destroy us. What can you do? (1) Recognize it. Before you yield to temptation you usually go through certain stages. By neglecting prayer and Bible reading you become indifferent to God, insensitive to danger, and find yourself drawn like a moth to a flame. Then you begin to rationalize your disobedience and think, āNobody knows. What harm will it do?ā And the more you silence the voice of conscience, the stronger your carnal appetites become. Then you surround yourself with people who do the same things, or are at least willing to look the other way. Jesus said, āPrayā¦that you may not enter into temptationā (Mk 14:38 AMP). Pray for strength before the temptation comes! (2) Reach for help. When Jehoshaphat came up against an enemy too big to handle alone, he prayed, āWe have no power against this great multitudeā¦nor do we know what to do, but our eyes are upon You.ā Jehoshaphat knew he was no match for the Enemy, and he knew where to turn for help. Whatās the secret of victory? Lean less on yourself and more on God!
Instead Of Judging People, Letās Love Them
āLet us stop passing judgment on one another.ā Ro 14:13 NIV You can work alongside and pray for someone whoās having an extramarital affair, without having one yourself. Remember, you were a sinner before you were saved by the grace of God, so act with humility and donāt fall into the trap of self-righteousness. As Merv Rosell says, āWhen God forgives, He consigns the offense to everlasting forgetfulness,ā so show grace when you encounter somebody whose lifestyle makes you uncomfortable. Learn as much as possible about them, and allow your interactions to dispel any preconceptions and prejudices. See them as hurting individuals loved by Godāpeople who need the same grace you received. When you love the unlovely, youāre just doing what God did for you. Just because somebodyās ādifferent,ā doesnāt mean you should dismiss them or consider them inferior. You donāt want to be judged or demeaned because of your color, culture, or countenance, so donāt do it to others! Because the Bible is clear about not emulating others in their sinful practices, we can be tempted to think weāre better than they are. Thatās the sin of pride! Sometimes we think if we love and accept certain people, weāre condoning their sin. No, the truth lies in remaining respectful, and accepting others the way Jesus did. Whether it was racial differences (Samaritans), lifestyle differences (the five-times-divorced woman at the well), or class differences (Nicodemus), Jesus loved and accepted people as they were, while inspiring them to a higher standard.
Give Yourselves To God
āDo not let sin control the way you live.ā Ro 6:12 NLT When someone says, āI canāt help myself; itās just the way I am,ā they are right, but only partially right! Researchers identified more than a hundred identical twins that had been separated at birth. They were raised in various cultures, religions, and locations. By comparing their similarities and their differences it became clear that as much as 70 percent of their personalityāwas inherited. Their DNA determined such qualities as creativity, wisdom, loving-kindness, vigor, longevity, intelligence, and even the joy of living. Consider the āJim twinsā who were separated until they were thirty-nine years old. Both married women named Linda, owned dogs named Toy, suffered from migraine headaches, chain-smoked, liked beer, drove Chevys, and served as sheriffās deputies. Their personalities and attitudes were virtual carbon copies. What do these findings mean? Are we puppets on a string, playing out a predetermined course without free will or personal choices? Not at all. Unlike animals, weāre capable of rational thought and independent action. We donāt have to act on every sexual urge, for example, despite our genetic underpinnings. Heredity may nudge us in a particular direction, but our impulses can be brought under control. This is where the new birth comes in. God gives you a new nature, and the power to overcome your old one. Paul addresses it: āDo not let sin control the way you live, do not give in to sinful desires. Do not let any part of your body become an instrument of evil to serve sin. Instead, give yourselves completely to God, for you were dead, but now you have new lifeā (vv. 12-13 NLT).
Stay Focused On Your Mission
āMy foot has held fast to His steps; I have kept His way and not turned aside.ā Job 23:11 NKJV Many of our endeavors in life fail for one reasonābroken focus. We allow ourselves to get distracted. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, āConcentration is the secret of strength in politics, in war, in trade; in short, in all management of human affairs.ā Where should you focus your concentration? On your mission! And when you make a mistake donāt chase after it. Donāt try to defend it. Donāt throw good money after it. When you make a mistake acknowledge it. If you need to, seek forgiveness from God and the person you have hurt. And when possible try to make amends. Once youāve done these things, refocus your attention on your mission and move on. Keep your eye on what it is you desire to do. Youāll never meet a person focused on yesterday who had a better tomorrow. John Foster Dulles, secretary of state under President Eisenhower, observed: āThe measure of success is not whether you have a tough problem to deal with, but whether it is still the same problem you had last year.ā A problem resolved is a springboard to future success, to bigger and better things. The key is to focus on what youāre learning, not losing. When you do that you open the door to future possibilities. Dr. Norman Vincent Peale said, āPositive thinking is how you think about a problem. Enthusiasm is how you feel about a problem. The two together determine what you do about a problem.ā And in the end, thatās what matters.
Renew Your Mind With Godās Word
āBe transformed by the renewing of your mind.ā Ro 12:2 NKJV The most important thing you can do every dayāis renew your mind with Godās Word. When you get that right, everything else will begin to fall into place. Youāll think and act differently, so youāll get different results. Do you remember the old TV series The Beverly Hillbillies? What made the show so interesting is that Jed and his family had been set free from their pastāa life of poverty back in the Ozarks. But even after they moved to Californiaās Beverly Hills, they continued in their āhillbillyā ways. Their location had changed, but their mindset hadnāt. The same was true of the Israelites. They had a slave mentality. Even though they were free and God was providing their every need, the minute a problem came up they wanted to go back to Egypt. They couldnāt enter tomorrow because they were still carrying the baggage of yesterday! Read these words carefully: āTherefore, since a promise remains of entering His rest, let us fear lest any of you seem to have come short of itā (Heb 4:1 NKJV). You ask, āBut arenāt Godās promises guaranteed?ā Yes, if you do what He says! God promised to bless you financiallyāif you tithe and sow generously. He promised to direct your pathsāif you acknowledge Him in all your ways. He promised to forgive youāif you forgive others. You only āprove what is that goodā¦acceptableā¦perfect will of Godā by continually renewing your mind! So the word for you today is: Renew your mind with Godās Word.
Donāt Be Afraid (3)
āWhy are you so fearful?ā Mk 4:40 NKJV Following Jesus invariably means going through storms. When youāre in over your head and sinking fast, you learn things about the Lord youād never know otherwise. At first you wonder, āHow did I get into this mess?ā Then you start to see His hand at work and end up saying, āWho can this be, that even the wind and the sea obey Him!ā (v. 41 NKJV). The disciples finally reached a place where they were willing to follow Jesusāwithout question. And thatās Godās plan for you. āDonāt be afraidā isnāt a call to naĆÆvety or ignorance. God doesnāt expect us to be oblivious to the challenges life brings. But as long as Peter kept his eyes on Jesus the waves couldnāt take him under. So look to God, stand on His Word, and recall His goodness. The Bible says, āWe must pay much closer attention to what we have heard, so that we do not drift away from itā (Heb 2:1 NAS). Do whatever it takes to keep your eyes on the Lord. C. S. Lewis wrote: āMoods will change, whatever view your reason takes. I know that by experience. Now that Iām a Christian I do have moods in which the whole thing looks very improbable; but when I was an atheist I had moods in which Christianity looked terribly probableā¦thatās why faith is such a necessary virtue: Unless you teach your moods āwhere to get off,ā you can never be either a sound Christian or a sound atheist, but just a creature dithering to and fro with his beliefs really dependent on the weather and the state of his digestion. Consequently, one must train the habit of faith.ā So the word for you today is: Donāt be afraid.
Donāt Be Afraid (1)
āWhy are you so fearful?ā Mk 4:40 NKJV Notice how the disciples reacted to the storm on the Sea of Galilee, and see if you recognize any of the same traits in yourself: (1) Fear makes us doubt Godās care. The disciples asked Jesus, āDo You not care that we are perishing?ā (v. 38 NKJV). They didnāt ask about His strength: āCan you still the storm?ā Or His knowledge: āAre you aware of the storm?ā Or His know-how: āDo you have any experience with storms?ā Instead they voiced doubts about His character: āDo you not care?ā If you let it, fear will erode your confidence in Godās love and make you forget His faithfulness. (2) Fear makes us reach for control. Jesus was asleep, so the disciples woke Him and said, āDo something, quick!ā Fear comes from a perceived loss of control. When weāre afraid, we grab for a component of life that we can manageālike our diet, or our job, or the neatness of our house, or in many casesāpeople. The more insecure we feel, the more controlling we tend to become. (3) Fear makes us forgetful. The Bible says, āHe cast out the spirits with a word, and healed all who were sickā (Mt 8:16 NKJV). What a rĆ©sumĆ©! But fear gives us spiritual amnesia; it makes us forget what Jesus has already done and how good He has been to us. And what was Jesusā response? āWhy are you so fearful? How is it that you have no faith?ā Faith doesnāt eliminate fear; it silences it, robs it of its power, and draws us closer to God. And when that happens things begin to change for the better.
Bible Study: Make It Personal
āThe measure [of thought and study] you give [to the truth you hear] will be the measure [of virtue and knowledge] that comes back to you.ā Mk 4:24 AMP Martin Luther said studying the Bible was like picking apples. First you shake the trunk, then you shake the limb, then you shake the branch, then you shake the twig, then you look under every leaf. Thereās no other book in the world like it. You can read the same Bible verse a dozen times and get a dozen different insights. Thatās because itās āGod-breathedā (2Ti 3:16 NIV). Hereās what Jesus said about studying Godās Word: ā[Things are hidden temporarily only as a means to revelation.] For there is nothing hidden except to be revealed, nor is anything [temporarily] kept secret except in order that it may be made knownā (Mk 4:22 AMP). Then He adds: āBe careful what you are hearing. The measure [of thought and study] you give [to the truth you hear] will be the measure [of virtue and knowledge] that comes back to youāand more [besides] will be given to you who hearā (v. 24). Do you want to grow spiritually? Build better relationships? Succeed in your career? Conquer anxiety and find peace? Break a bad habit? Be healed from the emotional wounds of your past? Then meditate on, ponder, think about, practice mentally, and verbalize the Word of God. Instead of living off someone elseās spiritual insight, study Godās Word for yourself and allow the Holy Spirit to bless you with life-transforming insights. Jesus said, āThe Spirit takes my message and tells it to youā (Jn 16:15 CEV). And youāll experience the truth of those words when you personalize the Scripture youāre reading.
When You Are Criticized
āHe did not retaliate when he was insulted.ā 1Pe 2:23 NLT When it comes to constructive criticism, try to learn from it and grow wiser. When it comes to unjustified criticism, remind yourself that Jesus was criticized too, so youāre in good company. And when youāre tempted to give in to resentment and strike back, read these Scriptures: āIf you suffer for doing good and endure it patiently, God is pleased with you. For God called you to do good, even if it means suffering, just as Christ suffered for you. He is your example, and you must follow in his steps. He never sinned, nor ever deceived anyone. He did not retaliate when he was insulted, nor threaten revenge when he suffered. He left his case in the hands of God, who always judges fairlyā (vv. 20-23 NLT). Thereās an interesting story about Abraham Lincoln. During the Civil War he signed an order transferring certain regiments, but Secretary of War Edwin Stanton refused to execute it, calling the president a fool. When Lincoln heard this, he said, āIf Stanton said Iām a fool then I must be, for heās nearly always right, and he says what he thinks. Iāll step over and see for myself.ā He did, and when Stanton convinced him the order was in error, Lincoln quietly withdrew it. Part of Lincolnās greatness lay in his ability to rise above pettiness, ego, and sensitivity to other peopleās opinions. He wasnāt easily offended. He welcomed criticism, and in doing so demonstrated one of the strengths of a truly great person: humility. So, have you been criticized? Make it a time to learn, not lose.
Reach For Help
āThe work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone.ā Ex 18:18 NIV God has placed people within your reach who are willing to help you. If you donāt accept their help, you will be frustrated and they will be unfulfilled because theyāre not using their gifts. God hasnāt called you to do everything, for everybody, in every situation. You canāt be all things to all people all the time! You yourself have legitimate needs, and when they are not met you suffer and so do the people around you. Thereās nothing wrong with needing help and asking for it; in fact, itās wrong to need help and be too proud to ask. Because the children of Israel looked to Moses for everything, he tried to be āall things to all people.ā And thatās when he reached a breaking point. So his father-in-law suggested he delegate some of his authority, and let others make the less important decisions while he made the more important ones. It worked! Moses did what Jethro suggested and it enabled him to succeed in his assignment. Plus, those under his leadership got to enjoy a sense of accomplishment too. It was a win-win, and the job got done right! Question: Are you complaining that people are placing too many demands on you, and youāve too much to do? Are you reluctant to let others help because you donāt think anyone can do the job as well as you? Look out! The Scriptures caution about developing āan exaggerated opinion of your [own] importanceā (Ro 12:3 AMP). Reach for help. Youāll last longer and enjoy life more if you do!
Donāt Give UpāGo Through
āPursueā¦overtakeā¦andā¦recover all.ā 1Sa 30:8Ā
When King David and his men returned home from battle, they discovered that the Amalekites had burned their homes to the ground and taken their families prisoner. They were devastated. They wept until theyād no tears left. Then God spoke to them and said, āPursueā¦overtakeā¦andā¦recover all.ā And with His help they did! So no matter how bad your situation looks right now, donāt give up. Cry if you have to, then dry your tears and go out in Godās strength and take back what the Enemy has stolen from you. If necessary, take it an inch at a time, drawing on His strength and not your own. Paul writes: āLet us not lose heart and grow weary and faint in acting nobly and doing right, for in due time and at the appointed season we shall reap, if we do not loosen and relax our courage and faintā (Gal 6:9 AMP). God wonāt quit on you, so donāt quit on Him! He has promised in His Word: āWhen you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the Lord, your Godā (Isa 43:2-3 NIV). Donāt give upāgo through! Itās easy to quit, but it takes faith to go through. When your faith honors God, He honors your faith! And with Him on your side youāll come out stronger than you were when you went in. So the word for you today is: āPursueā¦overtakeā¦andā¦recover all.ā
Ministering To Others (1)Ā
āGodā¦comforts usā¦so that we can comfort [others].ā
2Co 1:3-4 NIV
Years ago a lady visited an orphanage and asked the matron, āIs there a child here nobody has offered to adopt?ā The matron replied, āThere is. Sheās ten years old, not much to look at, and she has a hunchback.ā The lady said, āThatāsĀ the child I want!ā Thirty-five years later the director of the Orphanage Inspection Department in Iowa submitted the following report on a state-run facility: āThis home is outstanding. Itās clean, the foodās good, the children are well-cared-for, and the atmosphere is unlike anything Iāve ever experienced. The matron, Mercy Goodfaith, has a soul that oozes love; she has such beautiful eyes I forgot how homely her face wasāor that she was a hunchback.ā Because a Good Samaritan had the courage to love and nurture a little girl others overlooked, Mercy Goodfaith went on to share that same love with hundreds of other orphans. Paul says, āGodā¦comforts usā¦so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort weā¦received.ā And Billy Graham adds: āThose who have suffered the most are best able to comfort others ā¦to empathize with [their] afflictions because of what theyāve experiencedā¦Our sufferings may be hard to bear, but our goal should be to learn all we can from what weāre called to endure so we can fulfill a ministry of comfort as Jesus did. āBecause he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being temptedā (Heb 2:18 NIV). TheĀ suffererĀ becomes theĀ comforterĀ in the service of the Lord.āĀ
A MIGHTY SERVANT OF GOD
Ephesians 4:17-24New American Standard Bible (NASB
17Ā So this I say, and affirm together with the Lord,Ā that you walk no longer just as the Gentiles also walk, in theĀ futility of their mind,Ā 18Ā beingĀ darkened in their understanding,Ā [a]excluded from the life of God because of theĀ ignorance that is in them, because of theĀ hardness of their heart;Ā 19Ā and they, havingĀ become callous,Ā have given themselves over toĀ sensualityĀ [b]for the practice of every kind of impurity with greediness.Ā 20Ā But you did notĀ learnĀ [c]Christ in this way,Ā 21Ā if indeed youĀ have heard Him and haveĀ been taught in Him, just as truth is in Jesus,Ā 22Ā that, in reference to your former manner of life, youĀ lay aside theĀ oldĀ [d]self, which is being corrupted in accordance with theĀ lusts of deceit,Ā 23Ā and that you beĀ renewed in the spirit of your mind,Ā 24Ā andĀ put on theĀ newĀ [e]self, whichĀ [f]inĀ the likeness ofĀ God has been created in righteousness and holiness of the truth.
To become Godās mighty servants, we must decide whether we will base our life on His priorities or the worldās. The two are incompatible.
Before salvation, people typically live according to whatever the flesh desires, indulging themselves with food, entertainment, and material goods. Promoting self-gratification, our culture maintains that everyone is the center of his own universe and can decide what is right for himself.
Scripture teaches the opposite: to put God above all else and āregard one another as more important than yourselvesā (Matt. 6:33; Phil. 2:3). So how do we give God top priority? Jesus says it means loving Him wholeheartedly, denying ourselves, and following Him (Matt. 16:24; Matt. 22:37-39). That includes generosity. Instead of encouraging us to acquire money and possessions, He teaches that giving brings far more blessings than receiving (Acts 20:35).
How can we know we are becoming spiritually stronger? First, weāll be less attracted to the ungodly practices of our world and will yearn to be more like Jesus. Next, we will start replacing ungodly habits with activities that please the Lord. Then, weāll begin to comprehend some of the deeper biblical truths and apply them in our life. Finally, our spiritual discernment will improve. With the Spiritās help, we will more easily recognize unrighteous ideas and behavior.
Do you want to become mighty in spirit? If so, spend time in the Scriptures learning what is important to God. Then ask Him to transform you into the person He has designed you to be.
Overcoming Temptation (4)
āIts fruit looked deliciousā¦So sheā¦ate it.ā Ge 3:6 NLT Letās look at the first time in Scripture anyone was tempted and see what we can learn. The Bible says, āThe serpent was the shrewdest of all the [creatures] the Lord God had madeā¦he asked the woman, āDid God really sayā¦?āā (v. 1 NLT). First, Satan will blind you to all the good things God has in store for you. Then heāll take mood-altering substances like drugs or alcohol, or somebody elseās husband or wife, or Internet porn, and tell you it wonāt hurt you. Donāt bite! Heās a liar! Donāt believe him! āTemptation comes from our own desiresā¦These desires give birth to sinful actions. And when sin is allowed to grow, it gives birth to death. So donāt be misled, my dear brothers and sistersā (Jas 1:14-16 NLT). Any weakness thatās constantly indulged, excused, denied, or hidden has the power to enslave you. Failure to identify and target your weakness strengthens it. Ignoring your areas of vulnerability makes defeat inevitable. Satan has assigned certain people to feed your weaknesses. Be discerning. Your weakness will be drawn to any friendship that accepts it, enjoys it and feeds on it. It has an agenda of its ownāto take over your life and sabotage Godās plan for you. Itāll always bond with the wrong people and make you uncomfortable in the presence of the right ones. And it can emerge at any time, including your latter years. So how do you overcome your weakness? Through willpower? No, through Godās power! And itās available to you todayāso reach for it!
Overcoming Temptation (2)
āI have given youā¦[physical and mental strength].ā Lk 10:19 AMP Hereās a plan for victory: (1) No matter how often you fall, get back up! āThough a righteous man falls seven times, he rises againā (Pr 24:16 NIV). Becoming spiritually mature is a lifelong process. It happens every time you turn to God in weakness and allow Him to do for you what you canāt do for yourself. (2) Donāt deny it, deal with it. āThe Lord is near to the brokenheartedā (Ps 34:18 NAS). God always responds with grace to a repentant heart. Heāll meet you at your lowest point, walk with you through the valley of regret and repentance, and bring you out stronger. (3) Write down what youāve learned through temptation. As you reflect on it youāll see what needs to be ātransformed by the renewing of your mindā (Ro 12:2). And be sure to write down new habits you want to integrate into your lifeāprayer, accountability to a friend, Bible reading and memorization, identifying weak spots, and watching yourself more closely. (4) Use what youāve learned. Jesus told Peter: āSatan hath desired to have youā¦But I have prayed for thee, that thy faith fail not: and when thou art converted, strengthen thy brethrenā (Lk 22:31-32). Let today mark a new beginning by using what youāve learned not only to avoid falling again, but to help others facing temptation. (5) Believe you can walk in victory. Jesus said, āI have given youā¦[physical and mental strengthā¦] over all the power that the enemy [possesses].ā Get rid of your āI canātā attitude, and draw today on Godās strength.
The Ultimate Purpose Of Prayer
āTo be conformed to the likeness of his Son.ā Ro 8:29 NIV The Bible says, āThose God foreknew heā¦predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son.ā When you read the preceding verses in the chapter you discover God does this through prayer. This should encourage you to pray. Many times we donāt pray because we donāt think anythingās happening. But with God, somethingās always happening! We wonder, āWhen is He going to work?ā What we fail to understand isāHeās always working. When it comes to prayer Heās either answering the way you hoped, or changing your heart through the Spiritās intercession to bring your prayer into harmony with His will. You say, āBut I donāt see anything happening.ā When you plant a seed, you donāt come back the next day expecting green shoots and leaves. Does that mean nothingās happening? No, a host of necessary processes are taking place below the ground where you canāt see them. Donāt make the mistake of thinking because you donāt see the evidence that nothingās happening. Itās just not harvest time yet. One way in which God is making us more like Jesus is by helping us to pray the way Jesus prayed, āNot my will, but thine, be doneā (Lk 22:42). That means when your prayer lines up with His will, Heās already working on it even though you canāt see it. And if your prayer isnāt in accordance with His will, Heās working to change your request by changing you. Unanswered prayer can be as big a blessing as answered prayer, when it keeps us from violating Godās will. And what is Godās will? To make you more like Jesus!
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Bless Them
āBe mindful to be a blessing.ā Gal 6:10 AMP When someone hurts you, you have three options: (1) hurt them back; (2) avoid them altogether; (3) pray for them and look for ways to bless them (See Mt 5:44-45). Paul says: āAs occasion and opportunity open upā¦let us do good [morally] to all people [not only being useful or profitable to them, butā¦doing what is for their spiritual good and advantage]. Be mindful to be a blessing.ā Weāre so caught up with how others treat us that weāve little or no concern about how we treat them. Weāre afraid of being taken advantage of, especially if our past experience with someone has been painful. Not only do fear and dread make us supersensitive to everything they say and do, we may misinterpret their motives and see them in a negative light. Without question, itās difficult not to be concerned that others will treat you badly if they already have a proven track record. Thatās why itās so important not to think about it at all (See Php 3:13 and Isa 43:18). Does this mean the person wonāt have to account for how they treated you? No. The Bible says, āEach of us will give an account of himself to God. Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one anotherā (Ro 14:12-13 NIV). Hand the situation over to Godāand refuse to take it back. Then, āBe mindful to be a blessing.ā In other words, occupy your thoughts with ways in which you can be helpful. When you do that youāll have no time to dwell on personal grievances. Plus, it gives God an opportunity to work on themāand you.
Hidden By Design
āIn the shadow of His hand He has hidden Me.ā Isa 49:2 NKJV When youāre called to serve God in a particular capacity, itās not unusual to go through a period of anonymity where you feel invisible. Isaiah was called of God āfrom the wombā (v. 1 NKJV). But he experienced a season of being hidden āin the shadowā while God perfected his ministry. When a vision takes a long time to come to fruition, and youāve sacrificed and worked without recognition or seeing results, itās easy to feel like youāre wasting your life. Isaiah was human too. He got discouraged and said, āI have labored to no purposeā¦spent my strengthā¦for nothingā (v. 4 NIV). But just because you feel that way doesnāt mean itās true. āGodā¦rewards those who earnestly seek himā (Heb 11:6 NIV), and youāre no exception. It took thirty years before Jesus started His public ministry. Moses, David, John the Baptist, and Paul endured years of obscurity before they were brought to the forefront. In Godās Kingdom there are no overnight sensations or flash-in-the-pan successes. One Christian author says: āAnyone who wants to be used of God will experience hidden years in the backside of the desert. During that time the Lord is polishing, sharpening and preparing us to fit into His bow, so at the right time, like āa polished shaftā He can launch us into fruitful service. The invisible years are years of serving, studying, being faithful in another personās ministry and doing the behind-the-scenes work.ā The Bible says, āGod is not unjust; he will not forget your workā (Heb 6:10 NIV). Be patient; when the time is right He will bring forth the fruit He placed inside you.
Dad, Bless Your Children!
āSon, your sins are forgiven.ā
Mk 2:5 NKJV
Old Testament fathers placed their hands on their childrenās heads and spoke certain promises over them, believing the blessing of God can be passed from one generation to another. Itās why āIsaac called Jacob, and blessed himā (Ge 28:1). Itās why Jacob refused to die before blessing his grandchildren (See Ge 48:14). Children without caring, involved fathers often spend their whole lives searching for a sense of identity and self-worth. Increasingly theyāre finding them in the company of rebellious peer groups, street gangs, drug dealers, and on social media and the Internet. And we see the results of it all around us. Instead of fulfilling their God-given destiny, these kids become defined and labelled by a lifestyle such as ārunaway,ā āconvict,ā ātroublemaker,ā āaddict.ā Before Tupac Shakur, the rap artist known for his violent song lyrics, was gunned down in 1996, he said, āI never knew my real father. I know for a fact that if Iād had a father, Iād have some discipline [and] more confidence. Your mother can calm you down, reassure youā¦But you need a man to teach you how to be a man.ā When a man was brought to Jesus for healing, before He forgave and healed him, He called him āson.ā He didnāt say, āYouāve got to clean up your act,ā or āYou must do things My way.ā No, He established aĀ relationshipĀ with the man by showing him love and acceptance. And as a father you need to do the same. Loving and accepting your kids as they are, without conditions and condemnation, is the greatest gift you can give them.
Donāt Be Afraid (2)
āOh, that [we] would give thanks to the Lord for his goodness.ā Ps 107:8 NKJV When youāve been through hard times, it can make you want to cut back on trusting God, and start playing it safe. When youāve been through back-to-back storms, the security of the harbor starts looking good. Now itās okay to rest and regroup, but donāt settle for safety and miss what God has planned for you. The Bible says: āThose who go down to the sea in ships, who do business on great watersā¦see the works of the Lord, and His wonders in the deep. For He commands and raises the stormy wind, which lifts up the waves of the sea. They mount up to the heavens, they go down again to the depths; their soul melts because of trouble. They reel to and froā¦stagger like a drunken man, and are at their witsā end. Then they cry out to the Lord in their trouble, and He brings them out of their distresses. He calms the storm, so that its waves are still. Then they are glad because they are quiet; so He guides them to their desired haven. Oh, that men would give thanks to the Lord for His goodnessā (vv. 23-31 NKJV). Where do we see Godās wonders? In lifeās storms! Jesus issued 125 recorded commandments. Twenty-one of them are āDonāt be afraidā or āHave courage.ā The second most common commandment, to love God and your neighbor, appears on only eight occasions. That means the one statement Jesus made more than any other was āDonāt be afraid!ā Why? Because He wants you to trust Him more!
Spirit-Filled Living
āWhen the Spirit has his way with us.ā Gal 5:17 TLB
Always remember that no matter how long you walk with God, your carnal nature never improves. It never becomes more like Jesus, even over time. Thatās why weāre told to ācrucifyā it daily (See v. 24). Even the apostle Paul struggled with his lower nature: āWe naturally love to do evil thingsā¦opposite from the things that the Holy Spirit tells us to do; and the good things we want to do when the Spirit has his way with us are just the opposite of our natural desires. These two forces within us are constantly fightingā¦to win control over us, and our wishes are never free from their pressuresā¦But when the Holy Spirit controls our lives he will produce this kind of fruit in us: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-controlā (vv. 17, 22-23 TLB). You ask, āIs such a lifestyle even possible?ā Yes, but you must do these four things:Ā (1) Remember that Satan never takes a day off.Ā Youāre constantly in his crosshairs, so you must protect yourself with Godās Word and prayer.Ā (2) Identify the sin youāre most prone to.Ā The Bible says, āLay asideā¦the sin which so easily ensnaresā (Heb 12:1 NKJV). Why? Because the area of your greatest weakness is the one in which youāll constantly be attacked.Ā (3) Keep your spiritual tank full.Ā āThe mind of sinful man is death, but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peaceā (Ro 8:6 NIV).Ā (4) Walk in Godās strength, not your own.Ā Does the fight ever end? No, but Godās powerāplus your choice to obey and keep fightingāalways leads to clear and lasting victory.
Pray For Self-Control
Monday June 13 āDo not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its evil desires.ā Ro 6:12 NIV Self-control is one of the great keys to success in life. And since Godās Word has a lot to say about it, if you ask Him He will help you to cultivate it. What you struggled with when you were young will be different from the things you struggle with when youāre older, but youāll face temptation in one form or another as long as you live. Self-control is one of the nine fruits of the Spirit listed in the Bible (See Gal 5:22-23). It calls for bringing every aspect of your life under the mastery of the Holy Spirit. Itās a lifestyle characterized by discipline, not impulse. The Greek word for āself-controlā comes from a root word meaning āto grip.ā It calls for getting a grip on your spending so that you donāt go into debt for things you donāt need and canāt pay for. It calls for getting a grip on your temper and not saying things youāll later regret: āBetterā¦a man who controls his temper than one who takes a cityā (Pr 16:32 NIV). It calls for getting a grip on your desires. If Joseph had failed to say no to the repeated advances of his bossā wife, heād never have seen his lifeās dream fulfilled and sat on the throne of Egypt. Understand this: Satan has discerned your destiny and heās out to stop you from reaching it. So pray for self-control, and practice it on a daily basis.
āDoes This Person Belong In My Life?ā
āCan two walk together, unless they are agreed?ā Am 3:3 NKJV A toxic relationship is like a limb with gangrene: Unless you amputate it the infection can spread and kill you. Without the courage to cut off what refuses to heal, youāll end up losing a lot more. Your personal growthāand in some cases your healingāwill only be expedited by establishing relationships with the right people. Maybe youāve heard the story about the scorpion who asked the frog to carry him across the river because he couldnāt swim. āIām afraid youāll sting me,ā replied the frog. The scorpion smiled reassuringly and said, āOf course I wonāt. If I did that weād both drown!ā So the frog agreed, and the scorpion hopped on his back. Wouldnāt you know it: Halfway across the river the scorpion stung him! As they began to sink the frog lamented, āYou promised you wouldnāt sting me. Why did you do it?ā The scorpion replied, āI canāt help itāitās my nature!ā Until God changes the other personās nature, they have the power to affect and infect you. For example, when you feel passionately about something but others donāt, itās like trying to dance a foxtrot with someone who only knows how to waltz. You picked the wrong dance partner! Donāt get tied up with someone who doesnāt share your values and God-given goals. Some issues can be corrected through counseling, prayer, teaching, and leadership ābut you canāt teach someone to care. If they donāt care, theyāll pollute your environment, kill your productivity, and break your rhythm with constant complaints. Thatās why itās important to pray and ask God, āDoes this person belong in my life?ā
Parenting And The Battle For Control
āDo not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them.ā Eph 6:4 NLT If your teenagers donāt like you telling them what to do, relax; theyāre normal. And itās not peculiar to teenagers; it starts much earlier. One psychologist tells about the mother of a tough little four-year-old girl who was demanding her own way. The mother said, āIām your boss, I have the responsibility to lead you, and thatās what I intend to do!ā Little Jenny thought over her motherās words for a minute, then said, āHow long does it have to be that way?ā Already, at four years of age she was yearning for the day when nobody could tell her what to do. Thatās a God-given instinct. One of the first things God said to Adam and Eve was, āTake control over the earth.ā So the task for you as a parent is to hang on to the reins in the early days, and gradually begin to grant independence as maturity is demonstrated. This is one of the most delicate responsibilities of parenting. Power granted too early produces folly, but power granted too late brings rebellion. Knowing when to let out the rope, and by how much, requires wisdom, and God is the giver of wisdom (See Jas 1:5). If you pray, observe, and listen carefully, youāll begin to see the critical milestones in your childās life. Paul writes, āDo not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.ā And as a parent, thatās some of the best advice youāll ever get.
Healthy Confrontation (3)
āLord, you have searched me and you know meā¦ you perceive my thoughts.ā Ps 139:1-2 NIV Just as a body builder develops a great physique by using the correct weightlifting techniques, you must apply the right techniques to achieve the desired results in resolving your conflict. No athlete attempts to lift heavy weights or engage in intense exercise without first warming up his or her muscles. The warm-up is crucial to the workout, as it minimizes the risk of injury and increases overall muscle performance. Similarly, preparing for confrontation is almost as important as the confrontation itself. Confronting someone spontaneously or without preparation can have disastrous results. Preparation allows you to look at the situation more clearly and not in the midst of an emotional moment, and will most likely lead to a more effective encounter. This would be a good time to pray: āLord, you have searched me and you know meā¦you perceive my thoughts from afarā¦Before a word is on my tongue you know it completelyā (vv. 1-4 NIV). Itās important that you first deal with your negative emotions, such as anger or resentment. While you may deem them justifiable, if you donāt ārelease themā by the power of the Holy Spirit they will become a roadblock to achieving harmony. And you must also refuse to succumb to the fear of addressing the issue, lest you abandon the entire notion of initiating a confrontation. God can work on both ends of the line. While you are praying and preparing your heart, He can prepare the other personās heart. āThere is deceit in the hearts of those who plot evil, but joy for those who promote peaceā (Pr 12:20 NIV).