A fatherās blessing
āMy son is like the smell of a field that the Lord has blessed.ā Ge 27:27 NIV
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Every child longs for their fatherās blessing, and every father is called to bless their children. When Isaac blessed his sons, he was acting on Godās behalf, using his divinely delegated power to impart blessing. A fatherās blessing was a cherished institution, but its effectiveness rested on the fact that Isaac blessed his sons as an act of faith and not out of mere sentiment or favoritism. By Hebrew custom, a fatherās blessing comprised two elements. (1) A meaningful touch. āJacob went close to his father Isaac, who touched himā¦Then his father Isaac said to him, āCome here, my son, and kiss meāā (Ge 27:22, 26 NIV). A patriarchās blessing included the laying on of hands, a kiss, and embrace of acceptance and love. Jesus knew exactly what children needed, thatās why āhe took them up in his arms, put his hands upon them, and blessed themā (Mk 10:16). And such expressions of love still bless our children who crave them from us. (2) A spoken word of affection. Before blessing Jacob, his father said to him, āAh, the smell of my son is like the smell of a field that the Lord has blessedā (Ge 27:27 NIV). To a city dweller these words may not mean much, but not to Isaacās boys. This old outdoors patriarch who loved nature was in essence saying, āThatās my boyāa hunter, a manās man, just like his dad!ā He couldnāt have spoken more affirming words to his son. Dad, let your words not be critical, demeaning, or insensitive, but words that say, āI couldnāt be prouder than to call you my child!ā
Finding common ground (2)
āI have voluntarily become a servant toā¦all.ā 1Co 9:19 MSG
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Whether youāre applying for a job, trying to win someone to Christ, counseling and advising, or correcting someoneās behavior, to be effective you must look for common ground. Letās look at some of the qualities that calls for. Availability. Paul writes: āI have voluntarily become a servant toā¦allā¦to reach a wide range of people.ā Establishing areas of common interest takes time. It also takes effort. Itās been reported that today a typical business executive has an on-the-job attention span of six minutes. Thatās pathetic! In six minutes a person can hardly get his or her feet on the ground, much less find common ground. Identifying areas you can agree on calls for empathy and a willingness to listen to what the other person has to say. In her book How to Talk So People Listen, Sonya Hamlin reports that most people find this challenging because of the āMe-First Factor.ā She writes: āListening requires giving up our favorite human pastimeāinvolvement in ourselves and our own self-interest. Itās our primary, entirely human focus. And itās where our motivation to do anything comes from. With this as a base, can you see what a problem is created when weāre asked to listen to someone else?ā So, whatās the solution? First of all itās essential to acknowledge and answer two of the listenerās instinctive, unspoken questions, which are: āWhy should I listen to you? Whatās in it for me if I let you in?ā Anytime youāre willing to listen to people and figure out how what youāre offering meets their needs, you are halfway toward your goal of finding common ground.
Meditation for beginners
āWe have thought of thy lovingkindness, O God.ā Ps 48:9
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Hopefully by now you are convinced that the power that comes from meditating on Godās Word is a power you need working in your life. But maybe youāre a beginner and you need a starting point. Youāre thinking, āYes, I know I need to spend more time meditating on Godās Word, but how do I do it? Here are a few ideas to get you started: (1) Meditate on Godās blessings. āBless the Lord, O my soul; and all that is within me, bless His holy name! Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all His benefitsā (Ps 103:1-2 NKJV). Meditation leads to a thankful heart. (2) Meditate on your relationship with God. āYou received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, āAbba, Father.ā The Spirit Himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of Godā (Ro 8:15-16 NKJV). (3) Meditate on Godās love for you. āBecause Your lovingkindness is better than life, my lips shall praise You. Thus I will bless You while I live; I will lift up my hands in Your name. My soul shall be satisfied as with marrow and fatness, and my mouth shall praise You with joyful lips. When I remember You on my bed, I meditate on You in the night watches. Because You have been my help, therefore in the shadow of Your wings I will rejoice. My soul follows close behind You; Your right hand upholds meā (Ps 63:3-8 NKJV). You can meditate on Godās promises to protect you, or guide you, or instruct you, or correct you, or bless you. The point is, you need to get started!
Praying Godās promises (2)
āCall to Me, and I will answer you.ā Jer 33:3 NKJV
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When you begin to pray scripturally based prayers, you will get the answers you need. Here is why: The Bible is Godās Word, and He always keeps His Word. Here is how to pray: (1) When you donāt have the answer. āCall to me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not knowā (v. 3). (2) When youāre worried and under stress. āPeace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraidā (Jn 14:27 NKJV). (3) When you need spiritual insight. āWhen He, the Spirit of truth, has come, He will guide you into all truth; for He will not speak of His own authority, but whatever He hears He will speak; and He will tell you things to comeā (Jn 16:13 NKJV). (4) When you need power for service. āHe who believes in Me, the works that I do he will do also; and greater works than these he will do, because I go to My Father. And whatever you ask in My name, that I will doā¦that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do itā (Jn 14:12-14 NKJV). (5) When you need Godās blessing on your endeavors. āI will make them and the places around My hill a blessing; and I will cause showers to come down in their season; there shall be showers of blessingā (Eze 34:26 NKJV). Once you see the results of praying Godās promises, you will never pray any other way.
Meditate on Godās Word
āIn His law he meditates day and nightā¦and whatever he does shall prosper.ā Ps 1:2-3 NKJV
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Thomas Ć Kempis wrote, āIf you wish to grow in your spiritual life, you must not allow yourself to be caught up in the workings of the world. You must find time alone, away from the noise and confusion, from the allure of power and wealth.ā You say, āDoes that mean God doesnāt want me setting goals and achieving things in life?ā No, quite the opposite! The Bible says, āIn His law he meditates day and night. He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that brings forth its fruit in its season, whose leaf also shall not wither; and whatever he does shall prosperā (vv.2-3 NKJV). Whatās the secret of a treeās fruitfulness? Having deep roots that are connected to life-giving streams of water. And as the demands on your time and energy become greater, you must discipline yourself to spend even more time in the Scriptures, not less. When your inner life is not in order, your outer life becomes dysfunctional and begins to fall apart. And working harder will only make it happen faster. You will be like the pilot who announced to his passengers, āFolks, there is bad news and good news. The bad news is, our instruments have failed and we donāt know where weāre going. The good news is, weāre making great time!ā Whatās the answer? David says: āI have rejoiced in the way of Your testimonies, as much as in all riches. I will meditate on Your precepts, and contemplate Your ways. I will delight myself in Your statutes; I will not forget Your wordā (Ps 119:14-16 NKJV).
The art of being a sheep (2)
āThe Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing.ā Ps 23:1 NIV
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We need to know two things: (1) Our shepherdās character. Jesus distinguished good shepherds from bad ones (See Jn 10:11-16). Bad shepherds look out for their own interests, not the welfare of the sheep. Theyāre unreliable; when a threat arises, they abandon the flock. But Jesus claimed, āI am the good shepherdā (Jn 10:11). What makes Him good? āThe good shepherd gives His life for the sheepā (v. 11 NKJV). Their needs and their security come before his own, and if necessary, he will die for them. āI am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know meā (v. 14 NIV). Jesus knows each of His sheep individually and desires an intimate relationship with them. He calls each one by name; they trust Him and follow where He leads (See Jn 10:3). You can rely on your shepherd to protect and guide you! (2) The sheepās condition is the shepherdās business. He canāt be a good shepherd if his sheepās needs arenāt being met. Sheep donāt know the path to the pasture, the location of the watering hole, or the strategy for their own safety. But the shepherd does. His sheep believe in him, rely on him, and follow him. But believing in and relying on His protection and provision isnāt instinctiveāitās the only decision you make; an act of your will. Regardless of your feelings or circumstances, you make up your mind to trust the shepherd to handle things and act as your security. When you turn your worries and concerns over to Him and rest in His goodness, He fulfills His promise that you will ālack nothing.ā
You are a wonder
āI praise you because I amā¦wonderfully made.ā Ps 139:14 NIV
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Despite your aches and pains, you are a living, breathing, walking, talking wonder. The psalmist said, āYou created my inmost being; you knit me together in my motherās womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully madeā (vv. 13-14 NIV). One author explains: āMost of us take our eyesight for granted, but even the simplest of processes is divinely complex. The retina, for example, conducts close to ten billion calculations every second, and that is before an image even travels through the optic nerve to the visual cortex. The human nose can detect one-millionth of one milligram of garlic floating in the air and distinguish among ten thousand distinct odors. The hairs blanketing your body magnify the sensation of touch so that you can discern a thousandth of an ounce of pressure on the tip of a half-inch hair. Amazing, isnāt it?ā Trillions of chemical reactions are taking place in every cell of your body every second. You are inhaling oxygen, metabolizing energy, digesting food, maintaining equilibrium, purifying toxins, producing hormones, exhaling carbon dioxide, repairing tissues, and circulating blood. As you read this, millions of electrical impulses are firing across billions of synaptic pathways, and you donāt even think about it. But you should, and you should praise God for the gift of life and the multitude of His blessings you enjoy. And you should do one more all-important thing: Discover your lifeās purpose and dedicate yourself to fulfilling it. It has been said the two most important days in a personās life are the day theyāre born and the day they discover why they were born. Think about it!
Pray for a āsympathy breakthroughā
āClothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.ā Col 3:12 NLT
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The poet Henry Wadsworth Longfellow wrote, āIf we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each manās life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.ā In his documentary on twentieth-century wars, Jonathan Glover refers to what he calls āsympathy breakthroughs.ā Even in the situation of war, acts of compassion supersede the conflict. Most sympathy breakthroughs, according to Glover, are triggered by eye-to-eye contact, and that eye-to-eye contact displaces hand-to-hand combat. Have you ever had a sympathy breakthrough? If not, pray for one. Itās a moment when your tendency to hate is overcome by your will to love. A moment when proactive compassion overrules negative anger. A moment when youāre concerned more about someone elseās pain than your own. Those are the moments when you discover what it really means to love God with all your heart. Itās much simpler to act like a Christian than it is to react like one. Anybody can put on an act. But your reactions expose what is really in your heart. And if you love God with all your heart, you wonāt merely act like it. You will react like it. The apostle Peter puts it this way: āClothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each otherās faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmonyā (vv. 12-14 NLT).
You canāt have a testimony without a test
āI willā¦test them as gold is tested.ā Zec 13:9 NAS
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If youāre being tested today, youāre in good company! Job, the most righteous man on earth, was tested beyond what most of us will ever have to endure. And when he emerged, he told God, āI heard about you from others; now I have seen youā (Job 42:5 CEV). In the heat of the furnace, you experience God up close and personal. Sheila Schuller Coleman says, āSome tests are intended to assess what weāve learned; others are intended to teach. We learn our most profound lessons when weāre testedā¦Like what weāre capable ofā¦where we need to growā¦and that thereās still more to learn! When your faith is being tested, the last thing youāre thinking about is learning a lessonā¦you just want to survive. But the lesson we learn from Job is that when we keep our faith in the most testing of times, weāll ācome out as goldā (Job 23:10 NAS). Think about it: Did you ever hear a testimony that wasnāt about someone surviving a test? James says, āConsider it pure joyā¦whenever you face trialsā (Jas 1:2 NIV). When we suffer, when people say hateful things, when we lose our homes, when we encounter rifts in our family, when the doctor calls with a dire diagnosisāthe last thing we feel is joyā¦If anyone could speak with authority on praising God in trials, it was Paul. He was beaten, thrown into jail, and run out of town. How does your week compare to his?ā When you get through this test, you will have a testimony to Godās strength and faithfulness, and be able to say, āThe Lord is my God.ā
Keep it simple
āI will give you shepherdsā¦who will lead you with knowledge and understanding.ā Jer 3:15 NIV
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Seeking to impress the congregation, a young seminary graduate incorporated the biggest words he could find into his Sunday-morning sermon. It was a disaster! Stepping down from the pulpit, he met an old preacher who said, āSon, you spoke over their heads.ā Irritated and defensive, the young seminarian said, āThen why donāt they stretch their necks?ā To which the old preacher replied, āJesus said, āFeed my sheep,ā not my giraffes!ā Whether youāre in a pulpit, a classroom, a board meeting, or talking to someone one-on-one over coffee, you must decide whether your goal is to impress peopleāor help them. God said, āI will give you shepherds after my own heart, who will lead you with knowledge and understanding.ā Your aim shouldnāt be merely to communicate knowledgeābut understanding. The measure of a good teacher isnāt what he or she knowsāitās what the student learns. Making things simple is a necessary skill if you want to connect with people. To put it in the words of Albert Einstein: āIf you canāt explain it simply, you donāt understand it enough.ā If youāre serious about trying to reach people, keep these four words firmly in mind: (1) Heart. To move someone, you must touch them on an emotional level. (2) Hope. By spelling out their potential and their possibilities, you will inspire them to try. (3) Help. Show them how to apply what youāre saying in a tangible way. (4) Humor. By laughing at your own mistakes, you let people know their problem isnāt uniqueāand to someone who is struggling, that can be the best feeling in the world.
Donāt burn out (3)
āIn returning and rest you shall be saved.ā Isa 30:15 NKJV
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Burnout is characterized by disengagement, and stress by over-engagement. In burnout, your emotions become blunted; stress makes them over-reactive. Burnout causes emotional damage; stress primarily causes physical damage. Burnout affects motivation and drive; stress affects your physical energy. Depression from burnout comes from loss of hope and ideals; stress-related depression comes from your bodyās need to conserve energy and protect itself. Burnout triggers helplessness and hopelessness; stress triggers urgency and hyperactivity. Burnout produces detachment; stress produces panic, phobias, and anxiety. Burnout may not kill you, but it makes life feel like itās not worth living. So, whatās the answer? God said, āIn returning and rest you shall be saved.ā Author Bev Murrill writes: āThose of us in ministry run on our own very āimportantā treadmills. And as the leader goes, so go the followers. Thatās an awesome responsibility. Those of us whose role is to influence others need to be aware of what we say and do because weāll ābe judged more strictlyā (See Jas 3:1 NCV). Weāre all sick of influential Christians falling into behavior that disempowers those who trusted their leadersā¦Whether it be sexual sin, anger, self-righteousness, or dishonestyā¦we need to examine ourselves instead of pointing and accusing. Spend time with the One who has the capacity to strip us down to the bare bones of our heartās cry. Itās easy to start believing your own publicity and taking the measurement of who you are from other peopleās opinionsā¦Only Godās opinion counts, and thatās hard to discern unless you take time to stop and let him tell you.ā
Donāt burn out (1)
āMany claim to have unfailing love, but a faithful person who can find?ā Pr 20:6 NIV
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Pastor Rowland Croucher writes: āThe children had gone to school, my wife was off to work, and I did something Iād never done before. I turned the phone down, put a note on the door, and went back to bed. I was burned out. Within two months I had resigned my ministryā¦Three out of four pastors report anger, depression, fear, and alienation. The reasons includeā¦a disparity between idealistic expectations and hard realityā¦lack of boundariesā¦workaholismā¦feelings of incompetenceā¦conflict between being a leader and being a servant at the same timeā¦āplaying it safeā to avoid upsetting powerful parishionersā¦and loneliness (pastors are less likely to have a close friend than almost anybody).ā Ministering in your own strength virtually guarantees you will end up as another statistic. Paul was able to go the distance and finish strong because he depended on God to give him the needed strength. One Bible teacher says avoiding burnout means (a) having a definite call on your life and a strong relationship with Jesus, (b) seeking His vision and being willing to do whatever He asks, (c) never losing sight of the people behind the work, (d) never taking your position for granted, (e) respecting the guy above you, and submitting willingly to authority, (f) knowing that youāre fulfilling Godās will and your reward is laid up in heaven, (g) having a servantās heart, (h) putting loyalty above personal feelings, and (i) never being too big to do small things, or too small to do big things. Practice these principles and you wonāt burn out.
Keep your hope alive (1)
āGrabā¦hope with both hands and never let go.ā Heb 6:18 MSG
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Does your situation look impossible? Are you getting ready to quit? Donāt! Emilie Batisse was seventy-nine when she was injured in a hit-and-run accident and wasnāt expected to live. When Norman Vincent Peale went to visit her, he noticed a row of brand-new poetry books that hadnāt been opened. When he asked her about them, she said, āI love poetry, but I havenāt read thoseā¦Iām saving them for my old age.ā Mrs. Batisse lived to read those books many times, and when she eventually died at ninety-one, she was planning a trip to Europe. Hope is wishing for something to come true; faith is believing it will happen. Hope is wanting something so desperately that despite all evidence to the contrary, you keep believing God for it. And the remarkable thing is that the act of hoping produces a strength of its own. When Cornell University conducted a study on the effects of hope, Dr. Harold G. Wolff reported that people with hope can endure incredible burdens. One group comprised twenty-five thousand soldiers imprisoned during World War II. Subjected to forced labor, bad food, and filth, many died while others showed only slight damage. Interviews with survivors revealed a far-above-average ability to hope! How were they able to keep their hope alive? By drawing pictures of the girls they planned to marry, designing their future homes, and organizing business management seminars. Hope not only kept them well, it kept them alive! Itās easy to see why Paul describes hope as āan unbreakable spiritual lifeline, reaching pastā¦appearancesā¦to the very presence of Godā (v. 19).
Your handbook for life!
āThe commands of the Lord are clear, giving insight for living.ā Ps 19:8 NLT
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The marquee outside a little country church read: āJesus saidā¦ā Thatās itānothing else! Obviously the custodian was interrupted before finishing the job, leaving the incomplete message for passing drivers to fill in the blank. Doubtless, some would drive by giving it little thought. The more biblically minded might search their memory for the right answer. Some might think the custodian missed an opportunity to proclaim words that can transform lives. Jesus said, āEvery word Iāve spoken to you is a Spirit-word and so it is life-makingā (Jn 6:63 MSG). The words of people can inform us, but only the words of God can transform us. David understood the awesome benefits of Godās Word. In Psalm 19:7-11 NLT, he tells us itās essential for these: (1) āReviving the soul.ā Godās Word is inexhaustible, but weāre not! We wear down with time and effort, and need restoration and revitalizing. (2) āMaking wise the simple.ā Godās Word gives you insights for crucial, everyday decision-making. A high IQ isnāt required; the Bible is for regular and ordinary people. David said, āI have more insight than all my teachers, for Your testimonies are my meditation. I understand more than the aged, because I have observed Your preceptsā (Ps 119:99-100 NAS 1995). (3) āBringing joy to the heartā (Ps 19:8 NLT). Happiness is dependent on having the right people and circumstances in your life. But ājoyā is different; itās an inside job that comes from living by the principles of Scripture. (4) āGiving insight for living.ā When you have a problem in your personal life, homelife, or working life, Godās Word offers you āinsight for living.ā Itās your handbook for life!
Kids and kites
āA man shall leave his father and mother.ā Mt 19:5 NKJV
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Letting go of our children is one of the toughest phases of parenting. Erma Bombeck compared it to flying a kite. āMom and dad run down the road hoping to catch a breeze. Eventually, and with much effort, they manage to hoist the kite a few feet in the air. Just when they think it is safely underway, great danger looms. It dives toward electrical lines and twirls perilously near the trees. It is a scary moment. Then, unexpectedly, a gust of wind catches the kite and carries it upward. Mom and dad begin feeding line as rapidly as they can. The kite then becomes difficult to hold. Parents reach the end of their line and begin to wonder what to do next. The little craft demands more freedom. It rises higher and higher. Dad stands on tiptoe to accommodate the tug. It is now grasped tenuously between his index finger and thumb, held upward toward the sky. Then comes the moment of release. The string slips through his fingers, and the kite soars majestically into Godās beautiful sky. The kite is now a mere pinpoint of color in the sky. The parents are proud of what they have doneābut sad to realize that their job is finished. It was a labor of love. But where did the years go?ā Parenting is an exhilarating and terrifying experience, and one that was ordained from the beginning. With the ultimate release, and for this season, your task as a parent is finished. The kite is free, and so, for the first time in twenty years or so, are you. Whatās next? Ask God; He has a plan for your life.
Finding common ground (3)
āIā¦tried to experience things from their point of view.ā 1Co 9:22 MSG
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To establish common ground, you must be adaptable. Thomas Aquinas said, āTo convert somebody, go and take them by the hand and guide them.ā You must be willing to move from where you are to where they are; to adapt and try to see things from their point of view. Anytime youāre aware of distance between you and the person youāre trying to reach, itās good to search for something in your own background and experience that relates to theirs. Donāt start the process by telling them about yourself. Begin by moving to where they are and trying to see things from their perspective. Adapt to themādonāt think they should adapt to you. Instead of telling people how you feel, find out how they feel. Instead of telling them what you see, discover how they see things. Instead of trying to tell them what you want, discover what they want. Abraham Lincoln said, āWhen I am getting ready to reason with a man, I spend one-third of my time thinking about myself and what I am going to say and two-thirds about him and what he is going to say.ā The truth is, you canāt take someone on a journey unless youāre willing to start where they are. Only then can you truly connect and lead them to where you want to take them. You can know a lot about a person and still not understand them. More information isnāt always the answer. The Bible says, āDeep calls to deepā (Ps 42:7 NIV), and to really understand people, you must move beyond head knowledge and learn to speak the language of the heart.
Finding common ground (1)
āI try to find common ground with everyone.ā 1Co 9:22 NLT
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To influence someone, you must first connect with them. And to do that, you must look for common ground. Paul writes, āI try to find common ground with everyone, doing everything I can to save some.ā In The Message, Eugene Peterson paraphrases Paulās words: āEven though I am free of the demands and expectations of everyone, I have voluntarily become a servant to any and all in order to reach a wide range of people: religious, nonreligious, meticulous moralists, loose-living immoralists, the defeated, the demoralizedāwhoever. I didnāt take on their way of life. I kept my bearings in Christābut I entered their world and tried to experience things from their point of view. Iāve become just about every sort of servant there is in my attempts to lead those I meet into a God-saved life. I did all this because of the Message. I didnāt just want to talk about it; I wanted to be in on it!ā (vv. 19-23 MSG). Note the words āI entered their world and tried to experience things from their point of view.ā When it came to preaching the truth, Paul wouldnāt yield an inch. But when it came to reaching and influencing people for Christ, he tried to remove every roadblock between them and Christ. And you must be willing to do the same. People donāt care how much you know until they know how much you care. Thatās why you must approach them heart-first, not headfirst. Before someone can receive the truth you have to share, they must be convinced that you love and care for them. And that means finding common ground.
Do what God says
āThe Lord came to Abram in a vision.ā Ge 15:1 NKJV
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When God gives you a vision for your life, He doesnāt give you all the details up front. He simply says, āDonāt be afraid; just do what I say, and I will guide you and prosper you.ā What did Abramās vision involve? āThe Lord said to Abram: Leave your country, your family, and your relatives and go to the land that I will show you. I will bless you and make your descendants into a great nationā (Ge 12:1-2 CEV). How old was Abram? āAbram was seventy-fiveā¦when the Lord told him to leave the city of Haranā (Ge 12:4 CEV). What was Abram leaving? āAbram was very richā¦and had a lot of silver and goldā (Ge 13:2 CEV). How did Abram respond? āBy faith Abraham obeyed when he was called to go out to the place which he would receive as an inheritance. And he went out, not knowing where he was goingā (Heb 11:8 NKJV). Abraham couldnāt have told you where his final destiny was or how he would get there. He just knew God had told him to leave the safe harbor of where he was. Understand this: What youāre willing to walk away from often determines what God can entrust to you. You say, āBut I need to have more information.ā You will know as you go! With each step of faith you take, God will reveal another detail. He will inform you on a āneed-to-knowā basis. So, is the God who said to Abram, āGo to the land that I will show youā saying something similar to you today? Donāt be afraid; just step out in faith and obey Him.
Praying Godās promises (1)
āLet my teachings become part of you.ā Jn 15:7 CEV
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According to one count, there are 3,573 promises in the Bible. Thatās almost ten promises for each day of the year. When you know which of those promises apply to you, and you fulfill the conditions that go with them, you can literally begin to pray Godās promises into existence in your life (See Jn 15:7 AMPC). Will your prayers be answered overnight? Some will, others wonāt. āBeā¦followers of them who through faith and patience inherit the promisesā (Heb 6:12). The most powerful prayer you can pray is, āLord, you promised in your Word that you wouldā¦and today I am praying and believing you for it.ā Here is how to pray: (1) When you need guidance and direction. āI will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with My eyeā (Ps 32:8 NKJV). (2) When you need deliverance from a situation, or to be set free from a habit. āCall upon Me in the day of trouble, I will deliver you, and you shall glorify Meā (Ps 50:15 NKJV). (3) When you need the strength to stand. āFear not; for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right handā (Isa 41:10 NKJV). (4) When you donāt have enough to meet your needs. āMy God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesusā (Php 4:19). If you meditate in Godās Word every day, each time a need arises, you will know which of His promises to claim in prayer (See 2Pe 1:4 NIV).
God will rescue you
āWe stopped relying on ourselves and learned to rely only on God.ā 2Co 1:9 NLT
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Are you feeling hopeless about the situation youāre in and donāt know which way to turn? Maybe youāre struggling to find a reason to keep going, but youāre so tired and overwhelmed that you just want to give up. If thatās the case, youāre in a vulnerable place. Look outāSatan will try to convince you there must be sin in your life, or that youāre out of Godās will, or that He is unhappy with you because you have disobeyed Him in some area youāre unaware of. Donāt buy it! You can be in the center of Godās will doing everything the right way, and still experience adversity. The apostle Paul writes: āYou ought to knowā¦about the trouble we went through in the province of Asia. We were crushed and overwhelmed beyond our ability to endure, and we thought we would never live through it. In fact, we expected to die. But as a result, we stopped relying on ourselves and learned to rely only on God, who raises the dead. And he did rescue us from mortal danger, and he will rescue us again. We have placed our confidence in him, and he will continue to rescue us. And you are helping us by praying for us. Then many people will give thanks because God has graciously answered so many prayers for our safetyā (2Co 1:8-11 NLT). Two elements are at work in your life today. First, God is teaching you to lean on Him instead of on yourself. Second, people around you are being strengthened and encouraged as they see the grace of God at work in your life.
The art of being a sheep (1)
āThe Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing.ā Ps 23:1 NIV
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Perhaps you memorized Psalm 23 as a child. The vivid visual images remain with us lifelong. Author Hannah Whitall Smith said, āWhat we all need is just to get back into the nursery again, and take up our childish verses once more, and, while reading them with the intelligence of our grown-up years, to believe them with all our old childish faith.ā As adults we become jaded, losing the simple joy that stress-filled lives require. We need to remember these three things: (1) Who our shepherd isāāThe Lord.ā He is the source of everything we will ever need, beginning with salvation. Jesus said: āI am the good shepherd. The good shepherd gives His life for the sheepā (Jn 10:11 NKJV). (2) What the shepherdās job isāprotector and provider for the sheep. And He knows how to handle wayward, headstrong, vulnerable sheep and care for them. Long before Jesus came as our shepherd, the Father said, āI will rescue [my flock] and no longer let them be mistreatedā¦I will give you a shepherd from the family of my servant King Davidā¦All of you, both strong and weak, will have the same shepherd, and he will take good care of youā (Eze 34:22-23 CEV). (3) What the sheepās job isāto trust the shepherd completely. Attempting to do His job will exhaust and defeat us. We must believe āwith all our old childish faithā that Jesus is a dependable, committed, and capable shepherdāand then act like we believe it. Knowing that His goodness and mercy will follow us all the days of our lives lifts our present worries and dispels all our future concerns.
What makes you glad, sad, or mad?
āTo him who is afflicted, kindness should be shown.ā Job 6:14 NKJV
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A pastor writes: āWhat makes you glad or sad or mad? What puts a holy smile on your face? What causes your spirit to sob uncontrollably? What makes you pound your fist on the table out of righteous indignation? Somewhere in the mixture of that gladness, sadness, and madness is your God-ordained passion. Or maybe we should say compassion, because you are feeling what God feels. And once you identify it, doing something about it isnāt optional. You canāt not do something about it.ā In 2006, Blake Mycoskie was touring Argentina when he noticed that many of the children didnāt have shoes. He could have returned to the United States and gone about his business. Instead, he started TOMS shoes, a business with a mission of putting shoes on the feet of children in third-world countries. It works like this: When you buy a pair of TOMS shoes, youāre giving a pair of shoes to a barefoot child somewhere. For every pair of shoes purchased, a pair is given away. Their mission is straightforward: one for one. Blake identified a need. He personalized it. And he decided to do something about it. It didnāt start out big, it started out small. Yet that is how primal moments begin. A person decides to do something about something that makes him glad or sad or mad. It was barefoot kids who broke Blakeās heart. And he literally placed shoes on his faith. When you discover the thing that makes you glad or sad or mad, the only question left is this: What are you going to do about it?
Being friends with God (2)
āIf you are pleased with me, teach me your ways so I may know you.ā Ex 33:13 NIV
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Here is more of Mosesā friendly talk with God: āIf you are pleased with me, teach me your ways so I may know you and continue to find favor with you.ā Moses is in a national crisis that could end Israelās relationship with God, and what is he praying for? Not, āGod, Iām in a tough spot. You have to resolve this for me!ā But, āteach me your ways so I may know you!ā Moses wants more than just to know Godās awesome works. His heart cries out to know Godās heart and what makes it tickāthe inner ways of God. āTo know Himā includes all the other things Moses could ever seek, including the solution to his problem. And God gave him what he asked. āHe made known his ways unto Mosesā (Ps 103:7). Here is more of that conversation: God responded, āMy Presence will go with you, and I will give you restā (v. 14 NIV). That āyouā in the Hebrew is singular. God promised to accompany Moses and give rest to him. Anybody else would have accepted gladly. Not Moses. His prayer was bigger than his own concerns. āIf your Presence does not go with us, do not send us up from hereā (v. 15 NIV). In other words, āLord, itās not for me Iām praying; itās for us!ā And God answered that prayer. Are your prayers bigger than yourself and your own needs? The Bible says, āFor God so loved the worldā (Jn 3:16). Do you pray for your town, nation, and the world? You have been called to and you should!
Being friends with God (1)
āI know you by name and you have found favor with me.ā Ex 33:12 NIV
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Moses talked with God like a friend, sharing what he felt and thought. And God wanted it that way. Here is how the conversation went: āMoses said to the Lord, āYou have been telling me, āLead these people,āā¦āYou have said, āI know you by name and you have found favor with me.āāā Moses is mirroring back to God what God had previously said to him. Remember saying to your spouse or your best friend, āYou were the one who saidā¦ā? Thatās what Moses is doing here: reminding God of His own words. And God wants you to remember His Word and to speak it back to Him (See Isa 43:26). Not because He needs to be reminded but because you do! And because His Word is the only Word that He is committed to fulfill (See Mt 24:35). When you pray using Godās Word, you are praying in His will, and youāre guaranteed to get a hearing. So, learn and memorize Scriptures that touch on your needs and desires, and when you talk to God, recall them, and pray them back to Him. For example, when you pray, āTherefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yoursā (Mk 11:24 NIV), God will acknowledge it! The more you learn of His Word, the more your prayer time will conform to His will and the more you will feel aligned with Him. Keep your Bible handy when you talk to God so that He can direct your thoughts to the words He wants you to pray.
Pick the right people
āThese wereā¦the mighty men whom David had.ā 1Ch 11:10 NKJV
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Success in any endeavor calls for surrounding yourself with the right people. Thatās why you should always seek Godās input in your relationships. Rehoboam should have listened to the advice of his father Solomonās wise and experienced inner circle. Instead he heeded the advice of those who agreed with his own opinionāand it proved fatal. David, on the other hand, chose people who helped make him great. āThese wereā¦the mighty men whom David had, who strengthened themselves with him in his kingdom, with all Israel, to make him king, according to the word of the Lord concerning Israelā (v. 10 NKJV). Notice four important things here: (1) David built a strong inner circle before he needed it. He started building his team long before he was crowned. (2) He attracted people with varied gifts. He reached for them, rewarded them, and wasnāt intimidated by those who had skills that differed from his. With the help of these āmighty men,ā David felt ready for anything. (3) He cultivated loyalty. He drew people close to him, shared his life with them, and in the end, they were willing to lay their lives on the line for him. (4) He delegated responsibility based on ability. Because he was secure in his own identity and calling, David wasnāt afraid to delegate authority and responsibility to those around him. In the beginning some of his mighty men were misfits, but he transformed this ragtag group into a winning team (See 1Sa 22:1-2). David made his inner circle great, and in turn his inner circle made him great. So, the word for you today isāpick the right people!
Donāt burn out (2)
āI give thanks to Him Who has granted meā¦strength and made me able [for]ā¦the ministry.ā 1Ti 1:12 AMPC
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Another form of burnout is ācompassion fatigue,ā and people helpers are the most vulnerable. Symptoms include the belief that youāre no longer effective, treating yourself and others with detachment, withdrawing from your responsibilities, avoiding social and interpersonal contact, and feeling ābeaten.ā If youāre a type-A personality to start with, youāre at even greater risk. One counselor says driven people often āsuffer from an āadrenaline addictionā and unconsciously look for ways to get little surges, similar to the high people get from alcohol, caffeine, and nicotine, except they get their highs from controlling people and making complex decisionsā¦Spiritual causes of stress include sexual temptation, anger, and despair, jealousy of other peopleās success, and anxiety about finances. Pastors are often placed on pedestalsā¦and these expectations canāt be met. So in an effort to please, they become too goal-oriented for their peopleā¦or too accommodating of their spiritual slacknessā¦they become perfectionistsā¦overdeveloping one side of their ministry or identifying so closely with their calling that it falls apart. Your body gives you warning signals; insomnia, digestive problems, headaches, fatigue, muscle tension, teeth grinding, and high blood pressure. Sadly, it seldom slows the victim downāuntil an ulcer, stroke, or heart attack occur. As a leader, you need to spend as much time with the strong as the weak; they give you strength and supportā¦they can be trained for ministryā¦and having more hands on deck enhances the spiritual and emotional health of your church.ā
Keep your hope alive (2)
āHope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit.ā Ro 5:5 NKJV
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Jon Walker says: āIāve struggled with my weight most of my life. Iāve dropped weight and put it back on. Iāve tried every diet, and made up some of my own. I maintained a friendly battle with weight until I became extremely ill, and for a year I was unable to walk beyond the mailbox. Needless to say, I gained more weight than ever and found myself facing a huge challenge. I needed to lose more pounds than there are days in a month. With age nipping at my heelsā¦it wasnāt as easy to drop the pounds as it used to be, and I found myself feeling hopelessāthe kind of hopelessness that makes you think, āWhatās the use? I might as well not even try.ā No doubt you can relate, not necessarily to the weight issue, but to the hopelessness. Maybe youāre in a stressful marriageā¦or facing health issues that have you thinking āWhatās the use?ā Or in a frustrating jobā¦or facing a difficult family situationā¦or wondering if youāll ever get good enough grades to graduateā¦or dealing with the death of the most important person in your lifeā¦or struggling through so many failed attempts to have a child. Hereās the truth: We serve a God of hope, and itās a hope that wonāt ādisappoint [us].ā Itās not based on feelings; itās rooted in a relationship with the One who can be trusted above all others. We wait together for this unseen hope, knowing the God of hope will not abandon or ādisappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit.āā
Fulfilling Godās plan for your life
āMake sure you understand what the Master wants.ā Eph 5:17 MSG
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To fulfill Godās plan for your life, you need to do these: (1) Map out your day. Plan your time and stick to your plan. Only one out of three people do that. One leadership expert says, āItāsā¦rareā¦that I get up in the morning wondering what Iāll be doing that day.ā Thatās why he is a leaderāand an expert! (2) Keep first things first. Goethe said, āThings which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least.ā Most of us donāt get to our most important tasks until midafternoon. We complete low-priority tasks first so we will have a sense of accomplishment. Thatās unwise. And if you plan your day but donāt follow through, your results will be the same as those who donāt plan at all. As Dwight Eisenhower observed, āTaking first things firstā¦often reduces the most complex human problem to a manageable proportion.ā (3) Be focused but flexible. Expect the unexpected and learn to adapt. Conditions constantly change, and so must your methods of getting things done. (4) Learn to delegate. People fall into two categories: clingers and dumpers. Clingers refuse to let go of anything they think is important, whether or not theyāre the best person for the job. Their goal is perfection. Dumpers, on the other hand, are quick to off-load tasks without giving much thought to how well the job gets done. Their goal is to get it off their desk ASAP. Proper delegation calls for being wise, secure in who you are, and generous toward others. It also means the job gets done rightāand in the end, that is what you want.
The power of a shared faith
āCan two walk together, unless they are agreed?ā Am 3:3 NKJV
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If you want to know how the person youāre marrying will look twenty-five years from now, look at their parents and you will get a clue. Regular exercise and good diet will only take you so far, then Mother Nature and Father Time begin to take their toll. The truth is that looks may bring you together, but only commitment and a shared faith will keep you together! The Bible says, āDonāt team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness? What harmony can there be between Christ and the devil? How can a believer be a partner with an unbeliever?ā (2Co 6:14-15 NLT). That doesnāt mean the two of you must hold identical views on every issue and practice your faith in similar ways. But you need the same values and views regarding the fundamentals of your faithāhow you view God, the role of the church, and personal practices. āCan two walk together, unless they are agreed?ā Faith is that indescribable strength, that secret weapon of the soul that allows us to persevere even when the facts seem damning and the truth unbearable. Itās what keeps us going when weāre not sure we can continue. Itās the light that leads us out of the darkness, and the map that guides our way. Without faith we would probably pull over to the side of the road, give up, and watch everyone else pass us by. But when we trust in the Lord and believe that He will guide us, there is almost nothing we cannot withstand and walk through together.
God can cancel your past (3)
āIt is finished!ā Jn 19:30 NIV
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One of Christās last declarations from the cross was, āIt is finished.ā That phrase comprises just one word in Greek, tetelestai, meaning āpaid in full.ā It was the word merchants wrote on a bill when it was canceled. It was also the word stamped on a document announcing that a prison sentence had been commuted. Jesus paid the price in full for every sin you have ever committed! āThere is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesusā (Ro 8:1 NIV). The question is, if God forgets your sin the second you confess it, donāt you think you should forget it too? How long do you think about an invoice you have paid? You forget it the minute you have paid it. Similarly, since Christ has paid your bill in full, you donāt need to remember it anymore. Paul, who once described himself as āchief among sinnersā (See 1Ti 1:15), wrote, āForgetting what is behindā¦I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenwardā (Php 3:13-14 NIV). We can short-circuit Godās power in our lives by not trusting that He has truly forgiven us or by deciding not to forgive ourselves. Why do we do that? Sometimes because of how we were raised. Our parents told us, āI forgive you,ā but they constantly brought it up. Good news: Your heavenly Father is different from your earthly parents. When He forgives your sin, He expunges your record, cancels your past, canāt remember it, doesnāt talk about it, and will never bring it up again. So, today accept His forgiveness. And if you need to, forgive yourself and move on.