Always Tell The Truth
āAnd there shall in no wise enter into it any thing thatā¦maketh a lie.ā Rev 21:27
When it comes to telling the truth, here are two stories: (1) One morning a mother was out shopping when she bumped into her son at a shopping mall. Angry and alarmed that heād skipped school, she demanded to know why he wasnāt in class. She listened patiently to his explanation and then replied, āIām not accusing you of telling a lie, but I never heard of a school giving time off for good behavior.ā (2) A dentist with a hypodermic needle in his hand says to a patient sitting in his chair, āYou might feel a little sting. On the other hand, it might feel as though you have been kicked in the mouth by a mule.ā We smile, but the moral of these two stories is clear. Sometimes the truth hurtsābut never as much as being told a lie. When you fail to tell someone the truth because you donāt want to hurt their feelings, you risk hurting them more. Truth is like a mirror; it allows those you love to see themselves as they really are and make the necessary corrections and adjustments. And when you fail to tell the truth about yourself you risk losing your credibility. When thatās gone it may take you a long time to get back, if ever. Thatās why the Bible says, āConfess your faults one to another, and pray one for another that ye may be healedā (Jas 5:16). When you open up and share your struggles, you set others free to do the same. And in the process you are both made whole. So, the word for you today is: Always tell the truth.
āWe Shall Be Like Himā
āWe shall be like him.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā 1Jn 3:2 NIV
Let every parent of a Down syndrome or wheelchair-bound child write these words on the bedroom wall. Let the disabled, infected, bedridden, and anemic put themselves to sleep with the promise: āWe shall be like Him.ā Let amputees and the atrophied take this promise to heart: āWe shall be like Him.ā We shall graduate from this version of life into His likeness. Youāll have a spiritual body. In your current state your unregenerated flesh battles your regenerated spirit. Your eyes look where they shouldnāt. Your taste buds desire the wrong drinks. Your heart knows you shouldnāt be anxious, but your mind still worries. Canāt you relate to Paulās confession? āI truly delight in Godās commands, but itās pretty obvious that not all of me joins in that delight. Parts of me covertly rebel, and just when I least expect it, they take chargeā (Ro 7:22-23 TM). In heaven your āpartsā will no longer rebel. Your new body will be a spiritual body, with every part cooperating toward one end. Joni Eareckson Tada, whoās been confined to a wheelchair since age seventeen, says: āI canāt wait to be clothed in righteousness, without a trace of sin. True, itāll be wonderful to stand, stretch, and reach to the sky, but itāll be more wonderful to offer praise thatās pure. I wonāt be crippled by distractions, disabled by insincerity. I wonāt be handicapped by halfheartedness. My heart will join with others and bubble over with effervescent adoration. Weāll finally be able to fellowship fully with the Father and the Son. For me, this will be the best part of heaven.ā The word for you today is: āWe shall be like Him.ā
Have You Prayed About It?
āPray and ask God for everything you need.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Php 4:6 NCV
Can you imagine walking into a restaurant and asking if your order is ready? āWhen did you call it in?ā the server asks. āOh, I didnāt,ā you reply. āI just thought perhaps you might have something with my name on it.ā Thatās as ridiculous as expecting God to answer prayer requests you havenāt madeāor havenāt made in faith. The Bible says, āThe reason you donāt have what you want isā¦you donāt ask Godā (Jas 4:2 TLB). Will God give you everything you ask for? No. āEven when you do ask you donāt get it becauseā¦you want only what will give you pleasureā (v. 3 TLB). Your request must be in harmony with Godās will. āIf we ask anythingā¦according to His willā¦Heā¦hearsā (1Jn 5:14 AMP). Jeremiah said, āThe Lord is good to those who waitā¦expectantly for Himā (La 3:25 AMP). Expectant prayer demonstrates confidence in Godās goodness. So instead of fretting, or talking about it to everybody but God, or taking matters into your own hands, say, āLord, Iām going to trust You with this regardless of the outcome,ā and He will honor your faith. Paul writes, āPray and ask God for everything you need, always giving thanks.ā Do you need a job? Help overcoming a problem? The salvation of a loved one? A deeper spiritual walk? Physical or emotional healing? Guidance? Jesus said, āIt gives your Father great happiness to give you the [benefits of] [His] Kingdomā (Lk 12:32 NLT). God wants to be good to you, so tell Him the ādesires of your heartā (Ps 37:4 NKJV). Then thank Him and believe the answer will comeāin His time!
How Can I Get Out of This Mess
āWho will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death? Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our LordāĀ (Romans 7:24b-25a NLT, second edition).
Here is the testimony of a Chinese Christian: āI walked through the road of life and had fallen into a great ditch. The ditch was filled with depression, discouragement, and sin. As I lay in that ditch, Mohammed came along and said, āItās your fault youāre in the ditch. You offended Allah, and this is your just punishment.ā Then Marx came by and said, āYouāre in the ditch because of class warfare. You must revolt.ā But after the government changed, I was still in my ditch. Then Buddha came along and said, āYouāre not really in that ditch. You just think youāre there. Itās all an illusion of the mind. Be at peace.ā Then Confucius came by and said, āHere are the 10 steps of self-attainment by which you can get out of your ditch. If you will struggle, you will climb out eventually.ā But as much as I struggled and strained, I couldnāt get out of the ditch, because it was too deep.
āThen one day, Jesus Christ came by and saw me in my ditch. Without a word, he took off his white robe and got down in the muddy ditch with me. Then he lifted me up with his strong arms and got me out of the ditch. Thank God that Jesus did for me what I could not do for myself.ā
Jesus did for you what you could not do for yourself.
If you want healing in your life, you have to believe that Christ can change you. Romans 7:24-25 says,Ā āWho will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death? Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lordā(NLT, second edition).
The answer to your problem is a person. Whoās going to be lord of your life? Whoās going to call the shots? You or Jesus Christ? When youāre mastered by him, you can master your problems.
God has the power you were lacking. Heāll help you out.
The Father/Son Talk (2)
āWith her enticing speech she caused him to yield.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Pr 7:21 NKJV
Psychologist Henry Brandt tells how his son got upset when he wouldnāt permit him to go out alone in a car with a girl down to the lake after dark. āWhatās wrong, Dad?ā demanded the son. āDonāt you trust me?ā Brandt replied: āIn a car, alone at night, in front of a lake, with a beautiful girl? I wouldnāt trust me!ā Solomon got involved early and strongly in the lives of his children, and educated them about Godās perspective on sex. The three largest sections in Proverbs dealing with one topic are found in chapters 5 through 7. In chapters 5 and 6, Solomon dealt exclusively with premarital sexāfornication. He devoted almost the entirety of chapter 7 to extramarital sexāadultery. And in between, he gave a frank discussion of sex within the will of God. For too long pastors and parents have kept their heads buried in the sand, hoping this topic would just go away. But the subject canāt be avoided. Pollster George Gallup stated: āThereās no question about it, sex-related issues are going to become the most important issues facing all churches in the foreseeable future. Abortion, AIDS, premarital sex, homosexualityāall those are going to be at the vortex.ā Solomon warned his son, āWith her enticing speech she caused him to yield.ā So whether youāre a father, a mother, a single parent, or even a grandparent, your child wonāt make the wrong move if theyāre not in the wrong place, with the wrong person, at the wrong time. So teach them, āIf you donāt want to get burned, stay away from the fire!ā
If You Want It, Give It!
āYou will be given a full amount in return.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Lk 6:38 CEV
One night a man came to Mother Teresaās house and told her about a family of eight who hadnāt eaten for a week. When she got there she saw the faces of little ones suffering from malnutrition, so she gave them a sack of rice. Then the childrenās mother did something interesting. She kept half the rice and went out carrying the other half. When she returned Mother Teresa asked, āWhere did you go?ā She answered, āTo my neighbors; theyāre hungry also.ā Mother Teresa says, āI wasnāt surprised that she gave; the poor are usually very generous. But I was surprised that she knew they were hungry. As a rule, when weāre suffering weāve no time for others.ā The Bible teaches that when you focus on the needs of others God will make sure your needs get met too (See Eph 6:8). So if you want it, give it! Hereās why: (1) Giving is the key to blessing. Jesus said, āIf you give to others, you will be given a full amount in return. It will be packed down, shaken together, and spilling over into your lap.ā (2) The seed you sow now decides the size of the harvest youāll reap later. No seed is too little to multiply if youāre willing to sow it. By finding a cause greater than your own self-interest and pouring yourself into it, you discover two things: First, itās okay to acknowledge your limitations as long as you donāt build your life around them. Second, Godās blessing is released when you give what you have instead of talking about what you donāt have. So if you want it, give it!
Never Assume
āThe hand of the diligent makes rich.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Pr 10:4 NKJV
Never assume your instructions are clearly understood and will be carried out. The Bible says, āThe hand of the diligent makes rich,ā and the word diligent means paying careful attention to details. When you give someone instructions, check to be sure theyāve made a note of them. If not, you should be concerned. The unlearned and uncommitted tend to trust their memory with everything, but the shortest pencil is still better than the longest memory. When someone doesnāt consider what youāre saying important enough to write down, they are sending you a signal; the light is flashing red. Even if their intentions are good, in their busyness or overconfidence your instructions can easily be forgotten. Those who are follow-through people always ask additional questions about the assignment and instructions you give them. For example, when you ask them to telephone somebody about a particular matter, they should automatically ask you: (a) Is there a deadline on this? (b) When do you need a report back on the results of this call? (c) Is there any additional information I need to know? If those kinds of questions are not forthcoming, chances are that person is not giving enough thought to their assignment. When someone tells you, āIāll try to get to it,ā thatās another flashing red light, because much of the time they wonāt. The word try often reveals halfheartedness. Give your instructions to one specific personānot two. Document the date you gave it to them and when you need them to report back. In other words: Only give instructions to someone who is qualified to receive and implement them.Ā
Is God Directing You To Zarephath?
āGo at once to Zarephathā¦and stay there.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā 1Ki 17:9 NIV
The stream Elijah had been drinking from dried up and the ravens that brought him food every day stopped coming. When that happens Godās trying to get your attention! Heās getting you ready to move. Next God sent Elijah to an impoverished widow in the town of Zarephath, assuring him that sheād feed him. That must have been difficult for a leader who was used to ministering to others. Elijah found the widow in the middle of a famine, cooking one last meal for herself and her son. Nevertheless he challenged her to obey God, promising, āThere will always be flour and olive oilā¦in your containers untilā¦the Lord sends rain and the crops growā (v. 14 NLT). What gave Elijah the faith to say that? Because heād proven Godās faithfulness in his own life! You can only talk in faith when you walk in faith. And associating with people of faith is contagious; it builds your faith. Thatās what happened to this widow. She and her son may not have eaten a five-course meal every night, but God made sure that for the duration of the famine they had all they needed. So if you donāt have everything you want right now, obey God with what Heās given you and trust Him that when the time is right Heāll send an increase. Notice also, the faith of both the widow and the prophet was tested. So whether youāre a beginner or a seasoned believer, tests of faith will keep coming your way. Is God directing you to your own personal Zarephath today? Donāt argue! āGo at once,ā because His blessing hinges on your obedience.
Refuse To Settle
āThey set outā¦to go to Canaan. But when they came to Haran, they settled there.āĀ Ge 11:31 NIV
Are you pressing āon toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called [you]ā (Php 3:14 NIV), or have you āsettledā along the way? God made a pact with Abrahamāone that continues to influence the modern world. A lesser-known fact is that years earlier Abrahamās father, Terah, āset outā¦to go to Canaan,ā the land of abundance where God later called Abraham. But Terah never made it: āWhen they came to Haran, they settled there.ā No question, it couldnāt have been easy traveling hundreds of miles across rough terrain with flocks, herds, children, and servants. Can you imagine the sheer logistics! Remember, there were no professional movers to pack and load your stuff! Finally Terah decided they couldnāt go any farther, so they settled where they were comfortable. One pastor adds: āI wonder how many times we do the same thing? We have a big dreamā¦to excel in our careersā¦as parentsā¦and in our walk with God. We get started, but things get difficult and achieving our goal doesnāt happen as quickly as we hoped. Perhaps similar to Abrahamās father we say, āLetās just settle here. Itās not really what we wanted, but itās good enough.ā Donāt fall into that trap. You were made for more than āgood enoughāā¦Donāt settle for a little love and joy, a bit of peace and contentment, or a small helping of happinessā¦Pull up stakes, pack your tents, get your belongings, and start moving forward. Enlarge your vision. You may have had a delay, butā¦you can begin again.ā
To Be Faithful Is To Be Successful
āWell done, good and faithful servant.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Mt 25:23 NKJV
God wants you to succeed in life (See Jos 1:8). And He will give you the tools, strategies, and relationships necessary for success. David started out as a lowly shepherd boy, but God made him King of Israel. The Bible says, āIn everything he did he had great success, because the Lord was with himā (1Sa 18:14 NIV). But Godās definition of success is very different from the worldās definition. Former U.S. Senator Mark Hatfield tells of touring Calcutta with Mother Teresa. They visited the āHome for the Dyingā where sick children are cared for in their last days, and the dispensary where the poor line up by the hundreds to receive medical attention. Watching Mother Teresa minister to these people, feeding and nursing those left by others to die, Hatfield was overwhelmed by the magnitude of the suffering she and her co-workers faced daily. āHow can you bear the load without being crushed beneath it?ā he asked. Mother Teresa replied, āMy dear Senator, I am not called to be successful, I am called to be faithful.ā Some of us are called to serve in the limelight while others are called to serve in the shadows. Some are privileged to receive the worldās accolades and rewards, but most of us arenāt. Should we be discouraged? Not for a moment! With God, faithfulness counts as success. One day when youāll stand before God you will hear these words: āWell done, good and faithful servant; you have been faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.ā
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Heās always a step ahead (3)
āNo plague will come near your home.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ps 91:10 NLT
For nine-year-old Keith Pulles, winterizing the family swimming pool signaled the end of summer. He writes: āI watched glumly from the window as Dad opened a jug and started dumping chemicals into the pool. Then he got another jug and added more stuff. āThatās a lot of stuff to put into the pool,ā I thought. Just then the phone rang and I ran to check the caller ID. āUnknown name, unknown number.ā Mom and Dad had warned me about talking to strangers, but that day a voice inside said, āPick it up!ā The urge was so strong I lifted the receiver and said hello. āMay I speak with Steve Pulles, please?ā I didnāt recognize the voice. Probably a telemarketer, but something made me say, āHang on. Iāll go get him.ā I went outside, phone in hand, and shouted, āDad! Phone!ā He walked around the side of the garage from the backyard and took the cordless phone from me. āHello? Hello? Whoās calling?ā he hollered. A couple of seconds later he took the phone from his ear and turned it off. āNobody there,ā he said. Suddenly there was an enormous boom from the back yard. āThe pool!ā Dad shouted. It turned out heād mixed two chemicals he shouldnāt have. The mixture exploded out of the water, leaving toxic fumesā¦if Dad had been out there at that moment he could have died. Unknown caller? I donāt think so. The person on the phone that day certainly had our number.ā The Psalmist said, āNo evil will conquer you; no plague will come near your home.ā Today, Godās protecting you and your loved ones.
Heās always a step ahead (1)
āBefore they call, I will answer; and while they are still speaking, I will hear.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Isa 65:24 NKJV
When Wilda Lahmannās husband woke in the wee hours of the morning gasping for air and clutching his chest, there wasnāt time to wait for an ambulance. She got him into the car and he slumped against the door. She writes: āFifteen miles to the hospitalā¦weāre not gonna make it. Please send help, Lord! A mile down the road I saw something. Were my eyes playing tricks? It was an ambulance with a paramedic standing beside it. Was he waiting for us? Who couldāve known to call? I slammed on the brakes and ran screaming for help. They started treatment immediately and rushed Randy to the hospital. The next three days were touch-and-go. I never left his bedside, praying heād wake up. When he did, he asked, āWhat happened?ā āYou had a massive heart attack. Another minute or two and who knows?ā āYou called the paramedics?ā Randy asked. āNo,ā I replied. āThey were responding to an accident at that intersection. They even called headquarters to confirm they had the right location. Then we came along seconds later.ā Fifteen miles on empty roads in the middle of the night; Randyās heart attack wouldāve been fatal if the paramedics hadnāt been there. Iād say they were in the perfect location.ā Often in a crisis thereās no time to call the pastor or your prayer partner. Thatās when itās good to know God said, āBefore they call I will answer, and while they are yet speaking I will hear.ā Heās on the job 24/7, redeeming āyour life from destructionā (Ps 103:4 NKJV) long before you even know you are in trouble!
Be Teachable
āThat the Lordā¦may show us the way in which we should walk and the thing we should do.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Jer 42:3 NKJV
Twelve bees were placed in a jar in a darkened room. A light was beamed onto the bottom of the jar, and then the lid removed. Instinctively, the bees flew toward the light and couldnāt escape. So they died trying to buzz their way through the bottom of the jar. Next the researchers took twelve common houseflies and repeated the experiment. Within seconds the flies had found their way out of the jar. Now, bees are more intelligent than flies and their survival instincts are better. Yet it was those very instincts that doomed the bees. Thereās a lesson here. You may be very intelligent, yet your preconceived notions can doom you to failure in life. Assumptions, rigidity, and force of habit can cause you to keep doing things that donāt work and make no sense. Dr. James Dobson says: āUntil 1992 I wrote books with pencils and yellow pads. I did that for years after word processors were available. The twentieth century was almost over before I decided to join it.ā Are you afraid to abandon an old belief system, or learn a new skill, or tackle a new project? When youāre finished learning, youāre finished! The only real limitations are those we place on ourselves by refusing to learn. āGive instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a just man, and he will increase in learningā (Pr 9:9 NKJV). āThe heart of the prudent acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks knowledgeā (Pr 18:15 NKJV). Donāt let your fears and preconceived ideas keep you from growing; be teachable.
Prepare Them For Adolescence
āChildren are known by the way they act.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Pr 20:11 NLT
When you see signs of adolescence in your child, itās time to talk with them. As the parent of a preteen, your task is similar to that of a football coach whoās trained his squad all through the late summer and early fall. Now the first game is about to occur, when direct coaching is not going to be possible. So the coach gathers the players in the locker room and makes one last speech before they take the field. He reminds them again of the fundamentals of the game, and gives them the old pep talk about winning. Similarly, as the parent of a preteen youāve been teaching them through preschool and elementary years about right and wrong, what to believe, and how to behave. Now the big contest called adolescence is about to begin and your team will take the field. From that point forward, very little parental advice can be given. A Christian psychologist recommends that parents take an eleven- or twelve-year-old child on a āpreparing for adolescenceā trip, during which moral values and family principles are repeated and emphasised: sex education and the physical changes of adolescence, the approaching social pressures, and other fundamentals that should be discussed. When youāve done this, youāve two things left to do: (1) Assure them you love them and will always be there for them, and that will never change. (2) Pray for them every day. And donāt just pray, have confidence in the power of your prayers: āThe earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful resultsā (Jas 5:16 NLT).Ā
Dealing With The Devil (3)
āIf you are the Son of God, jump off!āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Mt 4:6 NLT
The Bible says, āThe devil took himā¦to the highest point of the Temple, and said, āIf you are the Son of God, jump off! For the Scriptures say, He will order his angels to protect you. And they will hold you up with their hands so you wonāt even hurt your foot on a stone.ā Jesus responded, āThe Scriptures also say, āYou must not test the Lord your Godāā (vv. 5-7 NLT). Notice, Satan will misquote the Scriptures. So when you do battle with him you need to be able to say as Jesus did, āThe Scriptures also say.ā Jesus defeated Satan by using Scripture correctlyāand thatās a secret Satan hopes you never discover. So arm yourself with Godās Word. Load your pistol with Scriptures and keep your finger on the trigger. Notice where this temptation took place: in church [the temple]! āIf you are the Son of God, jump off!ā In church, of all places, Satan will urge you to do tricks, impress others with your service, make a show of your faith, call attention to your good deeds, and manipulate your way into a position of prominence. God has called you to be a servant, not a star. Kneel, donāt strut. āGod opposes the proud but favors the humble. So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honorā (1Pe 5:5-6 NLT). When Satan told Jesus to jump into the arms of God, Jesus refused. Not because God wouldnāt catch Him, but because He didnāt have to prove anything to anyone, much less the Devil. And you donāt either.
Donāt Be A Critic, Be A Cheerleader (1)
āJudge not, that you be not judged.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā
Mt 7:1 NKJV
Parent, you can break your childās spirit by emphasizing what they doĀ wrongĀ rather than what they doĀ right. Church member, you canĀ discourageyour pastor through criticism orĀ encourageĀ him until he enters the fullness of all that Godās called him to be. Why do we choose to be critics rather than cheerleaders? Because itās easier to point out the faults of others than deal with our own! By dwelling on their shortcomings, we feel better about ourselves. But Jesus doesnāt let us off the hook: āHow can you say to your brother, āLet me remove the speck in your eyeā; and look, a plank is in your own eye? Hypocrite!ā (vv. 4-5 NKJV). Think of the person, group, or organization youāre most critical of, and to whom you criticize them. Are you trying to increase your stature in the eyes of others? Are you carrying within you unhealed wounds and unresolved issues, so you vent your anger at anybody who gets in your way? Jesus said: āFor out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth evil things. But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemnedā (Mt 12:34-37 NKJV). Whatās the answer? Pray: āLet the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lordā (Ps 19:14).
God Is Working While Youāre Waiting
āI wait expectantly, trusting God to help, for he has promisedāĀ (Psalm 130:5 TLB).
God wants you to wait patiently for him to answer your prayer, but he also wants you to waitĀ expectantly.Ā Have faith. Trust God to hear and to answer. When you wait expectantly, you show God that you believe his promises. You believe heās going to keep his word.
Daniel Boone, the famous frontiersman, was once asked, āHave you ever gotten lost in the wilderness?ā He said, āNo, Iāve never been lost. Iāve been bewildered for weeks at a time, but Iāve never been lost.ā
Some of you may feel bewildered right now. Youāre bewildered about your marriage: āIām praying for it to get better, but itās not getting any better.ā Youāre bewildered about your career: āDo I go up, down, change jobs?ā Youāre bewildered about relationships. You may feel powerless and hopeless and like you canāt do anything to change your situation on your own. Youāre bewildered.
Donāt be discouraged! Donāt give up!Ā Look up.Turn to prayer. I have had many, many requests in my life that Iāve prayed to God that have never been answered. I can think of one prayer that I have prayed almost every day for 24 years, and it hasnāt been answered. I donāt know why God hasnāt chosen to answer that prayer, and I donāt understand it. But I have decided this: Whether or not God ever answers that prayer, I am going to die believing his promises. Because God is a good God, and he knows whatās best, even when I donāt understand it.
When God doesnāt answer your prayers, you need to remember a couple very important truths. First, God is in control, and youāre not. He knows better what you need than you do. There is no mountain too tall that he canāt move it. There is no problem so big that he canāt solve it. There is no sorrow so deep he cannot soothe it. God is in control, and he has a plan.
The second thing you need to remember is that, whether or not you ever receive your answer, God will honor your patience ā if not in this world then in eternity.
āI wait expectantly, trusting God to help, for he has promisedāĀ (Psalm 130:5 TLB).
What Does God Want While You Wait for an Answer?
āBe still in the presence of the Lord, and wait patiently for him to actāĀ (Psalm 37:7a NLT, second edition).
What does God want you to do while youāre waiting on an answer to your prayer?
Psalm 37:7 says,Ā āBe still in the presence of the Lord, and wait patiently for him to actā(NLT, second edition). God wants you to wait patiently for him to answer your prayer.
Have you noticed that we donāt mind waiting as long as we can grumble while we wait? We donāt mind waiting in the DMV line as long as we can gripe and complain about how lousy and unorganized the government is.
But God says, āBe still.ā
Like little 2-year-olds, we get the spiritual wiggles while weāre waiting for God to answer a prayer. We get nervous and restless. We want to jump up and do something. But God says, āWait patiently. Be still. Watch me act. Donāt get restless, donāt get nervous, and donāt try to take matters into your own hands.ā
And, donāt ever make Abrahamās mistake in the Old Testament of trying to be the answer to your own prayer. It will cause all kinds of problems! One day God told Abraham that he was going to make him the father of a great nation. There were only two problems: Abraham was 99 years old, and he was childless. Abraham looked at his own body and said, āNo way, JosĆ©!ā And he looked at his wife Sarah, who was infertile, and said, āDouble no way! It aināt gonna happen.ā
So Abraham took matters into his own hands and had a baby with his wifeās maid, Hagar. Abraham said, āHereās my answer to prayer! Iāve got a son at 99. His name is Ishmael.ā God said, āNo, no. You missed the point. Thatās not my answer to prayer. ThatāsĀ youranswer to prayer. Iāve got a miracle boy whoās coming, and Sarahās going to be the mom. Youāre going to name him Isaac.ā Isaac means ālaughter.ā When Sarah was told that she was going to be pregnant, the Bible says she laughed because she didnāt believe God.
But God had the last laugh. Isaac was born, and it started an intense rivalry between him and Ishmael that weāre still paying for today. The tense relationship between Jews and Arabs all began because Abraham tried to answer his own prayer request.
Whenever you try to answer your own prayer, youāre asking for trouble. Instead, wait patiently, and watch God act.
Conquering Your Fear Of Intimacy (1)
āThey were both nakedā¦and were not ashamed.ā Ge 2:25 NKJV
Adam and Eve had no secrets from each other. āThey were both nakedā¦and were not ashamed.ā As a couple, God said they had power to rule the world. And thatās when Satan entered the picture. What did he attack? Their intimacy! āThe eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves coveringsā (Gen 3:7 NKJV). The word intimacy means āto be open, transparent, and trusting.ā When Adam and Eve lost that, they started hiding from Godāand each other. And weāve been hiding from each other ever since. Emotional intimacy is the bedrock of any meaningful relationship. Without it, relationships become shallow and unfulfilling. We are afraid of revealing to others our fears, needs, insecurities, secrets, hopes, dreams, weird opinions, or our undesirable parts. And this fear is rooted in the fear of loneliness: āIf you really knew me, youād leave me.ā Or the fear of inadequacy: āYou may be disappointed in me because I cannot fulfill all your expectations.ā Or the fear of losing control: āNow that you know how I feel, you may use it to control me.ā Women play āhard to get,ā and men play the ātough guyā who doesnāt need anybody. Whatās the answer? Learning to pray together. Our most honest moments are before the God who already knows everything about us. When we share such moments the barriers come down, our hearts tenderize toward one another, and we move closer together.
The Father/Son Talk (1)
āMy son, hear the instruction of your father.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Pr 1:8 NKJV
In Proverbs the words my son are used twenty-three times, and the word father is used nineteen times. So itās a letter from a father to his son. Itās also a letter from a father to other fathers, about being a good father. It not only teaches a father how to lead his children, but how to live before them. Interestingly, the letter contains a lot of warnings about the misuse of sex and the heartache it can bring. Weāve all heard the story of the twelve-year-old boy whose dad said, āSon, donāt you think itās time we had a talk about sex?ā The little guy said, āSure, Dad. What do you want to know?ā The sad truth is that today our children are getting their sex education in school, from their friends, from the Internet, and from experimentationābut not at home. Solomon writes, āWhy should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman?ā (Pr 5:20 NKJV). Sex education is the answerāas long as it involves the right teacher, the right classroom, and the right curriculum. And the right teacher is you, Dad; the right classroom is your home; and the right curriculum is the Bible. A study of 10,000 high school students revealed that strong parental values and supervision have the most significant effect on a teenās sexual activity. Parents who had a close relationship with their daughters and supervised their schoolwork and activities, were able to curb the likelihood that theyād ever become pregnant out of wedlock by 42 percent. So Dad (and Mom), speak up. Get involved. You canāt afford not to!
The Principle Of Reciprocity
āGod has heard your prayers and knows about your gifts to the poor.ā Ac 10:4 CEV
Up until this time the gospel had been preached exclusively to the Jews. But all that was about to change: āOne afternoon at about three oāclock, Cornelius had a vision. He saw an angel from God coming to him and calling him by nameā¦āGod has heard your prayers and knows about your gifts to the poor. Now send some men to Joppa for a man named Simon Peterāā (vv. 3-5 CEV). As a result of Corneliusā prayers and generosity, he became the first Gentile to hear the gospel and be saved. What a payoff! God hears the kind words you speak to others when theyāre hurting. He sees your sacrificial giving when you can least afford it. By doing what youāre doing, youāre paving the way for God to help you. Heās storing it all up so that in your time of need youāll have a rich account to draw on. A lady was praying about starting a pet-grooming business but she couldnāt afford to advertise. So she went to her local animal shelter and volunteered to groom the pets to increase their chances for adoption. Interestingly, the harder she worked, the more her own business grew by word of mouth until she ended up with more clients than she could handle. You say, āDoes that mean if I donāt help others God wonāt help me?ā Thankfully, no! Godās love is unconditional. But when you say no to an opportunity to give, you miss out on an opportunity to receive. The principle of reciprocity is simple: When youāre generous with others, God promises to be generous with you (See 2Co 9:6-8).
Knowing Youāve Truly Forgiven Someone
āThey didnāt even smell of smoke!āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Da 3:27 NLT
When King Nebuchadnezzar threw Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego into the fiery furnace, God brought them out and āthey didnāt even smell of smoke!ā Weāve all encountered people who still āsmell like smoke.ā Their attitude says, āIāve been through a hard time, and Iām still upset about it.ā How about you? Have the experiences youāve been through hardened your heart or softened it? When you speak, do you sound positive or negative? Are you bound by the memories of your past? Do you talk about your pain to anyone who will listen? Donāt you see what youāre doingāchaining yourself to the past? When circus elephants are young and unaware of their strength, theyāre bound by a chain to a stake to limit their mobility. Later when theyāre full-grown and have the strength to break that chain, theyāre still bound by it. Why? Because they accept this limitation as permanent! But itās not the chain that binds them, itās the memory! If you are bound by painful and debilitating memories, the word for you today is: āO Lord our God, masters besides You have had dominion over us; but by You only we make mention of Your name. They are dead, they will not live; they are deceased, they will not rise. Therefore You have punished and destroyed them, and made all their memory to perishā (Isa 26:13-14 NKJV). Whatever your haunting memory is, you must begin to declare your deliverance from its bondage. By standing on Godās Word, you activate its power to set you free.
Ten Commandments For A Great Marriage
Honorā¦marriage.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Heb 13:4 NLT
Here are Ten Commandments for building a great marriage: (1) God said, āHonorā¦marriage,ā so remain faithful to one another. Forsaking all others, put your mate before your mother, your father, your son, and your daughter. Your mate is your lifelong companion. (2) Remember, āYouā¦are the temple of God andā¦the Spirit of God lives in youā (1Co 3:16 NLT). Donāt abuse your health with excessive food, tobacco, drugs, and alcohol, and hopefully youāll enjoy a long, healthy life around the people you love. (3) Never permit your business or hobby to make you a stranger to your own family. āChildren are a gift from the Lordā¦a reward from himā (Ps 127:3 NLT), and the most precious gift you can give them is your time. (4) Donāt forget that cleanliness is a virtue. (5) Willingly share all your worldly goods, and donāt make your mate a beggar. āGo all out inā¦loveā¦as Christ did for the churchāa love marked by giving, not gettingā (Eph 5:25 TM). (6) Donāt forget to say, āI love you.ā Even though your love may be constant, your mate never gets tired of hearing those words. (7) Remember that the approval of your spouse is worth more than the admiring glances of a hundred strangers. (8) Keep your home peaceful and in good repair, for out of it comes the joys of old age. (9) Always forgive with grace, for who among us doesnāt need to be forgiven? āBe gentle with one another, sensitive. Forgiveā¦as quickly and thoroughly asā¦Christ forgave youā (Eph 4:32 TM). (10) Honor God, and your children are much more likely to grow up and honor you (See Pr 22:6).
Godās Got Your Back!
āGodā¦will be your rear guard.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Isa 52:12 NKJV
Not only does God go ahead of you, the Bible says Heās āyour rear guard.ā One author writes: āIn Israelite campaigns into the wilderness and across the Promised Land, soldiers had a vanguard and a rear guard. The vanguard was comprised of scouts who went ahead to exploreā¦and suggest a plan to move forward. The rear guard stayed behind to pick up the pieces and insure they didnāt leave anything valuable behindā¦God is my rear guardā¦I keep moving along, like you do, sometimes living at too fast a pace, and doing things incompletely. But God follows up and finishes what Iāve done in a halfway measureā¦If you were to look back, how many tasks would you find incomplete because the urgency of some new task called you away before the first one was finished? If youāve done your best, God will do the rest! Iāve talked to parents about their teenagers. They said, āIf only we hadā¦ā and I gently remind them they did their best. Now they must trust the rear-guard action of God to finish the job, pick up the broken pieces, and mend them into something wonderful and beautiful.ā Has God given you a job to do? āFix your eyes on what lies before youā right now, not six or twelve months hence. āDonāt get sidetrackedā (Pr 4:27 NLT). Thatās particularly challenging in an age of so many distractions. Remember, the strength of the Sender is more important than the strength of the one being sent. The word for you today is: Godās got your back!
Donāt Just PrayāBelieve!
āWhatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Mk 11:24 NKJV
One of the dangers in praying is not expecting God to answer. The Bible says, āWithout faith no one can please God. We must believeā¦God is real andā¦he rewards everyone who searches for himā (Heb 11:6 CEV). The only currency God trades in is faith, and āfaith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of Godā (Ro 10:17). As you immerse yourself in Scripture, faith takes root and begins to grow. And faith is what makes your prayers effective. But what if your faith lines up with Godās Word and the answer is delayed? Keep praying and believing! āDo not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promisedā (Heb 10:35-36 NIV). When a rural farming community was hit by severe drought, the local church called a prayer meeting. Almost everybody in town showed up (interesting how trouble has a way of getting our attention). As the pastor stood before a packed church he noticed an eleven-year-old girl beaming with excitement in the front row. Lying on the pew beside her was a bright red umbrella poised and ready for use. The beauty and innocence of the sight made him smile, as he compared the childās faith with that of all the others in the church. Looking at the congregation, he announced: āThe rest of us came to pray for rain, but she came expecting God to answer!ā So donāt just prayābelieve!
Heās Always A Step Ahead (2)
āHis faithful promises are your armor and protection.āĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ps 91:4 NLT
A vendor at a state fair gave Mavis Gustafson Pigford a free Gideon Bible. She tucked it in her purse and forgot about it. Later as she walked along, a car pulled up, the driver pointed a gun and told her to get in. She writes: āI did as he said. He pulled over and tried to force me down on the seat. I struggledā¦and finally he ordered me out of the car. Before my feet hit the ground, I heard a shot and felt a sharp pain in my side. I collapsed, and the man came aroundā¦took my walletā¦threw my purse at my head and shot it. I felt a dreadful impact. Still consciousā¦I heard the car drive away and I stumbled to a nearby farmhouse. The woman called for helpā¦and as I was rushed to the hospital the police closed in on the drug-crazed driver who attacked me. Before surgery to remove the bullet in my side, my sister came to see me. āDo you know what saved your life?ā she asked. She handed me the Bible from my purse. A bullet was lodged inside, its tip stopping exactly at Psalm 37:14-15: āThe wicked draw the swordā¦to slay those whose ways are upright. But their swords will pierce their own hearts, and their bows will be brokenāā (NIV). Yet another example of how Godās always a step ahead: āHe will rescue you from every trapā¦shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are your armor and protectionā¦he will order his angels to protect you wherever you goā¦The Lord says, āI will rescue those who love meā¦protect those who trust in my nameā (Ps 91:3-4, 11, 14 NLT).
Donāt Proceed Without Peace
āTo be controlled by the Spirit results inā¦peace.āĀ Ā Ā Ro 8:6 GNT
When your thoughts, actions, and plans are approved by God, Heāll confirm it by giving you an inner āknowingā (See 1Jn 2:20). The Bible says: āLet the peace (soul harmony which comes) from Christ rule (act as umpire continually) in your hearts [deciding and settling with finality all questions that arise in your minds, in that peaceful state] to whichā¦you were also called [to live]ā (Col 3:15 AMP). When youāre being led by God, youāll have a sense of peace even in the midst of difficult circumstances. His peace is like a baseball umpire who decides whatās āsafeā and whatās āout of boundsā for you. But beware of false peace. Sometimes your desire to do a certain thing will be so strong that it will actually produce a false sense of peace that comes from your own excitement about the idea. As time passes this false peace will disappear and Godās true will, will emerge. So wait for it. As a rule you should never move too quickly on important decisions. The Bible says, āTo be controlled by the Spirit results inā¦peace.ā So donāt proceed if your inner peace canāt hold its weight against what you think or hear. You donāt have to explain to others why you donāt have peace about it; indeed, sometimes you wonāt know why. Just say, āI feel itās not wise for me to do this at this time because I donāt have peace about it.ā Thereās power in having peace. And one more thing: Once you know that youāve heard clearly from God, do all you can to keep your peace and donāt become anxious.
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Dealing with the Devil (4)
āThe devil took Him up on an exceedingly high mountain.ā Mt 4:8 NKJV
The Bible says: āThe devil took Him up on an exceedingly high mountain, and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. And he said to Him, āAll these things I will give You if You will fall down and worship me.ā Then Jesus said to him, āAway with you, Satan!ā¦You shall worship the Lord your God, and Him only you shall serveāā (vv. 8-10 NKJV). Paraphrased: Satan said to Jesus, āIf you serve me Iāll help you rise to the top.ā When your ultimate ambition is to glorify God, youāre being led by God. But when your ultimate ambition is to glorify yourself, youāre being led by Satan. And heāll appeal to your pride, for pride is at the very core of his being. His fall from the number-two spot in heaven was preceded by these lofty aspirations: āI will ascend to heaven; I will raise my throne above the stars of God; I will sit enthroned on the mount of assembly, on the utmost heights of the sacred mountain. I will ascend above the tops of the clouds; I will make myself like the Most Highā (Isa 14:13-14 NIV). Satan wants to take Godās place, but God isnāt moving. Satan covets Godās throne, but God isnāt abdicating. Satan wants to win you to his side, but God will never let you go. The truth is: You canāt defeat Satan in your own strength, but you donāt have to. The Bible says, āLet usā¦feel very sure that we can come before Godās throne where there is grace. There we can receive mercy and grace to help us when we need itā (Heb 4:16 NCV).
Dealing With The Devil (2)
āStay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil.āĀ Ā Ā 1Pe 5:8
When Jesus fought the Devil in the wilderness, Satan never landed a single punch. Three times Jesus told him, āIt is writtenā (Mt 4:4, 7, 10 NKJV). And with those three solid right hooks, Satan went down and couldnāt get up. Letās look at each of the three temptations. āIf you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become loaves of breadā (v. 3 NLT). Note Satanās twofold attack: (1) āIf you are the Son of God.ā Satan will make you doubt your salvation, your Savior, and your righteous standing before God (See 2Co 5:21). Heāll remind you of all your flaws and failures. Heāll tell you, āThe Christian life is too hard; give up!ā Thatās a lie; donāt believe him. Yes, the Holy Spirit will point out your character defects so you can overcome them. But youāre not saved by your own goodness. āBy grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of Godā (Eph 2:8 NKJV). (2) āChange these stones into loaves of bread.ā Forty days of fasting had left Jesus famished. His stomach was empty, so Satan began with the topic of bread. Where are you empty? Are you hungry for attention, craving success, and longing for intimacy? You must be aware of your weak spots and bring them to God before Satan brings them to you and says, āMeet your own needs. Take matters into your own hands. Leave God out of the picture.ā No, if you could live the Christian life without God, you wouldnāt need Him! Itās the life thatās totally dependent on God that defeats Satanās strategies every time.