10 Signs Your Life Is Too Complicated
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“Life is hard enough, you don’t have to embellish the drama!” – Marianne Williamson When you take a walk down a busy street some time – stop and look around you. Observe. What do you see around you? Zooming cars? Rushed pedestrians? What about their faces? Do they look anxious? Hurried? That’s life. Not only …
In Honor of Mother’s Day, One of My Happiest Memories of My Mother.
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Last Sunday was Mother’s Day in the United States and Canada.
Some people think it’s ridiculous to celebrate holidays like Mother’s Day and Father’s Day – that these are just commercial holidays forced on us by clever marketers. But I think it’s nice to be prompted to think lovingly about your mother and your father, and the mothers and fathers in your life.
The other day, I was contemplating (as I often do) an observation made by my spiritual master , St. Therese of Lisieux, in her extraordinary memoir, The Story of a Soul .
While writing about being blamed for things and scolded for little transgressions in her convent, she noted, “I noticed this: when one performs her duty, never excusing herself, no one knows it; on the contrary, imperfections appear immediately.”
So true, right? You do something perfectly and reliably, nobody notices. You make a mistake, everyone complains.
This is particularly true of parenthood, which involves a myriad of tasks, small but pesky and relentless, that need to be done without fail. “I packed lunch for four years,” a friend told me, “and all I hear about – to this day – is that time in first grade when I forgot to put in my son’s dessert.”
It’s true that parents don’t get a gold star for everything they do right, but often, just hear about it when they mess up. But it’s also true that as my mother once told me,
Here’s an example.
Of the countless times in my childhood when my mother drove carpool or picked me up to go to an orthodontist’s appointment, or wherever, I have only the haziest recollections. All I remember is the time when she was very late picking me up. But this is an important memory.
It was a very snowy day when I was in grade school — fourth grade, I think — and my mother was late. She’s completely reliable, so I was anxious about the fact that she wasn’t there, and I was embarrassed about being left over when all the other kids had gone home, and I was worried about what would happen if she didn’t show up. She didn’t come, and she didn’t come, and finally, I was sent to wait in the library, in the main building of the school, until someone came to get me.
It got later and later. I could feel the building emptying out. Still no sign of my mother. The snow was getting heavier. I was getting more and more anxious.
Finally, I saw my mother coming up the steps to the library, and I had to fight back the urge to burst into tears from sheer relief. I was so happy to see her! She was staggering under the weight of my sister, who was probably four or five years old, both of them covered with snow, and she was slipping around on the unshoveled walkway as she battled her way to the door.
And I thought to myself, “Nothing can ever stop my mother from coming for me.”
I remember that her car had become stuck on a patch of ice, but I have no recollection of what happened next. Did my father come to get us, did the school receptionist give us a ride? I’ve never asked my mother about that afternoon, so perhaps my memory isn’t even accurate. But that’s how I remember it.
And that’s how I think about my mother.
Whatever task you are in, give your full concentration, dedication, and love, as if you were doing it for your most deared friend.
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“Picking the right person for the right reasons at the right time is an art form.” – Dr. Barton Goldsmith Ever wondered why nearly half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce? Relationship experts are all too quick to point out why married couples split – information that may or may not …
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This Booty Call Text Message Works EVERY TIME!
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For a girl to share herself with you, It's important that you make her feel safe and secure with you.
Here is a text message that does this and gets a girl over to your place to be intimate with you.
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How to Recover from Perfectionism
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When we think of perfectionists, an image of super overachievers bravely changing the world with risky new ideas or inventions might come to mind, but for the true perfectionists, this description is inaccurate. Perfectionists tend to pursue goals that they KNOW for sure they can accomplish so the risk is minimal, even if the workload is insane.
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How To Network And Build A Social Circle Of Hot Girls
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Meeting girls through your female friends is an easy way to meet more women without the pressure of approaching them.
Also, when you are friends with girls, you automatically get the "seal of approval" as a safe guy to hangout with and possibly date.
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Am I Living the Life I Would Like to Be Living?
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Life is too precious to spend looking down rather than around, to spend working rather than enjoying. But it seems now our world is constantly throwing at us new ways to miss out on life. New devices and distractions that teach us to look down rather than out. New compulsions to bury ourselves in our work and our daily regimen and forget what really matters. We should take the time to reflect on our lives and our choices. Do my daily actions reflect my values? Am I living the life I would like to be living?
10 Tips for Solving Relationship Conflicts
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Every couple faces challenges — and arguments. This is how the best ones survive.
10 Smart Ways To Respond To A Negative Person
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“Don’t destroy yourself by allowing negative people to add gibberish and debris to your character, reputation, and aspirations. Keep all dreams live but discreet, so that those with unhealthy tongues won’t have any other option than to infest themselves with their own diseases.” – Michael Bassey Johnson,The Infinity Sign Negative people are similar to …
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An "Oddball" Text Message Women Can't Resist
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The death of attraction is predictability. When a girl finds you boring, she loses all attraction for you.
The opposite of being predictable is being intriguing. When a woman finds you intriguing, she also finds you exciting.
Here's a text message that women find intriguing and gets them to text you back.
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The True Reason Why Women Say No To Sex
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In this video, I'm going to cover the 3 main reasons why a girl may not want to have sex with a guy.
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Why Do Men Cheat on Women They Love?
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Infidelity has many psychological sources. But it always hurts a betrayed partner. here are some of ways.
13 Confident Ways to Overcome Your Shyness
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Those who have never suffered from shyness have no idea how debilitating it can be, especially for someone in a professional situation. If shyness is holding you back, learn how to get past it and become more confident.
Shyness can truly hold people back --partly because those who are shy tend to avoid public situations and speaking up, and partly because they experience so much chronic anxiety.
If that's you, take comfort in knowing you are far from alone--four out of 10 people consider themselves shy.
But here's the good news: Shyness can be overcome. With time and effort and a desire to change, it's possible to break through.
If your shyness is severe, you may need help from a therapist or counselor, but most people can overcome it on their own.
Take your first steps in getting past shyness with these 13 techniques to help you become a more confident you.
1. Don't tell.
There's no need to advertise your shyness. Those who are close to you already know, and others may never even have an opportunity to notice. It's not as visible as you probably think.
2. Keep it light.
If others bring up your shyness, keep your tone casual. If it becomes part of a discussion, speak of it lightheartedly.
3. Change your tone.
If you blush when you're uncomfortable, don't equate it with shyness. Let it stand on its own: "I've always been quick to blush."
4. Avoid the label.
Don't label yourself as shy--or as anything. Let yourself be defined as a unique individual, not a single trait.
5. Stop self-sabotaging.
Sometimes we really are our own worst enemy. Don't allow your inner critic to put you down. Instead, analyze the power of that voice so you can defuse it.
6. Know your strengths.
Make a list of all your positive qualities--enlist a friend or family member to help if you need to--and read or recite it when you're feeling insecure. Let it remind you how much you have to offer.
7. Choose relationships carefully.
Shy people tend to have fewer but deeper friendships--which means your choice of friend or partner is even more important. Give your time to the people in your life who are responsive, warm, and encouraging.
8. Avoid bullies and teases.
There are always a few people who are willing to be cruel or sarcastic if it makes for a good punch line, some who just have no sense of what's appropriate, and some who don't care whom they hurt. Keep a healthy distance from these people.
9. Watch carefully.
Most of us are hardest on ourselves, so make a habit of observing others (without making a big deal out of it). You may find that other people are suffering from their own symptoms of insecurity and that you are not alone.
10. Remember that one bad moment doesn't mean a bad day.
Especially when you spend a lot of time inside your own head, as shy people tend to do, it's easy to distort experiences, to think that your shyness ruined an entire event--when chances are it wasn't a big deal to anyone but you.
11. Shut down your imagination.
Shy people sometimes feel disapproval or rejection even when it isn't there. People probably like you much more than you give yourself credit for.
12. Stare it down.
Sometimes when you're scared, the best thing to do is to face it head on. If you're frightened, just stare it down and lean into it.
13. Name it.
Make a list of all your jitters and worries. Name them, plan how you're going to eliminate them, and move forward.
Suffering from shyness shouldn't keep you from the success you are seeking, so try these simple tools and make them work for you--in fact, they're good techniques to try whether you're shy or not.
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Ultimate Guide To Dating After A Divorce
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Today, I talk to Jonathon Aslay, not as a dating coach, but as a man who successfully got back into the dating scene after being divorced.
If you're ever been divorced, want to be prepared, or just want to learn how to successfully navigate the modern dating world, then you'll want to watch this.
He shares a lot of useful tips and insights for both divorced and single men.
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A Note To My Former Self
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Dear Former Self, I write to you from the future, looking out of my window as I write this letter to you now. Life is not perfect, but would you have ever imagined anything like this? You got home late again. You barely have enough energy to eat, let alone catch up on chores. I …
11 Quotes to Remember When You’re Stuck In The Past
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“Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.” – This quote by Buddha is my favorite regarding the past, present, and future – it’s actually one of my favorite quotes, period. Let’s break down quickly what The Buddha was saying here:…
How to Start Feeling Better About Yourself Today
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There is a path to genuine, authentic self-esteem. It starts with these steps.
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How To Pick Up Girls Feeling Confident And In-Control
Many guys feel anxious and scared when they go up to start a conversation with a girl they've never met before.
Here is my 2 step formula for overcoming approach anxiety and developing the feeling of confidence and being in control.
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Surrender: How to Cope With the Unexpected
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So far this year may not have gone according to my plan, but I know it has gone according to God’s plan, which means there are reasons and treasures hidden within these seemingly unfavorable circumstances. Unexpected gifts and surprises have arisen, mostly in the shape of new friends and business connections. These gifts remind me that God has my back and that everything is going to be okay…even in those frustrating times when I can’t see how.
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How To Make A Girl Laugh By Being Funny
Making a girl laugh is the most effective way to make her feel good inside and enjoy your company.
So with me today, is two time Emmy award winning comedy writer Mike Fasolo, to help explain how to make a girl laugh by being funny.
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How To Give A Woman The Most INTENSE SEX Of Her LIFE
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If you can give a woman the best sex she's ever had, you'll be able to connect with her on a level that nobody else ever will.
In this video, I'll share with you some mindsets and techniques that will help you give a girl the most amazing sex experiences.
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My Online Dating Experience
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I want to give you an honest look at the process of online dating and how it compares to my favorite way of meeting women, in person.
So I'm going to share my entire online dating experience from getting started with J Date to trying out mobile dating apps like Tinder.
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Easy Way To Tell If She's Ready To Be Kissed
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When you know a girl is ready to be kissed, kissing her feels natural and you won't get rejected.
And if you can't tell when a girl is ready to be kissed, you could get rejected because you're doing it all wrong.
Here's an easy way to tell if a girl is ready to be kissed.
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How to Spot Dating Red Flags before It’s Too Late
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Dating is tricky business. But you can avoid wasting your time on an incompatible partner by being aware of warning signs that are revealed early on. You can get a decent indication of a person from communication style even before you meet.
7 Building Blocks of a Great Relationship
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So many have a hard time finding and sustaining good relationships. Perhaps, because we have not done the necessary work on ourselves to help us identify the essential qualities.
5 Ways to Avoid Fights With Your Partner
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“Ordinary, the focus of (relationship) fights is an exaggeration of life issues…” – Lynn E. O’Connor Ph.D. Fighting with someone you love is a wretched, sometimes devastating experience that can have serious repercussions on the relationship. Even after the fight ends, remnants of the conflict remain: negative thoughts, low energy, depression, and so on. Perhaps …
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A Sneaky Way To Spot A Gold Digger
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Here are some inside tips for how to tell if a girl you're seeing is a gold digger.
Use these tips to avoid women who pretend to care about you for your money.
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When Life Brings You to the Edge of What You Know, Expand. Go Deep.
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Have you been feeling like you are walking along the edge of a cliff? Like your next step could plunge you into an abyss.
You can’t look down. And it’s too unnerving to stay frozen on this edge. That’s just not an option.
Think about it for a moment. You’ve felt like this before. And in this moment, you’re feeling it again.
Whether the edge is the next leap in your business, your attempt with a new skill (like when I tried the cello), or cracking the code of greater self-discovery, it all has to do with expansion.
Expansion happens at the edges of your known world . It brings you into a new landscape with unfamiliar markers. That, by its nature, is uncomfortable!
Maybe you’re in this place because of an external push from an outside situation. Life has a way of moving, even when you hold on. And you don’t know how things will “work out”.
But you never really know how things will work out, do you?
When this happens to me (and I often find myself at the edge), I see the discomfort as part of my next step. It’s a nudge from the Universe when I’m holding back, and what I really need is to step forward.
Holding back or hiding out may be your first impulse. However, it will not bring you comfort in this new environment. It’s okay to feel uncomfortable, even scared. That makes sense when you are walking along a cliff edge!
But it’s important not to get paralyzed. Or, conversely, not to leap right into action, or dive into planning—doing anything so you don’t feel what you are feeling.
Explore the feeling first. Get curious about it. After all, curiosity gives you space to explore and expand. See what you need.
You might know that you need quiet time. Allow yourself to be truly quiet. Don’t lose yourself in watching TV or reading a book.
What’s important is to work with the expansion. This isn’t the first time you’ve grown into something new. Create space to remember that you’ve been here before. Remember that it has worked out before.
You may bump against old ideas of yourself or of how life is supposed to be. After all, these new experiences are stretching your boundaries, aren’t they? Boundaries are the conditioned, patterned ways of doing and thinking that you learned growing up.
So if you’ve been approaching this in your usual way, perhaps a shift is in order. Claim the freedom to explore, to modify and to experiment.
Start by feeling the ground under your feet and the support that offers. That’s what being grounded means—that the ground will hold you up! You might notice that the quality of your thoughts is different, or you have ideas that surprise you. Hang out with what is new. Welcome these different thoughts. Allow your pictures and ideas to be fluid so that you can discover what lies beyond your edge.
After all, it’s who you are moving into being.
Which by its nature takes you beyond your comfort zone. At some point, you will adjust to the changes . This is where you will feel moved into action.
Go deep. Ground into this new place first. Then know that your next steps are full with the you who you are today.
Where are you now? Where are you headed? Let me know.