In today's digital era, our learning experiences are increasingly influenced by technology. We often turn to platforms like Google or Wikipedia for information, which can make us feel like we have easy access to knowledge. However, this reliance on quick searches can sometimes make us think we have all the answers without deeply understanding the subject. While online sources can be helpful for quick information, reading books and learning from experienced teachers provide a more comprehensive and thorough understanding of a topic. Books and expert guidance offer insights that go beyond surface-level knowledge, fostering a deeper and more holistic learning experience. Enjoy reading always and all the ways
Читать полностью…The decision you are so scared of making, can turn out to be the best decision of your life.
Читать полностью…*Grateful for the guidance and wisdom you share every moment. Thank you for being the inspiring force behind my growth. Happy teachers day to my teachers.*
Читать полностью…Embracing Imperfections
“Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence.” — Vince Lombardi
In our pursuit of perfection, we often overlook the unique beauty that imperfections bring to our lives. Kintsugi teaches us to embrace our flaws and view them as part of our story. Just as a repaired vase with golden seams becomes a masterpiece, our scars and struggles add depth and character to our personal narratives.
Good morning! Today, let's embrace a powerful shift in perspective. I used to believe that true satisfaction was always just out of reach, something I was constantly working towards in the future. This made my present feel like mere preparation for the "real life" I desired, turning life into a waiting room for a moment that would blow my mind.
But I realized it was a trap—the "when-I-finally" mindset.
I thought, “When I finally get a meaningful career, I’ll be happy,” “When I finally buy a house, I’ll feel secure,” and everything will feel better when I finally book that dream trip. I achieved all these, yet I still felt like I was on a hamster wheel. True contentment only came when I let go of the “when-I-finally” mindset.
"Realize deeply that the present moment is all you ever have. Make the Now the primary focus of your life." — Eckhart Tolle
Wishing you a mindful and fulfilling day! Always and all the ways Enjoy Reading.
The Nature of Gossip: A Double-Edged Sword
Gossip, the act of sharing unverified or private information about others, often stems from a desire to feel superior or included. However, this seemingly benign behavior carries destructive consequences. Gossiping not only harms the subject but also undermines the integrity of the gossiper.
“Gossip needn’t be false to be evil — there’s a lot of truth that shouldn’t be passed around.” — Frank A. Clark
A Story: In the bustling village of Salem, known for its tight-knit community, lived a man named Kumar who relished in sharing the latest tidbits of her neighbors’ lives. One sunny afternoon, Kumar overheard a private conversation between two friends discussing a sensitive family matter. Eager to feel important, he spread the story across the village, adding his own embellishments. As the gossip spread, it caused strife and misunderstanding among the families involved. Kumar basked in the attention briefly but soon found himself ostracized, as people began to see him as untrustworthy and malicious. The trust he had once enjoyed was shattered, and he learned a hard lesson: that spreading gossip, even if it contained truths, could ruin lives and reputations, including his own. Frank A. Clark’s words echoed in his mind, reminding him that some truths are better left unspoken.
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Observations Without Judgment
One of the first lessons I learned in NVC was the importance of making observations without attaching judgments. This was a challenging shift from my habitual way of expressing myself. Instead of saying, "You never listen to me," which is an evaluation, I learned to say, "I noticed that you were looking at your phone while I was talking."
Example: At work, instead of accusing a colleague of being lazy with, "You never complete your tasks on time," I began to say, "I noticed that the report was submitted after the deadline."
"The ability to observe without evaluating is the highest form of intelligence." — Jiddu Krishnamurti
Enjoy Reading always and all the ways. Have a great day ahead.
“Magic happens when you don't give up, even when you want to. The universe always falls in love with a stubborn heart.”
Читать полностью…Sometimes the best way to recharge is to unplug. Doomscrolling while avoiding million tasks pending. Shut it all and go for a mindful walk in nature . It's a natural reset.
Читать полностью…“The first half of our life is devoted to forming a healthy ego, the second half is going inward and letting go of it,” Carl Jung.
Читать полностью…There will always be miracles. Only we occasionally fail to appreciate. Every second, minute, hour, day, month, and year, there are bound to be unanticipatedly beautiful moments. Petite miracles are something to rejoice in. These miracles can occasionally arise in the middle of difficulties, trying times, failures, lessons learned, as a kid, as a marriage, or in a variety of other ways. Go into the new year with hope and embrace the journey. Look at everything with joy and pleasure, just like a child. Greetings for the New Year to all of your loved ones.
Читать полностью…There are two types of people: graphite and diamond. Indeed, both are carbon polymorphs with distinct crystal forms but identical chemical makeup. Diamond quickly rose to the surface of the Earth through the Kimberlites, where it formed at higher temperatures and pressures at deeper depths. Conversely, at lower depths and with less pressure and temperature, graphite formed. A certain group of people—the majority in this world—would rather not experience suffering because they dread suffering and choose to remain like regular Graphite. However, there are a select few who are willing to endure the suffering in exchange for little favorable circumstances and who grow resolute throughout this process, emerging as Diamonds. Have fun reading at all times, always, and all the ways.
Читать полностью…When we see things through optimism, obstacles often transform into opportunities. Conversely, dwelling on everything wrong in our life tends to cast a shadow on even the brightest moments. Taking ownership of our thoughts has been a game-changer. As Wayne Dyer emphasised, “You are not stuck where you are unless you decide to be.” It’s a mindset for choosing resilience over resignation.
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It's your road and yours alone. Others may walk it with you , but no one can walks it for you.
Rumi
A Life of Gratitude
Gratitude is a gift we can give ourselves every day. It requires no grand gesture, no monumental change, just a shift in perspective. So, take a deep breath and look around. The world is waiting for you to notice its beauty, to cherish the moments that matter.
In the words of Melody Beattie, "Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more." Let this be the mantra of your life - one filled with appreciation, joy, and wonder. Make every second count by practicing gratitude daily, and watch how it transforms not only your world but the worlds of those around you. Enjoy every second of your life with gratitude always. Have a grateful day ahead.
The Strength in Scars
“Our scars are a sign of our strength. They are proof that we have lived, we have overcome, and we have grown.” — Unknown
Kintsugi encourages us to view our scars not as blemishes to be hidden, but as badges of honor. Each crack filled with gold is a symbol of survival and a reminder that we are stronger in the places where we have been broken.
A Lesson from Nature
In the natural world, trees that endure storms often grow the strongest roots. Similarly, our experiences of pain and recovery make us more resilient. The art of kintsugi is a visual representation of this truth, showing us that our challenges can lead to greater strength and beauty.
Transformative Power of Adversity
“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” — Rumi
Adversity, though often painful, has the power to transform us in remarkable ways. Kintsugi embodies this transformation, turning brokenness into beauty and despair into hope. It teaches us that our struggles are not endpoints, but rather opportunities for growth and renewal.
Personal Growth
A young woman once shared her journey of overcoming a devastating personal loss. She likened her healing process to kintsugi, describing how each step of her recovery filled the cracks in her heart with golden wisdom and strength. Her story, much like a kintsugi masterpiece, became a source of inspiration for others facing similar challenges.
Celebrating Our Unique Stories
“Every experience, no matter how bad it seems, holds within it a blessing of some kind. The goal is to find it.” — Buddha
Kintsugi reminds us to celebrate our unique stories, to find the gold in our experiences, and to understand that every fracture we endure adds to our richness. Our lives, like kintsugi pottery, are a mosaic of experiences that contribute to our overall beauty and strength.
An Inspiring Example
Thomas Edison, after numerous failed attempts to create the lightbulb, famously said, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Each failure was a crack in his journey, but with perseverance, he filled those cracks with the gold of knowledge and eventually illuminated the world.
Embrace Your Golden Seams
The art of kintsugi offers a powerful metaphor for life. It teaches us to embrace our imperfections, recognize the strength in our scars, and understand the transformative power of adversity. By celebrating our unique stories and finding the gold in our experiences, we can emerge from our trials more beautiful and resilient than before.
“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” — Khalil Gibran
So, the next time you face a setback, remember the art of kintsugi. Embrace your broken pieces, fill your cracks with gold, and let your resilience shine through. Your journey, with all its imperfections, is a masterpiece in the making. Enjoy the imperfections always and all the ways. Have a great time ahead.
Kintsugi: The Art of Embracing Imperfections and Celebrating Resilience
In a world that often celebrates perfection, the Japanese art of kintsugi stands as a poignant reminder that beauty can be found in our flaws and strength in our scars. Kintsugi, which translates to “golden joinery,” is the centuries-old practice of mending broken pottery with lacquer mixed with powdered gold, silver, or platinum. The result is a piece that is more beautiful and valuable than it was before it was broken. This art form offers profound lessons on resilience, self-acceptance, and the transformative power of adversity. Have a great day ahead.
Reading: A Portal to Positivity
Books have an unparalleled ability to transport us to different realms, offering perspectives that can shift our mindset. When feeling low or burdened by negative thoughts, immersing oneself in a good book can be a transformative experience.
As J.K. Rowling wisely said, “I do believe something very magical can happen when you read a good book.”
From the pages of inspiring biographies to the wisdom of self-help books, reading expands our horizon, instilling hope and fostering resilience. It allows us to see beyond our current struggles, reminding us that we are not alone in our journey. Through stories of triumph over adversity, we find the strength to overcome our own challenges.
Enjoy Reading always and all the ways.
By using all four components of non-violent communication, we can create a safe and empathetic space for ourselves and others.
Observation helps us communicate what we see and hear without judgment.
Feelings help us connect with others emotionally and build understanding.
Needs to help us identify what we value and what we need to feel satisfied.
Requests help us communicate what we need from others in a clear and non-threatening way.
Even Distant Elephants First Appear Small:
(one minute reading in the morning)
Beware Of Distant Elephants: Imagine a mountain viewed from miles away; it appears small and manageable. However, as you get closer, its true size and difficulty become apparent. Similarly, a project at work may seem simple to someone not directly involved, but those working closely with it understand its complexity and challenges. This philosophy teaches us to consider perspective and proximity before judging the significance of any issue. The philosophy "Even distant elephants look small from far away" suggests that large or important issues can seem insignificant when viewed from a distance or without direct involvement. It highlights the importance of perspective and proximity in understanding the true magnitude of a situation.
They say that in the distance, even giant elephants at first look small. Unfortunately, many small things turn into big things when they actually arrive.
Enjoy reading always and all the ways. Have a great day ahead.
Numerous individuals endeavor to reverse the past, a primary source of much sorrow. Embrace living in the present and strive to craft a brighter future for lasting happiness.
Читать полностью…Life feels like a continuous forward motion — a progression towards an expected end. Between now and then, we go through phases.
Читать полностью…Reminders to Pause and Think:
Time to pause and think. Someone rightly, If you don't make your own decisions, someone else will make them for you. We all want to achieve our goals, we all want to control the end destinations of our journeys. But, by letting others make our decisions, this is exactly what we are forfeiting. How we make that choice matters more. Make decisions like you mean it. Don't get attached to anything. Both the decision and end are having the similar meaning which we can't avoid it. We should learn to think and take decision of our own with a pause and can expect the end of our choice (we had decided). Enjoy reading always and all the ways.
There is no growth in your comfort zone. And there will be no comfort in your growth zone.
Читать полностью…“The first and greatest victory is to conquer yourself; to be conquered by yourself is of all things most shameful and vile.” Plato
Plato’s statement makes great sense, especially if you want a complete life experience. You are the biggest obstacle in your own way. If you can’t control your own mind and emotions, you won’t get far in life. The moment you start giving in to your lower self, it becomes easier and easier to do it again. Over time, you lose control of your life altogether. One of the most significant achievements in life is mastering your own inner demons, fears, and weaknesses.
Enjoy learning always and all the ways. Have a great day ahead.