Not related but…Medical
Every-time I hear a some birthing person (let s be politically correct shall we, isn’t this what a modern women want?) say that men have an easier life than women, I almost wish they had a prostate and experience prostatitis. I have been afflicted but this disease in the past and probably will be in the future, because unfortunately almost all cases (which are not bacterial) become chronic. The toll this disease and small gland has on your life is quite great. The incessant need to pee, the urgency, the feeling of urine stuck in urethra, the pain. The ever present discomfort.The mental side is the worst. I am one of the lucky ones, I get stone hard, but there are some blokes who have lost that ability.I wish to discuss other afflictions which are worse in men than women. Please don’t mention childbirth (men can’t give birth and for women is a choice, because you know, when you have sex the consequence from nature is reproduction;)). So which afflictions are worst in men then women and they are largely ignored in the medical field? Discuss.
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The specific thing that is the pinnacle of "women" for me is something that has been talked about here before -- having to know a woman's body better than she does.
I've gone through this many ways. Some women don't even know how their vagina works or how to make themselves feel good. So they blame the guy. I've told them before -- do it yourself and figure out your body. And their reply "Ew no that's gross."
I had a girlfriend once who blamed me for not having food ready for her in the morning because if you don't eat right after waking up you "get a stomach ulcer." And then she told me to get food for her and said she'd eat any type of bread.
So I went and got a few different types of bread including a croissant. She then complained about not liking croissants. Oh and "morning" for her was actually afternoon because she couldn't keep her sleep schedule normal due to constant napping despite me telling her not to do that.
The complete lack of logic, reason, or any type of rational thinking and insight is both astounding to me and also absolutely terrifying. It's like these creatures are actually fucking insane and cannot formulate a rational thought.
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Australia - Equality before the law
In the Australian state of NSW, judges get "bench books" - a sort of a cheat sheet for use in judgements. One deals with equality & deals with each of the groups to whom judges should dispense equality before the law.
Before I tell you, can you guess who's not on the list?
Table of contents:
1. Equality before the law ............................................................................... 1101
2. First Nations people ....................................................................................2101
3. People from culturally and linguistically diverse backgrounds .................... 3101
4. People with a particular religious affiliation .................................................4101
5. People with disabilities ................................................................................5101
6. Children and young people .........................................................................6101
7. Women ........................................................................................................7101
8. Lesbians, gay men and bisexuals .............................................................. 8101
9. Gender diverse people and people born with diverse sex characteristics ...9101
10. Self-represented parties ..........................................................................10101
11. Older people ........................................................................................... 11101
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How Is Misogyny Systemic Or Institutionalized?
Not the first time I've brought this up, but seeing this disgusting article (https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12591189/Drunk-dental-receptionist-groped-13-year-old-boy.html?ito=social-twitter_mailonline) and how this sick predator is free to walk and re-offend... this only further disproves and debunks the notion of misogyny being in any way systemic or institutional, at least in Western nations. This goes to show how ambivalent so much of society is when it's a female predator who should be punished every bit as harshly as any male who does it.
Do you feel misogyny is systemic or institutional? I feel in the West it most certainly isn't. Not with women always have their needs prioritized and how many bad ones get away with crimes like this.
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Why is it not possible for a man to be a loving housewife? Because women.
In a truly gender-equal society, male housewifery should be an option. However, we live in a society where if a man is working hard outside the home, but happens to be making less money then his wife, she calls him a "man-baby" and a "loser" and divorces + remarries as soon as she can. Never has a man been allowed to get close to his kids with the same opportunities afforded to women. If he tries, then the women is working. She comes home from work each day all angry, resentful, and bitter. The relationship lasts for as long as the man lets her nag him. "your just another child and I'm the only adult here" and "your just another mouth to feed" and "your a ball + chain holding me back from greater success". All of these insults can be found in Hannah Rosin's books, which are about females becoming the "dominant" sex, and she tries to justify women saying these things and normalize it.
She goes on to promoting the Ericsson Method of Sperm Separation, which discards of androsperms while giving femisperms only. She describes it in detail, where an aluminum filter is used as the straining device. She wants girls because girls are "superior". May I remind everyone that Friedrich Wöhler, together with Hans Christian Ørsted, are the original discoverers of isolating pure aluminum? And that Ronald Ericsson only merely discovered a new use for it? And that all three of these guys are men and no women contributed anything to these discoveries? Women have come around only to steal the finished products.
Janice Fiamengo tweeted about Caitlin Moran recently and how Moran was on Rosin's side all throughout a "debate" they where in, although it was staged and they debated nothing, only both agreed with each other at every turn. It was a very thoughtful and eye-opening tweet by Fiamengo, but sadly, she deleted it. Perhaps she fears losing her job. Rosin has connections to and from Stanford, after all. The same university with the research laboratory that spawned the laser.
Last semester my female biology teacher lectured on Ericsson, which was my first introduction to the subject. the process no longer requires an aluminum filter, but has been updated with a laser. A synchronized beam of radiation can isolate and destroy androsperms in a much more efficient and cheaper fashion. So she was talking about the lasers, and giggling all the way, smiling evilly about how more male babies are going to be aborted at the lone-sperm stage. Many women are using this to get only daughters. Nobody wants a son anymore. These lasered-away sons are not counted in the abortion rates. Technically they where never aborted. Only erased. May I remind everyone that Theodore Maiman built the first laser, following the work of Charles H. Townes and Arthur Leonard Schawlow? And that Willis Lamb and Hans Bethe changed all of physics with it? And one of the first uses was the separation of nuclear isotopes? Enriching uranium and removing waste nucleons? How would these men feel that the future sons of the world where to be discarded as simply as that nuclear waste? And when did women contribute anything? They only came around to steal the finished products, as usual...
Rosin also wrote that men are terrible at raising children and cannot be trusted with it. Because they are terrible at everything now, they should be systematically erased. How can a women heartlessly pushing for a full scale androcide and crushing out potentially millions of human souls merely on the pretense of gender, get away with telling US that WE suck at loving kids? We ought to have the right to care for them with OR WITHOUT a women's permission. The abortion/gendercide/androcide stuff makes me physically sick and mentally unwell. An honest dissolution of the Patriarchy should allow men to be even better fathers. But feminism is what stands in our way. Women have always stood in our way. Nagging, "you're doing it wrong" and "you packed her lunch the wrong way" and "you folded his clothes backwards" and yada yada
The invisibility of young men in modern health media. Casual misandry? Or just an accurate reflection of sexist culture in the Australian health and media sectors?
https://www.skynews.com.au/lifestyle/health/vasectomies-on-the-rise-for-young-adults/video/dfc0b0669f31c3050c9fc5cea6f2e182
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at least up until young adulthood, but emotional maturity in particular might still continue longer for men than women in adulthood. It appears even during infancy, so it could be caused by biology but it could be socialization plays somewhat of a role, too, but not the kind of socialization feminists think. We do infantilize women/girls more than men/boys, so we don't force girls to mature more than boys, nor do girls maturing faster than boys have to do with "patriarchy" or sexism. The reason people say girls mature faster is because they do. Feminists deny it subconsciously because they like to infantilize women.
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She’s accused of “having a relationship” with a 13-year-old boy she was counselling. A relationship.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12607473/Payton-Shires-Ohio-counselor-sex-teen-boy-arrest.html
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A kafka-esque nightmare: Saif Khan's $110M suit against Yale University.
https://www.youtube.com/live/lPR-Bnfandg?si=SCmWvLSwkqiH3ylt
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45% of young men aged 18-25 have never approached a woman romantically; study.
https://www.mystateline.com/news/national/almost-half-of-young-men-have-never-approached-a-woman-romantically-study/amp/
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Women less likely to receive CPR for fear of inappropriate touching
You wanted us to leave you alone. The consequences have now started.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/health/2023-10-06/women-less-likely-to-receive-bystander-cpr-than-men/102937012
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I’m depressed because of masculinity crisis
https://youtu.be/AaZeSc9QHGk?si=SdayCZmFcMrKb6Oj
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Body preference, honesty and double standards
If someone might wonder why I posted it here, it's because it's about double standards and double standards does have to do with rights. Written or not.
I need your feedback for an issue. If even here people will tell me I am completely wrong and a hater, it means I am and I don’t realize.
I’ve posted something on other forum and I was practically lynched, then my post deleted.
My post started from the following (fictional) story (most people assumed it was mine even if it stated with « let’s suppose... »). The story :
A woman says she’ll cut her hair short. The husband says she doesn’t like short hair. The woman says she doesn’t care of what he thinks. She comes home later with her hair cut short. She gets pissed off that the man doesn’t compliment her and says it loud.
THIS was my story. My questions were : Does a man has the right to talk about his preferences in a partner’s body aspect ? Does he have the right to keep silent if he doesn’t like changes in a the partner’s aspect ? Does he have the right, if asked about these changes, to say he doesn’t like if the doesn’t like ?
And then I was flooded by a ton of heinous comments, who, to sum up, stated that: a man shouldn’t EVER say his preferences in a partner, it’s offending because this might be judgemental in regards to what the woman wants for herself (and it's somehow like FETISHIZING...). That if a woman does something to change her look who cost her time and/or money, the man SHOULD be appreciative and say how much he loves it (because to a woman IT IS IMPORTANT TO BE VALIDATED). And that if, besides, he is asked, he should find a way not to hurt the woman’s feelings and say he likes even if he doesn’t like.
I a word, a man shouldn’t say what he likes but whatever the woman does he must rush and says he likes it, way to validate her.
That if you marry a woman it’s for her soul and personality, not her her aspect and whatever she decides to do to her aspect, your feelings should remain intact.
Soo – WAIT – we are not talking about a woman getting old or having changes in her body after pregnancy. We are not talking about illness or accidents. Because, I agree, a man who leaves his wife because she is older or has stretchmarks or had a mastectomy etc is not a person – it’s a piece of crap . We are talking about a man who married a woman who is soft, long haired, plump, soft spoken and feminine. And overnight, she decides to cut hair, to become anorexic (it’s an example) to tattoo everywhere and to pierce her tongue and her labia. Because so she wants. And what is the man expected to do ? To say nothing and to love her as much as before, plus to compliment her for her new look because she invested herself so much into it.
And here come the double standards.
My whole life, I have received almost no compliment (as most men). But when I had made questionable choices about my look (unconventional hair or clothes) there had always been women in my family or acquaintances to tell me I look like a piece of crap or even warning me « change me that shirt, it makes you gay, if we are seen together downtown, I don’t know you ».
So if I understand well I have to bend to the tastes of women around me, to say whatever they do is awesome AND SAY IT to VALIDATE THEM, but in exchange I should accept they never validate me and criticize me for my choices.
I NEVER give a negative opinion unsolicited. I NEVER ask for validation unsolicited. But don’t ask me to lie and tell you you look gorgeous if I don’t think so! Just don’t ask. And I won’t tell you. If I find you look great, I'll tell you. If I don't tell you, believe what you want.
What do you think ?
PS – I have even had a heated discussion about me telling my daughter who did a piercing to her nose that I didn’t like it. We laughed, she shrugged and it ended there. My daughter is an independent woman who is not at all deranged mentally (as other online haters) and took it with a grain of salt so five minutes later we were eating a kebab and laughing.
So there's this sub that is against men's rights, this was by far the most misandristic insight about the MRM I've seen so far, imho.
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Why are feminists so focused on sexual oppression?
Almost every argument I hear from feminists online are sexually related.
>"Men are rapists."
>"Men murder women for not adhering to their advances."
>"Women are victims of sexual abuse occasionally." (Of course, by men.)
>"Women are always objectified by men and the media as a whole."
When feminism started, it focused more on the socioeconomic side of the right of employment and choosing who to elect in office, right? At least that's what we're lead to believe the earlier waves of feminism were like.
Now feminism has turned into women being oppressed, usually by sexual misconduct and apperently a plethora of domestic crimes being committed, mostly by men, under the guise of, I'm going to assume, the male loneliness epidemic.
Which by far was caused by female hypergamy and, above all, the dating market being wholefully online and more men suffering in silence, not murdering women because they cannot get their dick wet.
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Tell Me Again How Misogyny Is Systemic Or Institutional?
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12591189/Drunk-dental-receptionist-groped-13-year-old-boy.html?ito=social-twitter_mailonline
The disgusting thing is this is hardly the first instance of this sort of behavior let off the hook for a female offender and will definitely not be the last. I hate how it's such a taboo subject to acknowledge women who commit these sorts of vile crimes against boys and men, and if you do you get branded the usual BS of being a woman-hater, incel, etc. And to hear misandrists with their usual nonsense of systemic/institutional misogyny when women like this get away with these sorts of crimes on a regular basis or are punished very lightly compared with their male counterparts. Unless one's definition of systemic or institutional is to let female offenders off the hook and only ever condemn men, in which case they've got misandry mixed up.
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Joel Pollak, Senior Editor at Brietbart News, says we should save the women of Gaza, but kill all the men even if they are just civilians and have nothing to do with the military.
https://twitter.com/joelpollak/status/1710755010706039082
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Androphobia - the hatred/fear of men
Start using this word everywhere. The constant yelling of misogyny or homophobia is generally androphobia.
Movies that I've thought of or watched recently I think this sub would appreciate: The Hunt, Captain Fantastic, Beau Is Afraid, Nothing to Laugh About, Cyrano, Banshees of Inisherin
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yada!!!
When the Matriarchy takes over and women reign supreme over the land, just know there IS a way to get rid of it. Simply do not give them kids. Do not date women. Do not have sex with them. Do not impregnate them. As with the current economic crises in Japan and in China, caused by a lack of a next generation of children, it is cleat that any economy anywhere can be destroyed automatically when the numbers of the population even begin to falter. Without children, all those women will become nothing, the Matriarchy will collapse, and feminism will never win.
Economically, every rare resource is valuable. Gold and silver where chosen because kings and queens used them as status symbols. Titanium, Cobalt, and Lithium are infinitely more useful, but not as rare. Scarcity is the key. We ought to make sperm a scarce resource. Its the only way they will understand that men are important too. Extremism with some melodrama is the only language a women understands. So don't let these quack doctors like Ericsson get anywhere near you!
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Looking for resources in the PNW
Hi. I'm a dude, married 14+ years. There's a lot going on in my relationship with my wife, and I don't know what to do.
My preference is to work through our issues, she's the love of my life. She's going through some stuff from things that were a part of her life before me, and it's creating strife. Some of our relationship issues are definitely something I can and do take responsibility for. I'm not a victim here, but I'm also not responsible for what happened in my wife's life before me.
I'm worried that she's moved into a state of mind that makes me responsible for things that have happened in her life that aren't my fault.
Men abused her growing up, men groomed her as a young teen, men took advantage of her as a young adult. All of that is a crap sandwich for her, I fully recognize that things have sucjed for her.
We have 3 kids I have no genetic connection to (step kids) and 3 kids I was an active participant in creating.
If she goes full on "I'm better without you" I want to make sure I'm prepared to not be fully taken advantage of in a divorce.
I'm looking for recommendations for marriage counseling in Whatcom County, Washington state if possible. I looking for basic/cheap/free legal advice on my next steps and how to approach "what if" scenarios. Or maybe a recommendation for a great men's advocate lawyer in the PNW to have a consultation with.
It's all a crap situation, I'd much rather work on things in a productive way, but recognize that the world doesn't always see eye to eye with us as men and making sure we're adequately heard and represented.
Any tips, suggestions recommendations or links are greatly appreciated.
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Men aren’t allowed to complain
About anything. Rant over.
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Feminists like to ascribe positive traits to women more up until someone says girls mature faster than boys, which is actually true.
I noticed feminists have been getting very offended at times by the idea that girls mature faster than boys, and often deny it. Hell, this popular feminist on Medium wrote an article about how society "forces" girls to grow up faster and it's "socialized" because girls have to take care of younger siblings or help around the house more whereas boys can "explore the world". Well, in a nutshell, she leaves out the fact that schools punish boys more harshly than girls for the same behavior, give better grades to girls than boys for the same work, and people allow their teenage son to walk out at night more than their teenage daughter. People act overprotective over women and girls, and people often infantilize them. She even says it's used as an excuse to justify age gaps or even someone dating teens, but dating a teen is universally frowned upon. She doesn't seem to realize that people often are more lenient towards women with underage guys. People infantilize women, especially feminists, and feminists believe women have no accountability, which is the real and subconscious reason why they hate the idea that girls mature faster. Why do you think the word manchild is used more than womanchild?
She points out how men and women's brains are actually not different according to researchers. While many researchers are concluding this, some differences can be found. They found that yes, girls mature faster than boys, and then by young adulthood, boys catch up mentally. Even among 12 month old infants: "The studies that were done with children around 12 months old where their moms went in a room with them and they were told not to touch an object," recounts Dr. Brizendine. "The boys would just go right for the object and touch it. The girls would hear their mom's voice, turn around, look at their mom's face, and stop. Boys don't hear the complete tones in the female voice." Thus, it could be inherent if it appears that early. Additionally: "The Newcastle University study showed that girls’ brains mature faster than boys’ brains because their synaptic pruning process finishes between the ages of 10 and 15 years. In boys, however, the process doesn’t end until age 20 to 21." Additionally, girls optimize brain connections earlier than boys. This could be due to environmental pressures that affect boys, like a lack of physical activity, too much digital media, possible ADHD medications, and poor nutrition. Boys are more vulnerable to short-circuiting.
Nonetheless, after after finishing puberty, men reach "emotional maturity" later, by age 43, whereas women reach it by age 32. Also, women's brain abilities stay longer than men's as they get older, and men's brains age quicker and their brain abilities decrease. Men's brains and women's brains admittedly can be found to be similar by researchers, but they incorrectly conclude it's a myth they're different, with some evidence showing there can be some difference. The reasons have to do with socialization, and just as much to do with biology.
So do girls mature faster than boys? Scientific research shows they do,
Male loneliness epidemic
It feels like modern day friendships are soulless and mostly empty. With most friendships being solely online, just exchanging memes and funny videos.
Or maybe we’re missing out on an opportunity to connect with more people than our ancestors even knew existed?
Either way, friendship has never been a more valuable yet elusive commodity than today.
That’s exactly what I discuss in this video
https://youtu.be/9WHV-A6eNLI?si=9fh3t1bZyVWYJTcM
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How do you think male victims of domestic violence, or female crime in general, would be treated under a total feminist government?
Say you had a hypothetical absolute feminist governent.
How do you think male victims of domestic violence would be treated by their police/legal system? What do you think the response would be if women committed crimes, including violence crimes, again men?
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I hate how slavery is blamed on white men and white women's crimes are forgotten.
Feminism in the 21st century controls the media and the narrative and they have managed to "rewrite" history how it suits them. One such example is in regards to slavery. You see feminists hating on "white men" for their historical crimes but they always try to hide the crimes of women.
Call me ignorant or uneducated about history but I learnt today of how women owned slaves, raped them, dehumanized them etc. But what the media will tell you is that it was all done by white men and the women were perfect angels who could do no wrong. Feminists have managed to change reality. And tbf they do the same about modern day issues but I feel like the crimes of women in regards to slavery need more attention.
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I dislike feminists as a group, but not women.
In my old Reddit account, a feminist messaged me and told me I have a sadistic hatred for women. She read my posts from here. I don't hate women, but I dislike feminists as a group. I dislike feminists for being misandrists. Feminists include both men and women.
I have a neutral view of women. I think some of them are good and some are bad. I don't think most women are good because that is unrealistic. Society believes most women are good. I think that is a wrong view to have. We cannot know how many are good and how many are bad. The same goes for men.
As a group, I dislike feminists because I don't know which ones are good and which ones are bad. Some prominent feminists were openly misandrist. For example, Andrea Dworkin believed all sex between men and women is rape. It was pretty clear she hated men. Probably she wasn't getting laid much. Lol
I don't think most feminists know much about their own religion. Anti-feminists know more about feminism because they were feminists before. Feminists support an evil agenda without being aware of it.
I'm not a MGTOW. I don't think avoiding women is the solution. It is definitely possible to find a good woman to marry. People can also be in a relationship without marriage.
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Besides, when she thinks my haircut is shit, she says «dad, your haircut is shit » and we laugh both and I tell her « I hate you » and she damn knows I love her. There were « deconstructionists » who came to insult me and tell that what I did to my daughter was unforgivable, that now she will live with « your hateful remarks in her chair » for the rest of her life and I’m a monster. But grow up, people.
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I've never expected young males to suffer so much about their looks
I've noticed that men nowadays suffer about their appareance a lot, as much as women do, maybe even more, since some women treat average looking men like shit. In the early 00s and late 90s (and before that) it wasn't that common, caring about appeal was a feminine thing. Only women suffered because of their looks. Till social media emerged, then young guys spend a lot of time posting shirtless pictures, comparing to each other. Some women ignore it, while other women put that on a pedestal, only choosing fit guys, rejecting fat or average guys making them resentful toward specially good looking guys. It's something I can't understand, I don't consider this to be a progress. This is an absolute problem, since males are more likely to suffer from body image issues than ever.
Another problem is that at the same time, there is more overweight males than ever. In the past, being skinny was enough for a good status. Just think about James Dean, who was facially beautiful, but his body was just average. He was considered a handsome man, loved by both sexes. Nowadays he'd be totally ignored, because James Dean wasn't a muscular gymbro.
This needs to change. I'm sick of the gym, I'm sick of trying to be a jock. I want to take care about of my facial attractiveness, but I want my body to be accepted as it is. But I just perceive the rest of the guys as vigorexic, which creates an absurd competition. I even deleted my social media accounts to remain realistic.
We should do more cardio sports, and left the gym behind. We should eat healthier but without guilt or shame.
I think we have to blame Hollywood, social networks and fast food for this.
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Arguing with a Misandrist and she quoted this study
Apparently this talks about how women are less likely to be hired than men despite having the same qualifications. The misandrist told me this is proof of discrimination. Can anyone analyze this?
https://www.upf.edu/recercaupf/-/asset_publisher/RVNxhLpxnc9g/content/id/223062374/maximized
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30 or 25 has declined a lot](https://www.businessinsider.com/average-marriage-age-united-states-2019-2). But people don't seem to realize men historically were given bachelor's taxes if they didn't marry long ago and now they could be seen as gay or a child molester. There's even [evidence](https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/15gcuyv/childless_men_are_actually_more_stigmatized_than/) that childless men are more stigmatized than childless women, particularly in "egalitarian" countries.
**The real problems women face:**
* Abortion laws
* Infantilization of women, which feminists often do A LOT.
* Benevolent sexism and the tendency to be super protective of women, which feminists do A LOT when they treat them like damsels in distress or act like all violent women are the victims.
* Less opportunity to get promoted or get certain prestigious jobs such as being a CEO or something. However, when it comes to presidency or other government elections, people were actually just as willing to vote for a woman as man, but women were just less likely to be willing to run for office.
We need to realize most sexism towards women is benevolent, overprotective sexism, and while they can face less opportunities for some things due to social norms (not hatred of women), this doesn't mean we should seriously believe society supports hating or committing violence against women. It's extremely frowned on in our society.
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