Self-respect is the most important marker of a man.
Without self-respect, a man becomes a shadow of himself.
His vision becomes clouded and his thinking becomes small.
Men, protect your self respect at all cost even if it means kicking some people out of your life.
And men who have lost respect for themselves, it okay to start rebuilding.
Never give up on yourself.
And, life is not meant to be planned, it is meant to be LIVED.
Life is happening right now; start living.
When it comes to a woman you like or are in a relationship with, you are always right.
Even when you are wrong, know you’re wrong, get right, but to her, you must be right.
Men,
When you make up your mind to close the door to the past, close it, and never look back no matter how appealing it may seem.
When you meet a lady you like, you should ONLY show interest — not overly high interest.
Until she starts reciprocating by showing that she likes you, don't double up your interest in her.
No woman appreciates a man who is overly interested in her before her interest grows.
That may appeal to her ego, but it gets you nowhere.
You'd just appear to be another guy who validates her just for existing.
Understand, until she starts liking you, there is no liking her — only interest that can immediately turn to disinterest
I’d really like you guys to go for what you want no matter how hard or seemingly impossible.
Because in this life, nothing else matters than knowing God’s clearcut purpose for your life.
Take the risk. Step outside your comfort zone.
Don't limit yourself.
Treat yourself like the most important person in life; cos that's what you are.
Follow your heart and navigate with your head.
Don't take failures and setbacks personally.
See it merely as an opportunity to learn and grow.
As a man, you shouldn't feel intimidated by anyone’s wealth of knowledge.
Cos knowledge doesn't equate to intelligence.
Someone could be intellectually sound, but it does not mean they aren't a fool when it comes to the issues of life.
Intelligence, on the other hand, is your ability to properly respond to life situations as they come.
This is exactly what it means to be wise.
Never because of a woman, compromise your principles.
When you do that, you put a dent in your reputation.
This leads to guilt.
And guilt puts you in the dangerous zone.
If you never try, you’ll never know how legendary you could become.
Take the risk.
Start anyway, anyhow, with whatever you may know or have.
Self believe is all it takes.
Brothers,
It's all good to be logical and calculating in a lot of situations.
But I put it to you that it's also rewarding to follow your heart.
Cos it's only through your heart you can access the divine.
It's the only way to be religious.
Let me tell you, there’s no way to really change your life than to lose your mind.
Your mind which has been programmed to think and act in a certain way.
When you drop the mind and act out of total awareness…everything changes.
And suddenly, you become new — a totally different person.
As regards this post, someone asked, what if she’s your wife?
If you’re married to a woman who has somehow lost respect for you but you’d like to be with her while gaining your respect as the man of the house…here’s what you should do.
First, you need to understand what has caused her to lose respect for you.
If you don’t know this, then it’s impossible to redeem yourself.
In most marriages, it’s usually financial incapacity.
If you can’t adequately provide for her…it also means you can’t protect her on a primal level.
So, getting your money up will fix that.
Another reason a woman would lose respect for her man is probably because he he’s a pushover and doesn’t command respect.
This needs a total psychological overhaul…
The best way to fix this is to make friends with more masculine men.
If you’ve been a beta all your lives…you won’t automatically change when you get married.
When you speak, move, and act differently… your woman can’t help but behave in a feminine and sweet manner.
But here’s the catch, if a woman has started seeing a man who’s more masculine…there’s no coming back.
It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been married, she’s no longer yours and you can never win back her respect.
Men,
It may have happened in the past that you made a girl think low of you.
For that, she has started misbehaving,
Now that you've realized is time to let it go…and take your power back.
Take your power back and stop engaging her
Move on and do better with another girl.
Don't let your Ego put you in a situation where you try to make amendments with one girl.
Not worth it.
You have to maintain a fair amount of distance between you and her.
Physically, emotionally, and psychologically.
You'd be close, yet out of reach.
You’d be worldly, yet otherworldly.
You'd be real, yet unreal.
Look into her eyes and calmly tell her to ”sit down there” like she's 10 years old.
Читать полностью…Did you know that everything you want or need already exists right now?
All that is required to acquire them is to do the work; physically, mentally, Spirituality...
DO THE WORK.
When you’re locked in on your dreams, the naysayers and haters don't matter.
Even the well-wishers and praises too.
It's just you, doing your thing and making progress. 🔥🚀
You need to live life to know life.
A lot of folks go around yapping the nonsense fed to them by their priests, lecturers, or imams.
Fuck that!
Life life, fuck around and find that which is true.
If you’re addicted to anything, I have a simple challenge for you.
Whenever you want to engage in that activity addicted to…just watch.
Bring your total awareness to the activity.
Do it consciously and not mechanically like a robot.
Fucking a girl like you're gonna keep her for the rest of your life is how you lose her.
No matter how good she is, fuck her like a hoe.