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How to develop composure?
Focus on yourself
This might seem wrong to some, but in our situation, we'll have to demonstrate some not-so-great qualities. One of them - egoism.
You have to adopt the principle that you don't owe anything to anyone. This is your life entirely, and you alone decide what, how, and when to do it. This doesn't mean that you should ignore others or not consider their feelings. It simply means that your well-being and your opinion of yourself are more important than the opinions of others. 💪
This will allow you to take life into your own hands and start managing it yourself. 🚀
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What is narcissism? 🤴👸👑
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DISCIPLINE IS EVERYTHING✅
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Always Explain Everything Fully 🗣️
One of our main mistakes in communication is not fully explaining our proposal. We think the other person will understand us from half a word.
For example, you tell your partner in a relationship, "Let's go to the forest this weekend." And they don't want to. Why? Because you didn't decode your proposal.
It's a different story if you said, "Let's go to the forest this weekend because the weather will spoil in a week and the summer will end."
This leads me to one important thought. Always supplement your proposal with additional comments.
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What to read? 📖
Crossing the Chasm by Geoffrey Moore
"I read this book when it was first published and I was a first-time CEO at Cobalt Networks. The book, which focuses on how to bridge the chasms that occur in the transition from a market solely for innovators and early adopters to one that reaches a mainstream audience, proved to be my personal manual for building disruptive companies. For those in management, marketing, and sales at B2B tech companies, this book is a must-read."
--Stephen DeWitt, CEO of Work Market, a freelance management system
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The Lake of the Four Forested Cantons, also known as Lake Lucerne, is one of the natural attractions of Switzerland 🏞️🇨🇭
Located in the canton of Nidwalden in central Switzerland, it is considered one of the most beautiful mountain lakes in the Alps.
One of the most amazing features of the lake is its transparency. The water in the lake is so clear that you can see up to a depth of 15 meters. 😱
Surrounded by majestic mountains and beautiful landscapes, the lake is a popular destination for walks and photography.📷
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Believe in yourself and continuously strive for success!💪🌟
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The Parable of Happiness😊: The Sage and the Unhappy Man.
Once, a sage was walking along the road, admiring the beauty of the world and rejoicing in life. Suddenly, he noticed an unhappy man, hunched under a heavy burden. 😔
"Why do you condemn yourself to such suffering?" asked the sage. 🤔
"I suffer for the happiness of my children and grandchildren," replied the man. 😔👨👧👦
"My great-grandfather suffered his whole life for the happiness of my grandfather, my grandfather suffered for my father's happiness, my father suffered for my happiness, and I will suffer my whole life just so that my children and grandchildren become happy," the unhappy man explained. 😢👴👨👦👦
"But has anyone in your family ever been happy?" asked the sage. 🤷♂️
"No, but my children and grandchildren will definitely be happy!" responded the unhappy man. 😕👶👧
"An illiterate person cannot teach reading, and one cannot raise an eagle from a mole!" said the sage. "Learn to be happy yourself first, and then you will understand how to make your children and grandchildren happy!" 😌🦉
Conclusion: True happiness starts from within. Only when we find our own happiness can we truly guide and inspire others to find theirs 😊✨
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The most expensive car ever sold at a public auction was a 1962 Ferrari 250 GTO, which was sold for $48.4 million in 2018 🚗💰
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Don't Waste Your Time⏰
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The Fable of the Tortoise and the Scorpion🐢🦂
Once upon a time, the Scorpion asked the Tortoise to carry him across the river. The Tortoise refused, but the Scorpion managed to persuade her.
"Well, alright," agreed the Tortoise, "but promise me you won't sting me."
The Scorpion gave his word. The Tortoise then placed him on her back and began to swim across the river. The Scorpion sat quietly throughout the journey, but just as they reached the shore, he stung the Tortoise. 😡🦂
"How dare you, Scorpion? You gave your word!" cried the Tortoise. 😡🐢
"So what?" calmly replied the Scorpion. "Tell me, why did you agree to carry me across the river, knowing my nature?" 🦂🤷♂️
"I always strive to help everyone; it's just my nature," replied the Tortoise. 🐢❤️
"Your nature is to help everyone, and mine is to sting everyone. I did exactly what I always do!" 😈🦂
Conclusion: When you bring unreliable and dishonest people close to you, don't be surprised or complain if they betray you. That's their nature. If you have doubts about someone, keep your distance. Don't let them into your life or your affairs. 🤝
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Here is an approximation of how Saturn would appear if it were at the same distance as the Moon 🪐🌕
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Don't stop, achieve your goals!🤓
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What to see on the weekend? 📺
Slumdog Millionaire (2008)
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Don't let yourself be interrupted 🚫
Among my acquaintances, there's a misconception that it's rude to continue speaking when you've been interrupted. That's not the case. What's wrong is to fall silent and let the person who interrupted you continue speaking. By doing this, you're disregarding your own ego and giving others the impression that what you're saying isn't important enough to be heard to the end.
So nip such situations in the bud. If you're interrupted, just keep speaking, and when you're done, give the floor to the person who tried to interrupt you. This way, you'll demonstrate control over the situation and elevate your authority – people will start interrupting you less often. 💪
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Your true strength is demonstrated by how you handle life's challenges✈️
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After receiving a strong strike from a flint, the annoyed rock asked its offender, "Why did you attack me like that? I don't even know you. You must be mistaking me for someone else. Please, leave my sides alone. I don't harm anyone." 😠
"Don't get angry without reason, neighbor," replied the flint with a smile. "If you have a little patience, soon you will see the miracle that I will extract from you." 😊🔥
Upon hearing these words, the rock calmed down and patiently endured the strikes from the flint. Eventually, fire was ignited from within the rock, capable of performing true miracles. 🔥✨
Thus, the rock's patience was rewarded according to its merits. 🙌
This fable is told for those who initially feel timid in their studies. However, if they arm themselves with patience and show diligence, the seeds of knowledge sown will undoubtedly yield fruitful results. 📚🌱🌟
The root of learning may be bitter, but the fruit is sweet🌿🍎😊
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"Bees cannot see you if you are not moving" - This is a FAKE and widespread myth🚫
Bees have well-developed vision and can detect both movement and stationary objects in their surroundings. 🐝👀
Bees rely on various factors for orientation, including vision, scents, and other sensory perceptions. They have enough sensitivity to notice stationary objects or people, even if they are not moving.
However, when encountering bees or other insects, it is important to remain calm and avoid displaying aggressive behavior to avoid drawing their attention.
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Be strong in tough times and confident in yourself in any situation🔥
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What to see on the weekend? 📺
12 ANGRY MEN (1957)
"12 Angry Men" is a gripping courtroom drama film that explores the deliberations of a jury in a homicide trial. Set almost entirely within the confines of a jury deliberation room, the film depicts how twelve jurors must decide the fate of an 18-year-old defendant accused of murdering his father.
The jury appears to be faced with a clear-cut case, with evidence heavily against the defendant, and an initial vote results in almost unanimous guilty verdict. However, Juror No. 8, played by Henry Fonda, stands alone in his insistence that there's room for reasonable doubt.
As the room becomes increasingly heated, each of the jurors' personalities, backgrounds, prejudices, and personal demons surface, influencing their judgment. Through thought-provoking dialogue and emotionally charged exchanges, the film underscores the importance of personal responsibility and the dangers of hasty judgments.
"12 Angry Men" is a powerful exploration of justice, bias, and the human condition, which remains relevant to contemporary audiences.
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Countering Comparison Manipulation 🚫
What to do when someone tries to compare you with someone else?
As with any manipulation, the main thing is to stay calm and not show your interlocutor that their words are bothering you. Getting you emotional is their goal.
Simply tell the manipulator: "There's always someone better than us, but for me, it's a reason to strive for development, not a reason to compare myself with others".👍
In a slightly philosophical way, you're showing that you're not interested in someone else's life, you're busy with your own (unlike your interlocutor).
This is a great technique to put someone in their place.
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How miscommunication happens and how to avoid it? 🗣️🤷♂️
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STOP BEING LAZY🦥
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Establishing psychological contact using Special Techniques 🤝
Oh, how skillfully some investigators can win over their interlocutor, especially for testimonial evidence. Thanks to their work, many perpetrators reveal details of their actions.
To do this, start a conversation that poses no threat to the interlocutor - a conversation in the territory of their freedom. Everyone has a topic they can talk about endlessly.
If you are lucky enough to learn about your interlocutor's hobby, steer the conversation towards it and just listen.👂
By doing this, you'll emphasize your human interest in them and eliminate the feeling that you're merely using their services.
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Why do people have different skin colors? 👩🏻👨🏽👱🏾♀️🧑🏿🦱
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The 'Exit Strategy' Tactic 👣
First, paint a picture of the world for your interlocutor based on the current situation, exaggerating a bit, and then propose a way out of the situation that has arisen.
The person will feel joy and gratitude for being shown a way out, and under the influence of this emotion, they will accept it. You will evoke trust in them and create a sense of obligation towards you.
For example:
– 'You just raised your voice at me. I could have responded in kind. But I think it would be better to stop expressing emotions and move on to more constructive negotiations.' 🗣
This tactic works flawlessly. It can be used in any negotiation.
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What to read? 📖
Double Your Profits in 6 Months or Less by Bob Fifer
"This book was the most impactful on my career. Other than a small section on technology (that I don't fully agree with), the book is a blueprint for how an effective and efficient business should be run. Fifer's teachings are ingrained in nearly all of TransPerfect's business systems, and he has personally come and participated in training conferences with our senior management team."
--Phil Shawe, co-CEO and founder of TransPerfect, a translation and content management company
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Manarola is a small town located in northern Italy, renowned for its breathtaking views 🇮🇹🏞️🌊
The town is characterized by its vibrant and colorful houses tightly clustered on a steep cliff that descends into the sea.
The picturesque setting of Manarola makes it a popular destination for tourists seeking stunning coastal scenery and a charming, traditional Italian atmosphere.
Visitors can stroll through narrow, winding streets, admire the pastel-colored buildings, and enjoy panoramic vistas of the sparkling waters below.
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You Become Rich🤑
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