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🕰️ Patience 🕰️
Once, a millionaire was asked:
🤔 "What's the secret to your success?"
He replied:
👴 "It's patience, my friend."
His interlocutor said:
🤔 "But I can name plenty of areas where that doesn't work."
The millionaire asked:
🤨 "Like what?"
The person replied:
😄 "Well, for example, carrying water in a sieve, no matter how much you carry, it won't hold!"
The millionaire disagreed:
🙃 "You're mistaken. You just have to take the sieve and wait for winter!" ❄️
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🌙 What Not to Do Before Bedtime 🛌
❌ Don't Hash Out Relationship Issues
It's more productive to address conflicts in the morning. If you decide not to go to bed until you resolve a conflict, you'll likely have trouble sleeping after the emotional upheaval. It's better to tackle these discussions when well-rested. 🙅♂️💔
❌ Avoid Intense Exercise
Save your workouts for the earlier part of the day; they can help you sleep better at night. Evening workouts may not be ideal for sleep quality, as they can be stimulating. 🏃♀️🚫
❌ Stay Away from Social Media
Visiting social media platforms before bedtime can trigger stress hormones. While checking messages before sleep may seem harmless, it can interfere with your ability to get a good night's sleep. 📱😫
❌ Don't Use Your Phone in Bed
Your bed is meant for sleep and intimacy. If you respond to work emails or messages under the covers, you're conditioning yourself to view the bed as a workspace. Responding to colleagues' emails late at night also sets the expectation that you're available at all hours. 🛌📬
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😄 Joy 😄
An elderly man and his 25-year-old son entered the train car and took their seats. The young man sat by the window.
As the train started moving, he stuck his hand out of the window to feel the rush of air and suddenly exclaimed in delight:
🚆 "Dad, do you see, all the trees are going backward!"
The elderly man smiled in response.
Next to the young man, there was a married couple who were a bit puzzled by the behavior of the 25-year-old acting like a little child.
Suddenly, the young man exclaimed in excitement once again:
🌳 "Dad, look, the lake and the animals...the clouds are moving with the train!"
The couple awkwardly observed the young man's peculiar behavior, which his father seemed to find nothing strange about.
Then, it started raining, and raindrops touched the young man's hand. He overflowed with joy once more and closed his eyes. Then he shouted:
☔ "Dad, it's raining, the water is touching me! Do you see, Dad?"
Wanting to be of some help, the couple sitting nearby asked the elderly man:
🤔 "Why don't you take your son to a clinic for a consultation?"
The elderly man replied:
👴 "We just came from the clinic. Today, my son has seen the world for the first time in his life..." 🌍❤️
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🌟 Transform Your Life with These Healthy Habits! 💪
💧 Hydrate Yourself
Start your day by drinking a glass of warm water with lemon if your stomach can handle it. Lemon juice contains vitamin C, which aids in weight loss, supports digestion, and clears the skin. Throughout the day, it's advisable to keep a water bottle handy to prevent dehydration. 💧🍋
🧘♀️ Meditate
Meditation calms the mind, improves circulation, and stimulates brain function. If you're experiencing workplace stress or a hectic week ahead, try dedicating at least 10 minutes a day to meditation to help your mind "slow down." It's best to meditate either in the morning to set a positive tone for the day or during a short break after noon. 🧘♂️☮️
🏋️♀️ Exercise or Stay Active
Physical activity not only burns calories but also boosts mood and energy levels. Any level of physical activity is beneficial for your lungs, heart, and joints. To start, simply get up and walk around your home or office. 🚶♀️🏋️♂️
😃 Smile
Don't let a bad morning mood ruin your entire day. Look in the mirror and say something encouraging to yourself that will make you smile. Remember, a smile is contagious, so infect yourself with a good mood. 😁🌞
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🌟 Before and After Enlightenment 🌟
Once, a Zen master was asked:
🤔 "What did you usually do before becoming Enlightened?"
He replied:
🌳 "I used to chop wood and carry water from the well."
Then, they asked:
🤔 "And now, after you've become Enlightened, what do you do?"
He answered:
🌊 "What else can I do? I still chop wood and carry water from the well."
The questioner was naturally puzzled and inquired:
🤔 "What's the difference then? Before Enlightenment, you did this, and after Enlightenment, you're doing the same thing. What's the distinction?"
The master chuckled and said:
😄 "The difference is significant. Before, I had to do it, and it felt like a duty, something I had to do reluctantly, forcing myself. I did it because I was told to do it; my teacher ordered me to chop wood, so I chopped. But deep down, I resented it, even though outwardly I said nothing.
Now, I simply chop wood because I know the beauty and joy connected to it. I fetch water from the well because it's necessary. It's no longer a duty; it's my love. I love the old man. It's getting colder, winter is approaching, and we'll need firewood. My teacher is growing older every day; he needs more warmth. It's essential to keep his dwelling well-heated. It's out of this love that I chop wood. Out of this love, I fetch water from the well. Now there's a significant difference. No reluctance, no resistance. I just respond to the moment and the current necessity." 🌲💧❤️
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🤗 How to Connect with Anyone
Accept people as they are 🙌
🤝Accepting someone means not judging them. Feel the difference between "acceptance" and "praise" – they are different things. Praise is always nice, but it's based on a system of evaluation. And what you praise today, you might criticize tomorrow.
In acceptance, you allow another person to express their individuality. Acceptance means creating an atmosphere where a person can be themselves and not worry about being judged by you (whether the judgment is good or bad). Acceptance fosters deep, trusting relationships that last a lifetime.
Keep categorization to a minimum 🔼
🌗 People tend to see things in black and white. It helps them navigate space and make decisions without self-doubt. But there's a difference between making independent, responsible choices and wanting to label everything and everyone as "bad" or "good." A categorical judgment won't yield the desired result if you want someone to open up to you.
🤝 Unite with others in a positive way.
👥 Coming together based on a positive trait is a powerful tool for building strong friendships and partnerships. For example, "We were chosen to work on this project together for a reason. You and I are strong professionals, and together, we'll create an amazing product." This is an example of uniting based on a positive trait.
🚫 Never criticize what someone identifies with.
🙅♀️ Under no circumstances should you judge someone else's children, spouse, parents, or beloved pet. What people are deeply attached to is not just valuable to them; it's a part of who they are, their identity. This rule is especially important when someone complains about their spouse or how poorly their child is doing in school.
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The Parable of the Peach 🍑
The teacher of Sufi wisdom always told a parable at the end of each lesson, but the students didn't always understand its meaning...
"Teacher," one evening a student addressed him, "you tell us stories but don't explain their significance."
"I apologize for that," the teacher replied. "Allow me, as a token of recognition of my mistake, to treat you to a delicious peach."
"Thank you, teacher," the student joyfully replied.
"I would like to do something nice for you and peel this peach myself. Do you mind?"
"Thank you very much," replied the student.
"Do you want me to cut it into pieces for you to make it easier to eat?"
"Of course... But I don't want to take advantage of your generosity, teacher."
"It's not taking advantage, as I am offering. I just want to make it nice for you... How about if I chew it for you before you receive it?"
"No, teacher. I don't want you to do that!" the surprised student replied. The teacher fell silent.
"If I were to explain the essence of every story, it would be like offering to chew the fruit for you." 🍑🙏
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6 morning habits that can help you on your journey to wealth 💰
1️⃣ Adequate Sleep 😴
Getting the right amount of sleep is crucial for productivity 😴
2️⃣ Physical Exercise 💪
Discipline is key, and sometimes you have to do exercises you don't enjoy. Get out of bed when you'd rather stay in, work on Saturdays when your friends are having fun, and prioritize routine over video games. 🏋️♂️
3️⃣ Brain Training 🧠
Don't just work out your body, exercise your mind too. After your physical training, engage in meditation to improve focus and find inner peace. 🧘♂️
4️⃣ Creativity 🎨
Meditation can inspire creativity. Use it as a springboard for tackling complex problems that demand calm and concentration. Fresh ideas and innovative solutions often arise during this time. 🤯
5️⃣ Reading 📚
Try to read or listen to books every day – while brushing your teeth, getting dressed, cooking, or during your commute. 📖
6️⃣ Prioritize Your Tasks 📝
Start each workday by reviewing your task list and aim to complete tasks as quickly as possible 📊
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Dream of Wings 🕊️
Once, a hunter loved to go into the woods and fields in search of prey. One day, he climbed a high mountain, tirelessly tracking an animal, and, tired, sat down on a big rock to rest. Seeing a flock of birds flying from one height to another, he began to think, "Why didn't God give wings to humans so they could fly?"
At that moment, a humble hermit passing by heard the hunter's thoughts and said to him:
"You're thinking that God didn't give you wings, but even if you were given wings, you still wouldn't be content. You would say, 'My wings are weak, and I can't fly high enough to see what's up there.' If you were given strong wings to reach the heavens, you would still be dissatisfied and say, 'I don't understand what's happening here.' And if you were given intelligence, you would once again be discontent and say, 'Why am I not an angel?' And if you became an angel, you would still be unhappy and say, 'Why didn't God give me dominion over the sky?' And even then, you wouldn't be satisfied and, like someone else, audaciously seek something more. Therefore, always humble yourself and be content with what is given to you, and then you will live with God."
The hunter realized that the hermit spoke the truth and thanked God for sending him a monk who enlightened him and showed him the path of humility. 🙏✨
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🔍 How to Stay Focused at Work.
❌ Disconnect.
Can't concentrate on important tasks? It might seem absurd, but then don't even try. People who know how to "disconnect" their minds handle complex tasks more successfully than those who let their brains decide when to work and when not to. Take control of the process. Decide for yourself when you need maximum concentration and when you can relax and disconnect. And don't feel guilty about it – these switches can actually make your work more effective. 💼🧘♂️
🧘♀️ Take a Break.
When you urgently need to get something done, taking a break is the last thing that comes to mind. But everyone needs a short break. We can focus on a task for a maximum of 90 minutes, after which a 15-minute break is necessary. Even a very short break, just a few seconds, can help – as long as you don't think about the current task. You can look out the window, do some simple arithmetic, or, even better, take a walk, do some stretching, or meditate. 🌿🚶♂️💆♀️
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What's the Most Important Thing to Develop Within Yourself? 🤔
Once, a traveler came to the Teacher. He sat down at the table across from the Teacher and silently watched as the Teacher read a book.
"What do you want?" asked the old man.
The guest timidly said, "Oh, Great Teacher! I have walked for many months to meet you here and ask just one question: 'What is the most important thing to develop within oneself first and foremost?'"
"I don't know myself," the Teacher replied with a smile, "but it seems to me that it's the brain."
"Why 'the brain,' Great Teacher? What do you mean?" the guest inquired.
"Firstly, don't call me 'Great,'" the old man said. "And secondly, if you used your brain and not your legs, you wouldn't have walked for so many weeks. You would have written a letter." 🧠✉️
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🌟 Steps Towards Your True Self 🌟
Embracing your past, working with emotions, and discovering what truly interests and matters to you – the journey to yourself is never easy. But the desire to move forward should be fueled by the thought that only by conquering this path can you truly connect with your present self. Strive for self-realization! 😊🚀
🤔 To get closer to understanding yourself, it's worth reflecting on four aspects of your professional life:
talent (what you excel at), passion (what you love to do), necessity (commitments you have to consider), and purpose (whether your work aligns with your beliefs).
💭 By analyzing these factors in relation to yourself, you can find one or more areas where they all intersect. If you manage to do this, you'll derive immense satisfaction from the alignment of your desires and reality, your inner world and practical activities. 🎯🙌
😢 Emotions often express unmet needs:
the need to be understood, recognized, respected. Emotions should be taken seriously, treated as messages that need decoding. 🧐💌
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Here, Everyone Goes Barefoot 👣
A wealthy industrialist involved in the footwear industry decided to expand the market for his products. To do this, he sent two experts to African countries to study the market and draw necessary conclusions.
After some time, the first expert sends a fax: "I hasten to inform you that the market is hopeless! Everyone here goes barefoot!"
Following that, a fax arrives from the second expert: "I hasten to inform you that the market is simply splendid! Everyone here goes barefoot!" 😄
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🙅 Toxic Colleagues 🙅
Who's Poisoning Your Office Life? Let's talk about a few types:
😁 Chatterboxes: The office would be a dull and oppressive place if it weren't for those you can share stories about your child's success, your husband's gift, or last night's club outing with. But there are those who don't stop at that. They're ready to talk incessantly about themselves, the weather, traffic, and share the "latest news" about the boss and colleagues. They monopolize your time, disrupting work and life. It's best to set clear boundaries with these chatterboxes and keep your distance.
🧐 Know-It-Alls: They have an answer for everything: "It's elementary! How can you not know this?" They look down on you and are so self-assured that sometimes you feel like you're really "missing something." Even if they're wrong (which happens quite often), they'll never admit it. It'll be your mistake, not theirs. Stay away from such people. They'll never treat you as an equal, and at best, you can aspire to be their lackey.
😴 Procrastinators: They're ready to do anything but work. With them, you never know if the work will get done. They constantly distract you and others from tasks at hand.
😢 Victims: They're in a constant state of fear, self-pity, suffering, submission, and occasionally, they stage protests. Playing the victim is highly beneficial for them. On one hand, they get sympathy from colleagues, and on the other, they avoid taking responsibility for their work, blaming circumstances or others.
😈 Instigators: Peace and harmony aren't their thing. They always have to scheme and pit one against another. Dealing with instigators is a waste of time – they're too busy with corporate warfare. If you gather the courage to point out their flaws or criticize their work, they'll unleash tons of bile on you. Don't engage with instigators. They're entirely ineffective as team players, and their schemes undermine the efficiency of other employees.
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The Bird 🦜
A bird perched on a tree is never afraid that the branch will break because it trusts not the branch but its own wings. Always believe in yourself. 🌟💪
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DISCIPLINE YOUR BRAIN
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The Banking System Scam Exposed
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WHEN LIFE BREAKS YOU
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Sharks Make Three Identical Offers
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DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME
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Mark Cuban Robbed Someone's Car!?
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Elon Musk Shuts Down Reporters Question
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YOU'VE COME TOO FAR TO QUIT
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"Why Tesla Is Better Than Mercedes-Benz!"- Elon Musk
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DISCIPLINE YOURSELF
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Ye Wants To Buy His Own Bank!
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Worst Deal On Shark Tank
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BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
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