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ɪɴᴠɪᴛᴇ ʏᴏᴜʀ ғʀɪᴇɴᴅs sʜᴀʀᴇ & sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ us ©Nov 17/2021
You are meant to change. You are meant to change your mind. You are meant to change your perception. You are meant to change what you think you want within this world. You are meant to evolve, you are meant to adapt, you are meant to grow. You are meant to shed old layers.
You are meant to let go. The body is designed to digest and metabolize and renew itself, cell by cell, and thought by thought. Trust the process. Realize that we don't ever really have to let go; we just have to accept what's already gone.
We don't have to grieve what we think the world took, but to remember that whatever beauty we grew within our lives is still within us— and wherever we go, and whatever we do next, we will grow it there, too. Everything that's truly meant for you will be waiting for you on the other side, because everything that's truly meant for you is still within you. It always has been.
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Take responsibility
Of course, you in the present are the result not only of your choices and decisions, but also of your parents. However, childhood is over, it cannot be changed. This means that you should not look for those to blame, but take responsibility for your life into your own hands. Understand and accept that the past and some circumstances that were beyond your control cannot be changed. This way you will stop fighting with yourself, and you will be able to begin to change smoothly, carefully towards yourself. After all, internal conflict does not solve problems.
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"You can still be the person you want to be, my love. Mistakes, setbacks and bad days do not erase your progress. No matter how tough life might seem at the moment, remember that you are still rising despite the weight. Bad days do not make you a bad person. Accept them as they come, let yourself feel and then learn from them. A difficult time does not take away your growth - difficult times actually help you become the person you are meant to be. You are doing such a great job."
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We fall in love with 3 people in our lifetime:
First love: This love happens at a young age. you eventually grow apart and call it quits over silly things. you may get older and look back and think it wasn't love, but it was.
Second love: The hard one. you get by hurt in this one. this love teaches us a lesson and makes us stronger. this love includes great pain, lies, betrayal, abuse, drama and damage. this love makes us realise a lot of things and makes us grow.
Third love: This love comes blindly. no warning, creeps on you silently. you don't go looking for this love, it comes to you. you can put up any wall and it will be broke down. you'll find yourself caring about this person without trying. they look nothing like your usual crush types, but you’ll get lost in their eyes. you want marriage and family with them. you thank the universe for them. you truly love them.
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There is so much life after this season of hurt. There are so many good things to experience going forward. You won't be here in the pain forever, and you won't feel like this forever. There are cities to travel to. Friends to make. Countless books whose pages are just waiting for you to turn them. New people to explore the world with. New people to love. There are beautiful days filled with sunshine where you will wonder how you can feel so alive. There are rainy days where you will take comfort in a hot cup of tea and a poem that hugs you. There will be opportunities. Growth. Stillness. There is music you haven't danced to yet. There will be deep laughter you can't even imagine right now. Lazy days where you stay in bed and luxuriate in the quiet. And days full of adventure that will leave you breathless and exhilarated. There will be new levels of you to meet. Each extraordinary one waiting under a layer you need to strip back. Keep going. There is an abundance of life for you to live.
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Forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for the ways you've hurt yourself, and the ways you've let others hurt you too. Forgive yourself for not knowing better, not doing better, not being better. Forgive yourself for letting people who were wrong stay too long and take too much. Forgive yourself for not knowing how much love you deserved, how strong you can be, and what splendor you are. Forgive yourself for not seeking what should be yours because you didn't believe it could be yours. Forgive yourself for judging your tears, your pain, your grief. Forgive yourself for constantly going back to the ones who made your life darker and overlooking how much you truly are worth. Forgive yourself for putting everyone else above you and putting yourself last. Forgive yourself for not celebrating every form of yourself that was a stepping stone to who you are today.
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You will have to learn how to outgrow some things you love. You will have to learn that some things are right for a time, but not forever. You will have to learn that moving on from them does not diminish the place they held within you, the importance they have to you, or the impact they had on you. You will have to learn that if you are not growing, you are not really living. If you are not moving on from anything, you are not moving toward something. You will have to learn how to let go of some things that are still beautiful, because you know that they are not quite right, because you know that a deeper peace is waiting. The people, places and things that phase in and out of your life come to you for a specific purpose, and once their mission is complete, you are able to move onto the next experience. You will have to learn that the very act of letting go is not a failure, but a signal of completion: one of the truest signs that you are evolving as a human being.
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You are not the sum of your heartbreaks. You are not a quilt sewn together from pieces of the people who have hurt you. You are not traces of the ones who left, nor shards of what has cut you. Your heartbreaks have happened to you, but they are not you. You are something else. You are the summation of every time you have risen. You are the totality of each and every time you have chosen to take a step up and a step forward after falling. You are the climb. You are the conquest over what you have left behind and faith in what you know lies ahead.
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It’s important that what thoughts you are feeding into your mind because your thoughts create your belief and experiences. You have positive thoughts and you have negative ones too. Nurture your mind with positive thoughts: kindness, empathy, compassion, peace, love, joy, humility, generosity, etc. The more you feed your mind with positive thoughts, the more you can attract great things into your life.”
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When the night comes, tell to your tired soul now it's time for us to take rest & worry less.
When the night comes,close your eyes fast to be lost in your own fantasy.
When the night comes, promise yourself I'm the same but not my tomorrow.
When the night comes,rewind your times maybe with tears but not with fear.
When the night comes, it's all gonna be alright, so have a good night.
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You're gonna realize one day that my love is different. That my love is special that I'm special and that this is worth fighting for. That I'm worth fighting for. My love for you goes far beyond just your beauty. It runs deep in my heart and in my soul. I love you for everything that you are. I love everything that makes you.You're gonna realize that my words aren't just spoken that they're meant. That when I tell you I love you, when I say I'm here, when I say I will fight for you, and when I say you have me that it is real. So don't tell me "Let go. Forget, hate me, give up. Do better, you deserve better." because you know I won't. I tell you how I feel, I remind you how I feel and I try to show you every day, every chance I get. So stop pushing me away, stop telling me to walk away, stop thinking this is what you need to do for me because it's not. I pray everyday for you, for this, for us and everyday my prayer is met with a sign that says keep pushing, keep going, don't give up. So I won't give up, I won't walk away. I'll keep pushing for us.
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Thank you for holding my hand even though I thought of letting go. Thank you for holding on tightly to me so that I won’t fall. For always helping me be a strong person and making me feel loved and secured. Thank you for holding my hand, sharing your warmth, holding me when I’m sad, when I’m depressed. Thank you for holding on to me and never giving up on me because without your grip, I wouldn’t be the person I am right now.
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You might define yourself by your struggles, but others define you by your soul. You might not be able to see beyond your fears about yourself, but others see the beautiful things you bring into this world, the way you laugh and show up for the ones you love, and all of the lightness in who you are. Others see your gifts, your talents, and your kindness. Sometimes, you have to learn to see yourself with the grace of someone not so critically evaluating whether or not you deserve to be loved. You are love itself. Let it out, and let it be met, let it be taken, and let it be given back to you in even greater degrees.
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There are elements of who you will be one day that will form as a result of your experiences right now. You get to decide which way they shape you, whether they make way for a deepening within you, or scars you around the edges leaving you barely able to reach beyond your own hiding space. You get to decide what you do with the hurt, what you do with the hope, what you do with everything that finds you and leaves. You get to decide who you're going to be.
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Maybe this phase of your journey is supposed to be about preparation. Maybe it's about developing the courage to take those first steps. Maybe it's about finding the stamina to keep going even when you're challenged, even when you become discouraged, even on the days you feel exhausted and it seems as though you'll never arrive. Maybe this part of your journey is about observing studying the world you want to be a part of, the experiences you want to have, the person you want to be. Maybe you aren't supposed to be there yet. Maybe there are still dreams inside of you that have not yet come to light.
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Being highly sensitive can be a struggle especially in a world like the one we live in. There's so much going on, so much pain and humans do the most hurtful things...
One thing you can do to help yourself navigate throughout life being highly sensitive, is to try to not take everything too personally. You can achieve this by boosting your level to self-confidence; you won't worry too much about what people think and how they feel about you.
Also, give up on people pleasing and seeking their validation. Learn to say No and remember that just because something is happening to you doesn't mean you have to care or let it bother you.
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Not everything you lose is a loss. Some things are a freedom. Some things are a second chance. Some things are a miracle in disguise. Some things are a detachment long-needed, a clarity brought to blurry eyes. Some things are an interven-tion. Some things are the unexpected answer to a long-chanted prayer. Some things are a healing. Some things are a becoming. Some things are planned long before you ever came to be. Some things are a devastation, but others are a kind of vital guidance, the kind of course-correction you did not even know you needed. The kind you did not even realize you were asking for all along.
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One of the most impactful things we can do to move forward is to accept who people are and stop rewriting their personalities. Stop rewriting their intentions. Stop rewriting their hearts. We tend to have such difficulty accepting that someone doesn't belong in our life and that they may be the cause of our pain because we lie to ourselves about the effect they have on us. Our optimism pushes us to believe the best in them at the expense of our own wellbeing. We know that acknowledging who they are will be the first step in letting them go and that is scary. So we hang on. To who we wish they were, to how we wish they made us feel, and to what we thought they were before we knew them better. We delay the pain of the goodbye. And when we delay it, we compound it. It's time to stop rewriting people and simply read them as they are.
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No, you will not be able to avoid hurting, but you will get better at it with time. You will learn to hear someone's disapproval and not immediately internalize it but simply witness it as their experience: one that does not have to touch you, nor sway or force you to react. You will feel your nervous system activate and your heart pound, and you will not self-destruct as though that may act as a Band-Aid, as though it could soothe you in some masochistic way.
You will sense when you are tired and burnt out, and you will decide to love yourself enough to resist the urge to keep engaging and simply rest. You will learn about yourself enough to know when you need quiet, when you need connection, and when you need nurturing in the most basic ways— and you will learn how to give that to yourself. Lou will be rejected, and it will not end you; it will not initiate your own internal collapse. No, you will not be able to avoid hurting altogether, but you will become better able to weather it in.
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Listen to your instincts when they are telling you something isn't right!
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I think about leaving sometimes
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You will have to learn how to outgrow some things you love.
You will have to learn that some things are right for a time, but not forever. You will have to learn that moving on from them does not diminish the place they held within you, the importance they have to you, or the impact they had on you.
You will have to learn that if you are not growing, you are not really living. If you are not moving on from anything, you are not moving toward something. You will have to learn how to let go of some things that are still beautiful, because you know that they are not quite right, because you know that a deeper peace is waiting. The people, places and things that phase in and out of your life come to you for a specific purpose, and once their mission is complete, you are able to move onto the next experience. You will have to learn that the very act of letting go is not a failure, but a signal of completion: one of the truest signs that you are evolving as a human being.
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Problems are part of life, they will never stop coming. There seems unbearable when we have no control over it, when we are unable to cope with the pain and the fear.
We can't control everything in our lives. The thing we can only control is our attitude toward any situation.
So the problem is not the problem itself, it is the way we react to the problem is actually the problem.
So don't be hard on your self. Just hang in there because you can do it. You can overcome it with your belief in yourself.
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Know your worth
When someone treats you like you're just one of many options, help them narrow their choice by removing yourself from the equation. Sometimes you have to try not to care, no matter how much you do. Because sometimes you can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to you. It's not pride - it's self respect. Don't give part-time people a full-time position in your life. Know your value & what you have to offer, and never settle for anything less than what you deserve.
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Here's to the people who try their hardest to be good enough for everyone, who spend hours reading random quotes to find the right one; who listen to the same song dozens of times because the lyrics mean a lot;who deserve so much more than they get and are wiling to fight for it and those who wished upon a star, wasted on someone that will never care; and to the beautiful people that feel lonely in their heart.
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