🌷Way to Make Life Better:
Once a man went to saint and said, “I desire to make my life better and beautiful. Please tell me Way by which I can make my Life better.”
Saint had things kept beside him. He picked up some cotton, one candle and one needle from those things and gave it to man.
After giving these things saint said, “Here take these.. and now you can leave..”
After taking those things man left but he was still confused because he didn’t know what to do with those things. He was thinking why saint gave him those things but was not able to understand meaning of those things and how those things can help him make his life better.
So, he went back to saint and said, “Maharaja, I am not able to understand why you gave me all those things?? How are these things going to help me in making my life better??”
Saint smiled and said, “Each things i gave have deep meaning of their own.”
Saint explained..
Cotton that i gave you, the beauty of cotton is that, It is used to make thread which is used to make clothes that covers that honor of every man.
Similarly, God’s man is one who helps in defending honors of others and protects them..
Candle that i gave you burns and melts to give light to others.
Similarly, You should try to be like candle, a person who lights the life of others..
Last thing that i gave you is needle, Without needle no torn clothes can be stitched together.
Similarly, in this world person who help to mend broken hearts and helps people at time of their need is loved by God..
At end saint said, “That’s all i can teach you.”
After listening this, man understood the meaning of life. he thanked saint and left for his home.
Moral: Helping Other and Protecting other without any Expectation is the Best way to Live a Beautiful Life.
@Positivity
🦇 Dragon of Light or Darkness:
Once in dragon land, there was a young dragon name Brad. There was a tradition in dragon land that dragons would have to chose his side and become either a dragon of light or darkness.
When time comes each dragon had to chose his side and join army. All dragons would chose his side and train for years before big change but Brad was undecided and time was running out. At dawn his wings would be changed for life.
Both group of dragons had hatred for each other and once wings change they will remain like that forever and dragon have to had hatred for other for rest of his life.
Because if this Brad went to forest to think and in hope to find answer. While sitting there in silence he saw the beauty of night. Beautiful white full moon shimmering, cool and soft wind blowing, night full of stars.
For nothing in the World did Brad want to become a dragon of light in order to hate all that wonder and he felt his wings slowly begin to dye into the color of the night.
As time went by, Night was losing its strength and first light of dawn was making its way. Brad loved that time of day and gentle first ray of sun on his face. Brad didn’t want to hate it either.
Brad felt sad and tears flooded his eyes. Before Brad wings color would change for final, he flew deep into lake to find peace and then flew up high into sky as high as it could, in order to escape its fate.
When he had flown so high that the cold prevented him from moving his wings, he opened his mouth to spit out a great flame, as if to spend it completely, to never have it again But instead of fire, a thin layer of frost came out of his mouth and covered fields below.
Only then he discovered that he wouldn’t be a dragon of just light or darkness but now his one wing belong to moon and one wing belong to sun.
After attaining final form. Brad would not decorate fields with his frosty breath and would remind world that its not necessary to chose between day and night when you don’t want to hate.
Moral: It’s not necessary to see things as Black and White or Chose sides. When we don’t want to Hate. Having Peace with ourselves is Best way to Live.
@Positivity
Never ever stop giving yourself:
- self reflection
- self awareness
- self love
- self acceptance
- self forgiveness
- self responsibility
- self empathy
- self compassion
- self honesty
- self comfort
- self guidance
- self mentoring
- self trust
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7 Tips to maintain a happy and fulfilling relationship.
1. AUTONOMY -> Giving the other person the freedom to make decisions based on their own preferences, likes, dislikes, values, and goals.
2. ACCEPTANCE -> Finding a sense of belonging with another person and feeling like you are enough just as you are can be incredibly important for a healthy relationship.
3. SECURITY -> A strong connection where you feel secure both physically and emotionally, and can express your thoughts and feelings without fearing negative reactions from your partner. Having a safe space to share your innermost self is crucial in a healthy relationship.
4. EMPATHY -> Being able to empathise and acknowledge the emotions of the other person, even if you don't necessarily feel the same way.
5. AFFECTION -> Expressing affection through warmth, love, and thoughtful words, along with kind gestures and physical closeness (which may differ from person to person), can help build a strong emotional connection.
6. CONNECTION -> Building a strong connection with someone involves being genuinely curious about their thoughts and feelings. You can bond over shared goals or memories, and it's important to spend quality time together regularly.
7. SUPPORT -> Being there for your partner is key to building a strong relationship. Use your words, actions, and attention to show them that they can count on you. This creates trust and a sense of security, letting them know they are cared for and supported.
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10 things you should start doing for yourself:
1️⃣ Spend time only with the right people.
2️⃣ Face problems with your head up.
3️⃣ Be honest with yourself.
4️⃣ Put your own happiness first.
5️⃣ Be your true self and be proud of it.
6️⃣ Pay attention to the present and live it.
7️⃣ Appreciate the lessons you learn from your mistakes.
8️⃣ Be more polite to yourself.
9️⃣ Enjoy what you already have.
🔟 Create your own happiness.
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