LAWS OF HAPPY LIFE
1. Believe that people change. you can, and they can.
2. Believe in yourself more than anyone else in your life.
3. Be the first to listen to you.
4. Take advantage of the advice you give to others.
5. Accept an apology that wasn't made.
6. Never trust promises you weren't given.
7. Be honest, no matter how terrible the truth is.
8. Don't let yourself be fooled by compliments. they are easy to say and just as easy to forget.
9. Take life as it goes. Day after day. It is pointless to worry in the present moment about the future. Let go of all worries, mentally accept the worst option, but believe in the best.
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🐋 Shark in the Tank - Never Give Up:
For research some marine biologist started to do an experiment. For this they place a Shark into large tank and then released several small fishes in the same tank.
As shark and fished were left in tank after sometime shark swam around and attacked around and ate all the small fishes.
Now, next time biologist inserted a strong piece of clear fiber glass in middle of tank creating to separate partitions one for small fishes and other for shark alone.
Now again as sharks and fishes were left, shark started to attack but this time shark slammed into the fiber glass inserted in the tank. However the shark kept repeating this behavior again and again. Meanwhile all the small fishes used to swam around it unharmed behind the fiber glass. Eventually after some hour shark gave up and stopped attacking.
Same experiment was repeated for several days. Biologist noticed change in behavior of shark. Now, shark was less aggressive and made lesser attempt to attack small fishes. With time shark simply got tired and stopped attacking.
After this biologists removed the fiber glass from the tank but even after removal of glass shark didn’t attack Because shark was not trained to believe that a barrier existed between it and smaller fishes. After this smaller fishes swam with shark in same tank unharmed.
Moral: After experiencing Setbacks and Failures again and again most of us Emotionally Give Up and Stop trying. We start to believe that because we failed in past we will Fail every time But that’s just a Barrier in our Head. So, we should keep on working without fear of Failure.
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5 self-destructive phrases that you should never say🚫
✔️"I'm ugly." The use of this phrase leads to the appearance of complexes. A negative attitude that will lower your self-esteem. The main thing is to love yourself!
✔️"I will never meet my love." If you are really sure of it, then what is the point of worrying? Nothing can be changed, and if you just feel sorry for yourself, then you should, on the contrary, believe that you will meet love and then everything will come when the time comes.
✔️ I'm stupid. This phrase hides insecurity and devaluation of oneself. You should work on your strengths and understand that mistakes happen to everyone.
✔️"I'm not capable of anything." Under such a phrase is a person who does not want to do something. You can achieve anything if you work hard and don't give up.
✔️ I'm lazy. This does not mean that you are a lazy person, it means that you lack motivation. Find a case where you won't say "I'm lazy".
Do you say these phrases?
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Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.
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Please don’t let your big, beautiful heart cloud your vision. Remember: Not everybody has the same heart as you. Not everybody has the same pure intentions as you. To be in integrity with a big heart, means that we also must have boundaries.
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To start working on yourself, you first need to understand exactly in which direction to move. To do this, you need to identify your own problems and shortcomings.
Ask yourself the following questions:
“If there is something in my life that I wanted to change?”
"Is there anything I should give up?"
“Am I doing what makes me happy?”
"Do I want to change after all?"
And each problem will sound different. For some, this is an unloved job, someone very often experiences stress. For some, the problem is a small income, or addiction to smoking.
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Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses. Focus on your character, not your reputation. Focus on your blessings, not your misfortunes.
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