Quiet World 🍁

03 Dec 2021 06:46

Jarang-jarang aku nasihatkan orang yang menghadapi "toxic workplace" untuk berpindah. Ia cuma nasihat yang sesuai sekiranya segala ikhtiar lain sudah habis diusahakan atau dalam kata lain, "as last resort".

Kenapa?

Satu, tiada jaminan pun tempat baru tu tidak akan ada isu yang sama.

Kedua, kadang level of toxicity yang kita hadapi tu level boleh urus sebenarnya, tetapi kita sahaja yang terlalu takut untuk melawan.

Dan ketiga, sifat suka lari dari masalah akan menyulitkan segala urusan hidup. You will be forever running throughout your whole life.

Melawan tu ada seni. Dan melawan tu bukan bermaksud menengking orang, membuat apa apa "grand gesture" untuk menunjukkan rebellion. Melawan tu adakalanya halus. Dan dalam banyak kes, melawan itu adalah menawarkan situasi win-win.

Make peace with the fact that:

a) Not everything yang pentadbir kau buat, kau akan suka. Near impossible. And unless they give you solid reasons not to, please maintain a good relationship with your admins.

b) Sometimes you can't get along with ALL of your colleagues, and some of them be hating for no reason pun. Let go.

c) People are not mind readers. If you have better ideas for your school, VOICE.IT.OUT. Don't so easily assume "ahh no one's gonna listen to it anyway".

Kadang kau kena buktikan dulu baru orang percaya. Atau kena gerak dulu sorang-sorang, guna duit sendiri dahulu. Some people are only convinced when results start to show. Reality of life.

d) and finally, make peace with the fact that at times, you gotta do things solo. And that you can be okay with that. Memang seronok buat apa-apa ada geng, tapi kalau takde pun, kasi onz je. Without you realizing you may be the spark that kickstart positive change at school.

Instead of running away from toxic culture, be the one changing it. I agree it's not applicable for every single case, but give it a shot first before throwing in the towel.

Source: FB Soffea Rahim

#work #positivity #life #advice
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Quiet World 🍁

27 Nov 2021 15:36

I'm no perfect person & I know that there's still a lot of things that I need to learn & there's still lots of experience that need to be gained. As long as I accept myself & be gentle to myself as I learn, that is what truly matters. ☺️

#thoughts #life #positivity #attitude
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07 Oct 2021 15:34

#zenquotes @quietworld🍃

Quiet World 🍁

07 Oct 2021 15:27

This Mercury Retrograde in Libra is really affecting me ~ especially my crown chakra. I get irritated way more easier & lazier in certain matters.. Energy & motivation goes up in a minute & down in a second, so I'm gonna share some Zen Quotes here in a minute 😌✨

#thoughts @quietworld🍃

Quiet World 🍁

13 Sep 2021 17:21

I won't wait for it all to line up, I'll line it up myself. Brick by brick.
#inspiration #motivation #life #wisdom
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Quiet World 🍁

20 Aug 2021 15:18

Letting go of everything that weighs me down; no matter what it is, regardless of what people think & say. My inner peace & serenity is much more valuable & important.

☺️🌼
I tie no weights to my ankles & nobody else should too.
☺️🌼

Thank you, next chapter awaits 😊🌻

#thoughts #life #peace
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Quiet World 🍁

18 Aug 2021 15:31

A snake will always be a snake, no matter how many times it sheds its skin.

#deep #wisdom #reminder
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18 Jul 2021 14:27

#spirituality @quietworld🍃

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31 May 2021 07:34

#reminder #wisdom
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Quiet World 🍁

29 May 2021 17:58

Am I about to break someone's heart again? Same cycle, different people? 🤦🏻‍♀️

Haalp!

#random #thoughts
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Quiet World 🍁

25 May 2021 17:44

Relatable af 😂

source : IG @capricornminds
#random #zodiac #horoscope #capricorn
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Quiet World 🍁

25 May 2021 14:09

Suka² saja assume org free 💆🏻‍♀️
Suka² saja mau arah buat sekian sekian 💆🏻‍♀️
Even if I have free time, what makes you think I don't want & don't need that free time for myself? 😌

I feel my boundaries invaded 😌

#thoughts @quietworld🍃

Quiet World 🍁

20 May 2021 04:43

#advice #wisdom #reminder #selfcare
#dailyoracle #oracle
#oraclereading #tarotreading

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Quiet World 🍁

18 May 2021 01:36

Just a random update, I got new oracle decks & I'm loving them so much 🥰

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14 May 2021 04:10

​​Signs of Gaslighting
Source: BetterHelp

#facts #personality
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Quiet World 🍁

01 Dec 2021 17:43

Adab Meminta Tolong:

✅ direct bagitau mau minta tolong apa + “klu ko nda busy la” (lebih sopan lagi ko tambah; “sorry klu ganggu”
✅ klu org tu suda menolak samada secara halus apalagi kalu terang² suda, jwb la "oh nda apa, tq ☺️” Jangan cuba² untuk runding atau paksa secara kasar mahupun halus, belajar hormat hak & keputusan org lain. Mesti dia ada keutamaan lain yg dia perlu selesaikan. Tdk perlu kecil hati. Cukup sekali org tu kata "tidak".

Jarang sy nampak org yg tdk tau benda mudah ni kecuali budak² kecik masih belum sekolah atau masih sekolah rendah. Jadi bila sy nampak wujudnya org dewasa yg masih tdk tau benda ni mmg sy rasa mcm mau tepuk dahi 🤦🏻‍♀️

Kwn² sy yg rapat & sudah lama kenal pun, klu sy blg "sorry nda dpt tlg 🙏" pun tdk pernah la drg paksa sy atau sakit hati sbb sy tdk dpt tolong. pujuk2 sy “tolong ba tolong ba" pun nda walaupun suda kenal lama 😂 biasa yg nda rapat tu yg begitu, sebab tu la nda kn jd rapat dgn sy sbb sy anti sikit org bgitu 😅

#thoughts #advice
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07 Oct 2021 15:34

#zenquotes @quietworld🍃

Quiet World 🍁

07 Oct 2021 15:29

Let go of blame, let go of judgments, let go of anger, let go of comparing, let go of competing.

Breathe in...
Breathe out...

Phewww... ~

#zenquotes #spirituality #peace #tranquility @quietworld🍃

Quiet World 🍁

07 Oct 2021 12:55

If you see someone being happy with their achievement, no matter how little that achievement is to you, just let them have their moment.

Why do you need to be bitter seeing people celebrating their little achievements?

#thoughts @quietworld🍃

Quiet World 🍁

12 Sep 2021 08:42

“I was raised deeply imbued with my parents' atheism. [...] But I feel at home in religious buildings and ceremonies. [...] But to be committed to the dogma of any religion-to be told what to believe-goes against my grain in some basic way.”
— Wendy Doniger

Quiet World 🍁

18 Aug 2021 15:33

If someone shows me their true color, I won't try to paint them with any other colour. I just decide whether I like that colour or not.

#thoughts #wisdom #life
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22 Jul 2021 04:02

#selfreminder #truth
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17 Jul 2021 10:59

I guess I'm just pretending to still be in the matrix.

Maybe there's something I may need to learn and understand from the mind of people who are still in the matrix? 🤷🏻‍♀️

#thoughts @quietworld🍃

Quiet World 🍁

31 May 2021 07:32

Attention is not love,
Attachment is not connection,
Bare minimum is not effort.

#truth #life #relationship
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Quiet World 🍁

29 May 2021 15:56

I often forgot my age 😌 Anyone else? 🙋🏻‍♀️

#thoughts #random
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Quiet World 🍁

25 May 2021 16:23

“Yes, I'm kinda free tomorrow but I feel like I need my free time for myself too 😁 Sorry 🙏”

👆 Me being bluntly honest 😂
Hoping that people get the message – just because I have free time, doesn't mean I'm free. 😌 So, don't just assume & DECIDE.

Hate when people ask you a question just to tell you instead of truly asking. 😌

Would you respond to people this way too?
Vote below 😆👇

#thoughts @quietworld🍃

Quiet World 🍁

25 May 2021 07:51

I just wanted to ask a simple & quick 'Yes' or 'No' question but I hate it when people prolong the conversation especially when we are not even friends 😩 (more like I don't consider you as a friend or close acquaintance).

I didn't intend to have a long chit chat about nothing.
🙄💆🏻‍♀️😫

#thoughts @quietworld🍃

Quiet World 🍁

19 May 2021 02:01

#reminder #selfreminder #selfcare #truth #wisdom #psychology
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14 May 2021 04:12

​​Gaslighting Techniques to Watch Out for
Source: BetterHelp

#facts #personality #psychology
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Quiet World 🍁

14 May 2021 04:10

​​Signs of Gaslighting
Source: BetterHelp

#facts #personality
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