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Sometimes taking a moment to be still and just chill is the most productive thing to do instead of always 'running' full speed checking off all the stuffs in your to-do list; because you might missed the most important & precious thing.
#thoughts @quietworld🍃
Adab Meminta Tolong:
✅ direct bagitau mau minta tolong apa + “klu ko nda busy la” (lebih sopan lagi ko tambah; “sorry klu ganggu”
✅ klu org tu suda menolak samada secara halus apalagi kalu terang² suda, jwb la "oh nda apa, tq ☺️” Jangan cuba² untuk runding atau paksa secara kasar mahupun halus, belajar hormat hak & keputusan org lain. Mesti dia ada keutamaan lain yg dia perlu selesaikan. Tdk perlu kecil hati. Cukup sekali org tu kata "tidak".
Jarang sy nampak org yg tdk tau benda mudah ni kecuali budak² kecik masih belum sekolah atau masih sekolah rendah. Jadi bila sy nampak wujudnya org dewasa yg masih tdk tau benda ni mmg sy rasa mcm mau tepuk dahi 🤦🏻♀️
Kwn² sy yg rapat & sudah lama kenal pun, klu sy blg "sorry nda dpt tlg 🙏" pun tdk pernah la drg paksa sy atau sakit hati sbb sy tdk dpt tolong. pujuk2 sy “tolong ba tolong ba" pun nda walaupun suda kenal lama 😂 biasa yg nda rapat tu yg begitu, sebab tu la nda kn jd rapat dgn sy sbb sy anti sikit org bgitu 😅
#thoughts #advice
@quietworld🍃
Let go of blame, let go of judgments, let go of anger, let go of comparing, let go of competing.
Breathe in...
Breathe out...
Phewww... ~
#zenquotes #spirituality #peace #tranquility @quietworld🍃
If you see someone being happy with their achievement, no matter how little that achievement is to you, just let them have their moment.
Why do you need to be bitter seeing people celebrating their little achievements?
#thoughts @quietworld🍃
“I was raised deeply imbued with my parents' atheism. [...] But I feel at home in religious buildings and ceremonies. [...] But to be committed to the dogma of any religion-to be told what to believe-goes against my grain in some basic way.”
— Wendy Doniger
If someone shows me their true color, I won't try to paint them with any other colour. I just decide whether I like that colour or not.
#thoughts #wisdom #life
@quietworld🍃
Seek justice without hating on people who wronged you.
– Don Miguel Ruiz (The Four Agreement)
#life #wisdom
@quietworld🍃
Jangan marah kami penjawat Awam
C&P
UNTUNGNYA ORANG KERJA SEBAGAI PENJAWAT AWAM, LOCKDOWN PUN GAJI JALAN!
Semenjak PKP ni ramai kata untunglah jadi cikgu gaji tetap jalan, untunglah kerja gomen walaupun apa berlaku gaji tetap jalan siap ada yang dapat bonus dan BPN lagi. Huntunglah!
Untung mereka tu sampai ada cadangan suruh pemerintah potong gaji penjawat awam agar mereka juga turut membantu dalam keadaan sekarang.
Sebelum saya lanjutkan coretan saya, izin saya kenalkan diri. Saya hanyalah rol sham penjual jalanan yang menjual kebab dan roti john bukan penjawat awam hanya berniaga kecil-kecilan di pasar malam dan pasar tani. Jelas ye. Nanti ada kata saya ni juga penjawat awam tu pro penjawat awam.
Pernah dengar tak "dalam rezeki kita ada rezeki orang lain". Jadi itulah kisah yang saya ingin sampaikan.
1. Kenapa kita rasa amat cemburu terhadap penjawat awam? sebab gaji tetap jalan macam biasa.
2. Kenapa rasa mereka patut dipotong gaji agar dapat membantu keadaan sekarang ini.
Jawapan saya tidak perlu cemburu dan potong gaji mereka. Sebab dengan gaji mereka, mereka sedang membantu meningkatkan ekonomi peniaga kecil seperti kami.
Golongan manakah paling ramai membeli produk makanan kami sewaktu PKP atau sebelum PKP. Mereka penjawat awam bergaji kecil mahupun besar . Mereka ini yang selalu ke pasar malam berhenti beli sebab balik tak sempat nak masak mahupun keletihan. Bukan sahaja penjawat awam bahkan swasta yang bergaji kecil. Mereka inilah penyumbang besar ekonomi kami.
Kami pula membantu peruncit membeli stok daripada peruncit manakala peruncit membeli daripada pemborong dan pemborong membeli daripada perkilang.
Wahai peniaga semua berapa peratuskah pelanggan kita terdiri daripada T20?
Wahai peniaga semua berapa peratuskah pelanggan kita terdiri daripada peniaga lain?
Wahai peniaga semua berapa peratuskah pelanggan kita terdiri daripada penjawat awam?
Sepanjang saya berniaga tidak pernah lagi sekali sy dpt pelanggan daripada T20 (bukan sektor gomen ye) walaupun sebiji roti john berharga 5hinggit dan kebab 3hinggit. Tidak pernah.
Pelanggan saya banyak daripada penjawat awam, pekerja swasta m40, pekerja kilang, perkebun, pesawah dan majority adalah penjawat awam.
Tapi kenapa kita tidak rasa bersyukur apabila pemerintah kekal gaji mereka tanpa potongan. Kita perlu bersyukur sebab bila gaji penuh mereka tidak berkira-kira untuk berbelanja beli goreng pisang mak cik kiah ke nasi lemak pak maon ke atau juadah sampingan lain.
Namun jika gaji dipotong mereka akan mula berkira-kira kalau aku beli chicken chop harga 10hinggit aku tambah lagi berapa ringgit dpt beli ayam seekor atau beras 5kilo lagi berbaloi kena jimat ni gaji dah kena potong.
Nampak minda mereka akan berubah. Jadi apa berlaku pada peniaga micro makin lama makin hilang pelanggan dan akhirnya terpaksa tutup.
Gaji mereka dapat mereka tidak akan simpan pasti ada sikit untuk berbelanja. Jadi kenapa kita harus cemburu.
Dengan pemotongan gaji penjawat awam adakah ia membantu menaikkan jualan kita?
Jika ye kenapa dari sebelum PKP ada pejuangan gaji minima sepatutnya tidak perlu gaji minima kan. Saya bukan nak membela penjawat awam atau kakitangan swasta bergaji penuh tanpa potongan. Tapi mereka adalah antara penyumbang pembangunan ekonomi kecil.
Macam saya sekarang dimusim PKP kebanyakan customer saya adalah guru, polis, misi, pekerja kilang, pekerja sektor dibenarkan buka kebanyakan daripada mereka kalau penduduk kampung ada, mereka beli tapi kena jimat jugalah sebab punca pendapatan mereka terjejas saya faham itu.
Jadi yang berikan cadangan atau pihak yang cemburu itu dah lihat ke jualan kita harini berapa peratus daripada golongan penjawat awam yang dipersoalkan hutunglah gaji jalan.
Tak rasa bersalahkah?
Masing-masing ada tanggungjawab masing-masing, jadi berhenti merungut dan terus berusaha. Alhamdulillah hariini roti john sy tak banyak jual tp still bersyukur masih ada duit masuk. InsyaAllah esok mungkin ada lebih sikit untuk hari ini jom kita bersyukur jika pun hanya RM 1 sahaja yang masuk.
#copypasted
If you don't like what you're getting, change what you're giving.
💡 not applicable in all context ofc 😂
#quotes #reminder
@quietworld🍃
If you only want to experience the good side of me, let me show you the door to exit from my life.
#thoughts @quietworld🍃
Attention is not love,
Attachment is not connection,
Bare minimum is not effort.
#truth #life #relationship
@quietworld🍃
I often forgot my age 😌 Anyone else? 🙋🏻♀️
#thoughts #random
@quietworld🍃
“Yes, I'm kinda free tomorrow but I feel like I need my free time for myself too 😁 Sorry 🙏”
👆 Me being bluntly honest 😂
Hoping that people get the message – just because I have free time, doesn't mean I'm free. 😌 So, don't just assume & DECIDE.
Hate when people ask you a question just to tell you instead of truly asking. 😌
Would you respond to people this way too?
Vote below 😆👇
#thoughts @quietworld🍃
Jarang-jarang aku nasihatkan orang yang menghadapi "toxic workplace" untuk berpindah. Ia cuma nasihat yang sesuai sekiranya segala ikhtiar lain sudah habis diusahakan atau dalam kata lain, "as last resort".
Kenapa?
Satu, tiada jaminan pun tempat baru tu tidak akan ada isu yang sama.
Kedua, kadang level of toxicity yang kita hadapi tu level boleh urus sebenarnya, tetapi kita sahaja yang terlalu takut untuk melawan.
Dan ketiga, sifat suka lari dari masalah akan menyulitkan segala urusan hidup. You will be forever running throughout your whole life.
Melawan tu ada seni. Dan melawan tu bukan bermaksud menengking orang, membuat apa apa "grand gesture" untuk menunjukkan rebellion. Melawan tu adakalanya halus. Dan dalam banyak kes, melawan itu adalah menawarkan situasi win-win.
Make peace with the fact that:
a) Not everything yang pentadbir kau buat, kau akan suka. Near impossible. And unless they give you solid reasons not to, please maintain a good relationship with your admins.
b) Sometimes you can't get along with ALL of your colleagues, and some of them be hating for no reason pun. Let go.
c) People are not mind readers. If you have better ideas for your school, VOICE.IT.OUT. Don't so easily assume "ahh no one's gonna listen to it anyway".
Kadang kau kena buktikan dulu baru orang percaya. Atau kena gerak dulu sorang-sorang, guna duit sendiri dahulu. Some people are only convinced when results start to show. Reality of life.
d) and finally, make peace with the fact that at times, you gotta do things solo. And that you can be okay with that. Memang seronok buat apa-apa ada geng, tapi kalau takde pun, kasi onz je. Without you realizing you may be the spark that kickstart positive change at school.
Instead of running away from toxic culture, be the one changing it. I agree it's not applicable for every single case, but give it a shot first before throwing in the towel.
Source: FB Soffea Rahim
#work #positivity #life #advice
@quietworld🍃
I'm no perfect person & I know that there's still a lot of things that I need to learn & there's still lots of experience that need to be gained. As long as I accept myself & be gentle to myself as I learn, that is what truly matters. ☺️
#thoughts #life #positivity #attitude
@quietworld🍃
This Mercury Retrograde in Libra is really affecting me ~ especially my crown chakra. I get irritated way more easier & lazier in certain matters.. Energy & motivation goes up in a minute & down in a second, so I'm gonna share some Zen Quotes here in a minute 😌✨
#thoughts @quietworld🍃
I won't wait for it all to line up, I'll line it up myself. Brick by brick.
#inspiration #motivation #life #wisdom
@quietworld🍃
Letting go of everything that weighs me down; no matter what it is, regardless of what people think & say. My inner peace & serenity is much more valuable & important.
☺️🌼
I tie no weights to my ankles & nobody else should too.
☺️🌼
Thank you, next chapter awaits 😊🌻
#thoughts #life #peace
@quietworld🍃
A snake will always be a snake, no matter how many times it sheds its skin.
#deep #wisdom #reminder
@quietworld🍃
I guess I'm just pretending to still be in the matrix.
Maybe there's something I may need to learn and understand from the mind of people who are still in the matrix? 🤷🏻♀️
#thoughts @quietworld🍃
I'll shine even on my dullest moment.
#thoughts #motivation
@quietworld🍃
It's okay to be sad or unhappy for the right reasons. Acknowledge those feelings, feel it, allow it to flow in and out. Then, focus on your blessings because the more grateful you are, the more blessings you receive ✨ Isn't it?
#motivation #uplifting #inspiration
@quietworld🍃
Am I about to break someone's heart again? Same cycle, different people? 🤦🏻♀️
Haalp!
#random #thoughts
@quietworld🍃
Relatable af 😂
source : IG @capricornminds
#random #zodiac #horoscope #capricorn
@quietworld🍃
Suka² saja assume org free 💆🏻♀️
Suka² saja mau arah buat sekian sekian 💆🏻♀️
Even if I have free time, what makes you think I don't want & don't need that free time for myself? 😌
I feel my boundaries invaded 😌
#thoughts @quietworld🍃