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I love the way women love women <3
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This sub is not a safe space for Black people
I've been in this sub for a long time now. When I got locked out of my old account and started a new one, I joined this sub right away. I'm a Black pansexual trans woman, and there are not a lot of spaces for queer trans women to be. Most sapphic spaces are quite TERFy, but sadly, many of them are racist/have racial bias. Unfortunately, this is one of those spaces.
I remember months ago someone else (I believe it was a Black cis lesbian) brought up the Eurocentricity and racial bias in this group. I very much agreed with what was said, but I stayed because too many queer/sapphic subs allow TERF ideology. However, now I feel that it's time to leave this sub.
Every time there's a post about women y'all find attractive, it's nothing but white women. Every blue moon I see some BIPOC included in a post, but it's overwhelmingly white women. Those are also the posts to get the most traction. I scroll and keep it moving, but then my feed suggests a white women focused post from this sub that has ton of upvotes.
What really amazed me though was seeing how much this sub is posting about Renee Good. What happened to her was an absolute tragedy, and I hope and pray for those children. What's wild to me is that I have yet to see this sub ever post about ICE, the violence against Black and Brown trans women or really anything pertaining to people of color. ICE breaks up families everyday. ICE was literally targeting Black American children in Chicago. ICE targets anyone Latinx! If this sub isn't political, that's fine. It's cool to have a space to just shitpost and kiki. But the one time I see this sub really come together for something political, it's about a white woman. If that's not racial bias, then I must be not be Black! (and I absolutely am)
White queers, you all have a tendency to not care much issues until you see someone who looks like you get attacked. I've worked in social justice advocacy for years, and this is a trend I've noticed over the years. I could list out every instance it happens, but this post is long enough. Maybe this post will get downvoted to smithereens or maybe some people will actually take time to reflect.
Anyway, I'm posting this because it needs to be said. I'm far from the first nonwhite person to feel excluded on this sub, and I likely will not be the last.
Update: “I don’t mean to invalidate followed by paragraphs worth of invalidation” I’m muting this. Thank you to everyone who replied in support. To everyone opposing the points I’ve made, take some time to think. That’s the reason I posted this instead of just leaving the sub. I believe many of you do want to do better, but it’s one thing to want something versus actually doing it.
Peace 🫡
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My girlfriend dressed me up in her saree🥰
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Daily Ace Hangout – Day 2: Getting to know each other! 💜
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I AM NOT AN ADULT CONVERSATION
I came out on New Years and it went well! Everyone was at the very least accepting in the moment, but today I did have an experience that felt like the opposite.
I was in a car with a couple people (all over 21) and one person wanted to invite one of their younger family members (she's 10), I was familiar with her and wasn't opposed so I said "alright, I haven't had a chance to let her know so It'll definitely be a way to come out" and they all said "DO NOT TELL HER" I was confused initially, the whole point of me coming out for the New Year was to stay out of the closet, and that's exactly what I said, they told me the parents wouldn't be happy and that they needed to "explain it to her first" so she'll understand. I don't know about any of you but the only real "explanation" is "here is my new name and pronouns!" "Why did I change? Because I'm more comfortable as a girl!" And that's that.
I was told we'd figure it out when she got into the car, and the only "figuring out" we all did was shoving me back into the closet because "the parents should know first"
I AM NOT AN ADULT CONVERSATION! I AM A HUMAN BEING! IM OUT OF THE CLOSET AND I'D LIKE IT TO STAY THAT WAY! YOU DON'T WANT HER TO KNOW!? KEEP HER OUT OF MY FUCKING CAR!
After it all happened I was REALLY upset, I still am, but I feel really dumb for being upset. IDK I think I just needed a place to vent real quick. I thought I was done needing to get deadnamed and misgendered without correcting people, but I guess I'm not. It was disappointing to say the least...
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One man's top is another man's bottom
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So, what sounds good for dinner?
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The magical words
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It gets better
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Met a girl on Reddit 11 months ago…
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inability to make good choices and handle their business.
Don’t waste your own time. Don’t throw away a year or three or ten living in polyamory when you never wanted it.
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Tag yourself.
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Ex-Aide Reveals JD Vance Previously Supported Gay/Trans Rights, Saying His Current Persona is 'Fabricated'
https://www.ibtimes.co.uk/ex-aide-reveals-jd-vance-previously-supported-gay-trans-rights-saying-his-current-persona-1769718
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Lesbian Weddings - Guy Branum
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I am being forced into marriage and fear honor killing – Trans man in a conservative family (URGENT HELP NEEDED)
I am 20 years old and I am a trans man living in a very conservative family and environment. I am writing this because I am in immediate danger and I don’t know what steps to take anymore.
My family is forcing me into a marriage against my will. This is not a discussion it is happening because they are afraid I will “ruin the family’s reputation.” The man they want me to marry is over 30 years old, and no one has asked for my consent. The marriage is being arranged between families and will be strict and controlling.
I am currently:
•Not allowed to leave the house except rarely
•Forced to wear hijab and niqab
•Forbidden from working or being financially independent
•Forbidden from owning or using a car, even though I am 20 and licensed, because “it’s shameful for a girl to drive”
•Completely controlled and monitored
I am in a long-distance relationship with my gender-fluid partner, which my family does not know about. If they find out, things will become extremely dangerous.
A year ago, I was nearly forced into a similar marriage with a 34-year-old man. It was canceled at the last moment only because my uncle discovered the man was unstable and drank heavily. That situation caused me severe depression, and now it is happening again..worse and more serious.
If I refuse this marriage or try to sabotage it, the situation at home will escalate. I am genuinely afraid it could lead to severe violence or even an “honor killing.” In my environment, people openly boast about these acts.
I am not exaggerating. I am not safe.
I need urgent, concrete steps on how to get out:
-Legal options
-Escape planning
-International help or asylum information
-Organizations that help LGBTQ+ people in forced marriage or honor-based violence situations
Please do not tell me to “talk to my family.” That is not an option.
Please do not tell me to “be patient.” Time is working against me.
I am asking for help because I want to live
not just survive.
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To much anal ???
Just been diagnosed with proctitis trauma from anal sex had my colonoscopy yesterday and confirmed that the last fck I had was enjoyable but rough but no pain he drove it hard and deep but luckily came in me quickly.
Been in pain the last few months in the stomach/ large bowl, colon/ sigmoid area and have been bleeding.
The findings are my colon nerves and mucus lining are very inflamed and white and a lot of the blood vessels that should sit on top the mucus wall lining surface have gone possible scare tissue built up over the surface.
They also noted my colon had been altered in a way it should naturally sit and the internal mucus lining has deformed in placed from abrasion of anal sex and toys.
For every one getting fck bareback etc please take care of your botty hole, I know us guys love it and enjoy it.
I've been engaged in bareback for the last 5 years and only had in that time about 40-50 meets as a bottom for bareback.
Waiting to find out how I go forwards and if I can bottom every again.
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First time I wore a skirt in public :o
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Pre-T to almost 4 years on T :’) it has flew by! 🏳️⚧️
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It makes me so emotional seeing trans people from an era when being queer was vilified and shunned from society 🥹🏳️⚧️💛✨
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I haven't posted here in a long time, but here are a few pics as an update for those who remember me haha!
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When someone's telling you a sexual joke but you're highkey asexual
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Polyamory will not save your marriage. If you “need” to “suddenly accept” polyamory, else you loose your relationship? It’s almost always a waste of time and effort.
Hi, random person who’s arrived at r/polyamory.
This post might not be for you. In fact, I’m pretty sure if you are here because you’re genuinely curious about polyamory, and are curious how it all works? We have a ton of resources on the community info page. Read some posts, do some searches, carry on!
This post is for the people whose partners have put them in a position, for whatever reason, to consider polyamory in less than ideal circumstances.
You may have completely monogamous agreements . You and your partner may have had many years together in monogamy. You may have children. A home together. You probably have never considered polyamory.
You might be a part of a lifestyle couple. Maybe you are some whose marriage or relationship has been “open” in some flavor or way, under certain circumstances.
Your partner has come to you and revealed that they have a crush! And poly is their true nature!
Your partner has come to you and revealed that they have had an affair! And that polyamory is the solution, because they really love their affair partner, and that makes it different and not like other affairs. Polyamory is the solution!
Your partner has revealed that they have fallen in love with their side piece/FWB/non-romantic/sex-only/kink buddy/D/s power exchange (choose all that apply)! And that polyamory is the next logical step !
It’s not, mostly. Sorry.
Crushes are normal. They require no action. Polyamorous people also get crushes they cannot act upon. Monogamy, and fidelity take for granted that you will feel attractions to others…and do nothing.
Polyamory assumes you will get crushes, and those people will not be living in polyamory, or they will be unavailable for a relationship, with you, even if they are already building polyamory with other people…and do nothing.
If your partner had an affair? Polyamory isn’t an off ramp for people to legitimize their affairs and force acceptance from their very hurt, very betrayed partner. It doesn’t work.
Your boo fell for their FWB? They better get their grown folks pants on, and handle their shit.
Commitment isn’t optional in polyamory. Love isn’t a golden ticket to happy healthy polyamory, especially if your not-polyamory is rooted in the breaking of agreements and myopic misbehavior.
You cannot reframe a shitty monogamous relationship into healthy polyamory.
You can absolutely shift, as part of a couple, into happy healthy polyamory. Plenty of folks swing and do polyamory. Plenty of people open their marriages and remain married.
It requires that both people genuinely want to live in polyamory. Even if you never ever date outside your marriage and are always happy with only your OG partner, your entire foundation of your marriage will be ripped away, and everything will change. Even if you “always come first”(you won’t.)
If you’re both super into the idea of polyamory (real, nuts and bolts polyamory. With real people who get sick, and have their cats die, and get into car accidents. Who might, at the very least, think that they might have this stuff matter to the people who claim to love them) then your odds are 50/50, and that’s the best odds you’ll ever get.
Tell your partner to end their involvement with their affair partner and get yourselves to therapy, if you can. Polyamory isn’t an option for you right now. Your partner betrayed your fidelity and broke your agreements. This is problematic stuff.
Tell your partner that you aren’t interested in polyamory, when your partner tells you that they have fallen in love with their sex friend/Dom/co worker they fuck occasionally.
Tell them that as far as you are concerned, your agreements still stand. Let them work out the details. They can have all the NRE in the world, but without commitment, or the kind of connection that builds, good chemistry and pants feels only go so far.
Polyamory will not fix your partner’s