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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
The right position is 90% of the success in sex
First criteria I want to highlight for choosing a sexual pose: the peculiarities of the anatomy of the partners. Well, there are sexual positions specifically great for big penises, if the girl hasn't had a baby yet.
Then there are really effective positions for guys with a small penis. Okay, and lots of in-between options to consider the more subtle nuances.
The second criteria for choosing a sexual pose: the current moment. That is: if there is no place to lie down, you will have sex in a sitting or sitting-standing position.
Sex should be every day!
Another bad myth that many people succumb to. They believe it and create their own problems as well. That's the way we are, we love a challenge!
And if they don't have sex every day, what happens? Panic!
Like my couple today. Came to me with this exact problem. Sex had become routine and they were just sick of it. After all, they forced themselves to have sex daily.
Yet everyone has different needs and opportunities. For some people once a week is enough, for others every day is enough. And only we choose when and how much to have sex. Remember that, sugar! 💋
What's the trendy pose?
It's no secret that I'm a pain in the ass. Every month I do surveys with my clients. Let’s say, this month I was collecting information about which pose is the most popular😁.
Cannot say that the results surprised me, but I still have to share them with you!
Doggy style, that's what position is trending right now. And if you and baby love it too, I have a little bonus for you💋
Give babe the gift of control specifically in doggy style.
Do you have any idea what you get along with that? Oh, I don't think so to the end. When a girl takes the initiative and is in control herself, she is capable of so much. Believe me.
As one of my clients said, "At times like this, my husband leaves the bed haggard." And she's right! I'll tell you more, it's also a great reason to watch the girl and understand what rhythm and movements she likes.
One of the coolest techniques in cunnilingus
It's the ultimate ecstasy! Excitement and pleasure. And I have to tell you about it💋
The feedback from my clients is, "That’s the bomb!"
The essence of the technique is that you have to draw the letters of the alphabet with your tongue in order during cunnilingus. So that by the last letter, the girl has reached orgasm.
Put the baby in a comfortable position, relax her and begin the action. With your tongue begin to draw the letters of the alphabet in order. Just please, do not think too much, it is not necessary to remember every letter, if you miss one it is OK, keep moving forward.
Believe me, at the end of your actions with your tongue, she will see stars of pleasure. Apply and enjoy😉
Has she reached orgasm so far?
Many guys cannot distinguish when the peak of pleasure comes in a girl. And what about guys, some girls can't tell if they had an orgasm or not☝🏻
We gotta fix that, cos it's crucial. So, I made a list of the orgasm signs, right the most popular and common among girls.
Basic signs of orgasm:
- Involuntary contraction of the vaginal muscles. The muscles tighten and contract. This can be felt with your penis, fingers and tongue.
- Milky colored discharge.
- Deep and muffled moans. As a rule, they are not arbitrary, and it is difficult to restrain them.
- A red face and décolleté area, due to a rush of blood and dilation of the blood vessels.
- cramping and trembling in legs from the intense sensation of orgasm.
This is like a little instruction manual for you. Keep it and use it, my sweets💋
In case sex in bed or on the couch is boring
Perhaps a nice way to vary your sex life: have sex against the wall. After all, I know how you are fond of peculiar places and extraordinary sex😉
Nothing special, you say, but I'm gonna tell you it's a new, unforgettable experience. At the wall, the angle of penetration is extremely deep and fascinating.
Doggy style, palm resting or standing position, would be the perfect fit here. Just calculate your strength, lift the girl's leg for more intense penetration and the feeling is awesome.
Try it💋
Opinions are divided, so let's not hesitate to discuss it!
I want you to know that masturbation is normal!
For men and women alike, it is inherent in nature, and is not considered cheating on your partner. Moreover, that’s a good option to get discharge and satisfaction, in some cases to one partner, and sometimes to both at the same time.
And now to the key!
Masturbation cannot destroy relationships, but an inadequate attitude towards it, has a certain power. And this is where simple jealousy is to blame! Jealousy of porn movies or naked girls in pictures. Cause many girls immediately begin to look for flaws in their bodies and think this is about them.
I advise in such a situation to talk to the babe. Tell her how natural and not embarrassing it is. And then offer to play together. Take a quality porn movie and watch it. Show her that it's not so scary in reality.
Shibari Goosebumps
You know how much I adore this technique and ready to share about it forever. Well, since it has a huge amount of sensuality, aesthetics and eroticism👆🏻
And lately guys have started asking, "Dasha, can you describe how a girl feels in the process?"
When tied properly, this is what a girl feels:
- A slight tickling pain.
- A strong and growing arousal. By affecting the erogenous zones.
- Hopelessness and helplessness, turning into trust and acceptance.
- A pulsation in the frozen muscles that she didn't even know she had.
And all of this comes almost immediately!
Ultimate sensations from having sex on one's side
Face-to-face, it's considered an intimate gesture. That's why many people neglect it. In fact, they shouldn't, cause it's a chance to play it adult😉
Visual contact, so vital to girls here works 100%.
Psychologically, it is a feeling of complete trust, emancipation.
And from the physiological point of view, deep penetration and magical orgasm.
Try different positions: spooning, meringue, close contact. Whichever one you two like best, use that one.
Try it and keep it in mind! 💋
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Sexting — exchange of intimate texts or photos
If you have been in a relationship for a long time, texting tends to escalate into solving domestic problems.
It is in such cases, I advise to practice sexting.
First of all, it's insanely hot. Imagine sitting at work, your babe sends you naked pictures and lecherous texts? It's a turn-on, isn't it? Secondly, it brings variety to intimate life.
There are a few rules of thumb here. Like everywhere else, it's not that simple.
- Always send photos without your face and spontaneous photos. For example, your torso with your pants down.
- Put aside your shyness and unnecessary excitement.
And enjoy the photos and the passionate texts!
Why doesn't she like fondling her clitoris?
There are girls who don't let guys near their clitoris. And the topic is quite relevant, because, as a rule, girls don't say what's the matter here. Let's figure it out☝🏻
There are two of the most popular problems I wanna point out:
Girlfriend stiffness. This can be as a psychological defensive reaction.
Negative painful experiences. Painful sex with another partner, masturbation without proper arousal.
The clitoris is one of the most sensitive places in a girl's body. And that’s why a gentle approach and gentle action is important here. I always advise relaxing massages, having a heart-to-heart talk and figuring out why.
Why warm your hands before sex?
Simply cause cold hands significantly reduce passion and sexual attitudes in your partner. The same applies to your feet.
If you feel freezing or your hands are always cold, rub them or warm them against a hot cup of tea.
Make sure your hands are warm before you have sex.
How to get rid of the stiffness?
That’s most of all true for women. We tend to question our appearance by overestimating our own demands.
During sex, we may wonder what our hair looks like or if our makeup is leaking, instead of enjoying the process.
Negative emotions have the ability to build up in the body, which is why women have trouble releasing emotionally. Believe me, a man feels it, and his arousal decreases.
I advise you to try relaxation techniques, meditation and massage. To learn how to enjoy sex, it is essential to relax and loosen up.
Sunlight increases libido
It is the hormone that makes the body produce melatonin. It improves sleep, but also awakens our sexual desires.
Large amounts of melatonin lead to improved sexual arousal.
Taking short walks outside in the sunlight awakens your sexual potential, especially in winter.
Massage of the penis with pearls
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Pearl beads are gorgeous, aren't they?😍
They can also be the spice to fire up your bed.
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Take a string of pearls — the beads should be smooth, with no chips or sharp corners. Start caressing your partner's body with them: go over his arms, legs, stroking his belly and chest. When you see that your partner is aroused, go lower.
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Apply a sufficient amount of lubricant to cock. Smear it nicely all over the penis and the head. Apply the lube to the necklace.
Now you start pulling up and down on the necklace with your hands around the top of it. The beads will roll over, increasing the stimulation.
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Found another bomb😉
Edible Body Powder. This is what you need for foreplay. This is a cool option for those who don't like cream and chocolate. The powder is perfectly safe even for the most intimate places, you can apply it to your pussy, clit, nipples, cock, basically anywhere you want.
It does not contain sugar and is made under strict control. However, it is insanely delicious. With all sorts of smells and tastes.
The foreplay will be truly magical, exciting and awe-inspiring. Picture attached, use it 💋
One of the most erotic and deepest blowjob positions⤵️
Deep Throat
Almost all my male clients dream about it! Everyone wants to grab a sweet piece of pleasure. And I think you won't refuse either😉
This is the position where your cock plunges completely into the girl's mouth and the head rests against the throat wall. It's arousing, it's erotic and also too sexy.
Put the girl on the edge of the bed or sofa so that her head hangs down and is at right angles. Lubricate your dick liberally with edible lube. And pretty slowly insert your cock into the girl's mouth until it rests against the walls of her throat. Tell her to breathe deeply with her nose, so that there is no gag reflex, and everything will go smoothly.
This is where gentleness, tenderness, and helping the girl is important! Memorize and try it, sweet💋
The Female Sexual Cycle or Copulatory Cycle
Weird word, isn't it? But I wrote about it for a reason, as it's a significant word for a woman's pleasure😉
That's a single process from the moment one thinks of sex to its full realization and completion. It is said to be the perfect cycle in which a girl gets an orgasm and enjoys sex.
Being aware in the smallest detail of how this cycle goes, you can analyze your actions, correct and complete them.
This includes — arousal, desire, orgasm, relaxation.
Pay attention to each point. Like what she likes, how she gets aroused, what ways of reaching orgasm work, what she likes to do after sex.
Then think about what you can add, what you need to take away. And this will be your little memo, on satisfying the babe! 💋
Wetter means softer and more sensitive
Using lube is not a whim of the marketeers, it's an urgent necessity. You need it for easy gliding and smooth penetration!
There was a couple at the appointment today where the guy stubbornly resisted gels and creams. Like a stubborn, frankly, they come for the third time and nothing changes. And I'm already willing to buy them a gift myself, just so long as their sex is comfortable.
Find the right composition, texture and scent for you.
Water-based is suitable for vaginal sex, sex toys and masturbation. Multiple flavors and fragrances. Leave no residue on the bed.
Oil-based, and with an anesthetic, ideal for anal sex. Smoother slip and no quick drying.
The purpose of sex is not only orgasm
Yesterday had an appointment with a couple. We discussed their problem.
It wasn't that bad, but had to be solved.
The problem is that in sex the guy makes it his goal for the girl to have an orgasm.
And it seems right yeah, though, he is so obsessed with it that immediately throws himself at her. The end result is no orgasm and everyone is dissatisfied.
Why? Cause he forgets the crucial rule — it's the caresses and the process important to us!
It's not for nothing that I write posts about it😉
And the conclusion here is this: you don't have to set the goal only to achieve an orgasm!
Set a goal for pleasure, then you can relax, enjoy the process and the orgasm will come on its own.
Why make up a safe word?
And even though some will say now, "We're not in 50 Shades of Grey!"
I'm gonna stand my ground. The safe word is insanely helpful in many situations!
Let’s say, you decide to play hardball and the girl is not ready for all the experiments, she may panic.
But awarding of a safe word, she’ll feel more comfortable in experiments.
It's like an airbag for her, and a sign for you that it's time to stop.
Where do misconceptions about sex come from?
Talking to people for 10 hours a day about sex, I realized how much we are misled.
As an example, one couple yesterday where the two of them have a persistent delusion:
Good sex should end with a simultaneous orgasm.
So what actually happens? Both reach orgasm in separate ways, the guy is faster, the girl takes longer. Or vice versa. Yet since they have a dissimilar belief, conflicts arise in the background, perpetual deliberation and, of course, problems with sex. Both think they are doing something wrong.
Only in movies do they show two people experiencing pleasure at the same time. But it's a film, after all, lots of things are made up there.
You shouldn't believe in myths, fairy tales, and movie plots. It's better to think straight and assess the situation. It will be much easier, trust me😉
Sexy, slow and languid technique
The "Grave" technique excites, arouses and gives a truly magical experience😉
Slowness, caution and complete focus on the senses... Everyone writes and compares the sensations to riding on a swing.
When the moment of approaching orgasm, you slow down, stop and feel with every cell of your body😍
And for me, this technique is something intimate and awe-inspiring. When there is visual contact, when you breathe and hear each other's breathing, and get high from the process.
Stomach and nipples
Not only girls' erogenous zone, but yours too guys☝🏻
And since, you tend to forget about your sensitive spots, I decided to remind you💋
Nipples. They're not as sensitive as girls, but! The skin around them is very thin, and nibbling feels nice.
The lower abdomen is where the nerve endings congregate. Bordering next to the penis, which means that excitement is guaranteed. Sweet slips of the tongue, biting the skin, to excite anyone. Try playing with cold and warmth, they will aggravate arousal.
Why do you think this post was read to you? Yep, so that you show it to the girl, or ask her to play with you in the process. Do not forget about yourself and enjoy sex.
Instructions for first anal sex
That’s pretty reverent and emotional sex. Thus why it's important to get it right. And I'll help you with that a little bit😉
The most important thing is to prepare properly. This determines what kind of sensations you will deliver to your baby girl.
You'll need lube and your desire. Let the girl take a comfortable position. I recommend the standing position. It's more comfortable for anal sex. Lubricate, get down on your knees, and start running your finger up and down her anal hole.
Very gently and smoothly, press the entrance with your finger and use your tongue. Go in 2-3 cm. Penetrate deeper with your finger until you feel the girl's limit.
Our goal is to overcome the girl's embarrassment, remove her fears, and experience pleasure from anal stimulation. Try it!
Saffron as an aphrodisiac
Spices are powerful, strong and highly effective in arousing girls and guys. This has been known since ancient times, when different spices were added to dishes for arousal.
Saffron is a strong passionate aphrodisiac. I have read that people who eat saffron in dishes get aroused faster and have a stronger payoff in sex.
It stimulates the production of hormones that affect the sensitivity of erogenous zones. It enhances libido and has a gentle effect on arousal.
It has an extra fragrant aroma. It is added to fragrances, perfumed shower gels, as a condiment in any dishes. Speaking of dishes, I love saffron in rice.
Guys, now think about how you can influence a girl: by your body aroma with a dash of saffron or through your dishes. I advise you to try and all😉
Why go to a sex shop together?
Trust me, there's no shame in it. Never think you'll look ridiculous or someone might be poking their fingers at you.
You can always consult with salespeople as they know all about how to diversify your sex lives and breathe a new lease of life into your relationship.
In this way you may see your partner's reaction to all kinds of toys.
I'm sure each of you can find something to suit you.
Psychological barrier in women
Spectating is one of them. Instead of enjoying the sensations during sex, a woman focuses her attention on how her breasts look, and ends up not getting the desired pleasure.
Almost all of the problems in sex have to do with psychological barriers, not with the way the body works.
Imagine that there are pedals in each person's head responsible for arousal.
The gas pedal and the brake pedal, responses to arousal, including visual images and emotional context, and you need to learn to control them.
I am frequently approached with a question:
Does size matter?
It certainly matters, but not as much as men used to think.
If you have an outstanding size, you must be careful and slow, otherwise your partner will get nothing but unpleasant sensations.
And in case you have a modest size, I would advise positions when you are behind, as this contributes to deeper penetration and sharper sensations.