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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
Do men always "love with their eyes"?
Lots of girls assume they are. And do their best to live up to the expectations of admiring male colleagues and fellow passengers in transport.
In bed - all the opposite. Quite understandable, since with clothes we rather hide their shortcomings than emphasize the advantages.
Nakedness to show your body in the most favorable angle - a whole science.
Plus your sincere desire to please him. And the most coveted will be those women who enjoy showing off themselves.
No doubt all men secretly browse erotic movies
Women, in turn, are prejudiced against it. I strongly advise couples seeking to diversify their intimate lives to jointly watch erotic content movies.
It turns both partners on and helps them figure out each other's preferences. What they saw can be put to the test straight away.
The key to quality sex - proper mindset
Identify the moment when you and your partner crave intimacy. Perhaps it's after a nap, watching a movie together, trusting conversation, or a couple of glasses of wine?
Be honest with your partner and speak directly about what you want. If you need a hot bath and a light foot massage in order to get in the right mood, say so.
Fitting sexy lingerie and shoes, your favorite perfume, reading erotic books, mutual caressing - all these things can send the desired signal to your brain.
Are obese women not attractive to men?
I do not mean to go to extremes and say that 100 pounds of extra weight do not hinder quality sex at all. None of that is true. The fact that a woman of this weight can feel sexy.
If you and your partner do not interfere with the folds on your belly to try out a new position, and lack of physical fitness does not affect the achievement of orgasm, then why not?
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And yeah, men aren't just turned on by skinny women, thin chicks have problems with men too, and fat girls can have hundreds of suitors.
Men get an erection up to five times a night
Ladies, it is something to use!
Well, I never managed to catch those "four times" at night, as it was hard to do it in my sleep, but I didn't miss the morning session.
Though I had to set my own alarm clock to open eyes fifteen minutes earlier, but he liked that way of waking me up. And since there wasn't much time, the "session" was thrillingly quick.
Polyurethane or latex?
I mean condoms))) No clear clinical studies exist as to whether polyurethane or latex is better.
Make up your mind based on your partner's preferences, availability and sensations.
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Polyurethane condoms are much more expensive, yet their pleasure feels completely different. Thanks to their subtlety the sensations are close to the natural ones.
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The main thing to realize here is that if you are planning to use any kind of sexual silicone toys or just silicone lubricants, you cannot do this with latex condoms.
Polyurethane or latex?
I mean condoms))) No clear clinical studies exist as to whether polyurethane or latex is better.
Make up your mind based on your partner's preferences, availability and sensations.
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Polyurethane condoms are much more expensive, yet their pleasure feels completely different. Thanks to their subtlety the sensations are close to the natural ones.
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The main thing to realize here is that if you are planning to use any kind of sexual silicone toys or just silicone lubricants, you cannot do this with latex condoms.
What are "Wet Dreams"?
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Did you have any idea that men and women are capable of having orgasms while sleeping?)
80% of men and 40% of women experienced at least one orgasm in their sleep.
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Dreams are the perfect environment to stimulate an orgasm. Scientists have found that almost all "wet dreams" begin in the REM sleep phase.
It is at this stage that a person experiences the most vivid and varied dreams, including those of a sexual nature. During this phase, blood flows more actively to the genital area. This results in arousal and, as a consequence, orgasm.
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So, why does an orgasm occur in a dream? Here are a few reasons:
-pubescent period
-the position in which you sleep
-erotic dreams and fantasies
-rejection of sex
-receiving discharge
Stay with your partner
No matter how much you sweat during sex, do not hurry to the shower.
Lie in bed with your partner after sex.
Talk, caress, share jokes, and do your best to bring a smile to your lover's face.
Hurrying to the bathroom right after sex makes your partner think you feel dirty.
It is better to spend more time with your partner, take a laptop or tablet and watch a movie.
Sex takes work, too
And it's not just a long foreplay, it's a tremendous amount of effort that depends on the two of you. How else can you do it? Wanna have great sex means you gotta act😁
Good sex is the kind that you both get high from. You have orgasms, you're satisfied, and you're fully committed to the process.
And it is formed by many factors. Like, appearance, smell, smiling, compliments with no reason, flirting, gifts, and so on. All this creates the atmosphere of sex in the head long before it starts.
That's why I keep saying, you have to think through not only sex, but everything that's going on around you. After all, if you make a little more effort, the consequences will please both of you💋
Do not take foreplay for granted
Never skip it to get to the "main event."😏
You may be surprised at how much slowing down and focusing on foreplay can set up your sex life.
By lengthening the process and enjoying every touch, you can get all kinds of sexual tension before you get to the "business."
My advice is to try running a timer for 10-20 minutes and agree to no penetration until the timer expires.
What position to start your first anal sex?
Picked for you a classic pose that's perfect for anal sex. You have to lie on your side, the man lies behind you, facing in the same direction and enters from behind.
The position is great for those less experienced in anal sex. You control how deeply the man penetrates you.
You can try pulling your knees up to your chest, this will give you extra control and excite even more desire in the man.
The 9 x 10 method
It is based on the alternation of short and deep penetrations, allowing not only postponement of ejaculation, but also giving both partners extraordinary sensations.
The basic sequence goes like this: at the very beginning of intimacy, a man plunges into the vagina only the head of the penis 9 times, and then performs a deep penetration for the entire length of the penis.
After that the ratio changes: there are two full frictions for 8 short ones; with each round one "shallow" insertion is replaced by one deep one, until the opposite initial proportion is achieved - one dipping of the head and 9 thrusts on the full length.
Once the cycle is completed it can be started again.❤️
At one counseling session a man complained to me about his wife. He didn't like her silence during sex, and he was damn right.
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What to say during sex?
Like, dirty talk before and during making love is the thing to make it brighter, juicier and sharper, to help reach a whole other level of relationship with your partner.
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And it's also an indicator of acceptance of your sexuality and adulthood - when you're not mice under a blanket, but two people having pleasure without shyness.
All women are puzzled about how to move during sex😌
Things are simple here. The key is to loosen up a little. Act naturally and relaxed. In such cases, I imagine that I am an actress, and got the role of a delightful seductress.
All the movements should be soft and smooth, like a crouching cat. So, if your husband is already lying on the bed, then literally arch your back, pushing your ass upward, and playfully crawl up to him.
Watch the relevant movies, notice how they move. Slowly and unhurriedly.
Sexy lingerie is not only a lure tool
That's the very part of the closet making her feel gorgeous.🔥
Even if no one sees the lingerie, a woman will gain confidence by wearing a chic set, feeling emotionally uninhibited and desirable
Sexy lingerie is a story about how to love your reflection and yourself even more, how to discover your sexuality, after all, what can be more pleasant than the feeling of erotic lingerie on your body?
Ladies get excited by classics and live music
So as not to spoil the experience of sex, my advice is to initially learn the musical preferences of your partner. After all, some music can significantly reduce her libido, while other, conversely, raise it.
The sounds of music and other affrics, chords and tonal surroundings really turn on the fairer half of mankind.
And I wish to draw special attention to the noise of the rain, with its relaxing effect.
For a stronger sexual desire, try abstinence
The method involves that partners can caress each other and kiss without getting intimate for 2-3 days. Passionate sex after that is guaranteed.
Some psychological aspects prevent women from revealing themselves fully, to throw off stiffness and fantasy. If so, it is vitally necessary to overcome fears and, without waiting for the initiative of the partner, to seize the situation in their own hands.
Then sexual passion will erupt with renewed vigor.
How to get genuine pleasure from cunnilingus?
Give it a voice - naturally, softly, gently. Or show him with your hands. A cool tip - stand in front of his face and adjust his movements by moving closer and further away.
Relax and keep in mind that there are simply NO standards of beauty in this organ, variety is fine, and everyone likes something special.
Switch from the goal - "When is the orgasm?", to the process and enjoy it. To avoid thinking about the time - it's time or not - try setting a timer for 5-10 minutes.
The throat blowjob is one of the most challenging ways to give a blowjob
Men unanimously assert that it is the best blowjob.
It is not called "royal" for nothing. In this variant, the penis goes completely down the throat. The biggest trick is that touching the larynx causes a gag reflex.
This reflex is hard and frequently impossible to get rid of. Still, this can be achieved with training or I advise using a freezing spray.
What about sex in the car?
So exciting and arousing, even though it can be quite risky, especially if the car is in motion at the moment of such passion.
Let's explore all the advantages of sex in the car.
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Excitement and adrenaline, as it's exciting and a bit scary, in case someone sees it.
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A change of scenery available at any time, especially for those with children or living with relatives or having guests over.
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That's great fitness, cause taking the right curve is an exercise😉
Stay with your partner
No matter how much you sweat during sex, do not hurry to the shower.
Lie in bed with your partner after sex.
Talk, caress, share jokes, and do your best to bring a smile to your lover's face.
Hurrying to the bathroom right after sex makes your partner think you feel dirty.
It is better to spend more time with your partner, take a laptop or tablet and watch a movie.
When is anal sex harmful?
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Despite an abundance of pleasure for both partners, anal sex may be dangerous:
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📌 If you practice without a condom. Cause you can get AIDS, hepatitis, syphilis. That's due to the fact that the mucous membrane of the rectum is more vulnerable than the vaginal one.
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📌 The safety technique is violated. Micro-traumas of the mucous membrane PREDISPOSE acute paraproctitis, cryptitis, anal fissures, hemorrhoids, rectal ulcers.
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If find discomfort, itching, blood discharge, pain in the anus area as early as possible you need to see a proctologist, then the doctor will tell his decision on your health.
Keep experimenting more with odors and sounds.
Romantic music, an aroma lamp with essential oils... What could be better?)
The scents of ylang-ylang, grapefruit, sandalwood, patchouli, jasmine, bergamot, neroli, nutmeg, cinnamon increase sexual drive.
Even some foods have an aphrodisiac effect on your body: shrimp, salmon, mussels, scallops, eel, oysters, chocolate, honey, and marzipan.
Enjoy a romantic evening in a such atmosphere and a yummy dinner😉
It was a pretty tough day out today
Good thing I love my job and enjoy it😁
And so it's evening, I'm exhausted and almost powerless and writing to you. All cause, one couple in particular has me hooked.
The problem is this, the guy watches porn and then demands the girl to repeat the scenario. The girl is against it, the guy freaks out, arguments, scandals and no sex for 5 months.
Watching porn at your leisure, then playing with yourself is one thing, but requiring it is something else entirely. It never leads to anything good!
And I'm texting you here cause I wanna tell you not to fall into the same mistake. Watch, fantasize, masturbate, but do not ask from ladies in return.
It's impossible to replicate a porn movie scenario. If only because it doesn't work for everyone. That's the way it goes.
Chatting about sex ensures better sex
Sure, that doesn't mean you have to shout out memorized phrases or stop in the middle of the process to let go of a few comments.
Communication may involve talking, but it can also be wordless. After all, we can easily comprehend each other without too many words.
At times our eyes, lips and hands speak more eloquently than any words.
What do men get the most pleasure from?
For most ladies, giving a blowjob is about pleasing a man, and what I find to be the biggest mistake they make.
You can be a guru of oral sex, work your entire body and swallow his dick whole. It won't make any sense if you are not enjoying the process, though.
The main thing for a man is to realize that you are pleased with them.
When a man sees you getting high on a blowjob and passionate about the process, it will give much more pleasure than all the techniques put altogether.
Both women and men need compliments
Lovely words from your partner's mouth, let you know that you are still attractive to him, and he loves you.
Try to praise your partner for the things he does a lot more times. Tell him that you admire the way he does his chores.
Also, it is worthwhile to let him realize that he is an excellent lover.
Make him dinner yourself 🎁
Sex on the table is the most spectacular way to diversify your relationship.
Believe me, most men, though they won't admit it, but madly crave to go beyond the bedroom.
Thus the pose, where the girl lies on the table, and the man stands next to her is practically a win-win option for unforgettable sex.
You can add a special spice and passion, if a girl puts her legs on her partner's shoulders. No man can resist such a picture.
Be sure to practice nipple stimulation
Stimulation of several erogenous zones increases the sensations, giving you a more vivid orgasm.🔥 A variety of sex toys can be used for nipple stimulation.
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Stimulating gel capable of creating sensual and warming pleasure. Ensures a pleasant and quite long-lasting refreshing and cooling effect that awakens desire.
Apply a small amount of this gel, it should work in a few minutes. Do not forget to do a test for allergic reactions before the first use of a new gel.