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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
Communication in sex is more important than experience
And that's what my online counseling client from yesterday proved! Such a hot guy... I think I was drooling when I talked to him.
👉🏻 So, tigers, he has one rule: he always starts conversations with girls first and asks what they like in bed first.
That said, he doesn't know many techniques, he hasn't had many mistresses, and in general, he heard about many novelties from me for the first time. Which I was very surprised about, to tell you the truth...
Why is that? Coz he listens and hears girls!
And this once again proves my theory: the more you communicate with your beloved before and after sex, the less embarrassed you are, the better your chances of success you will get!
Frigid or frozen?
There are girls who feel nothing... No excitement, no pleasure from sex, no orgasms 😱
By the way, in the case of frigidity - most girls work on it on their own with sexologists.
In the case of "freezing," however, the phrase "I don't feel anything" usually means the following: "I haven't yet discovered the sensitive parts of my body and haven't learned how to interact with them in a way that makes them feel."
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Do petting, caresses, and note your beloved's reactions more often.
"Unfreeze" her, finally.
Observe, ask her where she likes and where she doesn't like it, what if I kiss/bite/lick her? And so on...
Let's talk about something naughty
Since the early hours of yesterday, I had a client who commits a huge mistake every time he has sex.
👉🏻 He tries too hard to hold back his orgasm.
Why the mistake?
Cuz he can't fully focus on his sensations, he's not controlling his movements, he's not watching the girl, and he's only thinking about his FAST orgasm...
When things take a turn like that, I think it's wrong! It's not fatal if you cum before the babe, a little embarrassing yes, but not fatal.
You can always continue the act with your finger or tongue, then cum, and start again...
If you feel an orgasm coming soon, try to do a breathing practice, just breathe, I've described dozens of techniques.
If it doesn't let go and you're about to cum, DO IT and stop blaming yourself for it!
What's the best pose to practice the first anal sex?
First, you have to choose not an interesting and unique position, but the safest and most comfy one. After all, the main interest for the first time is not in the pose - all the passion is in the "first time"😉
And I'll give you at once the THREE most fitting (that is, painless) poses👇🏻
Spooning.
That's when you're both lying on your side and my tiger enters her from behind. Spoons are great not only for controlling your movements, but also for the feeling of maximum intimacy with your partner.
Doggy style.
Familiar and handy, but here a huge responsibility lies on the man. Listen to the girl's requests and wishes!
Horsewoman.
The best pose for the first anal sex. A girl can fully control the depth and speed of the dives in it👌🏻
That's it, the question is answered, the knowledge is armed - now go to battle, my sexy fighter😈
If there is no lube, she is not horny.
Another popular idea favored by many people.
The topic of lube is extremely common and relevant at any time, because it determines how enjoyable sex and the sensation of intercourse in general will be!
Girls think that they get aroused slowly so that a man would think badly of them, or, on the contrary, they proceed faster to sex, expecting that a man's erection would drop 😱
The main thing is to take the initiative:
- Buy lube and explain that it's common practice, so the two of you will enjoy penetration
- Choose correctly and opt for the best and hypoallergenic lubricants to avoid irritation and negativity on the part of the girl
- If the babe is not moistened enough underneath, you need to use lubricant every penetration or masturbation.
It really makes sex more enjoyable for the two of you!
Case study
As an example, I had a consultation with a young couple on Friday, extremely polite people. They were really nice to talk to.
The problem was that they hadn't had sex for a year... A year without sex, constant problems, arguing and fighting over nothing, misunderstanding and resentment of each other.
We started to look into it, and the reason turned out to be absolutely trivial.
👉🏻 The girl has no orgasm at all, she hates some moments in bed, respectively, she does not understand why she should have sex if she has no pleasure from it.
The conclusion is absolutely trivial, as well as the situation itself: both take control of themselves and establish an emotional connection and physical intimacy.
Through erotic massages, sexy dates, simple conversations and role-playing.
Tigers, you keep repeating the same mistake
You try to force sex on a girl too early...
No need to hint at sex in any way at the very beginning of communication with a girl, veiled or directly in the forehead (it doesn't matter), just forget about it and that's it...
As silly as it may sound, but the way to sex with a girl is not through sex!
We, girls, find such a failing path too presumptuous, annoying, and rude...
Remember this, tigers!
Shower and masturbation
Yesterday I had a consultation with a girl who can only experience orgasm with the help of a shower.
And this is a real problem for her. She is obsessed with just that and thinks everything is lost....
You know you can almost always solve the problem!
👉🏻 Stimulating her pussy this way has no negative consequences, it's just another way to have a vivid orgasm.
That's what I'm trying to tell you all about... 👇
I suggest you and your girlfriend also try shower games for a change.
You can kiss each other's body under the water jets, caress the erogenous zones, and at one point lower the shower head to the girl's pussy and start slow stimulating movements, gradually intensifying them.
Just please watch the temperature of the water!
Anal sex can be enjoyable
I was recently organizing my notes and found some very practical steps toward pleasurable anal sex for the TWO of you:
▫️Forget sudden anal sex.
You can't wake up in the morning and offer your babe entry into her hole.
▫️Take a mini anal training session.
Introduce anal plugs into sex little by little and practice cunny at the same time to give the girl time to get used to them.
▫️Use your fingers.
I advise you to always start with them. Lubricate the back hole, insert a finger and stretch the entrance, so the girl can relax and not be frightened by the entrance of your penis.
▫️Use rimming.
Well this is a very hot activity in general. Licking the back hole will not only excite you, it will relax your baby, give her time to get used to it and bring hot sensations🔥
One of my recommended positions for anal sex
This is one of 15 popular positions in the world.
👉🏻 How to perform:
- After careful preparation, lay the babe on her back.
- Lubricate the back hole with lube and penetrate with your finger.
- Raise her legs as shown in the picture, so that they are almost near your face.
- Come into the girl very slowly and start gentle friction.
You will experience the most pleasant and deepest penetration for both anal (and vaginal) sex in this position.
The babe will be relaxed, control will be in your hands, both of you will only get high!
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How to get to her body
Tigers, when you're not together yet, but you're already meeting at the "come over to my place" stage, for example, to see a movie.
But you haven't had sex yet...
You're still afraid to touch her, so you don't scare her off.
You wonder if you can hug her or caress her, you really don't know what her reaction to such actions will be...
Tiger, in this case, take her leg and start giving her a gentle foot massage... Yes, yes!
First one, then the other.
I'll tell you right away, it's not very intimate, but nice!
She will definitely appreciate it👌
And, most importantly, it officially captures permission for you to "touch her body."
What are aphrodisiacs and how do they work?
In recent times, many of you are concerned about the topic of aphrodisiacs. I suggest you get to the bottom of how they work and what they are used for.
An aphrodisiac is a stimulant of the libido, created to excite a person and to improve the sexual dysfunction.
They are found in foods, oils, supplements, plants, spices. For me, I am an advocate of natural products and herbs.
How do aphrodisiacs work?
- They influence the subcortical structures of the brain, increasing the body's tonus, improving blood circulation, after which we feel invigorated and full of energy.
- Increase sexual desire.
- Increase the sensitivity of erogenous zones.
The main thing to realize is that an aphrodisiac is not a magic pill, but rather a sexual stimulant.
Wanna see the list of natural aphrodisiacs?
Erotic massage - a long and sweet foreplay
It requires no preparation, no expenses, no skills, all you need is your desire! And I think you have plenty of it. So let's keep it and use it in the near future:
- Start with the head.
With slow, massaging motions, press slightly on the head with the pads of your fingers. Move down the crumb's neck, continuing to massage it gently and tenderly
- Use oil and candles.
Which have pheromones, aphrodisiacs and just a relaxing scent. It helps to create a relaxing atmosphere
- Stroll around her erogenous zones.
Avoid touching her pussy ahead of time, you'll still have time to do it. Caress her earlobes, her wrists, her buttocks, the inside of her thighs.
- Roll her over onto her stomach.
Pass massage motions on the back, neck, go down to the buttocks and legs, literally take 5 minutes for this action.
Only after that move on to a more intimate massage or passionate sex...💋
Art of seduction
I've learned how to seduce guys I like since I was so young.
And if with guys everything is often clear, then the seduction of girls is another test, here you never know which one you will run into (may the girls forgive me, but it's true).
But one thing is certain - a skillfully delivered speech, a couple of successful compliments and talk about what's most important to her, and 80% of the girl is ready to go on a second date ...
So here's a tip: find something in the girl that she doesn't know or doubt about herself and compliment her.
That is, if the girl definitely looks very beautiful, tell her that you think she is very charismatic or smart.
Don't say the obvious, but look for something to latch on to👌
For a good morning😉
Coffee in bed for your beloved girl is a win-win option to start a new day, and it will not only show love, but also care.
So, the recipe is simple: you choose the time when your tigress is still purring in bed, discreetly go to the kitchen, conjure up the preparation, and bring her a fragrant drink in bed.
BTW, your smile, tiger, even a little embarrassed, is a must ;)
A light breakfast accompanying the coffee - depending on the situation and your mutual desire.
Hugged you❤️
Orgasm without sex
👉🏻 In Estonia, a yoga instructor learned how to induce orgasm with her mind.
Without any additional stimulation of the clitoris or other erogenous zones...
Do you think it's just words? Well, not.
This was confirmed by scientists who conducted three experiments.
Here's what they found out:
- The first one was a five-minute orgasm.
- The second orgasm was 10 minutes.
- The third is not specified...
But what's interesting is that immediately after the orgasm her level of the hormone prolactin increased by 25% the first time, and by 48% the second time. Prolactin, by the way, is produced by the pituitary gland during orgasm.
I'll keep an eye on the news, but for now the fact remains... Thought-power orgasm is real 🔥
Even a simple blow job can be turned into a masterpiece.
Tigers, I know how many of you love oral sex...
And it's great, I'll tell you, cos it's variety and bliss all in one, don't you agree with me?
So, I advise you to use one rule...
👉🏻 Try rubbing your dick on your girlfriend's cheeks during a blow job.
This brings you an incredible high, not to mention it just brings variety to the usual up and down movements.
Plus the girl won't even notice it, as she's completely captivated by the process...
Well, if you add a tasty lubricant or something edible to this action, it will be pleasant not only for you, but believe me, your girlfriend will enjoy the process just as much...
Lubricants and their purpose
The theme of lubes is not fully disclosed and still leaves lots of questions...
Let me tell you, sweeties, what kinds of lubricants are divided into, what they are intended for and, of course, I'll voice a couple of my fave🔥
Oil-based.
Mostly grease-based, soft, gentle and well absorbed.
They are perfect for erotic massage but incompatible with condoms.
Water-based.
The most popular and versatile.
Suitable for oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Silicone.
Not always compatible with sex toys. But suitable for sex marathons, lovemaking and sex under the shower due to its durability on the body.
With anesthetic.
Recommended for anal sex. The best option!
They have pain-relieving and healing effect.
Meditative sex
A special kind of sex where you completely surrender to your sensations and belong in the moment of penetration only to the babe.
Anyone who thinks it's all bullshit, wait till you try it, you won't be able to keep your hands off!
Slow movements and breathing are essential in this kind of sex:
- During the slow movements, eliminate all extraneous thoughts from your head.
Take deep breaths and make an "a-ah" sound as you exhale. Keep this rhythm of breathing throughout sex.
Be sure not to rush anywhere, nor are you supposed to think about anything.
Try to focus on the babe, her scent, her energy, her movement and her naked body...
Meditative sex itself is not difficult, here, the main thing is to do everything right.
The sensations will be simply inexpressible 🔥
Body Care
Lately, I often encounter men who have literally neglected themselves. Unclear hairstyle, unpleasant scent, unironed and unkempt clothes...
How can you seduce a girl with such an outward appearance, and still think about having sex with her?
And it's only the outward signs available... What's underneath the clothes? Only a man knows 😄
Keep in mind, every detail about you is important to girls!
From your appearance, to your scent, to where you take her... Minimal self-care will transform you in her eyes, make you a passionate lover and a pleasant companion:
- Shower
- Washing
- Shaving
- Ironed and clean clothes
- Lightly scented shower gel or perfume
- Hairstyle
It's not hard, eh?
But the result is a joy for both of you.
The whispering of a loved one excites girls much more than porn movies
According to statistics: 85% of girls are turned on by sexual whispers in their ears...
Why? It's simple, tigers. The ears and the back of our heads are two of our body's most pronounced erogenous zones.
It has been scientifically proven that the more hissing and grunting sounds in a whisper, the more sexy it seems to a woman's ear.
Many girls call whispering a "cerebral orgasm", and for many, it is precisely whispering that is an erotic fetish.
Tigers, I advise you to try whisper therapy tonight🔥
Orgasm in a few seconds
Sweeties, I give you a proven and long-tried way to bring a babe to maximum pleasure in the minimum amount of time🔥
First, we excite the girl to the point of insanity:
- Fondle her ears, neck, breasts, stomach and thighs with your tongue.
- Then we go down to her clitoris and proceed to gently caress it.
Lightly wrap your lips around the head of the clitoris, creating a slight vacuum with your lips.
- Keep moving your tongue up and down on the head, gaining speed faster and faster.
- After a few seconds, set a fast tempo for yourself and move your lips until the girl explodes in a sweet orgasm.
"I have too much to do besides sex."
I had a client with this mindset the other day.
To be honest, I was surprised that he came at all with this mindset, but...
Okay, I'll elaborate👇🏻
He was a good-looking and extremely educated guy of 25. So, I was doubly surprised when he told me that he hadn't been in a relationship in five years. There hadn't even been SEX - not once, not ever👐🏻
Ultimately, you know what his problem was?
He said that career, money, education are primary - girls will come on their own.
But you can't fool me😏
In fact, the fear of interacting with girls mastered him so much that he just justified it by "prioritizing career and stuff."
He felt it on his own - he was just afraid to admit it to himself👐🏻
So, it was enough for me to work through that thought and stimulate him to do new things.
So, my tigers, REMEMBER.
It is OK to not be in a relationship and to prioritize other tasks.
Orgasm in... a few minutes
Sweeties, I give you a proven and long-tried way to bring a babe to maximum pleasure in the minimum amount of time🔥
First, we excite the girl to the point of insanity:
- Fondle her ears, neck, breasts, stomach and thighs with your tongue.
- Then we go down to her clitoris and proceed to gently caress it.
Lightly wrap your lips around the head of the clitoris, creating a slight vacuum with your lips.
- Keep moving your tongue up and down on the head, gaining speed faster and faster.
- After a few seconds, set a fast tempo for yourself and move your lips until the girl explodes in a sweet orgasm.
Orgasm in... a few minutes
Sweeties, I give you a proven and long-tried way to bring a babe to maximum pleasure in the minimum amount of time🔥
First, we excite the girl to the point of insanity:
- Fondle her ears, neck, breasts, stomach and thighs with your tongue.
- Then we go down to her clitoris and proceed to gently caress it.
Lightly wrap your lips around the head of the clitoris, creating a slight vacuum with your lips.
- Keep moving your tongue up and down on the head, gaining speed faster and faster.
- After a few seconds, set a fast tempo for yourself and move your lips until the girl explodes in a sweet orgasm.
Wanna have hotter, richer sex
I know you do! 😉
So here are some simple ways to help you improve sex and make the experience brighter🔥
▫️Dedicate more attention to foreplay.
The longer the foreplay lasts, the more your girlfriend will get turned on and therefore it will be easier to give her pleasure
▫️Say dirty words.
Girls love dirty words before and during sex, the sound of a man's low voice arouses and excites
▫️Be unpredictable.
This doesn't mean attacking her from around the corner, just need to surprise her as often as possible
👉🏻If you are used to having sex in bed, surprise her and move to the kitchen or bathroom.
Keep a balance of talking in sex
Let me explain what I mean.
It's just that my fellow sexologists like to periodically give opposite advice😅
That you have to talk to each other all the time in sex, or a man has to be a "dominator" and do what he wants. And then my tigers don't know what to do at all...
And you have to look for the golden mean, as always.
Yeah, if every 5 minutes to ask "Well? Is it good? Am I doing it right? Are you sure?", then...
The girl will just run out of your apartment.
So learn to recognize when she likes it - the back archs, rapid breathing, dilated pupils, and she cried out louder than usual :))
That way you won't seem insecure, but on the contrary, you're very versed in sex😏
Only the most skillful lovers are capable of this.
Phone sex.
Yeah, yeah, take your time laughing😅
Be open to all new things ;)
After all, hot talk is a great way to start foreplay before you're even in bed.
Do you think it will be awkward, silly, and the conversation will be saturated with embarrassment?
If you just be yourself and just admit that you WANT her here and now, where is the room for embarrassment?
Believe me, when a man whispers into my phone about what he would do to me and how, I don't think "oh how embarrassing"😅
I think about WHEN we're going to meet.
How to make sure that a girl doesn't reject you when she meets you?
Tigers, all you have to do is to meet her properly!
Remember: never try to approach a girl from behind.
Please leave the technique with the "coming up behind" and sexy whispering to the soap operas.
This only scares or annoys the girl, and no more...
From the front only.
Open posture.
Confident look. Charming smile.
Try it and no thanks 🙌