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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
So, what about the romantic scene?
First of all, realize the most important thing: You don't have to be too fussy about romance. Rampant sex with a girl you've known for two hours and are unlikely to know in three doesn't need a bath of rose petals.
Your bodies are enough😏
Romance is appropriate for first sex and already when you're in a relationship for special occasions. But be careful here, too.
Don't go overboard with the candles, petals, etc. - It might look too sappy. But dim lights, "sexy" music, and a bottle of wine always work.
For me, it's easy to bribe me with a nice bottle of wine😅
But today I only drink lemonade...
I know what excites guys the most.
A partially naked body.
What's more, I know this as a psychologist and as a girl😏
Why does it work that way?
Well, that's because it's the "ban" in the form of clothes that we really wanna break. After all, our brain wants more of what seems more inaccessible to it.
So, the randomly lifted skirt and almost falling down blouse will awaken in you the hottest fantasies🔥
So, I'll give you some advice - try not to undress the girl all the way during sex. Leave yourself the opportunity to peep during the process😈
It turns you on, huh?
What are guys most ashamed and hurt about?
When it comes to sex, the answer is always the same: speed⏰
Sure, in terms of physiology, even one minute is enough for fertilization.
But from the point of view of the female orgasm - a minute is not enough. The girl will get nothing but disappointment during this time.
But there's a simple way to prolong your "hours" that most people don't know about for some reason.
📌 The start-stop technique.
After I say the term clients instantly get the gist of it.
When you feel like you're about to cum stop or slow down for about 30 seconds. And to keep the girl from getting cold during that time, engage your tongue and fingers👌🏻
The technique can be honed during masturbation.
If your partner is flexible enough, suggest that she...
Throw her legs over your shoulders during missionary pose. And it's not for a pretty shot, it's for her orgasm🔥
The point is that such a simple technique will provide deeper penetration and increased G-spot stimulation.
That's why I often put my legs on the shoulders of men.
Oh, by the way, the girl can experience even more interesting sensations - she can hang her head off the bed a little bit. This way the blood flow to the brain will increase and the orgasm is guaranteed to be brighter.
Now stop reading the post and go have sex😅
Is a woman's "no" a "yes"?
Oh, that's my fav question in one-on-one men's counseling sessions. After all, no correct answer to this question is🤷🏻♀️
Yep, a woman's "no" is just as much a "no" as a man's, and a child's, and a Martian's. You don't have to try to bang your head against such a wall.
But there are situations where "no" implies quite the opposite.
When we say it in such a voice, with such intonation and with such fire in our eyes that it sounds like a yes. In these moments it's just a game👐🏻
But many men stubbornly see ANY "no" as a hint. Especially those who, after a "no" in private, start all over again with even more zeal😅
And what do YOU usually do - try to dig up the "yes" in a woman's "no"?
Feel a special passion for women's feet?
Believe me, you are not alone👌🏻
Foot fetish is the most common sex fetish among men. And I totally get why, I look at mine sometimes myself...
But you won't believe it, foot massage brings pleasure not only to you😅
After all, there are incredibly many highly sensitive nerve endings in the feet. Therefore, the movements should be light and gentle, but not ticklish.
And no need to be ashamed of your predilections, what nonsense.
Foot massage is not just pleasant, but also incredibly intimate. When a man loves you all over and even your feet...
It's incredibly arousing💦
So, boys, don't be shy.
Right now, admit it - have a special love for women's feet?
What do you need to know about successful sex in the shower?
I'm gonna "surprise" you right now, but the main problem with showers is water.
It washes away all the natural lubricant, saying "hello" to painful friction and microcracks.
That's why, our main hero is lubricant.
Lubricant is silicone if you're planning to do it without a condom, and non-silicone if you're planning to do it with one.
BTW, open the condom beforehand - it's hard to do with wet and trembling hands.
One of my fave sex positions
In this pose, I'm in complete control of the process - I set the rhythm myself, I decide how deep the cock will enter, and yet my partner has access to every millimeter of my body.
So, my sexual geniuses, guess what I'm talking about?
Yeah, my favorite pose is the horsewoman. Classic, sitting, reverse, Asian...
I could go on and on until you stop.
Maybe this loyalty to the horsewoman has to do with my addiction to equestrianism.
You can also use the whip in both situations😈
What I'm getting at, I have a favor to ask of you.
Please do not stretch the girl's buttocks sideways in the horsewoman's pose. Otherwise, you will reduce the tightness of the contact between the penis and the vagina, and this will only make the girl's orgasm more distant.
How to diversify sex?
That's one of the most common problems in couples counseling.
In fact, there are a lot of options. But today I'm going to tell you just a couple, there must be a little bit of a good thing😈
Check out a sex shop with her.
The first and most workable way. There is a whole store of options for variety there. And you don't have to be ashamed of your desires and follow stereotypes.
Just try it🔥
Sex in front of the mirror.
This kind of uncomplicated technique gives you a completely different perspective on sex, literally and figuratively. You'll see her all over - her breasts, her legs, her back, her eyes...
And the best option for sex in front of the mirror is doggie👌🏻
The basic rule of BDSM is don't miss out if you want to try it
📌 One of the partners dominates and the other one submits.
That is, no balance is possible in BDSM. So choose the roles in advance.
And how do you even bend your partner to those four scary letters?
Well, for starters, remember my words - almost every woman wants you to be dominant. 👇🏻
Spanking her gorgeous ass, playing with an ice cube, blindfolding her, and so on.
If she was okay with all of this mentally and bodily - offer to try "tying"👐🏻
The most fundamental and safe technique, you can start with handcuffs for simplicity. And then tape and knots.
Once you've heard the theory, go to practice😉
I'll give you time to do that for now, and then we'll move on to the next stages of BDSM a little later.
How to stimulate the clitoris properly?
I thought there was nothing to discuss, but...
Circular motion is everything.
You've seen the way a girl does it during sex, right?
That's exactly how you should do it - you can't do it better than a clitoris owner😅
Also, change the speed and strength of the pressure of these circular movements.
Continuing these movements, enter your vagina with your free hand (not all of course, but one or two fingers). Here also change the speed and strength, but it is desirable to play with the depth💦.
With such simple manipulations you will warm up your partner before your main "dish".
That's all the science for you.
Now try it on your partner and then tell me everything😈
You won't have sex with her without it
Well, lots of options here 😅
But today I was going to mention the tactile contact. That moment that brings you closer than anything else.
So, what is the right way to touch a girl so that it doesn't seem too intrusive?
Telling you the most effective options👇🏻
Arguably, the most well-known "technique" is to read her hand.
Naturally, you don't know anything about it, just try to be funny at that moment😅
A more "down-to-earth" option is to praise her manicure. It will be an excuse to take her hand and touch her fingers in a special way😏
Yes, and we are always pleased when a man pays attention to details.
And to make your bodies touch each other, show her something on your phone - it will be an excuse to sit closer to her. Just do it not too briskly, but as if casually sitting a little closer💦
Boys, wanna get unusual emotions?
Then offer your partner a Scottish blowjob.
I have no idea what's Scottish about it, but the point is this👇🏻
The girl drinks something hot (tea, coffee, hot chocolate) and proceeds to oral caressing.
But the main thing here is not to overdo the temperature😅
And here is another cold option with ice cubes or ice cream.
From a girl's point of view, awkward, but interesting.
But the men we experimented with reported a storm of new sensations🔥
It all depends on the first move
That's what the first rule for anal sex sounds like 🍏
And these are not just loud words, the more proper you enter the anal hole of the babe, the more enjoyable the whole sex will be later on.
Start too abruptly, the girl might stop you and won't want to continue...
Start too slow, she might not like it...
The best option is to start with smooth movements and the right position:
- The entrance should be smooth without too much pressure, without any sudden movements.
- The rhythm is such that the girl moves her hips to your beat. This work should be synchronized.
- The pose is on your side, spooning or standing.
BTW, this rule has long been tried out by my clients and has proven itself well!
So, keep it for yourself and use it, sweethearts!
Porn - right or wrong, harmful or normal?
The first thing you need to realize is that porn is a business. It's just a pretty picture that has almost nothing to do with reality.
And a pretty pic has nothing to do with the ease, comfort and pleasure of porn actors📌
So trying to achieve it is unwarranted and just plain stupid.
Is it okay to watch porn?
Absolutely, but with one important point. Porn shouldn't be a substitute for sex.
Spots to trigger a woman's orgasm
Right now I can hear you all shouting out the G-spot. And most of y'all even know that it's 4-5 away from the entrance (along the front wall) to a woman's pussy.
And you have to stimulate it with your middle and ring finger🤌🏻
But there are several other points in our body😈
The U-spot is a small area of highly sensitive tissue near the urethra.
And its simultaneous stimulation with circular movements of your thumb and G-spot stimulation is the key to multi-orgasms and female squirt.
That's the kind of combo you need to make your gal literally shake with pleasure...
I guess you know what I mean💦
Boys, I'll give you some sneaky advice.
Take a dance class.
Don't be surprised and indignant😅
I recommend to visit this place to find a lot of new "acquaintances"😏
Sorry, I just recall going to salsa classes - men were trivially in short supply. And when we had a new "victim", he had an abundance of female attention.
And salsa, whether you want it or not, ignites passion inside you🔥
And just by dancing, that passion may not be limited...
So, I don't get why men ignore this place. Maybe they're afraid of being judged by their friends?
Keep talking about anal sex...
To fast forward to the action💦
Last time I stopped at your fingers👉🏻
Just a reminder, no sudden movements or dips.
First, play with your finger pads on the outside and only then slowly go inside with one of them on the phalanx. Massage the sphincter in gentle circular motions, gradually increasing the diameter.
After that it's time for a toy - an anal plug. Insert it several times, listening carefully to your partner's sensations👌🏻
And only now, start doing the same thing already with your "toy", but slowly and smoothly😈
"What's the best position for anal sex?"
All the doggie and spoon options are the most painless and comfortable.
Buy your girlfriend some new erotic lingerie
And just leave it on the bed in a beautiful package without further ado.
She'll see what's going on😈
But don't go overboard with the "uniqueness" of the lingerie (especially if it's the first of its kind in her collection).
Thin threads between her legs, or no fabric at all, might just scare her off...
Although, you know, you can take your chances👌🏻
If it's too much for her, you'll just buy another one (just keep her calm and tell her it's no big deal).
And if she comes out to you wearing THIS...
Well, don't hold yourself back🔥
Ears are a key female erogenous zone
We love with our ears, literally and figuratively.
But I'm not gonna talk about compliments, I'm talkin' about what you need to DO with her ears.
Heavy breathing, lightly touching them with your lips, maybe even nibbling and licking her ears.
All of this is almost guaranteed to increase her desire. And during sex it will increase the degree of your bodies🔥
But also don't forget to whisper dirty and affectionate words to her, depending on the situation.
"I wanna feel every part of your body."
"You were too bad today, I can't just leave it at that."
And so on.
Everything you don't already know about squirt
First of all, squirt is the process of secreting urine.
Whoa, whoa, don't rush off in all directions😅
It's not "urine" in the usual sense, but a completely different fluid. But I'd rather let you know that than your partner in the process.
And secondly, even if you don't think your girlfriend is capable of it - don't jump to conclusions❗️
Squirt is not just the result of G-spot stimulation. Only completely inexperienced lovers think this way.
In order to bring a girl to fireworks you need:
Long and high quality foreplay (15 minutes) - she must be sufficiently aroused.
Sex "classic"😅, not shorter than 15 minutes - remember the tricks I told you about.
And only after that is G-spot stimulation. This can also take 15 minutes, so plug in the cunny😈
What should you know before having sex with a virgin?
First of all, be sure that she is of age😅 And only then act. And don't forget the condom.
Normally, a girl admits her peculiarity before she starts sex and you have only one right answer: "Okay, let's try it"✅
You don't need any extra emotions or questions - don't dig yourself a virgin's grave.
Also, don't turn on the "sex guru" by any means - it just looks ridiculous. Just be attentive, empathetic, and admire her beauty.
Ignore any of her failures. Remember your first time, my favorite "sex giant"😏
Try not to make the sex last two minutes. Otherwise, it won't leave the best imprint on her sex life.
Wanna know what the girls say about you to each other?
Almost everything😅
Sure, somewhere there is a perfect world where people listen to the advice of psychologists and tell no one and nothing about their relationships.
But we don't live in it👌🏻
And being afraid of what she says about you to someone is just silly. Don't you have confidence in yourself?
With that kind of doubt, that's what you're going to demonstrate.
So, if you want your partner to stop talking about "it" - talk to her yourself.
Find out what she lacks in sex and if you do not do what she does not like. Introduce variety in the "geolocation" of your sexual exploits and and suggest role-playing😈
Of course, the girl won't stop discussing your sex at all. But she will talk about it with admiration, causing the envy of her friends.
I often advise this technique during my consultations
And I regularly try it out in practice🌚
📌9 & 1
The idea behind the technique is special penetration.
The man first teases the girl by making 9 small "entrances" (staying inside) into her by 2-3 centimeters and...
And on 10 makes a deep and "sensual" entry.
And then 8/2, 7/3, 6/4...
And reaching 1/9, you can start again from the beginning.
The technique diversifies and even prolongs the male sexual clock😏
Try it, but don't forget to thank me later.
"Girl, I need your help: there's not enough brightness in my life"
Take a walk with me - you're glowing all over, you...
You're gonna get sick from that compliment. Ambulance, firemen, police, gas service - all here urgently😅
These are the kinds of compliments that still live on, along with their authors.
But then, how to do compliments right.
The technique of attract - repel (you can do it the other way around).
The point is that a compliment should have more than just the sweet "you can drown in your eyes" (attract) part. It's sugary sweet and trivial.
You need to add the opposite emotion to the compliment - "but I'm a great swimmer, I'm not in danger of that" (repulsed).
That is, you need something to soften that tension after the compliment - a joke is ideal.
What do you need to do to arouse her?
Tease, tease, and tease again.
The best time to do this is obviously foreplay.
How to tease her?
First with words - they'll heat her up🔥
For example, "You're cooler than any of my fantasies, I adore you and your soft/smooth," etc.
Then start teasing her with actions👇🏻
The slower you go to the epicenter (vagina), the more aroused she gets.
Isn't that what you're aiming for?
Then, your path looks something like this👇🏻
Ears, neck, shoulders, chest and shoulders again.
Shoulders, breasts, special attention to your nipples, hand reaching for your pubes and back to your breasts💦
See what I mean?
If you don't overdo this waiting (probably no more than 5 minutes), the girl will be ready to pounce on you.
Her legs will be shaking, her nipples will be hard and her pussy will be wet - everything is ready for your "coming"👌🏻
The chief assistant to successful sex
Your music playlist.
That's the key to loosen up a girl and relieve the tension in the air😉
As the saying goes, music binds us together.
The music will dictate the rhythm to both of you & you'll literally be an extension of each other.
So you realize how important music is - the rhythm will even make your hearts beat almost in sync.
How to choose the right music?
It's easy.
There are plenty of ready-made "music for sex" playlists on various platforms.
But I'm a terrible audiophile and I put them together for myself, so here's a tip👇🏻
Pick up a couple of appropriate songs in her audio and put them on that very playlist.
Believe me, your sexual attraction grows by times with your fave music🔥
Girl wanna see you on fire.
Not literally, for sure.
Burning with passion during sex🔥
Believe me, more than once I've met men who are complete logs in sex. Yeah boys, that word is unfairly assigned only to girls😤
They literally didn't make a single sound and just followed the "back and forth" technique the entire sex.
And I'm screaming, wriggling, giving off the whole spectrum of moans and trying to talk to him...
📌 A girl needs to hear and see reciprocity during sex.
So, my sexy interns👇🏻
Before sex, say what you're expecting. And during sex, say what you like.
That's the science.
One technique to boost your partner's confidence
Girls have this problem of insecurity during sex.
"Is he enjoying himself?"
"Am I doing everything right?"
"Shit, I must be like a log..."
I think you get the motive.
Naturally, the main weapon to boost our confidence is your words, moans, and on and on down the list.
But I promised you a technique, so here you go👇🏻
Hold your breath for 10-15 seconds and then press your body against your partner. The moment she hears your heart beat fast, her heart will melt.
It's not the only one💦
Be sure to keep the technique in mind, then I'm waiting for sex reports from the battlefield😉
Sex doesn't end at the point where you cum
Fortunately, most men are aware of this "amazing" fact.
But not everyone...
Seems to me that in my second year of university I was in a relationship with a guy (wow, what an extraordinary story).
I was inexperienced and shy about all my desires.
And as you've probably already realized, this guy totally ignored them - shot back and that's it.
And I thought, "that's the way it's supposed to be."
Fortunately, I wasn't with him for long.
And then I found myself in the hands of someone who really knew what a woman wants😈
What I'm getting at here...
If all of a sudden, you're a "shot and done" kind of fuck, then change immediately. Otherwise no one will want a second sex with you❗️