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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
Ever assume that everyone has a knack for giving a nice compliment and pleasing their partner?
No way, lots of people make mistakes. And really trivial ones at that.
And without compliments sex will be shy, boring and simple. No passion and resolve in the babe to new sexual exploits.
That's why I wrote a few points to talk about. What can I do, adore you so much! 💋
- The look in detail. This includes eye color, lip color, fragrance, beauty and attractiveness of the body.
- Appearance. Emphasize your choice of shoes, clothing image, and bag.
- Intelligence. Praise hobbies, art, accomplishments at work.
More and more frequently I notice female clients wondering about French sex.
Even though it's not a separate art form, French sex has its own peculiarities☺️
As an example, the French practice tantric sex with great vividness.
When you merge your bodies not only physically, but also spiritually. For each stage of the relationship it has its own advantages.
- For those in a long relationship, it's great for variety and novelty.
- For those newly started dating, as a rapprochement and getting to know each other's bodies.
👉🏻 For now, I won't write much about tantra so as not to bore you, but rather advise a really close breathing technique.
During penetration, you have to keep eye contact and breathe on the same wave. Breathe in exactly the same way as your girlfriend does.
Lately been walking around a sex shop searching for novelties, and spotted a swing.
Let me shed a little light on what that thing is.💋
A sex swing is a base or seat for securing your arms and legs. They help you make movements with minimal energy, with maximum pleasure. You can control the speed of movement yourself, completely relaxed and without straining your whole body.
They are useful for those
- Who have a great difference in height.
- Who desire new sensations.
- Who are willing to try out poses, while getting comfort and pleasure.
They help to lift the girl, fix her at a suitable height for you, which makes many poses more accessible and easier. Read the instructions before using them.
Kiki sex is the fastest kind of sex possible
That’s the type of sex that every couple should have. As my colleagues say, it is the key to a healthy relationship.😁
It takes place wherever your passion catches you: in the car in the parking lot, in a public restroom, a roadside cafe, in the woods or a fitting room.
Yep, that sex is really good!
It has an animal passion, a wild orgasm, maximum arousal. But in reality, all this is only in words, as not every girl is agreeable to it.
Thus, for the first time, advise to leave a portion of predictability, and warn baby in advance about the practice of such sex. Discuss with her the permissible places.👆🏻
It's such a hot thing when your man stands by the stove and cooks something💦
Gluhwein, steaks or hot sandwiches - no matter at all. The very image of a man in the kitchen extremely excites the consciousness of the fair sex. Like when his sleeves are rolled up to the elbow or he's shirtless (or maybe even in an apron).
Surprisingly, as a sexologist myself, I don't fully realize why it turns me on😁
Most likely, it's the result of a combination of showing the proverbial "master" image and just the pleasant emotion of having a man take care of you.
For me (and for my female clients, girlfriends) such "action" from a man almost always ends with sex on the kitchen table or countertop🔥
Gathered for you a few points of most annoying things for a girl in sex
These are critical points, advise you to focus on them and keep them to yourself.
- Standard and monotonous route of kissing. Such as always only the ear, the neck, the lips.
- Men's socks during sex. Dunno what this has to do with, but this fact pisses off lots of people.
- Distractions in the process to the TV or phone. For many, that's offensive and insulting.
- Rapid falling asleep after sex. Sadly, not everyone is aware that you need time to recover, and this fact is really hard to get over.
- Comparison with other girls. My advice is to forget about this, even if you praise your babe so much.
- Easy sex. No love and no mutual connection.
The list is lengthy, but it's pretty trivial! And everyone is free not to do it.😉
Thorcher Pose.
A perfect, non-standard pose for a deep blowjob.
Well suited as a quality prep in foreplay to a nice sex. Highly passionate and wonderful at the same time. Any access to the girl's buttocks, breasts and hair.
👉🏻How to do it.
View the technique in the picture, to avoid injury and falling.
You put your feet shoulder width apart and squat in a position like in the picture. The babe stands in front of you on her knees and elbows, so that her face is directly in front of your dick.
In the process you can stroke her body, touch her breasts and buttocks, wrap her hair around your fist and help her in her movements. That will only spice up the experience.🔥
Be sure to try the sweet ones!
Got poor sensitivity? It's an easy remedy.
Well, there's a certain type of girl with low clitoral sensitivity. And I actually find this to be a real problem for many men!
No matter how hard they try, girls can't fully enjoy the caresses and experience an orgasm!
Exactly for such babes, here is a super simple solution.💋
During masturbation, after hot foreplay, position the girl with her back on the couch, yourself settle down next to her. Place your fingers over the clitoris on both sides, then slowly pull the skin back. This way you push back the clitoral hood and open the clitoris itself as much as possible. With your other hand or tongue you can gently start massaging the clitoris.
Poses for a vibrant orgasm
🔺Partner should lie on his back and bend his knees. The woman sits on top of the man in the riding position. One leg should be bent and the other placed near the man's thigh. In this position, the partner would feel a strong pressure on the clitoris, resulting in a violent and vivid orgasm.
🔺The next option is best performed in the missionary position. The man should put his palm on the woman's pubis, while his thumb and forefinger folded into the English letter V. While doing this, his hand shouldn't touch the clitoris. Make small intervals between frictions, during which the partner should pull the skin on the pubis up slightly.
Is virtual sex deemed cheating?
Tell you right off the bat, I won't give you a definitive answer, since we all vary.
Still, lots of people believe sex without penetration cannot be called cheating.
However, others feel that virtual sex is just as much betrayal on the part of a loved one as real intimacy. When partners make love over the Internet, each one caresses himself, but the excitement they get from the very fact of communication.
So it turns out that a man doing it with a stranger is not just masturbating, but getting horny for another woman.
Each couple must decide for themselves whether to regard virtual sex as cheating or to treat it as harmless amusement.
The key point in a blow job is getting an orgasm?
Numerous girls try to give a blowjob as quickly and intensively as possible in order to hurry up giving an orgasm to their partner.
As a matter of fact, a blowjob is a highly sensual process and by no means for everyone the orgasm is the main thing.
Try to lengthen the process, change the rhythm and techniques a lot, working on the entire penis and scrotal area. Sure your partner will enjoy it.
What does it mean if she caresses his belly?
It has few nerve endings and its skin is thick. Yet the belly is closer to the genitals, and when the lady fondles it, men believe that quite soon she will move even lower.
This part of the body is massaged with the palms of her hands, breasts, tongue, hair, or her belly. The most sensitive area is in the region from the navel to the pubis. The caressing movements start at the top and end at the bottom of the pubic area.
Excessively submissive woman suppresses her desires
She tries to do whatever her partner wants. It leads to health problems, and the husband turns into a tyrant. Well, likewise, there are bitchy women acting aggressively, stroppy.
They are insubordinate, place numerous demands on their partner. In this case, he loses his manhood. Some guys stop seeing such partners as women.
So we need to learn to stick to the golden mean. Be feminine and at times tease the man with rebelliousness.
All men dream of having a woman-Queen by their side
I didn't say a woman model or the world's prettiest lady. Every man has his own idea of beauty. He can fall in love with a petite woman, or an overweight one.
Yet he wants to believe she's the loveliest. And if the woman is pleased with her body, acting as if she's beautiful, then the man is proud of himself - he chose her correctly.
And if a lady begins to explain to a man: "What kind of beauty am I? See the fat on my waist? See how my butt isn't perfect?", then the man begins to feel like he's been given damaged goods. He feels deceived in his expectations and disappointed.
Lowered libido
Oh, I assure you, it's okay. Decreased libido can be countered by regular exercise, proper nutrition, and, oddly enough, consistent sex.
A concept of sexual constitution works. Few people know what it means.
Sexual constitution determines the intensity of sexual manifestations, varying from person to person. That is, one partner desires sex more than the other. Not necessarily a man, as we tend to think of it.
How to bond?
These are times when everyone needs support and intimacy!
To mark the occasion, I've decided to write an effective bonding practice for you.
All you need are ordinary paints, brushes, and a little free time...
What should you do?
Naked in front of each other. Start painting. You wrap a wet brush in paint and gently move it over the naked body of your other half.
You can change colors, specify where it feels good and how she likes it best. Then replace the brush with your hands and keep moving along the body, smearing the paint, using your imagination
Sex is not the main thing in this practice!
The key is to feel the wave of pleasure, then excitement, and to dive into the feelings for each other...
What is the worst sex ever?
Right now, think back and recall your most embarrassing moments in sex. Remember them?
And now forget them... Cause there's no such thing as bad sex! It's about the taste of the two partners 👉
What seems bad to you might like your girlfriend😅
- Some like long foreplay, when both partners dissolve into each other and only long passionate sex is always in their couple
- Others like it when sex happens fast, passionate and flighty. When you cannot stand it and everything burns inside with passion
- There are people who reject and do not accept oral caressing and petting in any way.
No sex is bad, only sex that you like and others don't.
How to heighten a girl's pleasure?
There's a special trick for that, helping girls experience the hot pleasure of penetration.
Easy peasy to do, and it's your mission to make it happen, sweethearts.💋
Crossing legs. In cunny or penetration. By doing this, the blood rushes harder to the right places, which only increases the girl's delight. Warms up the internal and external stimulation of the clitoris and labia.
In missionary position, when your penis or tongue is fully penetrated, try crossing or squeezing the baby's legs together so that the labia and clitoris are in maximum contact with each other.
Bear safety in mind, if her body doesn't tolerate it, then refuse to do this technique!
Each couple's need for intimacy is variable
Statistically, most couples take a few days without sex as normal, after a week they already feel discomfort, and after a month - serious changes in feelings and mood.
To increase the quantity and quality of sexual intercourse, try something new, fulfill each other's fantasies, self-educate in the psychology of relationships, take counseling sessions with a sexologist - all of this will bring back your relationship a second breath ...
Test it and no thanks ❤️
Gentle grip from behind for those with a tougher and brighter style!
With it, the pose gets hotter, more exciting and even sweeter.
Here, the key is not to exceed, so read how to do it right! 💋
- In the doggy style, when you feel the peak of the girl's pleasure, grab the hair closer to the roots and pull it towards you. While doing so, control the strength of your hold, watch the girl's reaction, try not to make it hurt.
Why is it pleasant? Cause it affects the nerve endings of the head, thus adding oil to the fire and making it only more pleasant.🔥
Where to start role-playing?
The other day I had an intriguing incident. One guy showed up and told me how much he scared the lady during role-playing. Now she's fumbling, he's perplexed! 😁
How was it? He dressed up as a burglar, put on a mask, waited for her to come home. As soon as the door opened, he jumped on her already in disguise.
So what happened? The girl was terrified and, sure enough, assumed right away he was a real burglar. And the sexual arousal could be forgotten.
The golden rule of games is that you always have to keep talking about it. Writing to remind you again. Your job is to make the girl feel comfortable and coax her into playing games. Not to scare and be unexpected, but to act smoothly, with the girl's permission.
Consider this! 💋
One thing I'd like to highlight is the inner thigh.
It's one of the most powerful erogenous zones in a woman's body.
What is essence of an orgasm?
It's a series of involuntary muscle contractions encompassing the entire inner part of the thighs. And that means this area is part of any orgasm. When you touch your thighs, it means you're one step closer to a woman's orgasm. Everything is connected.
I'll share the secret of how to stimulate her properly.💋
- Try massaging this part with your fingertips, watching the girl's reaction.
- If the girl likes it rougher, intensify the pressure of your hands and nibble the skin a little. This way some will only be more pleasant.
Keep your thighs in mind and pay attention to them! Then the girl will be in full ecstasy!
Reliant men are the most attractive to girls
It's a fact. If you believe the surveys last year - 70% of girls crave a confident man.☝🏻
No secrets here, it's all quite simple!
Such men always act consciously, every movement and pose is thought out, they realize what girls like in sex, and they give it. Moreover, confident men in bed are elegant, open to non-standard positions, lively and emotional.
That's what I'm all about, sweeties, confidence in sex is important! 💋
If you are always confident and determined in your actions, believe me, your sex will only get better!
Ready to practice the cunnilingus technique I'm gonna give you today?😏
Yup, yup, here are techniques too, and what did you expect, only blowjobs get them? Ladies also wanna enjoy it.
Jelly Tongue Technique
Your tongue should be extra moist and soft, no folding it with an elastic stick, but spread it wide and make super, super slow licking motions on her labia.
Pass over the groin area with the same soft jelly tongue, liberally sprinkling everything in the way with saliva. Then return to the lips again. You can already touch the clitoris casually. From time to time leaving, then returning to it again.
Just do not increase the tempo - do it all the same slow and gentle. There are tactics to make a woman go wild: keep a quiet tempo as long as possible, even if the woman is ready to increase the pace, do not increase it. Once in a while make small pauses - it will wind her up even more.
Act slowly and continuously, be patient.
One of the components of a long-lasting relationship is variety in sex.
What is essential is that intimate life never gets tedious. Sex toys can help bring new sensations into it. Let's consider what devices your partner should try.
I advise to try erection pads, those are generally made of elastic material. Worn on the penis.
Stop waiting for your loved one to read your thoughts
Make it a rule to give each other feedback before, during, and even after sex.
Maintain eye contact.
Oh yeah, just look into your partner's eyes: you can blink, the main thing is not to break this connection.
Besides, synchronization of breathing works well.
The desired atmosphere and the sense of complete intimacy, otherwise the orgasm is simply unattainable, are created out of such non-obvious trifles.
Unconventional behavior in the fight against sexual routine
Due to the placebo effect, paradoxes frequently improve sexual function.
By way of example, a sex therapist may assign, as homework for a problematic couple, temporary abstinence from penetration so they can enjoy foreplay and explore each other's bodies.
This disrupts the typical routine of sex and opens the door to creativity, novelty and excitement. Sensual focus refines intimacy.
Foreplay is never superfluous
Interesting fact: Chinese culture started massaging the feet of girls who were about to go to bed with their husbands. 😉
So, the most thoroughly worked the point in the middle of the heel, responsible for the genitals.
Oh, by the way, try and find it and massage it. And the second point is the most pleasant for many people. It is located on the pad at the base of the big toes.
Working on this point allows you to lower blood pressure, distract yourself from routine matters and relax.
Why does everyone believe that surprises and compliments are the business of men?
Break stereotypes, as your darling surely won't refuse pleasant gifts, unexpected and vivid feelings. The more so, who else but you probably aware of what your man prefers.
Maybe you decorate the bedroom in blue colors, put around a candle and write on the floor with rose petals a confession of love.
Surprises and variety in sex are always nice. No need to wait for some holiday, after all your meeting is already the major event in his and your life.
Avoid physical activity 2 hours before and 1 hour after sex
Save your energy before having sex, otherwise fatigue would affect the quality of intimacy. After lovemaking it's vital to be with your beloved relaxed and satisfied.
To leave the right "posttaste" after sex, do not break this medley for at least 1 hour.