9306
Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
Trust the unpredictable moves
Hey, here's Lily and I'd like to add one more trick for your passionate sex🔥
Catch the wave and trust your rhythm.
For instance, while in missionary position tease your partner by alternating movements: shallow entry, half entry and deep entry, in random order.
And even more surprise: two short thrusts, accompanied by a long one, three deep ones in a row, accompanied by two quick ones.
Bonus you so, with a certain amount of observation, can determine which actions for your beloved will be the most pleasant💕
Use the name
Here's Lily, and we're about to hear a phrase from a fantasy novel, "the name has magical properties"😂
And yeah, it's still a relationship channel, not a magic school. Just when a person calls their partner by name during sex, it's really exciting. Especially girls.
By saying the name you make it clear that it's not the abstract body that turns you on at that moment, it's her, what you think of her. If you needed a remedy for alienation and stiffness, here it is👆
Well that's if you know how to make noises during sex at all. And that's a big deal, cause no one likes silence during sex.
p.s. Gals! In reverse also works great - take note!
Watch carefully
Lily is with you and now I wanna tell you about a way you can become a better lover (or mistress) for anyone😉
The bottom line is simple: give your partner the initiative and watch how he moves. What angle of penetration he chooses, what depth and frequency he seeks to achieve.
All you need to do is to use this information later on. Watching your partner carefully, you will realize what kind of sex he likes too and can give it to him in the next run🔥
Standing up sex, tips and tricks.
Hi all 👋, here's Lily and standing up sex and it's, quite often, awkward.
However, occasionally there is no other option if you know what I mean😏 so let's figure it out together
Some people have to bend their knees, others have to stand on their toes and no cool sex is out of the question, god forbid you just don't fall over. Luckily, I have as many as 2 solutions to this problem👌
🔶Minimize the height difference
Here to help you will come steps, shoes with a heel and a high platform, the latter is now in fashion. By compensating in such simple ways the height gap you will make sex much more comfy. So if you have something like that in your plans for tonight - prepare yourself accordingly 👠
🔶Additional surfaces
If the girl puts one leg on the chairthe toilet bowlthe windowsill/whatever is under your leg it makes her more stable and expands the range of comfortable entry angles at the same time, meaning that both partners will be much more comfy and enjoyable😉
Trying too hard, you run the risk of not having sex
Here's Lily and I bet everyone has seen those bouquets (typically of a hundred tall red roses) that literally scream, "He who carries me in his arms is gonna have sex!"🌹🌹🌹
For some reason, you men naively assume that a bubble-filled bathroom, champagne, an ill-fated bouquet and, sure enough, candles will guarantee you sex. Not necessarily. Just an "Oh, how lovely! Thank you." And all coz girls like not to fall into the obvious traps.
And when a lady realizes the guy is ready to fall to her knees in order to get into bed - she completely loses all desire, since it is not triggered the same "instinct of the huntress".
Speaking of which, that goes for guys, too. A man who knows his own worth will hardly agree to have sex with a girl who almost cries about it. Men, likewise, like to pursue and receive not just sex, but the sex they "deserve".
A "made-to-order" story
Lily is in touch, and I recently got an email from our subscriber asking "what's the most peculiar sex you've ever had in a public place?" Well, I won't slow down and tell you all about it now.
It was my boyfriend's birthday at the time and I knew my man loved two things more than anything else in the world, me and sex. Naturally, I decided to give him a themed gift and took him to... amusement park😂
Fortunately, he's a "summer guy" and I was able to fulfill his long-time dream: sex on a Ferris wheel. He once mentioned that as a teenager he had dreamed of such a thing, but never found a courageous enough partner. And now he had one😈😈😈😈
Without saying anything, I bought tickets to the wheel and as soon as the stall got a little off the ground, I got down on my knees and started fondling him. The guy was a little afraid of heights and I could clearly feel him trembling. I dunno if it was fear or excitement that made him shiver, but you can't imagine HOW HE LOOKED AT ME…
How long does perfect sex really last?
This is Lily, and I know exactly the answer to such a query.
Really, no perfect length of sex exists at all, coz it is first and foremost varied sex, which is not the first time I've tried to tell you.
Today it is good to have an hour and a half of caresses, after which you collapse on the bed, and tomorrow — fifteen minutes of intense "wild" sex🌶
Thus, for everyone the answer is unique, Lana likes it better when I drive her to a frenzy with my long games, while I, at times, adore the extra passion when you tear your partner's clothes and can't get enough of each other 😉
A few rules for flirting
I've said many times before that sex starts long before the process itself!
Flirting determines how hot your bed will be tonight and whether you'll be satisfied 😈
- Watch condition.
You can't seduce a girl in a dull and depressed state. If it is, then leave the flirting for later.
- Keep visual contact.
Look into the eyes and talk to the girl, the contact must be at least 3 minutes to hook her emotionally.
- Smile.
No need to bared all your teeth, a slight smile is enough.
- Touch the girl.
Say a word, gently run the pad of your finger over her bare shoulder.
Now I'm calm, sweeties, cuz I know for sure that you'll seduce the babe one hundred percent!
If you are allergic to condoms
In case you are faced with a similar problem, no worries, now I'll detail everything.
Allergies can appear in the form of itching, redness, irritation, swelling. It's not a pleasant thing...
First of all. You must realize that allergies can be not always to condoms, they can occur to lubricant and (or) the material, such as sex toys.
Second. You can find a replacement for the simple condom. Everything has been developed for allergy sufferers for a long time now. You can use:
- Polyurethane or hypoallergenic latex models. Sold in sex shops and online stores.
- Isoprene condoms, not only do they not cause allergies, they are more durable than latex condoms.
As you can see, everything can be solved if the problem is detected in time!
Ever had a problem like this?
Condoms with different flavors
So many questions come up when I suggest buying condoms in various flavors to my customers. What can I do, many of us are skeptics 😀
Let's take a look at the perks they offer:
- A wide variety of flavors.
Come in lemon, chocolate, berry, fruit, vanilla, orange, etc.
- Ideal for sensitive people who cannot stand the smell of latex.
There are many of these.
- They add flavor to oral caresses.
Which only makes sex more enjoyable and brighter.
I think it's everyone's choice to buy or not, but why not try something new for a change 😈
Mind if I smoke?!
This post is not about the dangers of smoking...
However, if you're on a first date and you have no idea if your girlfriend smokes, be sure to ask her opinion about it!
"Do you mind if I smoke in front of you?"
Well, afterwards, if you're already spending time together, respect your sweetheart and show concern for her health, so step away for a smoke.
After, use gum, mouth spray...
Other people's relationships
Over and over again the same question flies in from you in my personal messages👇🏼
"I met a cool girl. I'm very attracted to her. But there's one drawback: she has a boyfriend (husband)."
And normally after a preface like that, there are two questions:
- How to sleep with this girl?
- Is it okay if I wanna sleep with this girl?
Tigers, I can't give you any specific advice about this, I won't preach to you, but I will share my opinion on the subject.
There are plenty of free girls around, different ones, for all tastes - it's better to go and look there...
👉 If a girl has a boyfriend (husband), then you stay away from her. That's the rule!
But! Life is multifaceted and varied, and there can be many opinions about it...
Lots of couples really don't see why they should discuss the subject of sex...
It's an old belief that's hard to work with 🧐
I spend 3-4 months with some clients to get this important fact across to them.
But if you imagine for just a moment that you are explicit about your desires to each other instead of hiding them for years, then sex will immediately "take on" a more interesting twist.
👉🏻 What can you discuss?
- Problems buried in your subconscious.
- What you dislike most about sex. You can say it bluntly, in a gentle way to avoid many problems.
- Other options. If told what you don't like, offer some alternative.
- Something that you like. You should definitely talk about it, cause next time the girl will try harder to please you.
In fact, these are perfectly simple rules that you can follow in the near future!
Erotic foot massage
A girl's feet have more than 70 thousand nerve endings. This is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones.
So, I recommend as a foreplay from time to time to arrange such a massage 🤤
Recipe for a good massage: dim light, massage oil, and that's all you need...
First.
Put the girl's feet on your lap, and start kneading one with your two thumbs. Starting with the toes and ending with the heel.
Second.
Alternate kneading with light tweezing. Strengthen the movement with the knuckles, kneading, slightly twisting the foot.
Third.
Massage each toe of the foot, and then scroll to the right and left. Any slight movements will come off. Twist the ankle several times counterclockwise.
Well, when you've stretched your feet, you can get down to more serious and sweet foreplay!
"Perfect sexual partner"
Sure, there's no such thing as perfect, that's why I put it in quotes ;)
It's more like something you can and should strive for👇🏻
Good physical shape.
And it's important not only from an aesthetic point of view - sports increase the production of "male" hormones. Needless to say, they are the ones that improve your sex life :)
"Lightness" and attentiveness.
This is me talking about boys' ability and willingness to TALK about sex. Which again, has a positive effect on it😉
Sense of humor.
Well I won't even comment here - it's a skill that simplifies your whole life. But still, I can tell you more about sex
Determination and even a little insolence.
It's exciting😈
What to talk about after sex?
Ps, this is Lily. Normally we discuss the words to utter before sex... Guess you've learned those lessons pretty well by now😏
Now imagine the cherished moment (or hour) has passed and you... liked it? You are eager for more. Gotta get back on track and behave properly after sex too.
Let's start with what topics you CANNOT bring up:
- Do not talk about past relationships.
As the saying goes, you wanna ruin the moment, ask, "Have you had someone before me?" or something along those lines.
- Don't make it an interrogation.
"Did you like this?", "And this?", "Was I better than your ex?". If the girl liked it, trust me, she'll say so.
- Don't insinuate things like, You've gotta go.
"I have to go soon," "Do you have somewhere to be today?" All this will only let you know that you don't need anything but sex, which means this sex is worth making last.
👆🏻Throw those topics out of your head and post in the comments if you wanna hear my personal top conversation topics!
Stronger doesn't mean faster, faster doesn't mean better
Here's Lily and I get that lots of men are willing to work like a jackhammer, but sadly, that's not what girls need🤷♀️
If you really want your girl to like it and remember this night not as a nightmare, start slow. Then you can build up the tempo, but to a reasonable limit.
And if the girl tells you "harder," that means exactly harder. She doesn't want faster, she wants more "hard" friction. Well, we like it so that it sparks out of the eyes, what can you do😏
Being too sweet is not a great idea
Lily's on the phone and, sure, sympathy is a matter of taste, but most girls wanna see a determined and courageous man by their side, not a nervous wimp.
🔶So you should forget about questions like:
- Do you like me?
- Can I kiss you?
And other similar phrases spewing your insecurities.
Some may think it's endearing, but personally, I can tell you that it's -100 to attractive! You should be lions, not antelopes. Cos antelopes only get antelope (I hope there's such a word😂) and you want lionesses, don't you?
So remember, lions: courage wins women's hearts🔥
Standing sex: what's wrong with it?
Hi there👋, Lana here and I'd like to chat with you today about standing sex positions 😏
In the Kama Sutra and porn fairly commonly, all kinds of variations are used, but they turn out to be really awkward in practice. Why?
These positions are normally shared by partners who are practically the same height. And when your and your partner's height differs greatly, one of you will have to bend your legs or stand on tiptoes, which is not favorable for pleasure.
No need to feel bad if it doesn't work for you. The Kama Sutra offers a huge number of the most interesting positions, just try each one and you will surely find your favorite ❤
Pose for guys who feel nothing
Lily is on the line and lots of men have a problem with low sensitivity, well, let's solve it jointly.
What to do: lay her on her side and ask to move her legs while you enter from behind.
Why: The point is that male and female genitals are made for each other, but we vary physiologically and her genitals frequently press on yours unevenly. Yet you have the opportunity to make the area of contact as large as possible. To do this, you need to enter your partner across the labia, that is, by laying her on her side.
What are your feelings about that kind of sex?
Sex on the washing machine 😏
Here's Lily and now I'm gonna tell you about one of my fav places to have sex in the apartment.
Besides the fact that it's just as convenient as sex on the windowsill, the washing machine features another undeniable plus: spin mode. Oh, yeah, the one when it shakes like crazy.
The thing is, the vibrations that literally penetrate it make the sex experience just INCREDIBLE. I would say it's kind of like using a vibrator, but still a little different and more exciting. So, if you think, how to diversify your sex - start molesting your bae when she loads the laundry and bright extraordinary sex is guaranteed 😈
Posture is one of the ways to lengthen the intercourse
So you need to grasp one law dictated by our physiology.
When the position is comfortable and, if I may say so, passive, you get arousal slower. In this case, and the onset of orgasm is easier to control.
In other words, you don't need to become a conqueror of "sexual bends" and repeat crazy poses from ancient Chinese legends.
Suitable positions you are accustomed to!
Separately allocate spoons (it's a musthave for this purpose) and the position when a man sits and a girl on top.
Yeah, it sounds trivial and "boring".
But not for nothing they say - everything brilliant (or maybe even sexy😁) is simple ;)
What to do if you don't have any desire for sex?
You arrive from work, exhausted, and you have a whole bunch of other things to do requiring your attention. And your girlfriend obviously desires to spend time actively indulging each other in bed.
You tell her "no", ending up with this "acrid" feeling of guilt.
It begins to creep into your head, prevents you from having a proper rest, and throws bricks in the stability of your relationship...
I've encountered this situation regularly in counseling, and you shouldn't let it get to the point of trouble!
You need to get rid of this guilt as it is normal to be tired and want no sex.
The desire of the partners cannot always coincide☝🏻
The best way out of the situation is to say right to your face about the problem.
"Honey, I just have no energy today. I dream of squeezing all the juices out of you, and I'll definitely do it tomorrow."
All✔️
So, don't fill your head with crap - just talk to each other ;)
Experiment with positions and rhythm
Cuz that's the key to a successful and vivid orgasm for both partners, sweeties! I spend hours working every day with men who are fixated on the same actions and poses and then have trouble in bed.
Remember, every girl has her own key to orgasm!
Depending on the position you choose, different areas are stimulated.
For example:
- In horsewoman, leaning forward stimulates the clitoris and the G zone at the same time
- In doggy-style, the circular movements of the penis stimulate the whole pussy area, which makes the sensations of both of them only more pleasant.
Each position has its own zones and its own rhythm, so try everything and see how baby responds!
Concentration on orgasm
It would seem normal, wouldn't it? The more a person wants to experience an orgasm, the faster it will be.
👉🏻 Actually, the opposite effect works here.
The more focused you are on having an orgasm, the slower you will have one. Because in the process you won't notice basic things and pay attention to the easy ways, there will only be one ORGASM in your mind.
I advise you to try two things:
- Relax and let the situation go for a while. Focus only on the process.
- Try masturbation together, where everyone will show what kind of caresses they like.
That way you have a better chance of having an orgasm than when you're fixated on it!
If she refuses a blow job
There are two ways out!
Leave the subject and don't get high, or show your girlfriend how it's done VISUALLY and let her know that it's a perfectly normal sexual practice!
The more your beloved visually observes sex scenes, the more she gets used to and agrees to something...
So let's choose an erotic movie for the next night...
One with a hot blowjob, sex, passion 🔥
Turn it on and watch it with her!
After watching it offer her to do the same with your dick.
Prepare in advance a lubricant with her favorite flavor or cream and chocolate, so she will taste good sucking your dick...
Here is a simple action like this will help take your girlfriend out of her comfort zone and give you a hot and voluptuous sensation.
Girls' fantasies are like a separate art form
They are almost inaccessible and depraved...
In my practice, I've met numerous fantasies, from the most innocent to the most perverted and even creepy.
What do girls keep silent about when they feel like doing it themselves?
- Sex in nature.
For girls, it is romance and crazy adrenaline in one bottle. Summer is coming, which means that this topic is getting hot, we're going to talk about it a lot
- Sex with a stranger.
As a rule, sex with strangers is very passionate. You can try role-playing.
- Sex in a public place.
Danger arouses everyone, that is why public places are so tantalizing. You could start with sex in a car, for example.
Everyone ❤️
Blindfolded sex boosts sensitivity
I've long thought to tell you how blindfolded sex affects the senses and enhances arousal!
- Smell.
Light candles with alluring scents that have pheromones or aphrodisiacs. The scent from the candles, will set you on a wave of excitement
- Touch.
Use massage. Your touch on the girl's body will feel more powerful and stronger, she will concentrate only on them
- Hearing.
Whisper and moan. Say in a whisper a couple of pleasant words, turn on the girl only with your voice. The receptors will sharpen and the girl will concentrate only on your voice.
See how many benefits a simple blindfold can bring!
Sudden sex
It doesn't matter how long a guy and a girl have known each other...
If during a walk in the park you take your beloved by the hand, gently stroke his wrist, hug him, press your breasts to him, he will not be disappointed 💋
Then try to start hitting on him (within the limits of decency, naturally!) in the most unexpected place for it, for example, in a crowded restaurant or cafe just on a Friday night.
Unobtrusively take off your shoes and unobtrusively stroke his pants under the table with your toes in the "causal" place... Mmmm, he's guaranteed a total hoot, I promise...
Then I advise you, for example, already in the elevator, to whisper vulgarities in his ear, which finally put him in the right mood.
This kind of girl's behavior excites men insanely 🤤
How to liberate a girl in bed?
This topic came up especially during my consultations before the summer season. And you know what I tell everyone?
👉🏻 Act gradually!
You shouldn't move abruptly from the domestic topic right away to the sexual topic. This method will not bring success, and the girl will only lock herself up and will not be ready for further conversation...
What is the right way to do it?
Try without pressure, in a calm atmosphere, but also without extra ears and talking or already in the process of foreplay, ask her leading questions, for example:
"Does it feel good when I caress you there?"
"Would you like to try a new position?"
"I'd love for you to try this technique."
I think everyone gets my point!
The point remains the same: we act gradually, without pressure, and necessarily in a relaxed environment!