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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
So, do ya know the 3 most sensitive parts of a girl's body?
I'm sure you've already named the clitoris and the nipples😏
But about the third one guys sometimes, without realizing it, for some reason forget...
I'm going to add a little intrigue and tell you a story.
Last week a beautiful young couple came to me for a consultation. The problem was as follows:
"The girl was "screaming" about the lack of sensuality in their sex, but the guy didn't understand the problem - he was more than happy with everything."
And what do you think?
It took me 20 minutes to find the source of the problem👇🏻
They weren't kissing at all❗️
Yeah, as you correctly realized, a girl's third hypersensitive zone is her lips.
After all, it's very important for a girl to know that a guy wants her, not just her body. Just kissing is the best way to prove it.
And if everything goes "sensually" sex becomes much hotter🔥
You can have sex during your period
Sometimes making love even reduces a girl's pain. Personally, I was lucky enough to do it😏
So, do not be afraid, there is definitely no harm to health from it.
But here with getting pleasure everything is individual.
So, you need to talk to your partner. If she and you are fine with it, then why aren't you still getting pleasure in "those days"?
The only condition is that you use condoms.
I don't need to tell you why, right?
Oh, God, how I love a man's beautiful hands.
And believe me, I'm not alone in this love😏
It's not just about aesthetics - this is more for fitness trainers, not for me. The important point is what and how you do with your hands during sex.
Of course, you can just grab onto her breasts or thighs and do nothing else. But that, to put it mildly, is not enough.
So, remember.
📌Your hands should actively want and take all of a woman's body, without exception. And only in rare moments, "claw" at her.
I'll give you as many as three pros of this approach👇🏻
- Girls trivially like to be uncontrollably wanted and such caresses are the best way to prove it.
- There's a good chance you'll bring her orgasm closer thanks to them.
- And you'll definitely fine-tune yours while you're distracted by the work of your hands😉
Intramammary sex
There's nothing to be afraid of, you have to get ready for heavenly pleasure😈
Intramammary sex is when a girl makes your dick a "hot dog" between her breasts (sorry, funny to me for some reason😅).
At your discretion, this option can be both part of foreplay and a full-fledged substitute for regular sex (for once).
And if your partner also works her hands and mouth while doing it...
It'll be your free flight into space.
But there is one very important point.
📌Don't even think about driving your dick inside her beautiful bust without lube.
Otherwise, it will go completely "rough"...
From experience, silicone lube glides the best.
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Good sex is long sex
Rule that doesn't work
And sadly, lots of people keep believing it. But long sex can get trivial as boring💤
Remember, the only thing that matters in sex is its quality.
And if you don't believe it, then imagine the situation.
You, in a fit of wild passion, start undressing her right up against the wall (maybe even tearing something). You turn her around, grab her by the hair and start actively violating her "personal boundaries"😈
This shouldn't last more than five minutes.
Otherwise, all the passion just dissolves.👐🏻
So, you don't need to plug in the prolongation techniques I talk about here every time.
Act on the situation😉
Spots to trigger a woman's orgasm
Right now I can hear you all shouting out the G-spot. And most of y'all even know that it's 4-5 away from the entrance (along the front wall) to a woman's pussy.
And you have to stimulate it with your middle and ring finger🤌🏻
But there are several other points in our body😈
The U-spot is a small area of highly sensitive tissue near the urethra.
And its simultaneous stimulation with circular movements of your thumb and G-spot stimulation is the key to multi-orgasms and female squirt.
That's the kind of combo you need to make your gal literally shake with pleasure...
I guess you know what I mean💦
Boys, I'll give you some sneaky advice.
Take a dance class.
Don't be surprised and indignant😅
I recommend to visit this place to find a lot of new "acquaintances"😏
Sorry, I just recall going to salsa classes - men were trivially in short supply. And when we had a new "victim", he had an abundance of female attention.
And salsa, whether you want it or not, ignites passion inside you🔥
And just by dancing, that passion may not be limited...
So, I don't get why men ignore this place. Maybe they're afraid of being judged by their friends?
Keep talking about anal sex...
To fast forward to the action💦
Last time I stopped at your fingers👉🏻
Just a reminder, no sudden movements or dips.
First, play with your finger pads on the outside and only then slowly go inside with one of them on the phalanx. Massage the sphincter in gentle circular motions, gradually increasing the diameter.
After that it's time for a toy - an anal plug. Insert it several times, listening carefully to your partner's sensations👌🏻
And only now, start doing the same thing already with your "toy", but slowly and smoothly😈
"What's the best position for anal sex?"
All the doggie and spoon options are the most painless and comfortable.
Buy your girlfriend some new erotic lingerie
And just leave it on the bed in a beautiful package without further ado.
She'll see what's going on😈
But don't go overboard with the "uniqueness" of the lingerie (especially if it's the first of its kind in her collection).
Thin threads between her legs, or no fabric at all, might just scare her off...
Although, you know, you can take your chances👌🏻
If it's too much for her, you'll just buy another one (just keep her calm and tell her it's no big deal).
And if she comes out to you wearing THIS...
Well, don't hold yourself back🔥
Ears are a key female erogenous zone
We love with our ears, literally and figuratively.
But I'm not gonna talk about compliments, I'm talkin' about what you need to DO with her ears.
Heavy breathing, lightly touching them with your lips, maybe even nibbling and licking her ears.
All of this is almost guaranteed to increase her desire. And during sex it will increase the degree of your bodies🔥
But also don't forget to whisper dirty and affectionate words to her, depending on the situation.
"I wanna feel every part of your body."
"You were too bad today, I can't just leave it at that."
And so on.
Everything you don't already know about squirt
First of all, squirt is the process of secreting urine.
Whoa, whoa, don't rush off in all directions😅
It's not "urine" in the usual sense, but a completely different fluid. But I'd rather let you know that than your partner in the process.
And secondly, even if you don't think your girlfriend is capable of it - don't jump to conclusions❗️
Squirt is not just the result of G-spot stimulation. Only completely inexperienced lovers think this way.
In order to bring a girl to fireworks you need:
Long and high quality foreplay (15 minutes) - she must be sufficiently aroused.
Sex "classic"😅, not shorter than 15 minutes - remember the tricks I told you about.
And only after that is G-spot stimulation. This can also take 15 minutes, so plug in the cunny😈
What should you know before having sex with a virgin?
First of all, be sure that she is of age😅 And only then act. And don't forget the condom.
Normally, a girl admits her peculiarity before she starts sex and you have only one right answer: "Okay, let's try it"✅
You don't need any extra emotions or questions - don't dig yourself a virgin's grave.
Also, don't turn on the "sex guru" by any means - it just looks ridiculous. Just be attentive, empathetic, and admire her beauty.
Ignore any of her failures. Remember your first time, my favorite "sex giant"😏
Try not to make the sex last two minutes. Otherwise, it won't leave the best imprint on her sex life.
Wanna know what the girls say about you to each other?
Almost everything😅
Sure, somewhere there is a perfect world where people listen to the advice of psychologists and tell no one and nothing about their relationships.
But we don't live in it👌🏻
And being afraid of what she says about you to someone is just silly. Don't you have confidence in yourself?
With that kind of doubt, that's what you're going to demonstrate.
So, if you want your partner to stop talking about "it" - talk to her yourself.
Find out what she lacks in sex and if you do not do what she does not like. Introduce variety in the "geolocation" of your sexual exploits and and suggest role-playing😈
Of course, the girl won't stop discussing your sex at all. But she will talk about it with admiration, causing the envy of her friends.
I often advise this technique during my consultations
And I regularly try it out in practice🌚
📌9 & 1
The idea behind the technique is special penetration.
The man first teases the girl by making 9 small "entrances" (staying inside) into her by 2-3 centimeters and...
And on 10 makes a deep and "sensual" entry.
And then 8/2, 7/3, 6/4...
And reaching 1/9, you can start again from the beginning.
The technique diversifies and even prolongs the male sexual clock😏
Try it, but don't forget to thank me later.
The tightest body contact of your life
You're guaranteed if you wanna try what I'm about to tell you😏
The body-body massage technique is about sliding your bodies over each other. You will literally and figuratively soak each other with every millimeter.
The main condition for such massage is enough space and oil. Well, and the appropriate atmosphere with dim lights, aroma candles and music.
All these conditions you can lay on yourself, but give her the dominant position in the process. A woman's body in oil must lead the process🔥
How to get out of the Friendzone and no longer be the nice guy?
And I'll tell you right away - there's only one way out of this trap.
Let her know clearly and confidently your intentions, that you are not a friend. You like her as a girl and you're going on a date tomorrow.
Yeah, that's right, no snot❗️
Answer "no" - don't ever talk to her again. From now on, start working on yourself and finally open your eyes to the dozens of girls around you👌🏻
At some point, you're bound to realize that she's "average" and unique just doesn't exist.
And once you get past that point you'll never find yourself in the friendzone again. Just be careful, that same "regular" will probably want to be with you now.
Now play with her on your own rules😉
Role-playing should be prepared for.
Not "I'm the boss, you're the secretary".
Of course, we're not talking about incredible acting skills. But the atmosphere should be favorable to play games :)
In this case, be sure to dress up in costumes and run to a sex shop for a whip. The main objective of the role-playing games - appear in front of each other in unusual ways, and know how to bring this partner.
Especially important is that this desire to experiment was mutual, otherwise no one will get pleasure.
So there is no need to make a sudden masquerade - the person may simply not be ready for this.
Go ahead, ask your partner about sexual fantasies😈
Interesting technique I often suggest to my clients
It's especially good if the fire of your passion has died down a bit...
All right, here we go.
It's called a sex timer. The idea is that you set a time limit on penetration😈
You fondle each other as much as you want - kissing, stroking, massaging, petting, and on and on down the list.
And when the timer runs out (generally start with 5 minutes) you can let your hands and not only them🔥
Why would that work, you ask me?
Oh, simply because our brain wants everything that is forbidden and unavailable. Even if it's forbidden for 5 minutes ;)
Oh, did I mention that women are full of erogenous zones?
You just need to know how to find them and treat them right😉
And the quest should start with the face.
Yeah, yeah, you're not a ravenous barbarian in search of a woman's clitoris, are you? 😅
Women have tiny, indistinguishable hairs on their face - they are extremely sensitive. When a man properly touches my face, I get goosebumps all over my body and lose control over him.
How to touch properly, then?
Telling. The touch should be as light as possible - you need to feel those hairs. Stroke your cheeks and temples with your fingertips, moving from the bottom up and from the center to the edge of your face.
Certainly, your hands have the greatest effect during kissing😏
So, what about the romantic scene?
First of all, realize the most important thing: You don't have to be too fussy about romance. Rampant sex with a girl you've known for two hours and are unlikely to know in three doesn't need a bath of rose petals.
Your bodies are enough😏
Romance is appropriate for first sex and already when you're in a relationship for special occasions. But be careful here, too.
Don't go overboard with the candles, petals, etc. - It might look too sappy. But dim lights, "sexy" music, and a bottle of wine always work.
For me, it's easy to bribe me with a nice bottle of wine😅
But today I only drink lemonade...
I know what excites guys the most.
A partially naked body.
What's more, I know this as a psychologist and as a girl😏
Why does it work that way?
Well, that's because it's the "ban" in the form of clothes that we really wanna break. After all, our brain wants more of what seems more inaccessible to it.
So, the randomly lifted skirt and almost falling down blouse will awaken in you the hottest fantasies🔥
So, I'll give you some advice - try not to undress the girl all the way during sex. Leave yourself the opportunity to peep during the process😈
It turns you on, huh?
What are guys most ashamed and hurt about?
When it comes to sex, the answer is always the same: speed⏰
Sure, in terms of physiology, even one minute is enough for fertilization.
But from the point of view of the female orgasm - a minute is not enough. The girl will get nothing but disappointment during this time.
But there's a simple way to prolong your "hours" that most people don't know about for some reason.
📌 The start-stop technique.
After I say the term clients instantly get the gist of it.
When you feel like you're about to cum stop or slow down for about 30 seconds. And to keep the girl from getting cold during that time, engage your tongue and fingers👌🏻
The technique can be honed during masturbation.
If your partner is flexible enough, suggest that she...
Throw her legs over your shoulders during missionary pose. And it's not for a pretty shot, it's for her orgasm🔥
The point is that such a simple technique will provide deeper penetration and increased G-spot stimulation.
That's why I often put my legs on the shoulders of men.
Oh, by the way, the girl can experience even more interesting sensations - she can hang her head off the bed a little bit. This way the blood flow to the brain will increase and the orgasm is guaranteed to be brighter.
Now stop reading the post and go have sex😅
Is a woman's "no" a "yes"?
Oh, that's my fav question in one-on-one men's counseling sessions. After all, no correct answer to this question is🤷🏻♀️
Yep, a woman's "no" is just as much a "no" as a man's, and a child's, and a Martian's. You don't have to try to bang your head against such a wall.
But there are situations where "no" implies quite the opposite.
When we say it in such a voice, with such intonation and with such fire in our eyes that it sounds like a yes. In these moments it's just a game👐🏻
But many men stubbornly see ANY "no" as a hint. Especially those who, after a "no" in private, start all over again with even more zeal😅
And what do YOU usually do - try to dig up the "yes" in a woman's "no"?
Feel a special passion for women's feet?
Believe me, you are not alone👌🏻
Foot fetish is the most common sex fetish among men. And I totally get why, I look at mine sometimes myself...
But you won't believe it, foot massage brings pleasure not only to you😅
After all, there are incredibly many highly sensitive nerve endings in the feet. Therefore, the movements should be light and gentle, but not ticklish.
And no need to be ashamed of your predilections, what nonsense.
Foot massage is not just pleasant, but also incredibly intimate. When a man loves you all over and even your feet...
It's incredibly arousing💦
So, boys, don't be shy.
Right now, admit it - have a special love for women's feet?
What do you need to know about successful sex in the shower?
I'm gonna "surprise" you right now, but the main problem with showers is water.
It washes away all the natural lubricant, saying "hello" to painful friction and microcracks.
That's why, our main hero is lubricant.
Lubricant is silicone if you're planning to do it without a condom, and non-silicone if you're planning to do it with one.
BTW, open the condom beforehand - it's hard to do with wet and trembling hands.
One of my fave sex positions
In this pose, I'm in complete control of the process - I set the rhythm myself, I decide how deep the cock will enter, and yet my partner has access to every millimeter of my body.
So, my sexual geniuses, guess what I'm talking about?
Yeah, my favorite pose is the horsewoman. Classic, sitting, reverse, Asian...
I could go on and on until you stop.
Maybe this loyalty to the horsewoman has to do with my addiction to equestrianism.
You can also use the whip in both situations😈
What I'm getting at, I have a favor to ask of you.
Please do not stretch the girl's buttocks sideways in the horsewoman's pose. Otherwise, you will reduce the tightness of the contact between the penis and the vagina, and this will only make the girl's orgasm more distant.
How to diversify sex?
That's one of the most common problems in couples counseling.
In fact, there are a lot of options. But today I'm going to tell you just a couple, there must be a little bit of a good thing😈
Check out a sex shop with her.
The first and most workable way. There is a whole store of options for variety there. And you don't have to be ashamed of your desires and follow stereotypes.
Just try it🔥
Sex in front of the mirror.
This kind of uncomplicated technique gives you a completely different perspective on sex, literally and figuratively. You'll see her all over - her breasts, her legs, her back, her eyes...
And the best option for sex in front of the mirror is doggie👌🏻
The basic rule of BDSM is don't miss out if you want to try it
📌 One of the partners dominates and the other one submits.
That is, no balance is possible in BDSM. So choose the roles in advance.
And how do you even bend your partner to those four scary letters?
Well, for starters, remember my words - almost every woman wants you to be dominant. 👇🏻
Spanking her gorgeous ass, playing with an ice cube, blindfolding her, and so on.
If she was okay with all of this mentally and bodily - offer to try "tying"👐🏻
The most fundamental and safe technique, you can start with handcuffs for simplicity. And then tape and knots.
Once you've heard the theory, go to practice😉
I'll give you time to do that for now, and then we'll move on to the next stages of BDSM a little later.