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Dangerous Beauty
Among all the fashion tricks, with which girls subdue the strong half of mankind, the heel has the greatest power.
It is women's shoes with heels subconsciously trigger sexual desire in men...
It not only makes women's legs visually more groomed and slender, but also adds boldness 🔥
By the way, scientists have proved this fact, studying the work of the brain of the strong half of mankind, with the help of various photos.
It turned out: when seeing images of girls in heels the participants of the experiment had on the monitor illuminated the part of the cerebral cortex, which actively works during sex.
Of course, that’s uncomfy and unhealthy to walk in stilettos every day, but when a girl needs a "trump card", believe me, guys, she knows where to find it...
A cheat sheet of foreplay options
What I've got for you today, tigers, you'll thank me and more than once, is a brief cheat sheet of foreplay options:
▫️ Rub her feet, toes, knees, hands, hips, waist, dimples-all attractive body parts
▫️ Kiss all of the above, and don't forget something else
▫️ Squeeze her in your strong embrace. You can also run your hand through her hair and lightly massage her
▫️Touch once in particularly sensitive places to create an emotional swing. Then be sure to kiss passionately.
▫️ Blow lightly on her neck or, for example, when you want to remove a strand of hair from her face.
And, of course, your intense and passionate gaze is the cherry on the cake!
Sex game online
If your beloved is far away, you want her wildly, and she is still shy of virtual - offer her to play online in the bathroom.
Let her lie down in the bathtub with a lot of foam. That way she will be completely naked at the same time, but sort of hidden.
And then - your imagination to the rescue. Try to boss her around, let her touch herself, stroking, pinching where you say.
And imagine your hands...
And don't forget that there are sex toys suitable for use in water...
Everybody ❤️
What is the difference between a girl and a woman:
A girl unripe internally:
▫️ sobs often
▫️ uses any method to make you fall in love with her
▫️ makes a whole dramatic event, reshaping himself to fit you
▫️ becomes comfortable
▫️ eats, drinks, listens to what you do
▫️ drags out dates for 6-8 hours or even a day
▫️ tries to get acquainted with your family and friends, to attach you, to tell the whole world about your relationship...
A woman who knows her worth:
▫️ Don't like me? Get out, I'm on my own. And yes, I have a full life with room for dates with men worthy of me. Next!
I can say the same for boys & mature men.
French Kissing
Sweeties, today we're going to talk about one of the major mistakes in kissing, which is an abundance of tongue...
Please don't shove your tongue into your girlfriend's mouth when kissing, as if you've decided to put it all the way in there.
Your tongue should be gentle, sensitive to the movement of her tongue, like the touch of a butterfly's wings...
The girl should not choke on its presence in her mouth, but savor the very process of kissing. Otherwise, she will have the feeling that she is not kissing, and chews overcooked squid, trying to get rid of it as quickly as possible ...
So, I urge you to act more gently and delicately when kissing💋
Sex after the sweet and flirtatious period
Not long ago, a couple came to me for help with a very popular problem! The girl has no desire to have sex. For the past three months, she feels no attraction to her partner. And this, of course, is very frustrating and stresses the guy out.
👉🏻 The fact is that their sweet period is over and a new phase of the relationship has begun.
The infatuation and emotionality are gone, only awareness and understanding are left. It's at this stage that couples most often have a lot of problems, especially women.
And, in fact, the attraction to the partner is not lost, it just becomes less. There is a sharp decrease in the number of intercourse, but the quality of intercourse increases!
This is normal, and no need to panic!
You can try to diversify sex, go on a date more often, take an unplanned vacation.
Headache & sex
👉🏻 Let's look at the reasons why your girlfriend may refuse to have sex with you:
She's self-conscious about her body.
Many studies show that the more self-conscious a girl is about her appearance, the less she wants to have sex
She's not satisfied with sex.
A headache is like a reason to say no to intimacy, but the problem is much more serious and complicated
She has a real headache.
Yes, a lot of people can just say no due to feeling sick and malaise. And that's okay!
Here lies the main question: how do YOU properly react to such statements?
- If it happens infrequently, you can not react, and just postpone the caresses to another day, because the problem is probably not.
- If refusals and excuses happen systematically, you need to work out and find the problem.
Men get too excited while searching for their girlfriend's G-spot!
You, literally, set yourself the goal to find this point, by all means, so all sex comes down to the search...
And, of course, all attention is paid only to this point and nothing else 😱
That's kind of normal, isn't it? You want to please your baby more 🙌
But answer me please, will you enjoy this kind of sex when all the action, starting with foreplay, is only tied to constantly feeling for the G-spot...
I think not!
In cases like this, honestly, a girl is waiting for her pussy to be left alone and not tormented anymore...
So, lovers, don't focus all your attention only on this detail!
If you once failed to find the desired area, well, don't worry, because you'll come back to your goal after a while.
Top 5 places to have summer sex
While it's summer and hot, sweeties, I suggest you take advantage of the moment and have sex wherever you feel like it 🥰
Combine business with pleasure 😉
At the beach. Grab a blanket or towel, lay your babe on her back, love her gently on the beach under the moonlight & the sound of the surf
In a tent. Vacationing in a tent is the perfect opportunity for a change of scenery and to have sex WITHOUT the home atmosphere
In the hayloft. Personally, this is very exciting to me, if you have the opportunity, take it, but do not forget to put a blanket under your back.
Near a tree. In the woods, lean the girl against a tree, caress her body with a twig or a blade of grass and then enter gently into her pussy and have passionate sex.
Seize the Wave
If you have no idea how to tune your beloved on an erotic wave - give her a foot massage. You don't have to exert yourself, panting, wiping sweat from your forehead...
▫️ Warm her feet in your palms
▫️ Slowly stroke them, but don't tickle them
Massage each little toe, rub your fingers on the bones and knead your heels.
By the way, you can add massage oil for better sliding and extra moisturizing of the skin.
You'll see, the girl is so much relaxed from your massage that she wants you to reciprocate...
As practice shows, in 80% of cases far from massage 😉
So, I suggest including foot massage in foreplay as a bonding ritual 🙌
Instructions for making love in the car
Sex in the car is a great way to diversify your love life and bring a dose of adrenaline into it.
So, I decided to share with you my fave poses😏
🔻The horsewoman is my all-time favorite. Of course, it's most easily "performed" in the back seat in the car.
🔻Doggy style - conquers in both the reclined front seat and the back seat.
🔻Sitting, face-to-face is the most arousing option. The chance to look into each other's eyes solves a lot.
BJ: The driver's blow job is an enduring classic. There's not even much to tell, just remember to look at the road😅
How to know if a girl is thirsty for sex?
Watch out for these things👇🏻
The primary point to give away our wish for sex - the body.
Compulsive movements, like stroking the edge of the glass, will appear. The girl will feel like touching your body more often. She will provoke "accidental" contacts at every appropriate opportunity.
And if the girl began to flirtatiously fix her hair and bare her neck - you should be on the low start a long time ago🔥
After all, it's a sign that in her head you're already doing it.
Personally, I've also noticed for myself how my heartbeat quickens and my breathing becomes deeper.
But it takes an experienced male eye to notice that😏
And my goal is to make your eyes experienced!
Sounds kind of silly, but you get my point😅
I hope you don't miss those "feminine signs" now.
4 magical buttons to trigger a woman's squirt
Or rather "spots."
Let's start with the most famous one for all:
The G-spot is 4-5 cm away from the entrance (along the front wall) to a woman's pussy.
You enter her along the front wall and with 2 fingers, as if calling her orgasm out🤌🏻
A-spot is also on the front wall of her pussy, but a little deeper. To reach it, you have to enter as deep as possible while making side-to-side movements with your hips.
K-spot - it is found on the back wall of the vagina. You can stimulate it ONLY during anal sex, but it is worth it😏
U-spot - is located near the urethra. You need to stimulate it with circular movements of your thumb and G-spot stimulation.
That's it, boys, flooding is guaranteed💦
Anxiety is one of the main enemies of quality sex
It arises due to its deficiency.
And many guys try to "relieve" the excitement by all kinds of methods.
📌 The main way to overcome anxiety is to get as much practice as possible.
But I'm sure you've heard this advice a thousand times before. So, especially for you, I'll give you another one😉
Admit to yourself that there is a problem.
Yay, you haven't had sex in a long time and are somewhat insecure.
Is it horrible, and high time to send ya to universal judgment?
Nah, of course, this situation is totally normal.
What to tell a girl if she asks you when you had sex❓
The truth, but in a beautiful sauce.
You really did have a "break" for a while - you were too busy with work/study/self-development and other very important things.
After that answer, her opinion of you will only improve.
And she will want to distract you more often from self-development😈
There's something extra exciting about sleep sex
Yeah, yeah, I know a lot of guys experience special emotions next to a sleeping woman😈
The incredibly alluring feeling of having her completely at your mercy. She's also wearing such a thin tank top and short shorts...
The desire to take them off is stronger than ever.
So, at such a moment you don't have to wake up the girl to have sex at all - try to start acting while she's sleeping💦
Dip your hand into her shorts and very affectionately play with her pussy.
If you hear your partner's quiet satisfied sighs, it's time to get rid of her extra clothes🤌🏻
Lazy sex also brings pleasure.
Personally, I sometimes move my hips on purpose "in my sleep" or lean too close.
I'm sure your girlfriend does the same and wants the same thing...
It's how you go inside her that matters.
Tigers, men's fav "back and forth" movement is a classic, but it is with these movements that you ignore the vast number of erogenous zones of a woman's pussy. Yep, yep!
So, I suggest that you diversify the friction, drawing a pelvis like a figure of eight and changing the angle of entry into the pussy.
With such movements you'll give much more pleasure not only to yourself, but also to your tigress.
A little tip:
in missionary position, don't forget to put a couple of pillows under her buttocks so that her thighs rise to the level of the penis.
This way the penetration will be much deeper and the stimulation of the front wall of the pussy stronger.
For the same effect in the doggy style position, put a couple of pillows under her knees to raise her buttocks again.
Go ahead and no thanks, my sexy fighters ❤️
I'm begging you... to caress me a little longer.
Tiger, if you're used to going in "dry," pounding your girlfriend and rushing into the shower like an Olympic champion, don't be surprised if she has a headache all the time next time. What do you want?!
Why?
Because we, girls, don't need this kind of bowling at all...
... Explore her body by touch, stroking, kissing, lightly nibbling, but please don't go to the main action, be patient 🙌
Play with her, listen to her moans, breathe with her in unison and whisper in her ear "You are so beautiful", "I want you so much", "My love, you taste so good today", "Your breath turns me on"...
It all works!
I got a prude, and we haven't even kissed yet! What to do?
Let me reassure you right away - there is a way out!
Ask your beloved to send you goodbye air kisses 💋
What? Air kisses?
It might be old-fashioned, but it's also a very bonding technique...
Especially if when you do so, it's as if you catch her kiss and press it against your heart area ❤️
It will be a great start to a great journey!
Not sure about your penis size and sex abilities?
You bet! Most of you guys were sexually enlightened by hardcore pornography.
And porn is staged in the truest sense of the word!
Perfect smooth bodies, dicks the size of unicorn horns, sex for an hour in a million different positions...
You've been imbibing the wrong ideals, and now you suffer from not conforming to them, my sweet stud!
Relax, start appreciating yourself and watch some regular amateur porn 🍓
The girl agreed to have sex on the first date. Is she easy-going?
Sweeties, you amaze me sometimes.
I mean, not even you, but the way your mind listens to other people's opinions...
Let me explain. Most of you were raised by your mothers with Soviet and post-Soviet mentality, which broadcasted about "until the wedding, no-no" or "one girl and for life"!
It's much clearer these days. People are more aware of their desires and body needs.
There are opportunities to act and get to know yourself with minimal negative consequences.
And, when you feel like judging or labeling someone, ask yourself from whom such attitudes came in your head...
What Kills a Woman's Desire
This question and learning the answers to it prevents many problems and misunderstandings in bed.
I'll tell you a couple of things I've noticed in my clients. Remember 🙌
- Refusing to shower before sex.
And this is necessary at all times. First, hygiene standards should be followed, and second, you'll both just feel good.
- Bright light.
When the light is too bright, girls feel uncomfortable, they feel self-conscious and other discomfort, so always use a dimmed light.
- Rapid change of techniques and tricks.
Remember that you can not quickly switch from one technique to another, the girl may not have time to understand you.
- Nipple biting and pinching.
Women's breasts are very sensitive, pulling, biting and pinching nipples is not recommended.
Saved for yourself? Bear this in mind!
Morning Yoga.
Sweeties, remember my post about how guys are always on the lookout for the G-spot?
Well, I decided to offer you a sex pose in which stimulation of this cherished zone will be the most effective!
This pose is called Morning Yoga.
The girl raises her legs to her face as much as she can. You settle in front, rest your hands on her legs, and penetrate her.
It's just like the picture above.
In this pose you'll find the perfect angle of penetration, deep and very effective for G-spot stimulation.
Plus, you can add one tip to this position 👇
Let the girl additionally stimulate the clitoris with her hand during penetration.
SEX only
So!
You have decided to date a girl exclusively for sex.
In this case, it is important for you to build the right boundaries: between you there should be no love, no affection and, by the way, friendship too.
You spell out for each other what you expect from this interaction. Even the number of times a week you will meet, and whether it is acceptable to come to your partner spontaneously for hot sex.
This includes determining what is acceptable to you in sex, what is not, and what you have no experience in, but are curious to try.
You both decide if you will use protection. If not, you exchange recent certificates and discuss in advance what you will do in case of an unplanned pregnancy.
You discuss the consequences of breaking the agreement!
Including what happens if one or both of you feel ready for another stage of the relationship... It's clear, sweeties!
If it's only sex, it's only SEX...
The safest protection against pregnancy
I need to warn you right away, I'm not a gynecologist to give accurate predictions, but I did make a short review for you.
We are talking about intrauterine contraception.
According to experts - this is one of the most reliable ways to protect against pregnancy.
- Intrauterine device.
It prevents the introduction of an ovum into the endometrium for further development.
- Intrauterine hormonal system.
It releases a hormone that prevents the development of the egg and pregnancy.
- Hormone ring.
A silicone device that releases hormones that have contraceptive effects. It works for 21 days and requires regular changes.
Honestly, a condom is the most ideal option. But it's up to the two of you to decide either way. Now you know what protection is available and how you can use it🙌
I encourage EVERY one of you to try it
Petting, you've heard of it, right? It's when you fondle each other, but without penetration👌🏻
BTW, I often recommend my clients to try out petting in their counseling sessions.
Of course, not during the consultation itself😏
Passionate hugging, kissing, erotic massage, light playful touching and even mutual masturbation - all this refers to petting.
It helps to diversify your personal life and find sudden erogenous zones in your partner😈
Standing sex - deep penetration guaranteed
More often than not, I advise my clients to practice it in the shower.
Wet and smooth bodies, your hands sliding and kissing under the water jets...
All this is incredibly exciting (just don't forget the lube) 💦
And the most comfy, safe and effective 😈 pose is when you stand behind her.
There's also the popular option of facing her with your leg up when leaning against the wall, but...
I had a client break her arm like that☝🏻
So, enjoy it, and be safe✅
How to excite a girl with a fragrance...
Your perfume? 🤔
Oh, easy, you just gotta know what to choose.
And you have to choose a perfume that contains male essential oils:
📌 Cedar, basil, anise, patchouli and thyme.
Personally, I like the smell of thyme aroma oil best☝🏻
But they all with their fragrance will awaken not only a woman's desire, but yours too😏
They'll tone you up, mobilize your manhood and boost your self-confidence.
So, when choosing your next perfume, remember this advice of mine.
What could be more important in sex than a penis?
The penis is not the key thing in sex. The most crucial thing is the brain✅
It is the brain to help you and your partner get the most pleasure.
"Sex is too rushed, too mechanical, and all men's attention is focused on breasts and genitals."
That's what the girls most often complain about in my counseling sessions☝🏻
Not about the size of their boyfriends' dicks.
Gentle, warming and sensual caressing of her body is what every girl wants from sex. Put your hands, lips, and tongue to work for that.
Also, to make sure their boys know how to handle their dick properly and not follow the ancient "back and forth" technique 🤷🏻♀️
That's why you've heard the phrase "size doesn't matter." It only matters from an aesthetic point of view.
How to give her an unforgettable erotic massage
In fact, everything is quite simple, and you don’t need to have any special skills.
That’s an erotic massage - the main thing here is your feelings and desires. But I’ll remind you about the basic techniques all the same😉
Stroking.
Gentle and pleasant - stroking is the best way to start a massage.
Squeezing.
Performed with both hands, and great for the back and buttocks.
Stretching or "kneading."
Well, here it's just like with the dough, only using your partner's body. Only, please, knead with LOVE.
These three techniques will be more than enough to simultaneously relax and excite your partner🔥
Most importantly, don't forget the massage oil.
Love this part of a girl's body better
That's me talking so loftily about the cleavage - the hollow between a woman's beautiful breasts☝🏻
The perfect place to start their caresses.
After all, when a man slowly dips his hand or several fingers into your cleavage...
It's some special feeling that instantly makes something inside me light up🔥
After gently caressing and kissing the cleavage from top to bottom - you can move on to the breasts themselves.
Take your time to take off the girl's clothes and caress her breasts from her back. At the same time, kissing the back of her head and the area just above her shoulder blades.
And now, you can tear off her clothes😈
Be careful - she's gonna have to go back home😅
Or she stays at your place...