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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
"Girl, I need your help: there's not enough brightness in my life"
Take a walk with me - you're glowing all over, you...
You're gonna get sick from that compliment. Ambulance, firemen, police, gas service - all here urgently😅
These are the kinds of compliments that still live on, along with their authors.
But then, how to do compliments right.
The technique of attract - repel (you can do it the other way around).
The point is that a compliment should have more than just the sweet "you can drown in your eyes" (attract) part. It's sugary sweet and trivial.
You need to add the opposite emotion to the compliment - "but I'm a great swimmer, I'm not in danger of that" (repulsed).
That is, you need something to soften that tension after the compliment - a joke is ideal.
What do you need to do to arouse her?
Tease, tease, and tease again.
The best time to do this is obviously foreplay.
How to tease her?
First with words - they'll heat her up🔥
For example, "You're cooler than any of my fantasies, I adore you and your soft/smooth," etc.
Then start teasing her with actions👇🏻
The slower you go to the epicenter (vagina), the more aroused she gets.
Isn't that what you're aiming for?
Then, your path looks something like this👇🏻
Ears, neck, shoulders, chest and shoulders again.
Shoulders, breasts, special attention to your nipples, hand reaching for your pubes and back to your breasts💦
See what I mean?
If you don't overdo this waiting (probably no more than 5 minutes), the girl will be ready to pounce on you.
Her legs will be shaking, her nipples will be hard and her pussy will be wet - everything is ready for your "coming"👌🏻
The chief assistant to successful sex
Your music playlist.
That's the key to loosen up a girl and relieve the tension in the air😉
As the saying goes, music binds us together.
The music will dictate the rhythm to both of you & you'll literally be an extension of each other.
So you realize how important music is - the rhythm will even make your hearts beat almost in sync.
How to choose the right music?
It's easy.
There are plenty of ready-made "music for sex" playlists on various platforms.
But I'm a terrible audiophile and I put them together for myself, so here's a tip👇🏻
Pick up a couple of appropriate songs in her audio and put them on that very playlist.
Believe me, your sexual attraction grows by times with your fave music🔥
Girl wanna see you on fire.
Not literally, for sure.
Burning with passion during sex🔥
Believe me, more than once I've met men who are complete logs in sex. Yeah boys, that word is unfairly assigned only to girls😤
They literally didn't make a single sound and just followed the "back and forth" technique the entire sex.
And I'm screaming, wriggling, giving off the whole spectrum of moans and trying to talk to him...
📌 A girl needs to hear and see reciprocity during sex.
So, my sexy interns👇🏻
Before sex, say what you're expecting. And during sex, say what you like.
That's the science.
One technique to boost your partner's confidence
Girls have this problem of insecurity during sex.
"Is he enjoying himself?"
"Am I doing everything right?"
"Shit, I must be like a log..."
I think you get the motive.
Naturally, the main weapon to boost our confidence is your words, moans, and on and on down the list.
But I promised you a technique, so here you go👇🏻
Hold your breath for 10-15 seconds and then press your body against your partner. The moment she hears your heart beat fast, her heart will melt.
It's not the only one💦
Be sure to keep the technique in mind, then I'm waiting for sex reports from the battlefield😉
Sex doesn't end at the point where you cum
Fortunately, most men are aware of this "amazing" fact.
But not everyone...
Seems to me that in my second year of university I was in a relationship with a guy (wow, what an extraordinary story).
I was inexperienced and shy about all my desires.
And as you've probably already realized, this guy totally ignored them - shot back and that's it.
And I thought, "that's the way it's supposed to be."
Fortunately, I wasn't with him for long.
And then I found myself in the hands of someone who really knew what a woman wants😈
What I'm getting at here...
If all of a sudden, you're a "shot and done" kind of fuck, then change immediately. Otherwise no one will want a second sex with you❗️
Isn't it harmful to have sex every day?
I wish people would come to me for counseling with problems like that😅
Sure, you can.
Even two, three or four times a day. I don't know where you're gonna find that kind of time and partners🔥
You can, cause every person is different.
There's such a thing as sexual constitution - the body's need for sex. So, as much as your body wants and can, let it have it.
I'll tell you even more than that.
Daily sex exercises your cardiovascular system, improves your sleep, boosts your immune system, and even reduces the risk of prostate cancer in men👌🏻
How to give a girl a hint about a BJ?
That's a classic question😅
If a blowjob didn't happen in your first few times, there's a high risk that she's the "This? In the mouth? No way!"
The way to solve this problem is to give her a cunny or another way to make her want to please/thank you👌🏻
The way of demanding a blowjob, in advance, is a lose-lose. You need to hint and frankly talk to her and implant the idea of giving you a blowjob.
Also, try to relax her as much as possible before sex👇🏻
An erotic massage, a romantic setting, and be sure to turn off the lights.
Sometimes massage is just out of place.
Yeah, yeah, that's me talking about the most workable and famous foreplay.
Now I'll tell you a story from a former client of mine👇🏻
So he met a girl on Tinder. Conversation went rapidly and the same day he asked her to meet him at the skating rink.
She got cold at the rink and "I suggested to find a warmer place" - they went to his place🔥
He did everything nicely, and the girl initially showed a strong interest - mutual desire.
But when he came home he gave her a "session" of massage for some reason🤦🏼
As a result, the girl was so relaxed that she craved sleep😂
Sex was there, but on a downward spiral...
Asking the client why he was doing it - "just really wanted to make her feel good"...
So, my boys.
Massage is good, but in moderation and to the point.
What ANY girl wants
I mean, you do realize how carefully we prepare for sex, huh?
EVERY girl feels like to be desired and loved - she wanna see it in your eyes.
Do u know how to quench that desire?
Undress the girl SLOWLY.
Focus on every cell of her body as you undo the buttons of her shirt. And when you're done, go up to her neck and kiss her lips, take your bra off unhurriedly. Then go up to her thighs with slow, incremental movements of your fingers and take off her panties...
Believe me, as a woman and a sexologist, it WORKS🔥
Sometimes you can't even undress her all the way - I dunno why, but it gives a totally different feeling😏
Especially when I've made an effort with my choice of beautiful (and expensive, geez) lingerie.
So, take your time - appetite comes with the meal😈
For a good morning😉
Coffee in bed for your beloved girl is a win-win option to start a new day, and it will not only show love, but also care.
So, the recipe is simple: you choose the time when your tigress is still purring in bed, discreetly go to the kitchen, conjure up the preparation, and bring her a fragrant drink in bed.
BTW, your smile, tiger, even a little embarrassed, is a must ;)
A light breakfast accompanying the coffee - depending on the situation and your mutual desire.
Hugged you❤️
Orgasm without sex
👉🏻 In Estonia, a yoga instructor learned how to induce orgasm with her mind.
Without any additional stimulation of the clitoris or other erogenous zones...
Do you think it's just words? Well, not.
This was confirmed by scientists who conducted three experiments.
Here's what they found out:
- The first one was a five-minute orgasm.
- The second orgasm was 10 minutes.
- The third is not specified...
But what's interesting is that immediately after the orgasm her level of the hormone prolactin increased by 25% the first time, and by 48% the second time. Prolactin, by the way, is produced by the pituitary gland during orgasm.
I'll keep an eye on the news, but for now the fact remains... Thought-power orgasm is real 🔥
Even a simple blow job can be turned into a masterpiece.
Tigers, I know how many of you love oral sex...
And it's great, I'll tell you, cos it's variety and bliss all in one, don't you agree with me?
So, I advise you to use one rule...
👉🏻 Try rubbing your dick on your girlfriend's cheeks during a blow job.
This brings you an incredible high, not to mention it just brings variety to the usual up and down movements.
Plus the girl won't even notice it, as she's completely captivated by the process...
Well, if you add a tasty lubricant or something edible to this action, it will be pleasant not only for you, but believe me, your girlfriend will enjoy the process just as much...
Lubricants and their purpose
The theme of lubes is not fully disclosed and still leaves lots of questions...
Let me tell you, sweeties, what kinds of lubricants are divided into, what they are intended for and, of course, I'll voice a couple of my fave🔥
Oil-based.
Mostly grease-based, soft, gentle and well absorbed.
They are perfect for erotic massage but incompatible with condoms.
Water-based.
The most popular and versatile.
Suitable for oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Silicone.
Not always compatible with sex toys. But suitable for sex marathons, lovemaking and sex under the shower due to its durability on the body.
With anesthetic.
Recommended for anal sex. The best option!
They have pain-relieving and healing effect.
Meditative sex
A special kind of sex where you completely surrender to your sensations and belong in the moment of penetration only to the babe.
Anyone who thinks it's all bullshit, wait till you try it, you won't be able to keep your hands off!
Slow movements and breathing are essential in this kind of sex:
- During the slow movements, eliminate all extraneous thoughts from your head.
Take deep breaths and make an "a-ah" sound as you exhale. Keep this rhythm of breathing throughout sex.
Be sure not to rush anywhere, nor are you supposed to think about anything.
Try to focus on the babe, her scent, her energy, her movement and her naked body...
Meditative sex itself is not difficult, here, the main thing is to do everything right.
The sensations will be simply inexpressible 🔥
How to stimulate the clitoris properly?
I thought there was nothing to discuss, but...
Circular motion is everything.
You've seen the way a girl does it during sex, right?
That's exactly how you should do it - you can't do it better than a clitoris owner😅
Also, change the speed and strength of the pressure of these circular movements.
Continuing these movements, enter your vagina with your free hand (not all of course, but one or two fingers). Here also change the speed and strength, but it is desirable to play with the depth💦.
With such simple manipulations you will warm up your partner before your main "dish".
That's all the science for you.
Now try it on your partner and then tell me everything😈
You won't have sex with her without it
Well, lots of options here 😅
But today I was going to mention the tactile contact. That moment that brings you closer than anything else.
So, what is the right way to touch a girl so that it doesn't seem too intrusive?
Telling you the most effective options👇🏻
Arguably, the most well-known "technique" is to read her hand.
Naturally, you don't know anything about it, just try to be funny at that moment😅
A more "down-to-earth" option is to praise her manicure. It will be an excuse to take her hand and touch her fingers in a special way😏
Yes, and we are always pleased when a man pays attention to details.
And to make your bodies touch each other, show her something on your phone - it will be an excuse to sit closer to her. Just do it not too briskly, but as if casually sitting a little closer💦
Boys, wanna get unusual emotions?
Then offer your partner a Scottish blowjob.
I have no idea what's Scottish about it, but the point is this👇🏻
The girl drinks something hot (tea, coffee, hot chocolate) and proceeds to oral caressing.
But the main thing here is not to overdo the temperature😅
And here is another cold option with ice cubes or ice cream.
From a girl's point of view, awkward, but interesting.
But the men we experimented with reported a storm of new sensations🔥
It all depends on the first move
That's what the first rule for anal sex sounds like 🍏
And these are not just loud words, the more proper you enter the anal hole of the babe, the more enjoyable the whole sex will be later on.
Start too abruptly, the girl might stop you and won't want to continue...
Start too slow, she might not like it...
The best option is to start with smooth movements and the right position:
- The entrance should be smooth without too much pressure, without any sudden movements.
- The rhythm is such that the girl moves her hips to your beat. This work should be synchronized.
- The pose is on your side, spooning or standing.
BTW, this rule has long been tried out by my clients and has proven itself well!
So, keep it for yourself and use it, sweethearts!
Porn - right or wrong, harmful or normal?
The first thing you need to realize is that porn is a business. It's just a pretty picture that has almost nothing to do with reality.
And a pretty pic has nothing to do with the ease, comfort and pleasure of porn actors📌
So trying to achieve it is unwarranted and just plain stupid.
Is it okay to watch porn?
Absolutely, but with one important point. Porn shouldn't be a substitute for sex.
Without which sex toy you cannot have anal sex
Well, maybe you will, but not as successful...
I don't think my boys have any idea what I'm talking about, but the girls do😏
I'm all about the anal plug.
Yeah, it's not just a way to get pleasure like many people think.
📌An anal plug is a must in preparation for anal sex. It will gradually relax the sphincter muscles, so your dick won't "push out".
Masturbation is really harmful and it's time you...
Stop thinking like that😉
People used to masturbate, masturbate and will keep masturbating.
And if you have no permanent partner, it's even useful. After all, the production of male seminal fluid is a regular process and it needs to be emptied regularly.
Any norms about the frequency of masturbation do not exist, just don't set any records☝🏻
In general, the body cannot even notice the difference between masturbation and sex.
One BUT❗️
Masturbation shouldn't be dry - it can damage the mucosa and nerve endings.
And you shouldn't squeeze your dick too hard. You won't feel so tight inside the girl and it may affect your sensitivity.
When it falls at the most crucial moment...
Your penis, and your self-esteem along with it.
Let me reassure you right away: people come to me regularly for consultations with this problem. And often, it's solved in one session.
So, now I'll tell you what to do in this "horrible" situation👌🏻
First, reassure your partner.
Yeah, you're a little shocked yourself, but think of her. Just now she was the most desirable, and here's the precipitous drop👎🏻
Believe me, the cockroaches in our heads start saying bad things...
So, tell her something like, "You're so beautiful, it's not just my head that's turned off."
I mean, you've got ten fingers and a tongue. That's more than enough for a woman's orgasm.
Boys, are ya ready to experiment?
Then I'm sharing with you the best position😏
"Dolphin" - you kneel and the girl lies on her back with her hips raised, throwing her legs over you.
For more comfort, put a pillow under her thighs and rest your feet on something.
Why the pose is so hot❓
Thanks to the unusual angle of penetration, giving you a whole new sensation. And the same angle will provide the strongest stimulation of the G-spot.
So, both will be happy👌🏻
And the "dolphin" even looks nice.
BTW, I've always wondered how men feel about this hobby...
Communication in sex is more important than experience
And that's what my online counseling client from yesterday proved! Such a hot guy... I think I was drooling when I talked to him.
👉🏻 So, tigers, he has one rule: he always starts conversations with girls first and asks what they like in bed first.
That said, he doesn't know many techniques, he hasn't had many mistresses, and in general, he heard about many novelties from me for the first time. Which I was very surprised about, to tell you the truth...
Why is that? Coz he listens and hears girls!
And this once again proves my theory: the more you communicate with your beloved before and after sex, the less embarrassed you are, the better your chances of success you will get!
Frigid or frozen?
There are girls who feel nothing... No excitement, no pleasure from sex, no orgasms 😱
By the way, in the case of frigidity - most girls work on it on their own with sexologists.
In the case of "freezing," however, the phrase "I don't feel anything" usually means the following: "I haven't yet discovered the sensitive parts of my body and haven't learned how to interact with them in a way that makes them feel."
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Do petting, caresses, and note your beloved's reactions more often.
"Unfreeze" her, finally.
Observe, ask her where she likes and where she doesn't like it, what if I kiss/bite/lick her? And so on...
Let's talk about something naughty
Since the early hours of yesterday, I had a client who commits a huge mistake every time he has sex.
👉🏻 He tries too hard to hold back his orgasm.
Why the mistake?
Cuz he can't fully focus on his sensations, he's not controlling his movements, he's not watching the girl, and he's only thinking about his FAST orgasm...
When things take a turn like that, I think it's wrong! It's not fatal if you cum before the babe, a little embarrassing yes, but not fatal.
You can always continue the act with your finger or tongue, then cum, and start again...
If you feel an orgasm coming soon, try to do a breathing practice, just breathe, I've described dozens of techniques.
If it doesn't let go and you're about to cum, DO IT and stop blaming yourself for it!
What's the best pose to practice the first anal sex?
First, you have to choose not an interesting and unique position, but the safest and most comfy one. After all, the main interest for the first time is not in the pose - all the passion is in the "first time"😉
And I'll give you at once the THREE most fitting (that is, painless) poses👇🏻
Spooning.
That's when you're both lying on your side and my tiger enters her from behind. Spoons are great not only for controlling your movements, but also for the feeling of maximum intimacy with your partner.
Doggy style.
Familiar and handy, but here a huge responsibility lies on the man. Listen to the girl's requests and wishes!
Horsewoman.
The best pose for the first anal sex. A girl can fully control the depth and speed of the dives in it👌🏻
That's it, the question is answered, the knowledge is armed - now go to battle, my sexy fighter😈
If there is no lube, she is not horny.
Another popular idea favored by many people.
The topic of lube is extremely common and relevant at any time, because it determines how enjoyable sex and the sensation of intercourse in general will be!
Girls think that they get aroused slowly so that a man would think badly of them, or, on the contrary, they proceed faster to sex, expecting that a man's erection would drop 😱
The main thing is to take the initiative:
- Buy lube and explain that it's common practice, so the two of you will enjoy penetration
- Choose correctly and opt for the best and hypoallergenic lubricants to avoid irritation and negativity on the part of the girl
- If the babe is not moistened enough underneath, you need to use lubricant every penetration or masturbation.
It really makes sex more enjoyable for the two of you!
Case study
As an example, I had a consultation with a young couple on Friday, extremely polite people. They were really nice to talk to.
The problem was that they hadn't had sex for a year... A year without sex, constant problems, arguing and fighting over nothing, misunderstanding and resentment of each other.
We started to look into it, and the reason turned out to be absolutely trivial.
👉🏻 The girl has no orgasm at all, she hates some moments in bed, respectively, she does not understand why she should have sex if she has no pleasure from it.
The conclusion is absolutely trivial, as well as the situation itself: both take control of themselves and establish an emotional connection and physical intimacy.
Through erotic massages, sexy dates, simple conversations and role-playing.