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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
When is anal sex harmful?
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Despite an abundance of pleasure for both partners, anal sex may be dangerous:
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📌 If you practice without a condom. Cause you can get AIDS, hepatitis, syphilis. That's due to the fact that the mucous membrane of the rectum is more vulnerable than the vaginal one.
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📌 The safety technique is violated. Micro-traumas of the mucous membrane PREDISPOSE acute paraproctitis, cryptitis, anal fissures, hemorrhoids, rectal ulcers.
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If find discomfort, itching, blood discharge, pain in the anus area as early as possible you need to see a proctologist, then the doctor will tell his decision on your health.
Why does the sex drive vanish?
Let's start with the fact that sex drive (libido) consists of several factors. Namely, desire, attraction, and arousal.
When they work together, things are great. You want the girl, she wants you. Yet if one of the factors breaks down, the sex drive gets disrupted!
In fact, there are a mountain of reasons for decreased libido, from physical and psychological problems to socio-cultural factors.
Still, here are some of the top ones:
Alcohol, smoking, anxiety, depression, stress, diseases, length and quality of relationships.
Bottom line here is, keep an eye on these criteria, and everything with your attraction is gonna be fine.
Hope I didn't exhaust you💋
My goodies, wanna know what girls vehemently dislike about sex and relationships?
Lack of touching is a straight road to failure
If you only approach her body during sex, most girls assume you are a lousy lover!
One of my clients said, "If he doesn't make an effort to cuddle me, tuck my hair behind my ear, or support me, it's not worth it. The game's not worth playing. Means sex is gonna be awful"
So, what is the deal now?
That's right, if the babe is around, go ahead and hug her for no reason😉
Faster and faster🔥
As practice shows, girls don't really like👆🏻
Oh, yeah, again I mean the moves. Don't try to get fire when masturbating together.
The clitoris is the most sensitive spot. And that's where caress and lubrication are vital😉
Thus too fast movements prevent the girl from concentrating, which entails loss of orgasm and quarrels.
So always act slowly, without torment and rudeness. And don't forget about lube.
He started crying after orgasm
Fess up, which one of you cried after sex? Maybe you, or perhaps your girlfriend. Take a good look back and relax, coz it's normal💋
Postcoital dysphoria, which is a state of depression, apathy, and low mood, is to blame.
Once my ex also cried immediately after orgasm, even though I know the sex was awesome.
The reason is that a person has a lot of stress and negative emotions. Everyone has hard times. And crying is just one of the body's ways of saying it's time to reboot.
Which is what I advise you to do, in these situations. Reboot and, if possible, take a good rest😉
Smell is the basis of compatibility between partners
We still have a lot of animal parts left in us.)
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You may like a person in appearance, his sense of humor, education, hobbies, interests. Yet your sexuality will always tell you if you are compatible or not.
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You can teach sex skills 😉 But you cannot fool your instincts! And that instinct is in the smell.
If you do not like the way your partner smells and tastes (and we are not talking about hygiene, but about pheromones), then no matter how good a person he is – you won’t feel comfortable in the relationship further, it will seem that "something is wrong".
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⚡️A scent is said to bring out a person's intimacy as much as possible and help the other person feel more together as well as to open up to the other person.
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If everything is satisfactory in a person, but the smell during intimacy is not, such people often remain in a friendly relationship with a note of flirtation.
What are erection rings?
If you haven't used them yet, you've lost a lot😔
These sex toys are designed specifically to prolong and enhance erections.
They squeeze the penis, reducing blood flow. They are single as in the photo, some are double/triple. I do not advise to use them so often, though at times they can be pretty handy.
However, instead of an erection ring, you can use a squeezing technique: before the onset of orgasm, squeeze the place between the shaft and the head with your fingers.
Even if you both agree to have anal sex, take your time
Please consider the foreplay☺
Yeah, it matters here, too. You cannot just pounce on a girl without proper preparation. No matter how much you want it, the results can be disheartening for both of you.
Better give time for traditional foreplay, the kind of play your little one is used to. Those caresses that she is sure to enjoy.
Ideally, it would be if the girl will experience an orgasm before getting into her back hole. Cause she'll be totally relaxed and emotionally ready to go on😉
Sex should be every day!
Another bad myth that many people succumb to. They believe it and create their own problems as well. That's the way we are, we love a challenge!
And if they don't have sex every day, what happens? Panic!
Like my couple today. Came to me with this exact problem. Sex had become routine and they were just sick of it. After all, they forced themselves to have sex daily.
Yet everyone has different needs and opportunities. For some people once a week is enough, for others every day is enough. And only we choose when and how much to have sex. Remember that, sugar! 💋
What's the trendy pose?
It's no secret that I'm a pain in the ass. Every month I do surveys with my clients. Let’s say, this month I was collecting information about which pose is the most popular😁.
Cannot say that the results surprised me, but I still have to share them with you!
Doggy style, that's what position is trending right now. And if you and baby love it too, I have a little bonus for you💋
Give babe the gift of control specifically in doggy style.
Do you have any idea what you get along with that? Oh, I don't think so to the end. When a girl takes the initiative and is in control herself, she is capable of so much. Believe me.
As one of my clients said, "At times like this, my husband leaves the bed haggard." And she's right! I'll tell you more, it's also a great reason to watch the girl and understand what rhythm and movements she likes.
One of the coolest techniques in cunnilingus
It's the ultimate ecstasy! Excitement and pleasure. And I have to tell you about it💋
The feedback from my clients is, "That’s the bomb!"
The essence of the technique is that you have to draw the letters of the alphabet with your tongue in order during cunnilingus. So that by the last letter, the girl has reached orgasm.
Put the baby in a comfortable position, relax her and begin the action. With your tongue begin to draw the letters of the alphabet in order. Just please, do not think too much, it is not necessary to remember every letter, if you miss one it is OK, keep moving forward.
Believe me, at the end of your actions with your tongue, she will see stars of pleasure. Apply and enjoy😉
Has she reached orgasm so far?
Many guys cannot distinguish when the peak of pleasure comes in a girl. And what about guys, some girls can't tell if they had an orgasm or not☝🏻
We gotta fix that, cos it's crucial. So, I made a list of the orgasm signs, right the most popular and common among girls.
Basic signs of orgasm:
- Involuntary contraction of the vaginal muscles. The muscles tighten and contract. This can be felt with your penis, fingers and tongue.
- Milky colored discharge.
- Deep and muffled moans. As a rule, they are not arbitrary, and it is difficult to restrain them.
- A red face and décolleté area, due to a rush of blood and dilation of the blood vessels.
- cramping and trembling in legs from the intense sensation of orgasm.
This is like a little instruction manual for you. Keep it and use it, my sweets💋
In case sex in bed or on the couch is boring
Perhaps a nice way to vary your sex life: have sex against the wall. After all, I know how you are fond of peculiar places and extraordinary sex😉
Nothing special, you say, but I'm gonna tell you it's a new, unforgettable experience. At the wall, the angle of penetration is extremely deep and fascinating.
Doggy style, palm resting or standing position, would be the perfect fit here. Just calculate your strength, lift the girl's leg for more intense penetration and the feeling is awesome.
Try it💋
Opinions are divided, so let's not hesitate to discuss it!
I want you to know that masturbation is normal!
For men and women alike, it is inherent in nature, and is not considered cheating on your partner. Moreover, that’s a good option to get discharge and satisfaction, in some cases to one partner, and sometimes to both at the same time.
And now to the key!
Masturbation cannot destroy relationships, but an inadequate attitude towards it, has a certain power. And this is where simple jealousy is to blame! Jealousy of porn movies or naked girls in pictures. Cause many girls immediately begin to look for flaws in their bodies and think this is about them.
I advise in such a situation to talk to the babe. Tell her how natural and not embarrassing it is. And then offer to play together. Take a quality porn movie and watch it. Show her that it's not so scary in reality.
Shibari Goosebumps
You know how much I adore this technique and ready to share about it forever. Well, since it has a huge amount of sensuality, aesthetics and eroticism👆🏻
And lately guys have started asking, "Dasha, can you describe how a girl feels in the process?"
When tied properly, this is what a girl feels:
- A slight tickling pain.
- A strong and growing arousal. By affecting the erogenous zones.
- Hopelessness and helplessness, turning into trust and acceptance.
- A pulsation in the frozen muscles that she didn't even know she had.
And all of this comes almost immediately!
BDSM culture is drawing more and more interest. Ever wondered why?
Cause it busts the stereotype of the male hunter.
Even modest women should try on the leading role in bed😉
Tie a man's hands or fasten them to the headboard, let him relax and enjoy your actions. In that way he feels like your prey in bed. For most, that's a novel and uncharted role.
You can choose your own scenario — tenderly caress his body, driving him to a frenzy, or add "spice" to the petting.
How to get rid of stress?
A blow job and a cunny is what truly wonders with accumulated stress😉
When you guys give a cunny, or when a girl gives a blowjob, at this time you are relaxed, aroused, and both enjoy the process.
At this point, the hormone starts actively producing oxytocin, which fights depression, stress and bad moods.
So if suddenly moping overtook you, engage in oral caresses with your baby.
Why does she refuse tongue caressing?
Coming up, the topic is intimate and touchy. But not telling about it would be my failure.
So, if a lady is unwilling to cunny, it's not always about you!
One of the reasons is shyness of her smell or taste there.
So your job is to help the lady realize it's a joy for you!
The way to do it:
• Talk to her. Remember when I posted that talking is crucial? Then take advantage of it.
• Always let her take a shower beforehand. For her own peace of mind.
• Use lube in a variety of flavors at first. Again, for her own comfort.
My clients benefit tremendously from that!
How do you feel about the idea of playing with your babe?
All you need is a blindfold and a buzzing mood😉
Grab a nice cloth, or a scarf, blindfold yourself and do something so lewd.
Let your imagination run wild. Use all the tools: massage, cunny, masturbation, penetration.
I didn't suggest that for nothing. Coz blindfolded sex heightens the sensation of orgasm.
It dulls one sense, vision.
It sharpened another sense, arousal.
Passion and hot orgasm guaranteed👌🏻
How to strengthen orgasm?
Breathing is an essential thing, and a lot depends on it, including the quality of the orgasm! I recently tested a new technique, thus hurry to share it with you, for sure💋
Breathing and diaphragm, that's what we'll need. No toys and no unnecessary spending. Just the desire to get awesome sensations!
The gist is simple: during penetration, if you feel a wave of pleasure coming and rolling in, take a deep breath, hold your breath for the whole time of friction (movements) as much as possible.
When you hold your breath, your diaphragm contracts, while intimate body muscles contract. At this time, everything is coordinated with each other, and a greater focus on sexual energy and sensations arises.
Seems complicated, yet it's actually pretty easy! You're sure to love the feeling😉
Many people concern about the question:
How long should foreplay last?
You've probably noticed that it takes less time for a man to get aroused than it does for a woman. The duration of the arousal cycle for men is about 3 minutes.
A woman's cycle of arousal lasts about 13 minutes. Girls' bodies are arranged so that it takes at least 7 minutes to moisten the vagina and increase the clitoris.
If intercourse begins before a woman is physiologically ready for it, the chance that she’s gonna remain satisfied after sex is highly small🤷♀️
The duration of foreplay should be 5 times longer than the intercourse itself. You should give at least 15 minutes to foreplay.
Such a statement is not a rule. Though I’d advise you to use this information and you’ll definitely notice the difference😉
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Confess your fantasies
You can record a voice message in which you tell about your secret desires or confess your love to him.
Sincerity is incredibly exciting🔥
Share your feelings, confess what you love most about him, recall the romantic moments of acquaintance.
Moreover, you can hint him to make a similar gesture.
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Found another bomb😉
Edible Body Powder. This is what you need for foreplay. This is a cool option for those who don't like cream and chocolate. The powder is perfectly safe even for the most intimate places, you can apply it to your pussy, clit, nipples, cock, basically anywhere you want.
It does not contain sugar and is made under strict control. However, it is insanely delicious. With all sorts of smells and tastes.
The foreplay will be truly magical, exciting and awe-inspiring. Picture attached, use it 💋
One of the most erotic and deepest blowjob positions⤵️
Deep Throat
Almost all my male clients dream about it! Everyone wants to grab a sweet piece of pleasure. And I think you won't refuse either😉
This is the position where your cock plunges completely into the girl's mouth and the head rests against the throat wall. It's arousing, it's erotic and also too sexy.
Put the girl on the edge of the bed or sofa so that her head hangs down and is at right angles. Lubricate your dick liberally with edible lube. And pretty slowly insert your cock into the girl's mouth until it rests against the walls of her throat. Tell her to breathe deeply with her nose, so that there is no gag reflex, and everything will go smoothly.
This is where gentleness, tenderness, and helping the girl is important! Memorize and try it, sweet💋
The Female Sexual Cycle or Copulatory Cycle
Weird word, isn't it? But I wrote about it for a reason, as it's a significant word for a woman's pleasure😉
That's a single process from the moment one thinks of sex to its full realization and completion. It is said to be the perfect cycle in which a girl gets an orgasm and enjoys sex.
Being aware in the smallest detail of how this cycle goes, you can analyze your actions, correct and complete them.
This includes — arousal, desire, orgasm, relaxation.
Pay attention to each point. Like what she likes, how she gets aroused, what ways of reaching orgasm work, what she likes to do after sex.
Then think about what you can add, what you need to take away. And this will be your little memo, on satisfying the babe! 💋
Wetter means softer and more sensitive
Using lube is not a whim of the marketeers, it's an urgent necessity. You need it for easy gliding and smooth penetration!
There was a couple at the appointment today where the guy stubbornly resisted gels and creams. Like a stubborn, frankly, they come for the third time and nothing changes. And I'm already willing to buy them a gift myself, just so long as their sex is comfortable.
Find the right composition, texture and scent for you.
Water-based is suitable for vaginal sex, sex toys and masturbation. Multiple flavors and fragrances. Leave no residue on the bed.
Oil-based, and with an anesthetic, ideal for anal sex. Smoother slip and no quick drying.
The purpose of sex is not only orgasm
Yesterday had an appointment with a couple. We discussed their problem.
It wasn't that bad, but had to be solved.
The problem is that in sex the guy makes it his goal for the girl to have an orgasm.
And it seems right yeah, though, he is so obsessed with it that immediately throws himself at her. The end result is no orgasm and everyone is dissatisfied.
Why? Cause he forgets the crucial rule — it's the caresses and the process important to us!
It's not for nothing that I write posts about it😉
And the conclusion here is this: you don't have to set the goal only to achieve an orgasm!
Set a goal for pleasure, then you can relax, enjoy the process and the orgasm will come on its own.
Why make up a safe word?
And even though some will say now, "We're not in 50 Shades of Grey!"
I'm gonna stand my ground. The safe word is insanely helpful in many situations!
Let’s say, you decide to play hardball and the girl is not ready for all the experiments, she may panic.
But awarding of a safe word, she’ll feel more comfortable in experiments.
It's like an airbag for her, and a sign for you that it's time to stop.
Where do misconceptions about sex come from?
Talking to people for 10 hours a day about sex, I realized how much we are misled.
As an example, one couple yesterday where the two of them have a persistent delusion:
Good sex should end with a simultaneous orgasm.
So what actually happens? Both reach orgasm in separate ways, the guy is faster, the girl takes longer. Or vice versa. Yet since they have a dissimilar belief, conflicts arise in the background, perpetual deliberation and, of course, problems with sex. Both think they are doing something wrong.
Only in movies do they show two people experiencing pleasure at the same time. But it's a film, after all, lots of things are made up there.
You shouldn't believe in myths, fairy tales, and movie plots. It's better to think straight and assess the situation. It will be much easier, trust me😉