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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
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Oh, did you know that with a certain amount of rhythmic music and enough volume, even the heart starts to contract to that rhythm.
I immediately thought, what if even the heart, which by the way we don't control ourselves, the movements can certainly be tweaked?
There are even cycles of perfect friction, where the alternation of short and fast movements with slow and deep ones is calculated based on the average heart rate and muscle contraction. But that's the tricky part...
You can reach a primitive mutual rhythm simply by having sex to music.
Girls, let men look at you!
A man loves with his eyes, it's no secret.
In bed, it's a little more complicated. Agree that in life we try to hide all the flaws in our body with the help of clothes.
Of course, you should not undress at first request in front of a guy, if you suffer from complexes, but you have to gradually inflame his interest, giving him the chance to fully enjoy you!
So, the ability to undress beautifully in front of a man to show your body in the most favorable angle - a whole science...
Show your feelings in public
Says one of the important rules of seduction! It's all about emotions and our heads...
I have many female clients whose problems with the opposite sex began with this.
The guy doesn't want to pay attention to her in public, she freaks out, doesn't tell him anything, the clod of resentment grows...
And, if you think about it for a minute, it benefits you tigers in the first place.
You will seduce the girl first, show your attention to her, excite her desire and she will be insanely happy 😌
Where to start❓
Here's a tip:
Take her by the shoulders, hug her gently, kiss her neck, whisper a few dirty words in her ear, kiss the corner of her lips...
Great way to prolong sex
I know that many people can't have long-lasting sex. They have their own reasons for that, which we won't dig into today.
I'll just tell you a mega useful tip to help prolong sex and enjoy each other's bodies longer😈
Use slow penetration!
Don't start with a great pace and speed right away.
First, the girl needs time to get used to the size inside, and second, you'll make it worse for yourself. Better to start with reciprocating movements, lasting about 3 seconds.
Then gradually speed up, and if you feel orgasm approaching, stop inside the girl, take a couple of deep breaths and ... and then continue the friction.
Keep it in mind and use it!
Whether it's worth 'splurging'on a date?
Renting a car, leasing an apartment, borrowing clothes, that sort of thing... can work and can be used in seduction.
At the same time, I wish to warn you that trying to pretend that you are not you at all, but someone much richer, cooler, more influential and nobler is absolutely unacceptable if you are going to build a long-term relationship with a girl.
All secrets sooner or later come out.
But if we are talking about cynical seduction, then there are no limits to perfection!
A real seducer always tries to make a woman feel great!
Give her a fairy tale with a beautiful prince in the title role.
And she's at your feet...
But any fairy tale ever ends to give way to the next one.
Yeah, that's not good, yeah, a lot of people will judge me.
But I'm just showing you the options for seduction, and whether you use them or not is your own choice, tigers!
The key to quality sex - proper mindset
Identify the moment when you and your partner crave intimacy. Perhaps it's after a nap, watching a movie together, trusting conversation, or a couple of glasses of wine?
Be honest with your partner and speak directly about what you want. If you need a hot bath and a light foot massage in order to get in the right mood, say so.
Fitting sexy lingerie and shoes, your favorite perfume, reading erotic books, mutual caressing - all these things can send the desired signal to your brain.
Verbal Contact
Aside from the moaning I've already told you about, it is crucial to talk to your partner, and by no means be silent.
By guiding your partner, by showing with facial expressions, gestures and words, you are proving to your beloved man that he is doing everything right!
The more signals to him, the more you will fuel his desire...
That's the rule ☺️
Don't hesitate to show your emotions and then unforgettable sex is definitely guaranteed!
At times, your hands can get into the hardest-to-reach places...
What is the purpose for doing this? The simplest answer is, you're doing it to excite the girl!
How to do it? The question is more complicated. The bottom line is that we, girls, have different "access zones" that not everyone is privy to.
We have only three high-access "zones" (in ascending levels of access):
▫️ throat, especially the lower part
▫️ chest
▫️ the vagina
And if a girl can allow you to the throat at once, then you should get to the third level slowly...
The basic rule is to tease her!
Accidentally touch her nipple, repeat in five minutes. Run your hand up her buttocks, check the firmness of her tummy. Then pick up her panties and pull up a little. It's getting closer 😉
Tigers, gradually increase the activity and penetrate deeper and deeper in your explorations.
Role-playing "strangers"
The main point is to create the proper mood.
What's important here is to act as if you really don't know each other! And it is sometimes really hard to do, I guess you realize how difficult it is.
Preparation of props. Location, images of two, a change of behavior, every detail is vital. Pick a bar and a room (apartment) to return to. Choose new clothes. Work on a change of behavior. Choose an image for yourself you've always wanted to be in. Like, I choose Julia Roberts.
Scenario. Set up a meeting in advance in a bar or cafe. And there, give yourself over completely to the character you've chosen. With words, gestures, voice, flirt with the babe, seduce her. And forget that you know each other for a long time.
The end of the evening. Or rather, continue in a different setting. Come with babe to the designated place, you'll already be turned on, which means you can experiment in bed. After all, you are strangers, and you won't see each other again😉
None of my tips work if you're insecure
You must learn to accept your shortcomings and emphasize your strengths, only in this way will you develop the ability to turn awkward situations into funny jokes, getting "clean out of the water" and catching the girls' attention.
"Of course, Alice, it's easier said than done," you say.
Gaining confidence is a long and painstaking process, my lovelies!
At least, try to start pumping your self-esteem.
To do so, eliminate people from your social circle who make you feel like a loser and constantly criticize you for what you do.
Finally, stop comparing yourself to others and celebrate your achievements, even the smallest ones 👌
Sports sex
What appeals most about sex? Certainly, something forbidden and out of the ordinary. Something we don't get to use in casual sex.
Then how about trying sports sex? It's incredibly hot and arousing. It has it all, the passion, the lust of the body, the anticipation.
Now take your mind off your worries and imagine the picture! 💋
The babe in the tight suit does a body warm-up, bends to the sides, exposing her tummy. Bends over and exposes her breasts. Her buttocks are tight, her body glistening. Mmm, pics like this are a thrill.
You can arrange a mini gym right at home and play a little role play. Where you would watch the girl, she would watch you. You can look at each other and then have passionate sex. I think this option is perfect for the evening.🤤
Take note!
Bondage in Sex
A client recently brought this topic to me. He asked me all sorts of questions. He was madly curious to know how much good the technique was.😉
Bondage is a set of some kind of movement deprivation and techniques meant only to achieve sexual pleasure. As everywhere else there are insanely many nuances. So many people, once they have tried it, do not wish to go through the experience all over again. Cause mistakes ruin the whole process. But if you do it right, tigers, you're in for a wild treat.🤤
For the first time, a soft rope or scarf is enough. But the important thing here is not the object of binding, but the agreement between the two people. Everyone has to agree to such an experience.
In fact, I wonder if I have any lovers of tying here?
Insane Passion
Many clients wonder, what cunny positions do I personally like? What excites me and brings me pleasure. I think it's time for a revelation😉
The wild passion pose is on the list of my favorites. Despite all the odds and bumps, it gives a hot sensation. In it, I feel the full range of emotions. At times overly strong.
It works like this!
The girl lies on her back, lifts her legs slightly, and pulls them to her chest. You settle, opposite, and begin the movements of the tongue and hands. If, at the peak of pleasure, you insert your cock into your pussy, the sensations will be brighter than usual.
If you wish to try it out, I advise you to pay attention to comfort. Put a pillow under the girl's back and help hold her legs.
First, you will be comfy, and second, the girl's lower back will remain unharmed.😁
Relaxing the tongue
Tigers, don't you think I got nothing else to say about cunnilingus? Sure I do! Oh, there are so many techniques you and I haven't tried yet.💋
On such an occasion, I wish you'd try out a new way to move your tongue! Immediately in the near future. Coz it's not just any moves out there, it will make baby thank you! After all, you will hit the most sensitive area of the clitoris and labia.
In the process of cunny, stick your tongue out so that its surface is completely flat. Imagine a flat and relaxed tongue. Imagined, now start making head movements from bottom to top, as if saying: "Yeah, baby..."
The tongue is straight, it touches the nerve endings and the most sensitive places, and so the girl will experience sweet sensations!
Pure blowjob
The sweetest, easiest and most accessible to many men. It's the kind of blowjob that many girls practice, without feeling embarrassed or worrying about it. As it is more familiar and accessible.😁
A pure blowjob is where only the lips and tongue are involved. That's it, nothing else! No hands or toys or anything. Girls treat it loyally, cos as a rule they don't bother too much. Which isn't a bad thing either.
I mean, such a blowjob can bring incredible sensations, and you don't have to give it up and put it off. You can give yourself a pure sensation, or you can add something spicy. For example, play with hot and cold. Prepare in advance a cup of hot tea and an ice cube.
Failures in sex
The situation is common to many people!
- You feel like you want to have sex, you prepare for it, you think about it, everything seems fine, but at the right moment you can't do it.
The reasons for this can be many, but as a rule, only three are important.
One. A lot of excitement.
You can get excited just from the picture of sex, or just from the uncertainty of their strength.
Excitement breeds fear!
Two. You had too much alcohol before sex.
Alcohol destroys the body from the inside, dampening testosterone and sexual desire.
Three. Severe stress.
For example, stress over work, you may be going through a tough time right now because of the economic situation, and this, lovers, all very detrimental to sex.
Admire other girls
You think I'm kidding? Well, I'm not...
I'm serious, guys ;)
By the way, this is a cool way to get out of the friendzone👌
If you share company, talk to other girls more, compliment them, and show strong interest.
For example, "You sing cool! I've always admired talented people."
And your girl, to put it mildly, will be surprised, angry, and eager to prove that she's just as good, she has talent, too.
Make her fight for your attention!
How not to be a bad lover in a girl's eyes even before sex
The first thing girls definitely pay attention to: a guy doesn't flirt or touch.
The first thing that girls definitely notice is that a guy doesn't flirt or touch, and that immediately deprives you of any chances not only for sex, but even for any kind of subsequent communication...
Therefore, it is crucial to learn how to flirt, how to charm a girl.
Be sure to tell her compliments, use all your charisma, touch her.
All this gradually turns the girl on and brings you smoothly to bed.
What gives away bad lovers?
A poor lover is boring in communication and flirting: he doesn't hold hands, doesn't hug, doesn't walk on her back, doesn't try to "grope", grab her butt, as an example...
Such a guy in sex will be so-so, I will tell you: dull, monotonous and frankly weak, if to characterize in one word.
Think about it, are you doing the right thing?
Loud moans - violent orgasm
Guys don't be silent😉 Stop being shy, it's time to moan and scream with pleasure during sex.
It really turns us on!
Moans and screams are expressions of pleasure. They stimulate the sexual arousal of two partners. They raise your libido and ours.
Screaming in bed has been proven to increase orgasm!
Plus, when a girl hears your voice in bed, she knows for sure that you like sex.
Nope, I'm not urging you to scream at the top of your voice on purpose right now. Just asking, if you wanna moan with pleasure, please don't be shy!
Watch out for alcohol before sex
You know that alcohol is good for relaxing and relieving tension. But I still don't recommend drinking a lot of it before a date👆🏻
Not cause I'm such a prude, nope, it's just that alcohol can mess up your night pretty good.
There are plenty of studies on how bad alcohol affects your penis.
If you overdo it a little bit, it might not harden!
And if you do decide to have a drink on a date or before sex, my advice is this:
- Always drink in moderation. Two shots of hard liquor or two or three glasses of wine at most.
- If you feel too much, drink strong black tea and refuse to have sex until you feel better.
What should the perfect lover be like?
The other day I read an interesting article that intrigued me. There women all over the world shared their opinions on what the ideal lover should be. Sharing it with you, sweethearts.💋
They highlighted 4 rules men should follow in bed.
- Long foreplay. At least 15-20 minutes, during this time a woman is truly ready for penetration.
- Clitoral caresses. More than 70% of women reach orgasm only through stimulation of the clitoris.
- Manifestation of interest. Ask what movements and touches excite her in bed.
- Not being selfish. For many, that`s a crucial point. Cause most women believe that men only care about their own pleasure.
In fact, it's not a genius discovery, just another reminder of what is essential in sex for ladies and that you keep in mind to apply it.😉
What to give a girl
Judging by the pic, you've already guessed what we're gonna talk about 😈
Of course, about gifts and sexy lingerie. After all, they are, sweethearts, the key to hot sex!
- Check the labels on previously purchased lingerie, namely panty size, bra size, and cup volume.
- Go to a boutique or store, show the consultant and choose together with him, in your opinion.
- Give your purchases to your baby.
- Ask her to try on the new clothes and give you a fashion show.
- The rest will be in your hands...
All, she will be satisfied with your attention, intrigued and excited at the same time.
All you have to do is "unwrap your sweet gift" and enjoy sex 🔥
Start slowly
True, there are girls who adore fast sex, but this, I must tell you, is an exceptional rarity...
So, tigers, I'm not just asking, I'm just urging you - no need to rush!
Haste will lead to nothing good.
And that's because, tigers, the difference in the feelings of men and women before sex is enormous!
In the case of men, you just can't wait to start the process, but every woman wants to be desired and loved, we just need to enjoy the excitement in the eyes of his man first ...
That's why we are more thoroughly prepared for sex.
I advise you to temper your ardor a little, and not to pounce when your favorite just begins to undress and remain half-naked ...
Seducing a girl is a process requiring certain knowledge and practical skills.
For experienced guys, the question of luring a girl takes no more than two days.
Wanna master it as well?
It's easy!
Stick to the basic rules:
▫️Chat with the girl so that she realizes she's the one and only
▫️Don't spend too many resources on a girl. Showing off your generosity over the top can give a girl the wrong impression about you
▫️Be yourself. Don't get caught up in someone else's image
▫️Don't be a walking stereotype. Stand out among the crowd of similar guys
▫️ Show interest. If a girl is interested enough in you, keeps the chatter going and makes eye contact all the time, don't get lost!
So, my sexual conquerors, if you are curious about the art of hunting girls, go for it.
Open pose
What's so good about it? That's right, with everything open. So, the girl's enjoyment is guaranteed😉
One of the open poses is the motorboat. I dunno who called it that, but there are even worse names. And we're talking about cunnilingus here. I know plenty of girls like this pose.
It's where the baby's wide open for you. All her holes are available to you. You can lick, you can tongue, you can penetrate with your tongue. In the pussy, in the anal hole, on the clitoris. That's what I advise you to do. Just don't forget the slow start!
There's both trust and total surrender to the situation, y'all tigers☝🏻
I also wanna add, to keep her more comfy, have the girl leaning on the edge of the couch or bed. And put a soft pillow under her lower back. Then the process is easier for everyone!
Complete submission during oral sex
So many guys wish to subjugate a girl in bed. In doing so, no matter what the means will be. And there are a lot of, sweet ones.😉
In blowjobs, for example, we have such a term as irrumation. This is some kind of blowjob, where you have a complete submission to a man. To be honest, not every couple can try out such a blowjob.
Its peculiarity is that the man completely controls the girl's movements. He holds her head with his hands and makes intense thrusting movements.
But in fact, irrumation is not that scary. If two people have a desire to try something like this, then the process will go smoothly. If curious to put it into practice, you can carefully start with the royal blowjob pose, where you have the girl's head in your power and only you control the movements.
If she's not ready to experiment
What do I deal with a lot? Some people are really interested in this. No secret here. I'm always ready to mingle! 💋
A common problem in many couples, she is not ready to experiment in bed. A special category includes couples where the guy wants sex outside, the girl doesn't. Reasons can be numerous, but most often it is the fear of leaving her comfort zone, her little shell, where she is comfy and cozy.
Some are afraid of the woods, the entryway, sex in a movie theater! That's normal. I went through that stage at one time. I was insanely scared to dare to do any experiment. I was afraid of everything. I remember my first time in the woods, scary horror movie images in my head, panic and no orgasm.
If you want sex outside, act softly. She refuses the woods, okay, don't get upset and look for an alternative option, for example, sex on the balcony.🤤
Gentleness plays a role here!
Shifting Projections
Spent the day working with a couple, and honestly, they made me get sweaty. Oh, they're both stubborn.😁
Their problem is not an easy one!
Being married for over 10 years now, and they haven't learned to enjoy sex that much. Cause both are shifting their projections of sex to each other, while not communicating much about it. Which has had a negative effect on sex and marriage in general.
The guy has the fantasy that at the sight of his naked body, the girl should immediately be ready, wet, and pining with desire. The girl has a fantasy that only gifts and compliments can get her turned on. Naturally, both of them don't realize this, and things are very confusing.
And it turns out that they have their own projection of sexual arousal in their heads, but they don't tell each other about it. They think everything is clear.
Well, no one can read minds. That doesn't make it any easier. That's why I'm telling you to be as clear as possible.
Hey, what about testing out sex on the washing machine?
I don't think laundry will be the same after that.🤤
Legend has it that there's a certain instruction manual for having sex on washing machines. Back in the day, it was issued by the manufacturers of washing machines. Its contents remain a mystery, as over time the instruction was eliminated from production.
No instruction manual, but let me share a couple of tips.
Let's run the laundry on the quick wash mode and dive into the foreplay. Where you and the baby will feel slight vibrations. When the spin comes and the vibrations reach their maximum level, sit the girl on the machine and enter her cock.
During the squeezing, the effect is much sweeter, and the orgasm is more pleasant and brighter.🔥
On the effects of masturbation
The views are divided, let's not hesitate to discuss it!
Sadly, many girls think masturbation is something shameful! It always is and always will be.
But I wanna bring it to your attention that masturbation, it's okay! For men and women alike, it's inherent in nature, and is not considered cheating on your partner.
And now for the main point!
Masturbation can not destroy the relationship, but the inadequate attitude to it, it is valid. And here it's all because of simple jealousy! Jealousy of porn movies or naked girls in pictures. Cause many girls immediately begin to look for flaws in their bodies and think that this is about them.
In such a situation, I advise you to talk to the babe. Tell her how natural and not embarrassing it is. And then offer to play together. Take a quality porn movie and watch it together. Show her that everything is not so terrible in reality.