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Perfect blowjob secrets
These ways won't leave any guy indifferent
✔️ The corkscrew
The girl wraps her lips around the penis and begins to move from the base upwards, slightly turning her head from side to side. She has to lead with tongue as if on a twist — all the way to the bridle. Then, having reached the top, the lady should repeat the same in the direction from top to bottom.
✔️Light breeze
Awakening the nerve endings in the penis can be done in an impossibly simple way. All you have to do is pause in a blowjob and just blow on it lightly.
And do not forget, your share of pleasure must be present too, otherwise what's the point of it all?😉
What is the opposite of extreme sex from classic one?
Physiologically, nothing. The main difference is that in hazardous situations, a high dose of adrenaline is produced and this results in an unreal wave of excitement.
Anywhere you can think of is fine for sex. From an elevator to a movie theater.
✔ To start with, I advise you to try this kind of sex on a window sill or balcony.
Once you find yourself in an extreme situation, you will feel the release of hormones in the blood, due to which the orgasm is achieved faster, and the sensations in these seconds increase several times.
One way to diversify sex in a long-term relationship
Over the long years of life together, sex may get boring, turning into a compulsory ritual that occurs at certain times. Most of the time it is at night, before going to bed and mostly on weekends.
I advise to take the initiative in the morning or immediately after work. And the day off can start with breakfast in bed and a blowjob, backed up by a few new moves.
If you are in a relationship for a long time, you must remember that it is not the quantity of intercourse that is important, but the quality.
Intimacy starts not with a touch, but with a compliment
For girls it's vital to feel sexy even in the preparatory stages before sex. They get an orgasm both physiologically and psychologically.
That's why it's essential to know how to compliment them. As part of foreplay😏
My point is not that they have to be unfounded — there is nothing worse than compliments full of lies.
On the contrary, you should bring out the virtues of the girl you are preparing to please in bed.
Say, as an example, how sexy she is in that dress or how good she smells.
Men dream of this position
Probably cause they love to get a blowjob😄
When a girl is in the 69 position in relation to a man, he can not only get a long-awaited blow job, but also give his girlfriend cunnilingus.
Yet the problem with many girls is that they can't get pleasure and fully relax. If a girl is distracted by pose 69, you can try pose 68.
The girl in pose 68 should move her legs to one side so that they are together near the man's shoulder. The man sees her charms and beautiful lingerie, but he can't do cunnilingus anymore.
A little more "women's advice"
Today I wanna talk about one of the most popular misconceptions among women.
And it goes something like this: "If I'm too uninhibited and passionate, he'll think I'm a slut”. Everyone knows that's bullshit, right? How a girl acts in bed has nothing to do with the number of partners she has had.
As a girl who not only wants to frolic with other girls, but also chat with them about the "secrets" I can tell you that I met yesterday's virgins with a wild thirst for sex in their eyes and girls logs with 10+ partners
In the 21st century, people are much more open to experimenting and being uninhibited sexually. The only measure of what is the norm is whether or not it brings you and your partner pleasure. Everything else is trivia and gossip😡
Good sex ≠ orgasm
An orgasm is wonderful, but it's not always easy or necessary, consists of many elements and involves working on yourself first.🤷♀️
Yet, sex without an orgasm is just as interesting. There are a bunch of myths, up to and including the fact that sex without an orgasm is unhealthy, but that's all bullshit😡
What's really dangerous is getting worried about having an orgasm. Generally, such neurotic obsession is just what drives us away from peak and makes it harder to get there💋
Let her know that you find her sexy
Most girls, even the pretty ones, don't think they're beautiful enough.
I know it sounds weird, but it's a fact.
Even behind a mask of confidence and bitchiness can hide insecurity about own beauty and attractiveness. I know what I'm talking about, cause I had a similar problem before met Tommy🤷♀️
In short, the secret is simple: make her beauty stand out from the other girls and she will make you stand out from the other men❤️
Combine penetration and clitoral stimulation
Why choose between two kinds of pleasure when you can combine them? During classical sex, a guy's hands are almost always free. Now you know what to keep them busy😏
Tell the guy how to handle your clitoris gently and properly, and the gamut of pleasure is ensured for the two of you.
Girls adore stimulation from both sides. When he plays with the clitoris with one hand, and the other, going inside with two fingers and bending them stimulates the front wall🔥
Monotony is not always a bad thing
If you are a fan of sex once a week in the missionary position at the same pace — most likely you will be left, or at least cheated to meet the needs of sex. Yet, for a girl to have an orgasm, there are 3 minimum conditions you need to satisfy
🔶 Thoroughly arouse her
Quality foreplay rarely lasts less than 10 minutes, and the girl should be wet afterwards
🔶 Comfortable environment
Whether it's the cold room, the neighbors/parents behind the wall or dirty sheets, all of these may prevent a girl from having an orgasm, so take care of her comfort beforehand
🔶 A bit of monotony
To reach the peak, we need monotonous, one-way caresses. Find a position in which you both feel comfy, a medium pace, not too abrupt movements and be patient — these are the ingredients of the cocktail called "orgasm"
The main thing is not to abuse this advice, otherwise you risk turning from a sexy male who gives her one orgasm after another into a boring and dull lover🤢
Girls are predators, and predators have a keen sense of smell
Trust me, even during a coronavirus pandemic, smell remains a crucial factor.
It can immediately favor you or, conversely, repel you. Keep this in mind when interacting with other people, as that's exactly what she gets to remember and recall. Moreover, for this you do not need to take a bath of Armani perfume — simply be clean.
The natural smell contains pheromones capable of arousing your partner. These are not fictions, but a scientifically proven fact. Expect the effect as in the Axe commercials should not be expected, but nevertheless it happens. After all, that memorable pleasant smell, combined with the sympathy, is a reminder of you.
Your advice doesn't work!!!
No it doesn't, my friend. Everything we write about, we have tested in practice and all of our tips work.
❗️You just have to consider two things.
First: there are no universal tricks that work for everyone, yet there are some kind of patterns that many people are partial to. It is essential to understand which of them are appropriate in a certain context.
Second: a person must feel sympathy. If there is none, even the most powerful spells may be useless, and you will seem like an oddball.
So read already our tutorials and start to apply, instead of making up excuses 😉
Sex in the water
👌 Yep, it's okay to have sex in the water. But from my experience — and I have quite a few — it's almost always uncomfortable. In the shower, in the tub, in the pool or the lake — that’s all passionate, romantic, but awkward.
⛔️ Plus, there's always a chance of slipping and hitting the water.
💦 And yeah, friend, remember once and for all, as water is an anti-lubricant. That is, it will make it harder, not easier, to make penetration.
So leave the games in the shower as just games, and move on to full-blown sex in a more appropriate place.
If you do not know what kind of lube to buy, purchase water-based.
That’s the best choice if you do not pursue any particular goal. "Water-based lube is the most versatile, it's suitable for any purpose, it goes well with condoms and, importantly for me and Tommy, it doesn't ruin toys😏
The only downside is that it uses up quickly and dries out faster than other types, but this is compensated for by the relatively low cost.
It is highly important to remember that silicone and oil/grease based lubricants MUST NOT be used with condoms as they lose their strength. I guess a sudden pregnancy from a broken condom is not in your plans👨👨👦
Let's make cozy evenings
Romance is the key to a strong and warm relationship. Our job is to create the atmosphere. Here are some examples for a romantic date:
— Take a walk down a beautifully decorated street. Choose one where there are beautiful installations and admire them. Don't forget to bring something hot in a thermos to keep you warm!
— An evening with hot chocolate. A perfect night out for those who, like me, don't like powdered chocolate drink from bags! Make it yourself and add more marshmallows, chocolate syrup, whipped cream and chocolate shavings – whatever you want.
— Make a homemade picnic. Think back to the days of summer: lay a blanket on the floor and have a sit-down! We turn on the sounds of the fire on the TV and enjoy the atmosphere! You can also roast marshmallows on the "fire"😁
Surprising erogenous zone
One of the little-known erogenous zones is the webbing between your middle and ring fingers.
Do not believe it? 😏 I advise you to make an experiment and pass your tongue over all such "webbs" and you can ascertain the sensitivity of this zone is the highest.
Caressing that spot during foreplay and then continuing with finger sucking is gonna be a gentle and arousing practice.
Break free of all stereotypes
Much of the success in sex depends on it. First of all, you need to stop thinking that the man has to show initiative in everything.
Believe me, it's not so. Show a man how much you love him. The main thing is not to rush. Advise to help undress the man and give him a kind of strip.
Do not be afraid to take the initiative into your own hands; the key is to be sexy and gentle, in this case, you will show your man all his feelings.
There is no better foreplay than an erotic massage
Erotic massage is about tactile sensations, sensuality, romantic mood, relaxation, rather than about masturbating your partner.
You can fully energetically feel each other and combine this massage with the stimulation of erogenous zones.
Candles, dim light, freedom of space, massage oils and erotic candles adjust the right atmosphere and allow maximum immersion into your and your partner's sensations☺
What should I do if I don't feel sexy?
I hear this kind of statement frequently.
How sexy you are depends only on you, not on your partner😌
So you have to learn to feel yourself. Learn to enjoy yourself.
First you have to decide, are you doing this for yourself or for someone else!
Everyone has sexuality, you just have to see and feel it.
To do that, start enjoying the things that bring you joy. Switch into mindfulness to catch your sensations, inside your body.
Listen to music and curl up in front of the mirror, spoil yourself with gorgeous breakfasts, find excitement in ordinary things.
Women's orgasm
To begin with, the female orgasm is only 50% the work of men. The rest is the work of the girl. So now I wanna give you some tips to experience this fairy tale✨
❗️Discontinue masturbation for a few days
Many girls at the beginning of their sexual journey get orgasms in various ways: stimulation of the clitoris with hands, toys and a stream of water. Since the high intensity, the body gets used to such aggressive stimulation and then it is more harder for the girl to reach the peak🤷♀️
❗️Relax and don't think about anything
I had that problem myself. Nope, I wasn't thinking about tomorrow's job interview or anything like that. Still girls tend to worry, "Does he like me?" or "How do I look now?"
My pretty girls, believe me, you're sexier when totally committed to the process. And men go crazy when you have an orgasm😉
Sex is a process, not a goal
The worst thing about sex is concentrating on reaching orgasm. But it's not just about penetration and that very peak. Include foreplay, stroking, nibbling, some kind of play in your game. Go over the places that you couldn't even guess the erogeneity of😍
Enjoy each other's bodies, remember, sex is a fascinating adventure, not a destination.
Experimenting with poses
Today I'm gonna tell you a pose almost impossible to think of on your own. Still that doesn't make it any less wonderful☝️
The guy kneels and the girl lies on her back with her hips raised, throwing her legs over him. For more comfort, put a pillow under the girl's thighs and rest your feet on something.
Believe me, this pose is really hot🔥
Since of the extraordinary angle of penetration, which gives a whole new sensation. And the same angle will provide the strongest stimulation of the G-spot.
So, both to be happy👌🏻
What's natural is not ugly.
I want everyone to remember once and for all: there is no norm❗️
People are pretty different. Extremely different. And what seems normal and ordinary to some people is something crazy and unacceptable to others, and vice versa.
So do not obsess the whole "if other people do it?" thing. Anything that suits you and your partner is the norm. The main thing is that it really suits you both👩❤️👨
How to figure out what your partner thinks is normal and what is unacceptable? Naturally, our favorite way — with words through our mouths, by asking questions and talking about sex.
No talk about sex — no normal sex👆
Let’s talk a little bit about cunny
Well, most guys find cunnilingus to be something humiliating and even wrong. For me, it is incorrect to ask for things you are not willing to give yourself, so the owners of such a position can say farewell to blowjob😡
The biggest question is: how?
Act gentle, like a kitten drinking milk from a saucer😂
🔸 Start off extra gently and tenderly, barely touching with the tip of your tongue
🔸 Alternate up and down, right and left
🔸 Do not put all the effort on your tongue, help yourself with your neck movements, otherwise you will get tired quickly
🔸 Gradually build up the tempo and strength of the pressure, just not overdo it
🔸 Watch the girl's reaction carefully, compare what you do and how she responds
🔸Your main target is the clitoris. At times you can move down to the very entrance, the second most sensitive point for girls.
Remember, your goal is to give the girl pleasure, so don't be shy to ask her how she likes it better❤
Every gentleman should have his own...
Light BDSM set😏
Not every girl dares to be frankly perverted, but to be whipped a little bit, probably none of them would mind. In addition to flogging, such kits include masks, gags, handcuffs and various clamps.
If you both fancy trying some of this stuff, but have any doubts, that's a great option.
Tenderness in life = passion in bed
I'm gonna let you in on a little secret for all girls: It's the details that matter to girls.
Make her know you love and want her without telling exactly that you do. Nothing complicated is needed, just kiss her in the morning, tell her she's pretty, hug her when she's cooking❤
We just melt from such displays of attention🤷♀️
Tommy seems to have found out about this tip before I did and takes advantage of my little weakness all the time... Not that I'm offended 😉
Map your partner's erogenous zones
If you still have not discussed this point — now is the time. Do not be afraid to ask your chosen one over a cup of tea after dinner where her sensitive zones are.
Yeah, he might choke on a cookie😂😂, but in addition to valuable information, you'll get a plus sign for wondering how to give him more pleasure.
With a map in your head of where the best places to caress your partner are, you will, if not get your hands on a shortcut to his heart, at least you will know how to cut your way to orgasm.🥰
How to get sexier?
One of the sexiest things in a man, which absolutely all girls bite on, is his self-confidence.
A man is not afraid of his desires, no matter how taboo they may be, he knows exactly what he wants. A man sees a beautiful girl and does everything to see her on himself in no time.
Wanna be more confident? 💪🏻
Then your shoulders should be squared, your chin up, demeanor always calm, and speech unhurried.
With such a man around, girls are guaranteed to pay attention to him. And concentrated attention on you is already half the battle😏
Girls like variety
Nope, not in the sense of changing partners, girls like it when you behave differently.
First you're a rough and feisty dork, taking her by the hair and doing what you want. And then you're the gentle, affectionate, romantic kitten who kisses her every finger. You can alternate these patterns at least several times in one intercourse, or you can change the image once a month.
The main thing is for her to see that you can be anything, and she can be anything with you.
If you wanna try new things, start with bonding
Discussion
Generally, in all aspects of sex (and relationships in general) the most important stage is conversation. I had a friend who was crazy about submission, but went into a wild panic when she was tied up.
Choice of material
There is no need to rush to the ropes for shibari, not the first time will do and terry robe belt, may approach and the usual belt from pants, but there already need skill not to cause your partner discomfort
Straightforward binding
Ideally, you should undress your partner first. I think that it is clear that it is a little bit more difficult to undress a tied up person than usual. Tighten hard enough so that your "ward" can't free himself, but don't overdo it. Blue, swollen hands are extremely unsexy, just take your word for it, don't check at home.
(Yes, you can use handcuffs, but you shouldn't, because you lose that most intimate moment of binding.)