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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
How to properly use handcuffs in bed?
Yesterday I had a couple over and they shared an unfortunate story of using handcuffs.
The guy had handcuffed her so that after sex the girl had marks on her wrists for two weeks. And similar cases, I meet in my practice a lot.
That’s why I’m writing you the instructions on the proper use of handcuffs:
- Choose only those positions that you like. Try the simplest position, for example, missionary pose, where the girl lies on her back, and you on top. Cuff her to the headboard.
- Take into account the strength of the handcuffs. Put them on so that the girl is not hurt and there will be no marks after sex
- Do not force. Do not cuff your hands forcibly and wait until the girl comes. Act only with her consent
- Complement the sensations. You can add a blindfold or a vibrator to the handcuffs, so the sex will only be brighter🔥
Don't be afraid of handcuffs, use them in sex, just do it right, sweeties!
Faking an orgasm is a major female problem
Oh, boys, are you sure you wanna know the truth?
It won't make you happy...
Orgasm has been simulated at least once by 9 out of 10 women - a fact. This is confirmed both by the statistics of my consultations and my personal experience😏
Yep, it’s really difficult to recognize imitation, but you can😈
So, girls, sorry in advance for the secrets given away)
Smooth breathing is a sure sign that she is imitating. The hormones that are released during orgasm just won't allow a girl to breathe evenly. And the same flat voice after sex gives away that she didn't cum.
Also, a girl physically cannot have an orgasm with her eyes open (unlike a man). The reason to look her in the eyes more often.
Men also often think that the arched back and the neck tilted back guarantee an orgasm. But no, all this is easily simulated👌🏻
But the red cheeks, nope!
Poor thoughts are the number one enemy of good sex!
The more you think about bad things during sex, the more problems are born.
Lack of orgasm, rapid ejaculation, dissatisfaction from the girl and many other problems.
What to do about it?
- Trace what you think about during sex. Think about the problem and how you can solve it.
- Minimize the stress. I know it's almost unrealistic, but it's worth trying. Meditation and breathing practices can help.
- Slow your breathing. Think about the sensations and the touch of the babe on your body, about the high you get during sex.🔥
As my practice has shown, this kind of advice has helped many of my clients. Consider it and use it!
What are your thoughts on the mixed orgasm?
It is such an orgasm when a girl cum from the stimulation of several erogenous zones at the same time. Like G-spot, nipple stimulation, touching the pussy.
If you learn this kind of thing, the babe is sure to be totally ecstatic.
What I advise you to try.
- Use the cowgirl pose. Where the girl's body is completely open and ready to play.
- Penetrate into the pussy, at an angle so that the penis gently touches the G-spot.
- Stimulate the clit with your hand.
- Caress the nipples with the other hand.
Yeah, it's not that easy to do! But have you already imagined the bliss the babe will be in from your actions? 😍
Best sex
*according to canadian scientists
Lately I've been hooked on articles related to discovery in sex. So I'm sharing another find.🔥
In 2021, there was an exciting discovery for all of sexology. A group of scientists from Canada got their heads together and conducted a study on WHICH is the best sex ever. The majority of people voted for three criteria.
- Engagement with your partner. That's when you're so consumed with passion and your babe that you don't even think about looking at your phone or being distracted by anything.
- Sympathy and feeling sex. When you already know the person and you're born with certain feelings for them.
- When there is a risk in sex. You're not afraid of outdoor sex, new sensations and colors. You can easily have it in a movie theater or entryway.
I love all the points. My advice is to take a closer look and try them out. Everyone! 💋
Eye contact is a huge factor!
You can't imagine how many girls have complained to me that their boyfriends just don't look them in the eye during sex.🥲
And I can tell you from my own experience, it really pisses me off. We wanna see passion, emotion in our eyes, pupils dilated with pleasure, not our eyelids closed.
In general, looking into your baby's eyes, you show her that you are the boss in bed. It's like a sign of dominance and self-confidence.
The pose for the deepest blowjob of your life😉
Imagine for a moment how her tongue licks your cock, how deeply you penetrate her mouth, how you make movements and what moans she utters!
The "plumber" pose will help you achieve these sensations.
It gives rise to contradictory feelings. But if done right, you and baby are gonna love it!
Well, I think from the picture, the technique is clear. You have to saddle the babe up, put a pillow under her head, and go for it.
The main thing is to use more lube, not to press on the girl's head and not to make any sudden movements.💋
The perfect erotic massage
That’s what you need to know to make the whole process go smoothly, literally😁
Arrange the location. You need a spacious location and plenty of space. The perfect option is a covered floor, with a soft bedspread.
Create an atmosphere. Make the apartment cozy and warm. Turn on music, turn off phones, create soft light, light candles.
Prepare a massage oil. Important and essential element. I advise you to buy intimate massage oil, one that is suitable for the erogenous zones. This way the sliding of the bodies will be easier.
Start with foreplay. The guy lies down on his stomach, the girl generously applies massage oil on the palms of her hands then on the guy's body. Starting with the shoulders, ending with the feet.
Use different techniques. You have to use everything, breasts, stomach, buttocks, pussy. Ask the girl to put her breasts down on your lower back and roll them back and forth, then go up all over her body, going over all the places with her breasts.
Stress and sex
I'm ready to talk about stress for a really long time. Cause the lion's share of my clients have problems in bed related to a lot of stress!
For instance, there was a girl with 24 hours of wild stress. She has loans, a job, a baby, and problems with her parents on her shoulders. Can you imagine how the body feels under all that pressure? The hormone cortisol (the stress hormone) has long dominated her bloodstream and is ruining her whole mood.
Problems in bed, sure, are there! She simply doesn't have the energy to have sex.
What's the solution here?
Try to delegate some tasks and find a way to relax. This can include breathing exercises, light exercises, resting alone in your favorite place.
Nipple Accessories
Capable of enhancing arousal, taking orgasm to a new level and delivering an incredible thrill to girls.🔥
It's not just a device, but a godsend among sex toys.
Nipples are one of the strongest erogenous zones of girls and men. During sex they are stimulated with tongue, fingers, penis. But what if you add some fire and passionate pain to the bed? Clamps provide the babe with hot sensations throughout sex, and it is a good substitute for tongue caresses.
How to choose? Do not buy something heavy and massive right away. You can hurt or scare the girl. Choose clamps that are soft, gentle, made of a pleasant material.
I'll add on my own, if you hold the clamps throughout penetration, but at the time of orgasm let them go. Oh, the sweet ones! Fire inside the girl is guaranteed🤤
Positions to prolong intercourse
It's been a long time since we discussed this point - time to fix it👌🏻
In a comfortable and, if I may say so, passive position, arousal is achieved more slowly. Meanwhile, the onset of orgasm is easier to control.
In other words, no need to conquer "sexual bends" and repeat crazy poses.
Suitable positions you are accustomed to!
Separately I'll allocate spoons (must-have for this purpose) and the position when a man sits with a girl on top.
Yeah, sounds trivial and "boring".
But not for nothing they say - all geniuses are simple😉
She doesn't like the taste of semen! How can you fix it?
So many guys resent it when a babe doesn't like the taste of cum. I work with this on a daily basis! And something tells me that some of you are painfully familiar with this topic.💋
Seminal fluid is made up of many substances, and there are so many factors that affect it. Such as: diet, smoking, alcohol, and lifestyle.
And I'm not at liberty to ask you to quit bad habits and dig deep, I want to give you two tips on how to make semen more enjoyable for girls.
- Use an edible lubricant for oral caresses.
- Reconsider your diet. Try to eat less garlic, coffee, onions. Include more citrus, nuts, cinnamon, celery. These foods make sperm richer and sweeter.
Consider the idea, sweeties!
Distinct pleasure technique for girls or Kivin cunnilingus
As simply as possible to perform, and it brings you lots of pleasure! That's what's so great about it.🤤
A few steps, to sweet delight.
- Put the girl on her back, so that she presses her legs against your chest. That way she'll be more exposed to you and her pussy is ready to be caressed.
- Lie perpendicular to her body, with your face against her pussy. This way you can fondle the clitoral hood at the right angle, which will only bring vivid sensations.
- Place your index and middle finger on either side of the clitoris, lifting it slightly.
- Place the finger of the second hand over the entrance of the pussy. Lightly press it, but do not squeeze. You’ll be able to feel the frequency and rhythm of contractions.
- Begin the cunny. Run your tongue back and forth over the hood, alternating the movements💦
You'll be fine👌
Constant analysis of your actions is one of the mistakes
I was working with a client and completely forgot to write to you about him. And the man, he's interesting and so is his case.😁
The fact is that a man makes one incredibly small and ridiculous mistake in sex.
He's constantly analyzing everything and wondering what's going on. How does this manifest itself? During intercourse, he thinks: where to put his hand, how many times to enter the pussy, the number of times to come out, what to do after the kiss, which way to breathe and how many times. No need to go on, I guess, cuz you've already figured out what I was talking about.
The main point is that he makes sex harder for himself and enjoys it. What kind of pleasure can we talk about if all he has in his head is thoughts about arranging sex?
👉🏻What can help here?
Breathing practices before sex, gymnastics, absolutely any way to relax and clear your head.
Sex toys aren't always a good thing
People don't say this, but playing with toys not only brings pleasure! At times they only harm.☝🏻
I highlight three criteria for when to worry and remove the toy from your sex life.
- If the girl needs more and more time to reach orgasm with the toy.
- If she used to reach orgasm at the lowest speed, but now she needs the most powerful one.
- If in sex with a man, a girl cannot cum at all without a sex toy.
Nope, get it, I'm FOR vibrators and different devices, I frequently recommend them to you personally. Yet honey, everything has to be in moderation.
Toys can help reveal a woman's sensitivity, bring novelty to sex, provide pleasant emotions. But they cannot replace penetration and tongue caresses.
Keep your feet warm...
Advice not only for you guys, but also for your tigresses;)
A woman is 30% more likely to have an orgasm if her feet are warm!
That’s the conclusion made by the Dutch scientists from the University of Groningen.
Have you guessed already? Yeah, wearing socks is useful ;)
In addition to the temperature of the feet, the researchers add, it also matters a comfortable psychological environment. So, foot massage as foreplay is just perfect for 💦
69 pose - so desirable and so uncomfortable
That's what a lot of girls and guys complain about once they've tried it. But you know what I say?
You tried it wrong😏
First of all, you need to approach it as horny as possible and not afraid to show yourself to your partner from all angles)
So, I advise to start this sex game with a shower together - you both get warmed up and can taste each other 😈
And the second problem is that in the classic 69 version, the girl usually gets very tired because she's on top. My back, frankly, really hurts.
So, I strongly advise you to try the 69 pose on your side👌🏻
Irrumption or oral sex
It's been a long time since I've talked about oral sex, and I have a lot of newbies on my channel☺️
Let me remind you that irrumption is the penetration of the penis into the oral cavity, accompanied by active thrusts.
Though it is a more aggressive kind of caressing that not many girls agree to, I have met many admirers of the technique in my practice.
Since there are several variations of irrumption, today we talk only about the technique from top to bottom.
That is, when the girl smoothly goes down on her knees, caressing your body. She caresses your neck, nipples, navel area with her lips and finally moves on to the cock itself. After that you get involved and start the movements...
That's this sequence gives the girl to get used to what is happening and tune up for further action.
My advice is to start with her, so as not to scare off the baby and not to spoil the sex...
How long should foreplay last?
Based on our knowledge of physiology, we realize that it takes less time for a man to get excited than it does for a woman. The duration of the arousal cycle in the stronger sex is about 3 minutes.
A woman's cycle of arousal lasts about 13 minutes. So the approximate difference between male and female cycles is 10 minutes!
What do we get from this?
If intercourse begins before a woman is physiologically ready for it, the chance that she will remain satisfied after sex is extremely low🤷🏻♀️
The duration of foreplay should be 5 times longer than the intercourse itself. Preliminary caressing should be given at least 15 minutes. This statement is not a rule, violation of which will inevitably lead to sexual dissatisfaction. But my advice would be to take advantage of this assertion and you will definitely notice the difference😉
Guys, the main thing to do in sex is to make a girl relax...
Thinking back to myself in my 20s, that was my biggest problem...
Fortunately, those dark times are gone and now I can share with you how to help a gal.
The first points are clear-but how do you get her to the boiling point?
Kisses, hands, words, tongue❤️🔥
Even the shyest girl, if she starts to "burn" will magically forget about EVERYTHING!
At this moment be sure to admire her moans, her body - show her that everything goes perfectly;) And if, all of a sudden, she doesn't have something going on - ignore her.
All of us are diverse and our erogenous zones are also unique.
Some of us are turned on by biting our toes, others need a gentle kiss on the neck😉
Familiarity with these zones is the base of the bases, and the foundation of the basics! Bunnies, if you know at least 3 sensitive zones, a girl will worship you.
So I suggest playing a game one day - hot to cold.
No additional training is required, just a desire to play well.
Carve out an evening and an extra 30 minutes. Kissing, caressing with your tongue, your hands are your tools. Use them.
Hot - hitting sensual points.
Cold - deflection from the point.
And then your imagination will help you💋
How to vary the caresses?
Cunny, blowjob, and all kinds of caresses get bored with time. Sometimes even new positions do not bring the proper excitement.
Do not give up. Beyond the new positions, there are many other ways to diversify. And one of them I'll tell you, sweet💋
Cool or warm your lips and tongue. That's what will really spice up any oral caresses. It will give a whole new emotion and sensation.
Chill with ice or a cold drink.
Warm it up with hot tea or warm water.
That's it, no more costs are required of you. I think fire is an idea.😉
How does tying bring pleasure?
If you do it right, not only will the babe agree to be tied up, she’ll be totally ecstatic.🔥
Merintopholia, as binding is called, has several levels.
First level. Here only like images of bound people. The girl is commonly aroused by the picture she sees, but too afraid to try it herself.
Second level. One likes being tied up during sex. A girl really enjoys it when her movements are restricted and certain body parts are tied up.
Third level. Professional and not everyone has it. Here one gets pleasure only from the process of binding and understanding that the body is limited in movement.
Which one to choose, it's up to you to decide! But I advise to start with the first one.💋
Way to bring a baby to the most powerful orgasm of her life
A technique only for couples with total trust between each other!
👉🏻 How to do it. Take more lube, lubricate your fingers and gently insert your thumb into the pussy, the index finger into the back hole. At the same time with the second hand or tongue we stimulate the clitoris, for fullness and brightness of sensations.
It happens after foreplay! When the girl is fully prepped and ready to play.
With proper stimulation, the baby is gonna be in incredible bliss and surely repay you for your technique a little later.🤤
How to react to failures in sex?
Certainly my clients try to hide this question behind other far-fetched reasons and topics. Yet, I quickly realize what kind of problem the person has come to me with.
After all, I already have quite a bit of experience.)
So the main advice I can give you about failures in sex is don't dramatize and let these situations go.
When you cum faster than usual, clumsily changed position, did not get up, poked in the wrong place and other little things.
Do not let situations like this affect you too much - you will bury yourself!
The "balance" pose
Warning, it's quite complicated, but quite interesting😍
The pose is a modification of the familiar doggy style. So, almost everyone can try it.
As I said, you need to start with doggy style, but in the version where you and your partner are both on your knees. After you enter the girl, grab her under the arms and start "pulling" her off the bed, pulling her close to you.
Eventually her arms should close in a lock behind your neck.
Here is where the "balance" kicks in, for the two of you are essentially suspended in mid-air. And trying to achieve full balance in this pose can give you great pleasure.💦
Problem of the Sexual Time Mismatch
To some people my client's problem seems to be a pretty common one, but I'll tell you! Maybe some of you’ll be close to it...
She is a morning person and her husband is a night one, so to speak. For several years they can't find a common time for sex, so it happens only on "big holidays" or on vacation.
The husband is attracted to sex at night, when she is already asleep. The girl, on the other hand, wants sex in the morning, when she is full of energy and awake.
In fact, the situation is much more complicated than just a mismatch of time.
It's also about the lack of orgasm due to compulsion.
👉🏻So far, my advice to her is trivial - find a compromise in timing. Try having sex in the afternoon when both are awake, awake and ready. Or move sex to early evening, after work, but before dinner.
Lots of people really struggle with the urge to masturbate, and that's not a bad thing
But you probably didn't know about some of the positives of masturbation😉
Reduces stress levels. Endorphins are released into the bloodstream, with a positive effect on your mood and psycho-emotional state.
Improves sexual relations. After masturbation, partners realize their reactions to touches and caresses, know their arousal zones and ways to achieve orgasm.
Boosts immunity. Those people who masturbate frequently, precisely at will, increase their immunoglobulin levels. Which ultimately protects against colds.
I'm not urging you to do this action, just reminding you that masturbation can be beneficial and effective for sex.💋
Sex on a windowsill
Combines extreme, passionate and unusual sex. It's surreal fun all in one.🤤
Some tips for such sex.
- Recommend - the sitting position. That's where the lady sits facing you, you stand penetrating her, enjoying the warmth inside.
- Have sex in the evening when it's twilight. It just will be more comfy for the two of you.
- Prepare in advance lube, condoms, toys.
- Do not limit yourself to penetration, use all the tools. In the form of cunny, spanking, kissing, different positions.
Try the sweet ones, you won't regret it!
How to cum twice in a row?
The ability to "go for a second round" is highly individual, let me tell you, cause physiology interferes with this process to a large extent.
The amount of sperm in the body is trivially limited, its replenishment by 60% will happen only after 3-4 hours.
Physiology is not interested in the continuation of pleasure, because the main task is the continuation of the species.
So, boys, my advice to you is not to act against nature. Besides, it can be harmful for your health.
Orient to your individual peculiarities!
If the second intercourse in 5 minutes does not bring you discomfort - my congrats. If discomfort is there, don't mock your body!