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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
What do men get the most pleasure from?
For most ladies, giving a blowjob is about pleasing a man, and what I find to be the biggest mistake they make.
You can be a guru of oral sex, work your entire body and swallow his dick whole. It won't make any sense if you are not enjoying the process, though.
The main thing for a man is to realize that you are pleased with them.
When a man sees you getting high on a blowjob and passionate about the process, it will give much more pleasure than all the techniques put altogether.
Both women and men need compliments
Lovely words from your partner's mouth, let you know that you are still attractive to him, and he loves you.
Try to praise your partner for the things he does a lot more times. Tell him that you admire the way he does his chores.
Also, it is worthwhile to let him realize that he is an excellent lover.
Make him dinner yourself 🎁
Sex on the table is the most spectacular way to diversify your relationship.
Believe me, most men, though they won't admit it, but madly crave to go beyond the bedroom.
Thus the pose, where the girl lies on the table, and the man stands next to her is practically a win-win option for unforgettable sex.
You can add a special spice and passion, if a girl puts her legs on her partner's shoulders. No man can resist such a picture.
Be sure to practice nipple stimulation
Stimulation of several erogenous zones increases the sensations, giving you a more vivid orgasm.🔥 A variety of sex toys can be used for nipple stimulation.
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Stimulating gel capable of creating sensual and warming pleasure. Ensures a pleasant and quite long-lasting refreshing and cooling effect that awakens desire.
Apply a small amount of this gel, it should work in a few minutes. Do not forget to do a test for allergic reactions before the first use of a new gel.
Bed is not a place to discuss domestic problems
Sharing with you one of the cardinal rules: talk about problems in the kitchen, in the living room, but not in the bedroom.
Let your bed be a magical place where day-to-day life has no access.
Seems to me it's hard to think about sex if your evening conversations consist mostly of discussing domestic problems.
Your task is to make sure that the bedroom interior promotes the desire for intimacy: appropriate lighting and linens in bright colors will be a great start to a passionate night.☺️
Face-sitting is an immense pleasure for ladies
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The possibility to sit on a man's face is both a moral pleasure, when the man is in full power, and a physical one.
The technique of face-sitting shows the partner's labia at the closest possible distance.
This picture is sure to please you and bring much more pleasure and excitement.
Is it okay to use Vaseline as a lubricant?
To begin with, I recommend not to use vaseline even for unprotected intercourse.
It can cause mucosal irritation, fungal infections, and increase the acidity of the vagina.
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Vaseline is an oil-based product. Oil and latex are completely incompatible - you could even say they are enemies. Oil corrodes rubber, so oil-based lubrication may cause a condom to break.
Come on, don't wait for a sudden surprise, do you?
Foreplay is not a speed contest ⏱
Indeed, ladies dislike being rushed.
While we secretly enjoy foreplay and hope that it won't be long before you get to the main action, you try to attack the lower part of our body with such zeal and fervor that thoughts of sexual trauma begin to creep into our minds.
If you fondle the clitoris as if you were pressing the elevator button in a hurry, it doesn't make us feel pleasant at all.
Women tend to submission
Well, try to break that rule. No need to resort to the whip and leather, just give her the opportunity to dominate and it will disrupt the sexual routine.
Or do something out of the blue that your partner isn't expecting, like: initiate sex as soon as he or she walks in the door — this will spice things up a bit.🔥
What do you envision to achieve a quicker and sweeter cum?
More than once at consultations women have asked me why they have to visualize some pictures during sex, mentally helping themselves to reach orgasm.
Quite likely the same question is asked by some men.
And the answer is simple. You are not allowing yourself this, flying away from the present moment somewhere far away and mentally no longer having sex with your partner.
The body is a single system, and everything in it is interconnected. Your orgasm will be much brighter, longer, stronger when your whole body and all your thoughts are immersed in the process.
Stay open to talking to your partner about sensitive topics
Such as not glossing over moments when you feel uneasy. Do not tolerate pain.
Do not force yourself to do things you do not feel like doing.
Such subjects can be hard to talk about, so try to express your thoughts in a friendly way and without recriminations. Do not focus only on criticism: If you liked something much, be sure to tell about it.
Ask your partner to do the same: share with you everything he likes or dislikes about sex.
Delicate question: to shave or not to shave?
Sugaring, razor, laser hair removal or natural thickening – the choice is yours. From a hygiene standpoint, I recommend shaving. In terms of personal preference, I cannot advise anything.
In terms of men's taste, too, opinions vary.
For some, the naked pussy is a symbol of experience and sophistication. For others, it is associated with innocence and tenderness, "as a girl".
For some others this very association repulses - the brain turns on the signal "Isn't she too young for sex".😏
Rely on your own feelings.
Making love on the washing machine in spin mode, gives a special feeling🔥
Now it's high time to check if this is really true.
Everything you need for this experiment is probably in any apartment, so it's up to you.
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Is it worth taking aphrodisiacs?
Quite frequently men question whether to use aphrodisiacs, if they do not hasten the onset of orgasm?
It should be borne in mind that most products, which are attributed excitatory properties, have other positive effects: improve mood, stimulate an erection, normalize blood circulation, make sex more vivid.
So, aphrodisiacs do not reduce the duration of sex, but on the contrary, they help maintain arousal for a long time.
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Vaginal spasm
Not even my worst enemy would wish to be in such a situation.
Just keep still! A man's natural desire is to break free from the captivity of love immediately — this should not be done under any circumstances, otherwise he could seriously traumatize his partner.
She should relax with antispasmodics or a warm bath.
But the easiest and fastest way to open the vagina is to insert a finger into the woman's anus and pull it gently down.
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The 9 x 10 method
It is based on the alternation of short and deep penetrations, allowing not only postponement of ejaculation, but also giving both partners extraordinary sensations.
The basic sequence goes like this: at the very beginning of intimacy, a man plunges into the vagina only the head of the penis 9 times, and then performs a deep penetration for the entire length of the penis.
After that the ratio changes: there are two full frictions for 8 short ones; with each round one "shallow" insertion is replaced by one deep one, until the opposite initial proportion is achieved - one dipping of the head and 9 thrusts on the full length.
Once the cycle is completed it can be started again.❤️
At one counseling session a man complained to me about his wife. He didn't like her silence during sex, and he was damn right.
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What to say during sex?
Like, dirty talk before and during making love is the thing to make it brighter, juicier and sharper, to help reach a whole other level of relationship with your partner.
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And it's also an indicator of acceptance of your sexuality and adulthood - when you're not mice under a blanket, but two people having pleasure without shyness.
All women are puzzled about how to move during sex😌
Things are simple here. The key is to loosen up a little. Act naturally and relaxed. In such cases, I imagine that I am an actress, and got the role of a delightful seductress.
All the movements should be soft and smooth, like a crouching cat. So, if your husband is already lying on the bed, then literally arch your back, pushing your ass upward, and playfully crawl up to him.
Watch the relevant movies, notice how they move. Slowly and unhurriedly.
The right position is 90% of the success in sex
First criteria I want to highlight for choosing a sexual pose: the peculiarities of the anatomy of the partners. Well, there are sexual positions specifically great for big penises, if the girl hasn't had a baby yet.
Then there are really effective positions for guys with a small penis. Okay, and lots of in-between options to consider the more subtle nuances.
The second criteria for choosing a sexual pose: the current moment. That is: if there is no place to lie down, you will have sex in a sitting or sitting-standing position.
Some say it's boredom and routine that pushes people to cheat. Yet the novelty and the possibility of being caught red-handed make sex on the side hot and exciting. How to deal with it?
Have an affair with your own partner🔥
No need to rush into anything with a real lover to freshen up your relationship.
Make appointments in hotels, go for walks in the most remote places so that common acquaintances won't see.
In short, act as if you are undercover lovers.
Would sex during pregnancy harm the baby?
Hard to imagine how: after all, the penis does not reach the organs where the embryo is.
The unborn child is protected by the fetal waters, the membrane, the uterus, and the cervix. It has nine months to survive in someone else's body, and a natural process like sex cannot hurt it.
And let's not expect the baby to realize or notice anything. When the pregnancy runs smoothly, and the woman is relaxed and satisfied, it is certainly easier for the baby to develop.
Tickle your partner with a large, lovely feather
Lie on your back, close your eyes and ask your man to stroke your whole body with a feather: your chest, shoulders, legs, abdomen, neck, ankles, thighs.
It will be ticklish at first, but your goal is to make that sensation fade away. That's gonna happen when you're able to relax completely.
A great way to do erotic meditation and focus on the feelings in the here and now.
Sex toys like drugs 🔥
After them, it's hard to experience the pleasure of regular sex again.
Wanna use them again and again. It can worsen the relationship with your partner. Certainly, how can a regular person compete with an ever-active vibrator?
In fact, these things are completely unrelated.
Using toys can only increase libido. Also, sex toys are a great way to get to know your body better.
Controversy stirs up passions
As the body reacts the same way it does during sex-muscles tense, heart rate rises, breathing quickens.
Sex after an argument gives pleasure not only by relieving emotional and physical tension, but also partly as you feel you conquered your partner in another way.
Just be sure not to overdo it, make the argument a healthy discussion.😉
Rhythm in sex is just as essential as pose
It would also be nice to discuss this point with your partner beforehand, so that you can agree on a common denominator for both of you.
If you like a certain pose that you call a lucky, then connect to all of this more and the correct frequency of movements.
Some like it slow, others prefer it fast.😉
Sex is not just emotions, it's the contact of two bodies
You and your partner will enjoy touching soft skin, running your hand over smooth, freshly washed hair, massaging well-groomed feet. No need to fit yourself to the standards of beauty.
Caring for yourself isn't limited to taking a shower, though. These days there are plenty of beauty products designed specifically for the care of various parts of the body.
Stock up on cosmetic products for your personal care, and don't forget the intimate areas, as there are products specifically designed for them.
Complete silence during sex is not the norm 🤨
As a rule, it means you aren't enjoying your partner's company, or even worse, you just fell asleep.
So, being sound during intimacy with your lover is quite normal and legitimate.
Your voice is the best barometer by which your partner knows if he or she is doing everything right.
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Stronger, faster, harder
Yeah, occasionally I, as all the girls, like to take the initiative into my own hands. But I wish you would try to do it more often. Be more active in your body movements, even if they seem ridiculous to you.
Just do not overdo it: a furious pace is still appropriate closer to the end of the act, and not at the beginning. The exception: the unexpected and rough sex in the conditions of the catastrophic shortage of time.
And keep your hands in mind during sex. They have to do something.
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How do men prolong sexual intercourse?
It requires only self-control and the ability to calculate the moment of ejaculation closeness.
So, when the excitement begins to increase inexorably, there are three options to choose from: freeze, remaining in the girl - it is vitally decisive that she also stopped in time; get out of the partner; change your position. The most reliable way is to take the penis out completely and rest for a while.
The time of the break is individual, to one man 30 seconds is enough to cool down, and the other requires a couple of minutes.
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How to modify your genitals?
Some fans of "hotter" sex, to please their partner, sew balls under the skin of the penis. 😱
Needless to say, it is not safe and even with a favorable outcome deprives the man of sex for a long time until the place of surgery heals.
I recommend trying a less risky way to enhance the penis using special rings from a sex shop.
You can also try just putting a bead in the condom.
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