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Where to start role-playing?
The other day I had an intriguing incident. One guy showed up and told me how much he scared the lady during role-playing. Now she's fumbling, he's perplexed! 😁
How was it? He dressed up as a burglar, put on a mask, waited for her to come home. As soon as the door opened, he jumped on her already in disguise.
So what happened? The girl was terrified and, sure enough, assumed right away he was a real burglar. And the sexual arousal could be forgotten.
The golden rule of games is that you always have to keep talking about it. Writing to remind you again. Your job is to make the girl feel comfortable and coax her into playing games. Not to scare and be unexpected, but to act smoothly, with the girl's permission.
Consider this! 💋
One thing I'd like to highlight is the inner thigh.
It's one of the most powerful erogenous zones in a woman's body.
What is essence of an orgasm?
It's a series of involuntary muscle contractions encompassing the entire inner part of the thighs. And that means this area is part of any orgasm. When you touch your thighs, it means you're one step closer to a woman's orgasm. Everything is connected.
I'll share the secret of how to stimulate her properly.💋
- Try massaging this part with your fingertips, watching the girl's reaction.
- If the girl likes it rougher, intensify the pressure of your hands and nibble the skin a little. This way some will only be more pleasant.
Keep your thighs in mind and pay attention to them! Then the girl will be in full ecstasy!
Reliant men are the most attractive to girls
It's a fact. If you believe the surveys last year - 70% of girls crave a confident man.☝🏻
No secrets here, it's all quite simple!
Such men always act consciously, every movement and pose is thought out, they realize what girls like in sex, and they give it. Moreover, confident men in bed are elegant, open to non-standard positions, lively and emotional.
That's what I'm all about, sweeties, confidence in sex is important! 💋
If you are always confident and determined in your actions, believe me, your sex will only get better!
Ready to practice the cunnilingus technique I'm gonna give you today?😏
Yup, yup, here are techniques too, and what did you expect, only blowjobs get them? Ladies also wanna enjoy it.
Jelly Tongue Technique
Your tongue should be extra moist and soft, no folding it with an elastic stick, but spread it wide and make super, super slow licking motions on her labia.
Pass over the groin area with the same soft jelly tongue, liberally sprinkling everything in the way with saliva. Then return to the lips again. You can already touch the clitoris casually. From time to time leaving, then returning to it again.
Just do not increase the tempo - do it all the same slow and gentle. There are tactics to make a woman go wild: keep a quiet tempo as long as possible, even if the woman is ready to increase the pace, do not increase it. Once in a while make small pauses - it will wind her up even more.
Act slowly and continuously, be patient.
One of the components of a long-lasting relationship is variety in sex.
What is essential is that intimate life never gets tedious. Sex toys can help bring new sensations into it. Let's consider what devices your partner should try.
I advise to try erection pads, those are generally made of elastic material. Worn on the penis.
Stop waiting for your loved one to read your thoughts
Make it a rule to give each other feedback before, during, and even after sex.
Maintain eye contact.
Oh yeah, just look into your partner's eyes: you can blink, the main thing is not to break this connection.
Besides, synchronization of breathing works well.
The desired atmosphere and the sense of complete intimacy, otherwise the orgasm is simply unattainable, are created out of such non-obvious trifles.
Unconventional behavior in the fight against sexual routine
Due to the placebo effect, paradoxes frequently improve sexual function.
By way of example, a sex therapist may assign, as homework for a problematic couple, temporary abstinence from penetration so they can enjoy foreplay and explore each other's bodies.
This disrupts the typical routine of sex and opens the door to creativity, novelty and excitement. Sensual focus refines intimacy.
Foreplay is never superfluous
Interesting fact: Chinese culture started massaging the feet of girls who were about to go to bed with their husbands. 😉
So, the most thoroughly worked the point in the middle of the heel, responsible for the genitals.
Oh, by the way, try and find it and massage it. And the second point is the most pleasant for many people. It is located on the pad at the base of the big toes.
Working on this point allows you to lower blood pressure, distract yourself from routine matters and relax.
The first option for boredom in sex is to "escape" from the good old bed.
After gradually mastering the bathroom, the dining room table and the hallway, partners one day decide to go beyond the boundaries of their dwelling.
A blow job or cunnilingus in a store's dressing booth, in a clearing in the woods, during a movie screening - almost a "classic of the genre". The risk of being discovered in the midst of the action sometimes greatly enhances the acuteness of the sensations.
Yet it can also be the other way around - the anxiety eclipses all other sensations.
Could porn movies teach the art of sex?
On the one hand, porn has its pluses - for young guys and girls it means some kind of education, a chance to see clearly how everything works in sex.
On the other hand, you have to be critical of porn movies: unsophisticated viewers may take everything going on at face value. As a result, the results can be disastrous.
As an example, people won't be able to enjoy the practices shown in porn, they'll feel something is wrong with them, and fall into neurosis.
Why does everyone believe that surprises and compliments are the business of men?
Break stereotypes, as your darling surely won't refuse pleasant gifts, unexpected and vivid feelings. The more so, who else but you probably aware of what your man prefers.
Maybe you decorate the bedroom in blue colors, put around a candle and write on the floor with rose petals a confession of love.
Surprises and variety in sex are always nice. No need to wait for some holiday, after all your meeting is already the major event in his and your life.
Avoid physical activity 2 hours before and 1 hour after sex
Save your energy before having sex, otherwise fatigue would affect the quality of intimacy. After lovemaking it's vital to be with your beloved relaxed and satisfied.
To leave the right "posttaste" after sex, do not break this medley for at least 1 hour.
Even with a modest size, you can easily bring her to powerful orgasms
Especially with the simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris with your penis and hands. Especially handy in the spoon position, on the table and doggy style.
And do not forget that the clitoris is more sensitive than the penis head, so no excessive pressure on it, or you will get the opposite effect.
Always be blunt about your desires
Hinting subtly, you risk of being misunderstood. The bed is a place where you should discard bashfulness and complexes. Submit to passion and experiment. List with your partner famous love treatise "Kama Sutra".
Not necessarily to repeat all the acrobatic tricks, but some options for preliminary caresses and kisses are quite possible to take note.
Gathered for you a few points of most annoying things for a girl in sex
These are critical points, advise you to focus on them and keep them to yourself.
- Standard and monotonous route of kissing. Such as always only the ear, the neck, the lips.
- Men's socks during sex. Dunno what this has to do with, but this fact pisses off lots of people.
- Distractions in the process to the TV or phone. For many, that's offensive and insulting.
- Rapid falling asleep after sex. Sadly, not everyone is aware that you need time to recover, and this fact is really hard to get over.
- Comparison with other girls. My advice is to forget about this, even if you praise your babe so much.
- Easy sex. No love and no mutual connection.
The list is lengthy, but it's pretty trivial! And everyone is free not to do it.😉
Thorcher Pose.
A perfect, non-standard pose for a deep blowjob.
Well suited as a quality prep in foreplay to a nice sex. Highly passionate and wonderful at the same time. Any access to the girl's buttocks, breasts and hair.
👉🏻How to do it.
View the technique in the picture, to avoid injury and falling.
You put your feet shoulder width apart and squat in a position like in the picture. The babe stands in front of you on her knees and elbows, so that her face is directly in front of your dick.
In the process you can stroke her body, touch her breasts and buttocks, wrap her hair around your fist and help her in her movements. That will only spice up the experience.🔥
Be sure to try the sweet ones!
Got poor sensitivity? It's an easy remedy.
Well, there's a certain type of girl with low clitoral sensitivity. And I actually find this to be a real problem for many men!
No matter how hard they try, girls can't fully enjoy the caresses and experience an orgasm!
Exactly for such babes, here is a super simple solution.💋
During masturbation, after hot foreplay, position the girl with her back on the couch, yourself settle down next to her. Place your fingers over the clitoris on both sides, then slowly pull the skin back. This way you push back the clitoral hood and open the clitoris itself as much as possible. With your other hand or tongue you can gently start massaging the clitoris.
Poses for a vibrant orgasm
🔺Partner should lie on his back and bend his knees. The woman sits on top of the man in the riding position. One leg should be bent and the other placed near the man's thigh. In this position, the partner would feel a strong pressure on the clitoris, resulting in a violent and vivid orgasm.
🔺The next option is best performed in the missionary position. The man should put his palm on the woman's pubis, while his thumb and forefinger folded into the English letter V. While doing this, his hand shouldn't touch the clitoris. Make small intervals between frictions, during which the partner should pull the skin on the pubis up slightly.
Is virtual sex deemed cheating?
Tell you right off the bat, I won't give you a definitive answer, since we all vary.
Still, lots of people believe sex without penetration cannot be called cheating.
However, others feel that virtual sex is just as much betrayal on the part of a loved one as real intimacy. When partners make love over the Internet, each one caresses himself, but the excitement they get from the very fact of communication.
So it turns out that a man doing it with a stranger is not just masturbating, but getting horny for another woman.
Each couple must decide for themselves whether to regard virtual sex as cheating or to treat it as harmless amusement.
The key point in a blow job is getting an orgasm?
Numerous girls try to give a blowjob as quickly and intensively as possible in order to hurry up giving an orgasm to their partner.
As a matter of fact, a blowjob is a highly sensual process and by no means for everyone the orgasm is the main thing.
Try to lengthen the process, change the rhythm and techniques a lot, working on the entire penis and scrotal area. Sure your partner will enjoy it.
What does it mean if she caresses his belly?
It has few nerve endings and its skin is thick. Yet the belly is closer to the genitals, and when the lady fondles it, men believe that quite soon she will move even lower.
This part of the body is massaged with the palms of her hands, breasts, tongue, hair, or her belly. The most sensitive area is in the region from the navel to the pubis. The caressing movements start at the top and end at the bottom of the pubic area.
Excessively submissive woman suppresses her desires
She tries to do whatever her partner wants. It leads to health problems, and the husband turns into a tyrant. Well, likewise, there are bitchy women acting aggressively, stroppy.
They are insubordinate, place numerous demands on their partner. In this case, he loses his manhood. Some guys stop seeing such partners as women.
So we need to learn to stick to the golden mean. Be feminine and at times tease the man with rebelliousness.
Never insist on a blowjob if she doesn't agree
Also, never hold her head and regulate her rhythm.
You shouldn't stop her from pleasuring you, otherwise you're just being disrespectful in some way! And btw, when you feel like you're about to cum, just warn her about it. She needs to know that.
Keep in mind, your partner should ALWAYS orgasm first, and then you, especially when it comes to sex. As they say, girls first.
Find that very spot
The space in your body between testicles and buttocks is one of the many highly erogenous zones with a good response to sexual stimulation.
Some guys claim that by pressing on this spot, they can experience multiple orgasms - probably cuz that's how you can stimulate your prostate gland from the outside through the crotch.
During intercourse or oral sex, ask your partner to place a finger on this area and press on it until the pressure feels right.
All men dream of having a woman-Queen by their side
I didn't say a woman model or the world's prettiest lady. Every man has his own idea of beauty. He can fall in love with a petite woman, or an overweight one.
Yet he wants to believe she's the loveliest. And if the woman is pleased with her body, acting as if she's beautiful, then the man is proud of himself - he chose her correctly.
And if a lady begins to explain to a man: "What kind of beauty am I? See the fat on my waist? See how my butt isn't perfect?", then the man begins to feel like he's been given damaged goods. He feels deceived in his expectations and disappointed.
Lowered libido
Oh, I assure you, it's okay. Decreased libido can be countered by regular exercise, proper nutrition, and, oddly enough, consistent sex.
A concept of sexual constitution works. Few people know what it means.
Sexual constitution determines the intensity of sexual manifestations, varying from person to person. That is, one partner desires sex more than the other. Not necessarily a man, as we tend to think of it.
The most common fantasy among women is MFM
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Those who have ever had a pleasant massage (the one without the infernal twisting of arms and legs), can imagine how nice it feels to be treated not with two, but with four hands.
All because our brain relaxes owing to the mismatch of touches.
Actually, when you have two wonderful lovers in bed, capable of tuning into each other and creating around your erogenous zones this wave of movement, a woman perfectly relaxes, receives vigorous orgasms and a sea of pleasure.
The emotional downturn, which many people feel after mfm, can also be explained by far too much and chaotic amount of stimulation all at once.
About swingers today
That option, for sure, isn't for everyone, but it's worth a try for some.
Supposedly, this variant is better than cheating, as the partners do not undermine trust between each other, better watch their appearance and physical form.
Three types of swinging exist: easy, closed and open.
Easy swing implies having sex in close proximity to each other, or with the involvement of a third person.
In a closed swing, couples exchange partners and have sex separately.
Open swing entails couples exchanging partners and seeing each other during sex.
Why strike a balance between passion and tenderness?
Let animal lust be combined with incredible tenderness. Love, surrender to each other and try to give your partner as much pleasure as possible.
That's essential. Not only for pleasure, but also for giving energy. A woman nourishes a man, turning him into a strong and successful one. Notice your partner's reactions to the stroking of different zones, the reaction to the change of positions, to the oral caresses. No need to do it on the run, just taking a piss.
Approach lovemaking as a creative process that requires time and total commitment