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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
By the feedback, you all know how much foreplay is crucial for girls, which means I write posts for good reason💋 So, recently a subscriber asked a seemingly intriguing question to me.
Is there a classic version of foreplay? Which suits most girls.
Let me tell you all about it too. Yeah, the classics, as everywhere else there is. Many girls undoubtedly like it.
There's only caresses with hands, lips and tongue. And the rule is one, go down her body from top to bottom.
Start with kisses, slowly and gently move your lips down her neck. Pay attention to her shoulders and watch the reaction of her body. Feel the payoff from her. Caress her breasts, slowly going down to her belly. Attend to it, too, with your tongue. Again stop to feel her recoil. Along the way, remove your focus to erogenous zones, such as her wrist and ears.
Some girls keep guys away from their clitoris.
And it's a pretty hot topic cause, as a rule, girls don't tell you what's wrong. Let's figure it out.☝🏻
There are two of the most popular problems I wish to point out:
Girlfriend stiffness. This can be as a psychological defensive reaction.
Negative painful experiences. Painful sex with another partner, masturbation without proper arousal.
Clitoris - it's one of the most sensitive places in the girl. And so it's important to have a gentle approach and gentle action. I always recommend a relaxing massage, a heart-to-heart talk and finding out why.
I wrote it in case you encounter something like this and know what to do. Not just to boot you wanted💋
The perfect erotic massage
That’s what you need to know to make the whole process go smoothly, literally😁
Arrange the location. You need a spacious location and plenty of space. The perfect option is a covered floor, with a soft bedspread.
Create an atmosphere. Make the apartment cozy and warm. Turn on music, turn off phones, create soft light, light candles.
Prepare a massage oil. Important and essential element. I advise you to buy intimate massage oil, one that is suitable for the erogenous zones. This way the sliding of the bodies will be easier.
Start with foreplay. The guy lies down on his stomach, the girl generously applies massage oil on the palms of her hands then on the guy's body. Starting with the shoulders, ending with the feet.
Use different techniques. You have to use everything, breasts, stomach, buttocks, pussy. Ask the girl to put her breasts down on your lower back and roll them back and forth, then go up all over her body, going over all the places with her breasts.
Stress and sex
I'm ready to talk about stress for a really long time. Cause the lion's share of my clients have problems in bed related to a lot of stress!
For instance, there was a girl with 24 hours of wild stress. She has loans, a job, a baby, and problems with her parents on her shoulders. Can you imagine how the body feels under all that pressure? The hormone cortisol (the stress hormone) has long dominated her bloodstream and is ruining her whole mood.
Problems in bed, sure, are there! She simply doesn't have the energy to have sex.
What's the solution here?
Try to delegate some tasks and find a way to relax. This can include breathing exercises, light exercises, resting alone in your favorite place.
Nipple Accessories
Capable of enhancing arousal, taking orgasm to a new level and delivering an incredible thrill to girls.🔥
It's not just a device, but a godsend among sex toys.
Nipples are one of the strongest erogenous zones of girls and men. During sex they are stimulated with tongue, fingers, penis. But what if you add some fire and passionate pain to the bed? Clamps provide the babe with hot sensations throughout sex, and it is a good substitute for tongue caresses.
How to choose? Do not buy something heavy and massive right away. You can hurt or scare the girl. Choose clamps that are soft, gentle, made of a pleasant material.
I'll add on my own, if you hold the clamps throughout penetration, but at the time of orgasm let them go. Oh, the sweet ones! Fire inside the girl is guaranteed🤤
Positions to prolong intercourse
It's been a long time since we discussed this point - time to fix it👌🏻
In a comfortable and, if I may say so, passive position, arousal is achieved more slowly. Meanwhile, the onset of orgasm is easier to control.
In other words, no need to conquer "sexual bends" and repeat crazy poses.
Suitable positions you are accustomed to!
Separately I'll allocate spoons (must-have for this purpose) and the position when a man sits with a girl on top.
Yeah, sounds trivial and "boring".
But not for nothing they say - all geniuses are simple😉
She doesn't like the taste of semen! How can you fix it?
So many guys resent it when a babe doesn't like the taste of cum. I work with this on a daily basis! And something tells me that some of you are painfully familiar with this topic.💋
Seminal fluid is made up of many substances, and there are so many factors that affect it. Such as: diet, smoking, alcohol, and lifestyle.
And I'm not at liberty to ask you to quit bad habits and dig deep, I want to give you two tips on how to make semen more enjoyable for girls.
- Use an edible lubricant for oral caresses.
- Reconsider your diet. Try to eat less garlic, coffee, onions. Include more citrus, nuts, cinnamon, celery. These foods make sperm richer and sweeter.
Consider the idea, sweeties!
Distinct pleasure technique for girls or Kivin cunnilingus
As simply as possible to perform, and it brings you lots of pleasure! That's what's so great about it.🤤
A few steps, to sweet delight.
- Put the girl on her back, so that she presses her legs against your chest. That way she'll be more exposed to you and her pussy is ready to be caressed.
- Lie perpendicular to her body, with your face against her pussy. This way you can fondle the clitoral hood at the right angle, which will only bring vivid sensations.
- Place your index and middle finger on either side of the clitoris, lifting it slightly.
- Place the finger of the second hand over the entrance of the pussy. Lightly press it, but do not squeeze. You’ll be able to feel the frequency and rhythm of contractions.
- Begin the cunny. Run your tongue back and forth over the hood, alternating the movements💦
You'll be fine👌
Constant analysis of your actions is one of the mistakes
I was working with a client and completely forgot to write to you about him. And the man, he's interesting and so is his case.😁
The fact is that a man makes one incredibly small and ridiculous mistake in sex.
He's constantly analyzing everything and wondering what's going on. How does this manifest itself? During intercourse, he thinks: where to put his hand, how many times to enter the pussy, the number of times to come out, what to do after the kiss, which way to breathe and how many times. No need to go on, I guess, cuz you've already figured out what I was talking about.
The main point is that he makes sex harder for himself and enjoys it. What kind of pleasure can we talk about if all he has in his head is thoughts about arranging sex?
👉🏻What can help here?
Breathing practices before sex, gymnastics, absolutely any way to relax and clear your head.
Sex toys aren't always a good thing
People don't say this, but playing with toys not only brings pleasure! At times they only harm.☝🏻
I highlight three criteria for when to worry and remove the toy from your sex life.
- If the girl needs more and more time to reach orgasm with the toy.
- If she used to reach orgasm at the lowest speed, but now she needs the most powerful one.
- If in sex with a man, a girl cannot cum at all without a sex toy.
Nope, get it, I'm FOR vibrators and different devices, I frequently recommend them to you personally. Yet honey, everything has to be in moderation.
Toys can help reveal a woman's sensitivity, bring novelty to sex, provide pleasant emotions. But they cannot replace penetration and tongue caresses.
Ever assume that everyone has a knack for giving a nice compliment and pleasing their partner?
No way, lots of people make mistakes. And really trivial ones at that.
And without compliments sex will be shy, boring and simple. No passion and resolve in the babe to new sexual exploits.
That's why I wrote a few points to talk about. What can I do, adore you so much! 💋
- The look in detail. This includes eye color, lip color, fragrance, beauty and attractiveness of the body.
- Appearance. Emphasize your choice of shoes, clothing image, and bag.
- Intelligence. Praise hobbies, art, accomplishments at work.
More and more frequently I notice female clients wondering about French sex.
Even though it's not a separate art form, French sex has its own peculiarities☺️
As an example, the French practice tantric sex with great vividness.
When you merge your bodies not only physically, but also spiritually. For each stage of the relationship it has its own advantages.
- For those in a long relationship, it's great for variety and novelty.
- For those newly started dating, as a rapprochement and getting to know each other's bodies.
👉🏻 For now, I won't write much about tantra so as not to bore you, but rather advise a really close breathing technique.
During penetration, you have to keep eye contact and breathe on the same wave. Breathe in exactly the same way as your girlfriend does.
Lately been walking around a sex shop searching for novelties, and spotted a swing.
Let me shed a little light on what that thing is.💋
A sex swing is a base or seat for securing your arms and legs. They help you make movements with minimal energy, with maximum pleasure. You can control the speed of movement yourself, completely relaxed and without straining your whole body.
They are useful for those
- Who have a great difference in height.
- Who desire new sensations.
- Who are willing to try out poses, while getting comfort and pleasure.
They help to lift the girl, fix her at a suitable height for you, which makes many poses more accessible and easier. Read the instructions before using them.
Kiki sex is the fastest kind of sex possible
That’s the type of sex that every couple should have. As my colleagues say, it is the key to a healthy relationship.😁
It takes place wherever your passion catches you: in the car in the parking lot, in a public restroom, a roadside cafe, in the woods or a fitting room.
Yep, that sex is really good!
It has an animal passion, a wild orgasm, maximum arousal. But in reality, all this is only in words, as not every girl is agreeable to it.
Thus, for the first time, advise to leave a portion of predictability, and warn baby in advance about the practice of such sex. Discuss with her the permissible places.👆🏻
It's such a hot thing when your man stands by the stove and cooks something💦
Gluhwein, steaks or hot sandwiches - no matter at all. The very image of a man in the kitchen extremely excites the consciousness of the fair sex. Like when his sleeves are rolled up to the elbow or he's shirtless (or maybe even in an apron).
Surprisingly, as a sexologist myself, I don't fully realize why it turns me on😁
Most likely, it's the result of a combination of showing the proverbial "master" image and just the pleasant emotion of having a man take care of you.
For me (and for my female clients, girlfriends) such "action" from a man almost always ends with sex on the kitchen table or countertop🔥
Another enticing kind of intimacy
Gluteal sex is like a little subtype of sex. And if you're bored with standard sex, fed up with the positions, then you have to try😉
Here the pleasure is enjoyed by both partners. The guy doesn't penetrate the girl's pussy, nope, he moves his dick between the girl's buttocks. Not touching the pussy or the anal hole. Just sweet movements and nothing more!
Performed like this. Put the girl on the bed, in doggy style position. Lubricate your penis liberally with lube. And penetrate the cock between the buttocks. Start with slow movements, then move to a faster pace. Ending is up to you, either cum directly on your buttocks or all over your body.
I prefer the first option💋
A good way to diversify home sex - sex on the floor
I believe those fed up with all the standard places will get me well.😏
We're all adults, so let's get to the point, how to organize properly.
✔️Don't have sex on an uncovered hard surface. Cuz you'll just hurt your knees and lower back that way.
✔️Use a rug and pillows. For a more comfortable body position.
✔️Try the missionary pose and the horsewoman pose. In these you can keep eye contact, enjoy the sensations, deep penetration and just be comfortable.
Three rules, will make your sex vivid and unforgettable. I'll say for myself, many ladies are turned on by this kind of sex, which means you should try the sweet ones soon.🔥
How does tying bring pleasure?
If you do it right, not only will the babe agree to be tied up, she’ll be totally ecstatic.🔥
Merintopholia, as binding is called, has several levels.
First level. Here only like images of bound people. The girl is commonly aroused by the picture she sees, but too afraid to try it herself.
Second level. One likes being tied up during sex. A girl really enjoys it when her movements are restricted and certain body parts are tied up.
Third level. Professional and not everyone has it. Here one gets pleasure only from the process of binding and understanding that the body is limited in movement.
Which one to choose, it's up to you to decide! But I advise to start with the first one.💋
Way to bring a baby to the most powerful orgasm of her life
A technique only for couples with total trust between each other!
👉🏻 How to do it. Take more lube, lubricate your fingers and gently insert your thumb into the pussy, the index finger into the back hole. At the same time with the second hand or tongue we stimulate the clitoris, for fullness and brightness of sensations.
It happens after foreplay! When the girl is fully prepped and ready to play.
With proper stimulation, the baby is gonna be in incredible bliss and surely repay you for your technique a little later.🤤
How to react to failures in sex?
Certainly my clients try to hide this question behind other far-fetched reasons and topics. Yet, I quickly realize what kind of problem the person has come to me with.
After all, I already have quite a bit of experience.)
So the main advice I can give you about failures in sex is don't dramatize and let these situations go.
When you cum faster than usual, clumsily changed position, did not get up, poked in the wrong place and other little things.
Do not let situations like this affect you too much - you will bury yourself!
The "balance" pose
Warning, it's quite complicated, but quite interesting😍
The pose is a modification of the familiar doggy style. So, almost everyone can try it.
As I said, you need to start with doggy style, but in the version where you and your partner are both on your knees. After you enter the girl, grab her under the arms and start "pulling" her off the bed, pulling her close to you.
Eventually her arms should close in a lock behind your neck.
Here is where the "balance" kicks in, for the two of you are essentially suspended in mid-air. And trying to achieve full balance in this pose can give you great pleasure.💦
Problem of the Sexual Time Mismatch
To some people my client's problem seems to be a pretty common one, but I'll tell you! Maybe some of you’ll be close to it...
She is a morning person and her husband is a night one, so to speak. For several years they can't find a common time for sex, so it happens only on "big holidays" or on vacation.
The husband is attracted to sex at night, when she is already asleep. The girl, on the other hand, wants sex in the morning, when she is full of energy and awake.
In fact, the situation is much more complicated than just a mismatch of time.
It's also about the lack of orgasm due to compulsion.
👉🏻So far, my advice to her is trivial - find a compromise in timing. Try having sex in the afternoon when both are awake, awake and ready. Or move sex to early evening, after work, but before dinner.
Lots of people really struggle with the urge to masturbate, and that's not a bad thing
But you probably didn't know about some of the positives of masturbation😉
Reduces stress levels. Endorphins are released into the bloodstream, with a positive effect on your mood and psycho-emotional state.
Improves sexual relations. After masturbation, partners realize their reactions to touches and caresses, know their arousal zones and ways to achieve orgasm.
Boosts immunity. Those people who masturbate frequently, precisely at will, increase their immunoglobulin levels. Which ultimately protects against colds.
I'm not urging you to do this action, just reminding you that masturbation can be beneficial and effective for sex.💋
Sex on a windowsill
Combines extreme, passionate and unusual sex. It's surreal fun all in one.🤤
Some tips for such sex.
- Recommend - the sitting position. That's where the lady sits facing you, you stand penetrating her, enjoying the warmth inside.
- Have sex in the evening when it's twilight. It just will be more comfy for the two of you.
- Prepare in advance lube, condoms, toys.
- Do not limit yourself to penetration, use all the tools. In the form of cunny, spanking, kissing, different positions.
Try the sweet ones, you won't regret it!
How to cum twice in a row?
The ability to "go for a second round" is highly individual, let me tell you, cause physiology interferes with this process to a large extent.
The amount of sperm in the body is trivially limited, its replenishment by 60% will happen only after 3-4 hours.
Physiology is not interested in the continuation of pleasure, because the main task is the continuation of the species.
So, boys, my advice to you is not to act against nature. Besides, it can be harmful for your health.
Orient to your individual peculiarities!
If the second intercourse in 5 minutes does not bring you discomfort - my congrats. If discomfort is there, don't mock your body!
How to bond?
These are times when everyone needs support and intimacy!
To mark the occasion, I've decided to write an effective bonding practice for you.
All you need are ordinary paints, brushes, and a little free time...
What should you do?
Naked in front of each other. Start painting. You wrap a wet brush in paint and gently move it over the naked body of your other half.
You can change colors, specify where it feels good and how she likes it best. Then replace the brush with your hands and keep moving along the body, smearing the paint, using your imagination
Sex is not the main thing in this practice!
The key is to feel the wave of pleasure, then excitement, and to dive into the feelings for each other...
What is the worst sex ever?
Right now, think back and recall your most embarrassing moments in sex. Remember them?
And now forget them... Cause there's no such thing as bad sex! It's about the taste of the two partners 👉
What seems bad to you might like your girlfriend😅
- Some like long foreplay, when both partners dissolve into each other and only long passionate sex is always in their couple
- Others like it when sex happens fast, passionate and flighty. When you cannot stand it and everything burns inside with passion
- There are people who reject and do not accept oral caressing and petting in any way.
No sex is bad, only sex that you like and others don't.
How to heighten a girl's pleasure?
There's a special trick for that, helping girls experience the hot pleasure of penetration.
Easy peasy to do, and it's your mission to make it happen, sweethearts.💋
Crossing legs. In cunny or penetration. By doing this, the blood rushes harder to the right places, which only increases the girl's delight. Warms up the internal and external stimulation of the clitoris and labia.
In missionary position, when your penis or tongue is fully penetrated, try crossing or squeezing the baby's legs together so that the labia and clitoris are in maximum contact with each other.
Bear safety in mind, if her body doesn't tolerate it, then refuse to do this technique!
Each couple's need for intimacy is variable
Statistically, most couples take a few days without sex as normal, after a week they already feel discomfort, and after a month - serious changes in feelings and mood.
To increase the quantity and quality of sexual intercourse, try something new, fulfill each other's fantasies, self-educate in the psychology of relationships, take counseling sessions with a sexologist - all of this will bring back your relationship a second breath ...
Test it and no thanks ❤️
Gentle grip from behind for those with a tougher and brighter style!
With it, the pose gets hotter, more exciting and even sweeter.
Here, the key is not to exceed, so read how to do it right! 💋
- In the doggy style, when you feel the peak of the girl's pleasure, grab the hair closer to the roots and pull it towards you. While doing so, control the strength of your hold, watch the girl's reaction, try not to make it hurt.
Why is it pleasant? Cause it affects the nerve endings of the head, thus adding oil to the fire and making it only more pleasant.🔥