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One of the components of a long-lasting relationship is variety in sex.
What is essential is that intimate life never gets tedious. Sex toys can help bring new sensations into it. Let's consider what devices your partner should try.
I advise to try erection pads, those are generally made of elastic material. Worn on the penis.
Gargantua is the fast-rotating black hole from the "Interstellar" movie
Few people realize that this is exactly how we would see a real black hole. It's not just computer graphics.
Kip Thorne, the film's chief scientific advisor, an American physicist and astronomer, based his simulations on exact equations. These equations described the trajectories of rays of light coming from a distant star, penetrating Gargantua's warped space and time.
Stop waiting for your loved one to read your thoughts
Make it a rule to give each other feedback before, during, and even after sex.
Maintain eye contact.
Oh yeah, just look into your partner's eyes: you can blink, the main thing is not to break this connection.
Besides, synchronization of breathing works well.
The desired atmosphere and the sense of complete intimacy, otherwise the orgasm is simply unattainable, are created out of such non-obvious trifles.
Unconventional behavior in the fight against sexual routine
Due to the placebo effect, paradoxes frequently improve sexual function.
By way of example, a sex therapist may assign, as homework for a problematic couple, temporary abstinence from penetration so they can enjoy foreplay and explore each other's bodies.
This disrupts the typical routine of sex and opens the door to creativity, novelty and excitement. Sensual focus refines intimacy.
Foreplay is never superfluous
Interesting fact: Chinese culture started massaging the feet of girls who were about to go to bed with their husbands. 😉
So, the most thoroughly worked the point in the middle of the heel, responsible for the genitals.
Oh, by the way, try and find it and massage it. And the second point is the most pleasant for many people. It is located on the pad at the base of the big toes.
Working on this point allows you to lower blood pressure, distract yourself from routine matters and relax.
The first option for boredom in sex is to "escape" from the good old bed.
After gradually mastering the bathroom, the dining room table and the hallway, partners one day decide to go beyond the boundaries of their dwelling.
A blow job or cunnilingus in a store's dressing booth, in a clearing in the woods, during a movie screening - almost a "classic of the genre". The risk of being discovered in the midst of the action sometimes greatly enhances the acuteness of the sensations.
Yet it can also be the other way around - the anxiety eclipses all other sensations.
Could porn movies teach the art of sex?
On the one hand, porn has its pluses - for young guys and girls it means some kind of education, a chance to see clearly how everything works in sex.
On the other hand, you have to be critical of porn movies: unsophisticated viewers may take everything going on at face value. As a result, the results can be disastrous.
As an example, people won't be able to enjoy the practices shown in porn, they'll feel something is wrong with them, and fall into neurosis.
Why does everyone believe that surprises and compliments are the business of men?
Break stereotypes, as your darling surely won't refuse pleasant gifts, unexpected and vivid feelings. The more so, who else but you probably aware of what your man prefers.
Maybe you decorate the bedroom in blue colors, put around a candle and write on the floor with rose petals a confession of love.
Surprises and variety in sex are always nice. No need to wait for some holiday, after all your meeting is already the major event in his and your life.
Avoid physical activity 2 hours before and 1 hour after sex
Save your energy before having sex, otherwise fatigue would affect the quality of intimacy. After lovemaking it's vital to be with your beloved relaxed and satisfied.
To leave the right "posttaste" after sex, do not break this medley for at least 1 hour.
Even with a modest size, you can easily bring her to powerful orgasms
Especially with the simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris with your penis and hands. Especially handy in the spoon position, on the table and doggy style.
And do not forget that the clitoris is more sensitive than the penis head, so no excessive pressure on it, or you will get the opposite effect.
Always be blunt about your desires
Hinting subtly, you risk of being misunderstood. The bed is a place where you should discard bashfulness and complexes. Submit to passion and experiment. List with your partner famous love treatise "Kama Sutra".
Not necessarily to repeat all the acrobatic tricks, but some options for preliminary caresses and kisses are quite possible to take note.
Pain during intercourse
It's a problem faced by many women, they negatively affect relationships with partners and women's self-esteem and psyche.
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Women experience fear due to intimacy, as they realize pain awaits them. Sexual and emotional contact between partners dissipates.
Another significant factor is psychological. Generally, the basis for this is a conflict with a man and an unwillingness to be intimate with him.
Stay open about the problem, talk to your partner and come to a common denominator. The problem is fixable, the main thing is not to leave everything as it is, and solve it.
No contraception method is 100% guaranteed
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The effectiveness of any method of contraception is calculated using the Pearl index (failure rate).
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The Pearl Index = the number of unplanned pregnancies per 100 women who used a certain type of contraception during the year.
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Quite often the effectiveness of a method is confused with the efficacy of the method - that is, whether you are using the contraceptive method correctly.
Keep in mind the main thing, safe sex is masturbation.
Never forget about your pleasure.
The truth is simple: the psychological comfort of the idea that he "made it" today and you enjoyed it madly works wonders with men.
That's valuable.
Whether you are his spouse or a casual acquaintance, whether he thinks you are a beauty or have some complaints he won't say out loud - all these factors are irrelevant if you put your common efforts where you need them.
What is your feeling about toys?
Not gonna hide the fact that vibrators, pulsators, rotators and vacuum stimulators really do change lives, sometimes even from head to toe.
Things never existed before suddenly appear: sensitivity, arousal, orgasm. How to make the toy you buy "work" for you?
Any human skill can be either "pumped up" or "hammered down," and so can sexual sensations.
If you wish to master how to feel more during sex, then try various speed of vibration, point of application, position, and even the day of the cycle.
The key point in a blow job is getting an orgasm?
Numerous girls try to give a blowjob as quickly and intensively as possible in order to hurry up giving an orgasm to their partner.
As a matter of fact, a blowjob is a highly sensual process and by no means for everyone the orgasm is the main thing.
Try to lengthen the process, change the rhythm and techniques a lot, working on the entire penis and scrotal area. Sure your partner will enjoy it.
In the last 50 years, mankind has launched nearly 6,600 satellites.
Some of them were military, so toxic fuel and nuclear reactors above our heads are no rarity. A thousand satellites are still in operation. About two thousand have been destroyed in one way or another. The rest keep hanging around, colliding.
Around the planet now revolves: about 29,000 pieces of debris larger than 10 cm, about 670,000 pieces of debris from 1 to 10 cm, and finally more than 170 million pieces of debris from 1 mm to 1 cm. Their total mass is 7,000 tons, and their flight speed reaches 56,000 km/h.
What does it mean if she caresses his belly?
It has few nerve endings and its skin is thick. Yet the belly is closer to the genitals, and when the lady fondles it, men believe that quite soon she will move even lower.
This part of the body is massaged with the palms of her hands, breasts, tongue, hair, or her belly. The most sensitive area is in the region from the navel to the pubis. The caressing movements start at the top and end at the bottom of the pubic area.
Excessively submissive woman suppresses her desires
She tries to do whatever her partner wants. It leads to health problems, and the husband turns into a tyrant. Well, likewise, there are bitchy women acting aggressively, stroppy.
They are insubordinate, place numerous demands on their partner. In this case, he loses his manhood. Some guys stop seeing such partners as women.
So we need to learn to stick to the golden mean. Be feminine and at times tease the man with rebelliousness.
Never insist on a blowjob if she doesn't agree
Also, never hold her head and regulate her rhythm.
You shouldn't stop her from pleasuring you, otherwise you're just being disrespectful in some way! And btw, when you feel like you're about to cum, just warn her about it. She needs to know that.
Keep in mind, your partner should ALWAYS orgasm first, and then you, especially when it comes to sex. As they say, girls first.
Find that very spot
The space in your body between testicles and buttocks is one of the many highly erogenous zones with a good response to sexual stimulation.
Some guys claim that by pressing on this spot, they can experience multiple orgasms - probably cuz that's how you can stimulate your prostate gland from the outside through the crotch.
During intercourse or oral sex, ask your partner to place a finger on this area and press on it until the pressure feels right.
All men dream of having a woman-Queen by their side
I didn't say a woman model or the world's prettiest lady. Every man has his own idea of beauty. He can fall in love with a petite woman, or an overweight one.
Yet he wants to believe she's the loveliest. And if the woman is pleased with her body, acting as if she's beautiful, then the man is proud of himself - he chose her correctly.
And if a lady begins to explain to a man: "What kind of beauty am I? See the fat on my waist? See how my butt isn't perfect?", then the man begins to feel like he's been given damaged goods. He feels deceived in his expectations and disappointed.
Lowered libido
Oh, I assure you, it's okay. Decreased libido can be countered by regular exercise, proper nutrition, and, oddly enough, consistent sex.
A concept of sexual constitution works. Few people know what it means.
Sexual constitution determines the intensity of sexual manifestations, varying from person to person. That is, one partner desires sex more than the other. Not necessarily a man, as we tend to think of it.
The most common fantasy among women is MFM
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Those who have ever had a pleasant massage (the one without the infernal twisting of arms and legs), can imagine how nice it feels to be treated not with two, but with four hands.
All because our brain relaxes owing to the mismatch of touches.
Actually, when you have two wonderful lovers in bed, capable of tuning into each other and creating around your erogenous zones this wave of movement, a woman perfectly relaxes, receives vigorous orgasms and a sea of pleasure.
The emotional downturn, which many people feel after mfm, can also be explained by far too much and chaotic amount of stimulation all at once.
About swingers today
That option, for sure, isn't for everyone, but it's worth a try for some.
Supposedly, this variant is better than cheating, as the partners do not undermine trust between each other, better watch their appearance and physical form.
Three types of swinging exist: easy, closed and open.
Easy swing implies having sex in close proximity to each other, or with the involvement of a third person.
In a closed swing, couples exchange partners and have sex separately.
Open swing entails couples exchanging partners and seeing each other during sex.
Why strike a balance between passion and tenderness?
Let animal lust be combined with incredible tenderness. Love, surrender to each other and try to give your partner as much pleasure as possible.
That's essential. Not only for pleasure, but also for giving energy. A woman nourishes a man, turning him into a strong and successful one. Notice your partner's reactions to the stroking of different zones, the reaction to the change of positions, to the oral caresses. No need to do it on the run, just taking a piss.
Approach lovemaking as a creative process that requires time and total commitment
Neither a volcanic eruption, nor a zombie invasion, nor a shootout of drug dealers can prevent the lovers😉
The risk is really exciting.
By no means I urge you to chase an orgasm in a car rushing at 100 km per hour. Adrenaline levels can easily be raised even at home, if there's a danger of being caught by guests or relatives.
Impose a temporary taboo on routines
That's one proven method to bring back passion. So, say, cut out the missionary position for a month. Or agree that in the next 10 days you are only kissing, and switch to sex is absolutely impossible.
The mere fact that the ban is notoriously arousing. Most likely, you won't last that long, but I still advise you to try.
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Man is overly focused on what's underneath his underwear
Missing out on much is to your own detriment: by increasing her level of arousal you can get much more pleasure out of sex yourself.
Touching her ears is the way to her arousal, both physically and psychologically.
Lightly massage the edge of her ear between your thumb and forefinger, wrapping your other hand around her head.
When a woman has an orgasm, her brain disconnects from her body and she gets out of control. If you want to trigger this process, put her head on your knee and massage the area above her eyebrows with your fingers.