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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
To cum or not to cum in anal sex?
If everything is more or less clear with the issue of vaginal and oral sex, then anal sex, remains a mystery.
Lemme tell you what I think about it based on my knowledge and practice.
1️⃣ Yeah, a girl can not get pregnant, that’s a fact.
2️⃣ No guarantee that you and your baby won't get infections after sex. The microflora there is completely different.
3️⃣ The inside of the anus, very sensitive mucosa – the consequences may not be very pleasant for the girl.
So I advise you not to take any chances, and always use a condom. You can use a very thin one, so that sensitivity is not violated, and make sure you use a lot of lubricant.
Unfortunate sexual innuendos
Surely each of you has your own hints for sex. They can be short phrases, or some gestures. That's great, sweeties! 😉
But my practice has shown that it's at these phrases that the problems start. It starts small, but grows like a snowball.
Male clients like to say one phrase, "I'm going to shower and you get ready to do your marital duty."
Ya, they may have nothing wrong with that, but, what is a girl supposed to do after those words? How should she get ready? Should she watch porn to get horny, or start fondling herself?
I will say one thing, the phrase is unacceptable and not really nice to many people! It is misleading and simply repulsive.
I urge this particular phrase to forget. And it's better to always think carefully about the consequences before you say something. Just my personal advice.💋
How to get the excitement back?
There was a couple the other day, really nice people, they came to me voluntarily, without any problems or complaints. They wanted to solve the problem together. And that's cool! 😁
The problem is that - after 12 years of marriage, they have highly slow arousal. Here’s mutual desire, but no spark. There's not the fervor and passion that there used to be.
At the beginning of the relationship there is a big surge of hormones, they literally erupt like a volcano, but after a while gradually subside.
Habituation occurs, endorphin levels decrease, and couples go back to their norm of sex.☝🏻
What can you do?
I think you already know my answer. Introduce novelty, colors, passion and excitement into intimate life. Role-playing games, toys, bonding massages, resting more and rekindling the flame.
The world of sex and debauchery knows a term called the "5/20 Rule"
It states, a woman can be brought to orgasm in 20 seconds with a 5 cm penis.
Once again, this proves that size doesn't always matter. That it's just a myth and a prejudice.👐🏻
That doesn't mean that absolutely everyone can apply this rule, there are a couple of characteristics that are essential.
- A girl should have no problem getting an orgasm.
- A partner should attract her and excite her.
- She should definitely have the mindset to orgasm and nothing else.
- A man must be experienced and know how to give pleasure.
- There should be a long foreplay before sex.
These rules are really simple and quite feasible. No need to sell your soul to the devil here, just make a little effort.💋
Lots of guys have no idea how to behave after giving a babe an orgasm.
And that's a problem! What to do? Where to press? What to touch? Thousands of questions, but almost no answers.
After orgasm, the girl needs to come to her senses and be given some time. As a rule, 10-15 minutes. So that the sensitivity of the clitoris is restored and the hormones surge. In that case, sweeties, you can stroke the girl, caress her and say nice words. Even if you yourself have not experienced an orgasm. The girl needs to be given time.
But when she is at the peak of pleasure after a clitoral orgasm, she is ready to keep playing by herself. This, too, is quite normal. Here you can not stop and carry on having sex.
So, the conclusion is, act according to the situation and do not torture yourself with this question. Especially at the beginning of sex.😁
Consequences of sex
The most common problem after sex is back and lower back pain. I think every other person encounters them. I'm no exception to the rules. Oh yes, back pain, one of the most unpleasant.
Why does it happen?
- With poor physical fitness. When the body is not physically developed is exposed more to a sedentary lifestyle.
- From a lot of back strain. When in the process, excessive muscle strain.
- When choosing an extreme posture, chosen beyond the strength of the body.
It's simple and trivial. If you don't want to suffer from pain after sex, you shouldn't overstretch your back in the process, relax and give in to the sensations.
The main rule of a perfect cunny
Even in cunnilingus, what is essential is to prepare the girl correctly. So that she fully enjoyed the process and had an orgasm.☝🏻
Therefore you shouldn't take action right away, taking off her panties, biting and licking. You have to sweat her a little and let her realize that now it's time for oral caresses!
As you get closer to the pussy, take your time, slow down! Give her a gentle massage with your lips. Begin by licking the inside of your thighs and lower abdomen. Play with her lips in the navel area, run your tongue over the labia, bite lightly, and blow on the pubic area.
Pubis sex
I had a couple yesterday, with a rather peculiar problem. I don't think I've touched on such a subject yet. So it should be interesting.😁
In their relationship, the girl only experiences orgasms from rubbing against the surface. This kind of sex is called puberty. In general, it is practiced more often lesbians. The pleasure comes from the rubbing of the clitoris against some surface.
In my opinion, they exaggerated the problem! 😉
First of all, cuz there's nothing shameful about it. It's how a girl achieves orgasm, it's a good thing she can experience it at all.
Secondly, the problem is solved, and it's not hard! It is necessary to destroy her attitude, through bonding practices, sex toys and other things.
Porn scenario
Most often ladies dislike these scenarios, while men, on the contrary, are sometimes blown away. Which negatively affects sex and relationships.
My advice is to forget about what you see in porn!
You can watch, please yourself, dreaming of a similar scenario, but don't drag it into bed. In real life, it's completely more complicated than that.
Porn is a complicated process that takes a long time to prepare for. Cast members go to great lengths to show the end result of 1 hour of good sex. Anal plugs, stimulators, and other devices. Is there any of this preparation in real life?
Once you get that setup out of your head, sex trust me, will get better right away! 💋
What is the ideal sexual partner?
A couple of days ago I spotted an article in a magazine, but I didn't pay much attention to it. And so today I studied the material, of course, immediately writing a post! 😁
The article wrote 5 qualities of a sexual partner that scientists and experts believe a couple should have.
Sense of humor. Flexibility and freedom of mind allows you to be free and relaxed in sex.
Athleticism and body flexibility. Sports increase the production of hormones, which means that sex is only positively affected.
Attention. Attention to detail, solves many problems and processes in sex.
Ease of communication. If it is there, it means that there will be conversations about sex, which will only have a positive effect on everyone.
Purposefulness. If a person knows exactly what he wants from life, then he also knows what he wants in bed.
Sweethearts, I completely agree with everything, so I suggest that you think about whether you have these qualities.
One of the most common reasons for failure is different arousal levels
That's a situation where the man gets aroused very quickly and the woman has not yet received the proper level of arousal. Even if the girl can and wants to have an orgasm, she doesn't have time to do it because the man is ahead of her.
What can be changed here?
- Make the foreplay longer, I always talk about it for a reason. Watch the girl for the first time, figure out how much she needs to get properly aroused.
- Work on your orgasm sweeties, if the situation is as I described, then you need to take action and find the reason for it.
It's not scary that you cum before the girl, it's scary not to act! 💋
How to make a date end in sex?
Sweethearts, I really get it! Writing a few rules about your behavior on a date.💋
With these, you will make the right impression on your partner.
- The tone of voice should be calm. You can talk about whatever you want, but the atmosphere around you should be peaceful and suggestive of trust.
- Movement and facial expressions. You should be relaxed, reliable and confident.
- Preliminary caresses. Start with a hug, stroking the shoulders, kissing the intimate areas. Dedicate attention to the neck, because this is one of the most powerful erogenous zones.
- Excitement. Right here you can show your assertiveness and show that you can be trusted and how much you desire the girl.
Enjoy it, sweeties! You won't regret it.😉
Intercrural sex
In simple terms, it's sex between the thighs.
Well, you know what's good about intercrural sex? You can use it whenever you want. There's no penis penetration, just languid insertion between the girls' thighs. It can replace foreplay, sex itself and just diversify your bed. Isn't it great?
But I love it for the fact that two partners can have an orgasm at once!
The guys by the movement of the penis between the thighs, the girl gets by touching the penis to the clitoris. You just need to choose a position where there is easy access to the labia. The face-to-face position will fit perfectly here.
Passionate and unique sex on the windowsill
If you dare to such an experiment - excitement, passion, fullness of sensations are guaranteed.
A few tips for such sex.🔥
- I recommend the sitting position. Where the girl sits facing you, you stand penetrating her, enjoying the warmth inside.
- Have sex in the evening when it's twilight. It will just be more comfortable for the two of you.
- Take care of safety. Close the window, check the strength of the window sill.
- Prepare lubricant, condoms, toys.
- Do not limit yourself to penetration, use all tools. In the form of cunny, spanking, kissing, different positions.
Try the sweet ones, you won't regret it!
Slow sex
In this kind of sex, the nerve endings seem to be exposed, which makes you more sensitive and passionate in bed.
In slow sex you get a frenzied feeling of passion and a beautiful orgasm.
✔️Three vital rules in slow sex.
Focus on the process. Pay attention to every stage of intimacy, this includes kissing and penetration itself.
Target pleasure. Don't think about orgasm, just focus on the sensations. Slow down with the action: deep breathing, passionate glances, stroking.
Feel the girl. Act unhurriedly, enjoy her body and the touching of your body. Turn off your head and feel the girl.
What to do with the G-spot?
How to touch it? What to do? What if it hurts? I dunno what movements to apply.
You have no idea how many times a week I hear these questions.
So I'm sharing two simple, effective moves.🔥
Normal pressure. It's done with the pads of your fingers, very gently and carefully, while respecting the intensity of the pressure and the rhythm you've already picked up.
Rubbing. Careful and slow rubbing of the G-spot with the fingertips. Here it is necessary to observe the golden mean and not to overdo it.
That’s enough to get you started, and then you can apply more serious and interesting techniques!
Simultaneous stimulation of two zones is what she desires
Many people neglect this rule, and I owe it to you to remind you💋
The most effective way to bring a girl to orgasm is to simultaneously stimulate two zones - clitoris and pussy.
In the process of penetration, use twisting movements with your cock, and use the finger of your hand to caress the clitoris.
Since the clitoris is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones, it means that in combination such stimulation will give an explosive effect. And if you add a little warming lubricant, the girl will be in full ecstasy.
The horsewoman and doggie style are handy for this kind of stimulation. Just a little tip for you!
Role-playing games, toys, different scenarios, poses, it all has one factor in common - the surprise effect!😉
What is it good for? It promotes incredible excitement, creates the magic of anticipation, mesmerizes and stirs the fire.
The surprise effect is when you have agreed on a role play, and you try on the image not where the girl sees you, but in private and only in the process show yourself. Or until the end, without revealing the cards, you ask the baby on a date.
Believe me, even such a trifle, it is important to consider. After all, if you know all the details from the beginning, it may just not be interesting.
Erotic massage basics
Well, I've written a lot of massage techniques, but I've always forgotten about the nuances pertaining to this subject. I suggest you fill in the gap.💋
1️⃣You and your girlfriend should always have a point of contact. That is, the touching of the bodies should not be interrupted.
2️⃣If you use a simple massage oil, which is most often the case, don't apply it to the labia area and the clitoris itself.
3️⃣Don't forget the most unpopular erogenous zones, the legs and feet. These are the key to female and male arousal.
4️⃣Don't miss the moment. Watch the line between erotic massage and medical massage. Watch the girl's response, if you see that enough is enough, immediately move on to hotter action.
Butterfly pose
It's a long time since I wrote about this pose, I got carried away with doggy style, and in vain, the butterfly is good in its own way🔥
It is in the butterfly, you can have complete control over everything! The whole process of action, the depth of penetration, and the speed of movement. And if you improve the pose by putting a pillow under the girl's buttocks, it will be a very deep penetration.
Here is how it is done!
The girl lies on her back, her legs apart, and the guy is on top between her legs. Really easy and without any tricks.
I forgot to tell you, the pose is loved by many girls. As a rule, they do not even have to be persuaded😉
How to relax a girl in the best way possible?
Well, there are situations when your babe just needs to relax. It doesn't matter if there will be sex or not, it can only be a bonus! We are all human and get very tired.
So I'll tell you one technique where you can give incredible relaxation!
Right away about the technique.
Put the girl in a chair or on a stool, and place yourself at her feet. Rub the lubricant or massage oil in your palms and get down to business. Start massaging her breasts, shoulders, neck. With smooth movements of the hands go down, gently remove your panties and begin to caress the pubic area and labia.
Move gently to the erogenous zones of the buttocks and legs, also tenderly caress the entire body. Then return to the labia and begin to gently massage.
Then give yourself to your fantasy and feelings! She will already be eager to play.🔥
Should sex be long?
American scientists have found through surveys and experiments that prolonged intercourse does not always bring pleasure to women. Only 45% of women can continue to enjoy sex for 2 hours, the rest suffice much less.
Why does this happen? Well, because when it goes on for too long, more often than not, the girl GETS TIRED emotionally and physically. Then she gets bored, and then sex turns into dull motions.
To excite via the phone
I know that it's really hard to start a sexy conversation, even when you can't see a person's face.
That's why I wrote the instructions on how to seduce a babe and encourage her to have sex in the evening.
- Call in the afternoon. Then she'll have already done the basic tasks and she'll have a chance to think about sex.
- Start with an unobtrusive conversation. Find out how her day went, what was new.
- Move smoothly to the upcoming meeting. Tell her how much you missed her, how hot she was this morning. You can say you want to see her in sexy lingerie.
- If you get a positive response, tell her the details of the meeting. Describe a little foreplay. That's how you'll set the girl up for sex.
Enjoy it, sweeties! Get high and horny.
Role play, one that's really arousing
Especially when you've been in a relationship for a long time and have explored literally every part of your partner's body.😁 Pretend to be a new couple.
The point is not that you impersonate just strangers, but characters that you are attracted to. Actors, porn stars, politicians. You present the image, immerse yourself in their feelings and sensations.
You can set up a date in a cafe, woo the babe, flirt with her, talk and do everything like the character you choose. Show her how interested you are in seducing and having sex with her.
The goal of the game: to diversify the already mundane feelings, to feel new excitement, to give yourself to excitement and anticipation.
Tuesday date
There is such a thing as a Tuesday date in America. On this day the couple spends time alone with each other.
The goal is not to have sex, but to date and hang out together. It is time set aside only for the emotional intimacy and joy of the two of them.❤️
Conditions for this day.
- You don't have to be at home. You can rent an apartment, a room, or just go out all day.
- Be just the two of you. No children, no friends, no acquaintances.
- The goal, the process, not the result itself. Don't chase the idea that you will have sex right away, enjoy every moment of the day. If you have sex at the end of the day, it will only be a nice bonus.
👉🏻 What do you get?
A blazing passion in a fading relationship, new experiences and emotions, adrenaline and excitement from the process. It's like a magic pill, for hot sex
What to do if a girl pulls away?
This topic is quite relevant, even if it is more to do with psychology, but I have to mention it.💋
The girl becomes less initiative in bed and in life, she gets cold to you, has no emotions and attraction, creating a lot of tension.
You may not notice it, but it will still be felt by you. What can you do? Choose the strong side, the sweet ones. This means you need to take the initiative.
➡️ For instance, you can encourage her to talk.
- Arrange a romance, invite the girl to it and directly ask her what's going on with her now.
- After that negotiate future changes, say that you will not give up and will work on the relationship.
- Restore intimacy. Employ all the tools from my channel. Massages, new positions, compliments and dates.
The Pearl Catcher
That's one of the wonderful cunnilingus positions. If you and your baby haven't tried it, now is the perfect time. After all, she will experience incredible sensations.🔥
The technique is this:
The girl lies on her back, slightly leaning on her hands, lifting her bent legs. You get comfortable between her spread thighs and begin to caress her.
In this position you'll get great views of the breasts, pussy, anal hole. Be sure to try it!
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Throughout all the time I've been working with clients, I've compiled a very large list of male and female mistakes in sex. I even have a separate notebook to write it all down.😁
Sharing with you popular mistakes so you don't make them in sex 💋
- Heavy nibbling. Absolutely any area that only causes pain.
- Prolonged and harsh stroking. As a rule, caresses of one place for a long time, and with force do not like girls.
- Brief caresses. These are the caresses that girls like, but they are given very little attention. Девушка не успевает ими насладиться.
- Violent treatment with breasts. When a man does not control the degree of pressure, and causes pain to the girl.
That's only a tiny part of it! However, I'll act slowly, little by little, writing to you.💋
Relaxed doggy style lover's pose
Nice and gorgeous at the same time. Lots of girls like it, which means, tigers, you should definitely try it!
Let's get right to it.🔥
How to perform. You stand on the floor or couch, the woman turns her back to you and stands next to you. After penetration she rises up, remaining only on her knees, you support her body with your hand. That’s actually the whole technique.
In that in this variation you will have more passionate penetration, due to the close contact with the girl. Here you have the opportunity to kiss the babe and keep eye contact.
That’s a better and sweeter position, so try it!