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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
If you cannot bring a girl to orgasm
No one can know everything, let alone the skills.
So pay attention guys, I'm gonna tell you one secret way for those couples where no female orgasm 💦 exists at all. Yeah, that happens too...
Buy the simplest little stimulator, preferably with vibration.
Set up a romantic evening, relax the girl and create foreplay that will be throughout sex.
🔥Put the stimulator to the clitoris and just give the girl pleasure.
Don't expect her to experience a wild orgasm, but instead, focus on how she feels...
Then believe me, after a while you will see her flushed cheeks, confused breathing and shrinking pussy💦
What kind of rudeness is acceptable in sex?
That's the question a subscriber asked me. I have no exact answer. Why? Cause, sweet, we all are completely different.💋
Still, in my experience, I say that many girls are turned on in bed by barely applicable roughness.
- Spanking.
- Scratching.
- Light biting.
- Skin pinching.
Well, everything has to be in moderation! Especially with the use of force. It is always better to start smoothly and gently. Perhaps, for example, with light nibbling of the neck, gently passing to spanking of the buttocks. In one sexual intercourse apply several variants and look at the girl's response.
Not every girl can drive a man crazy...
My experience and statistics prove it. That's why I suggest you and your baby to try a wonderful blow job technique.
You just need to tell her a few words of encouragement and direct her in the right direction😈
The technique is a helicopter tongue.
You need to ask the babe to take the head of the penis into her mouth. Start making circular movements and stimulate the penis with your tongue, lowering the head down. At the same time all the time stimulate the penis, making circular movements like a helicopter propeller.
🔥Believe me, you will experience a truly flying sensation...
Does semen allergy exist?
Well, it's a rare and not so pleasant phenomenon for girls. When instead of pleasure she gets redness on the body, swelling of the labia, fever, itching and rashes.
Semen allergy is an allergic reaction to the proteins that are in the seminal fluid of a man. Allergies can occur in both men and women themselves.
Okay, I agree, the picture is not pleasant for everyone. But the upside is that the situation can be corrected! 💋
What can be done here?
- Use condoms. Once again, I'm telling you about protection.
- Improve nutrition and sperm quality.
- Avoid cumming on certain parts of the babe's body. Stay away from embarrassments like this.
If you encounter it for the first time, don't panic, it will pass! After a few hours, it usually goes back to normal.😉
The girl jumps on his thighs, wraps her legs around him, and they have sex...
Recall those scenes in a lot of movies? Well, it's all bullshit, let me tell you 😁
In fact, it's one of the most difficult positions in sex!
Requires a lot of strength, dexterity and fortitude of both partners.
Even on it, I can reveal to you several variations of performance. After all, it is not only difficult, but also insanely passionate🔥
First variation. You rest against a vertical surface and lift the girl's hips.
She wraps her legs around you with moderate strength. The movements should be slow, otherwise you will quickly run out of strength...
The second variant. The girl leans on the wall with her back, and you lift her hips, pressing her to the wall.
This option is easier and simpler. I advise you to start with it.
You have control in both, and if everything goes smoothly, hot sex is guaranteed!
The main rule in the use of sex toys
Today we’re gonna discuss the main rule of using sex toys. After all, as it turns out, the topic is too relevant. The rule is this - never start with a high speed!
That is, you can not immediately turn on the maximum mode and immediately put it to the clitoris. The girl is not ready for such a pressure of sensations...
You know, I had a guy who as soon as it came to the vibrator, he would literally immediately turn on the last speed and put it to the clitoris. Not only was I scared, but I also had a bad sensation.
And such cases among my clients, a lot!
So please, sweethearts, start with very slow caresses.
Ladies are waiting for Prince Charming, but they wanna sleep with his opposite.
Well, my knees do not shake at the sight of a kind, sweet, considerate, honest and on the list. Perhaps it's me who's so "wrong"?
All girls are like that.
In our heads we really want a semblance of a prince. But next to us in bed, for some reason, we do not imagine him.
So, boys, if your goal is a nice night with a woman - be a little bit of a bad guy.
Cheeky and forceful, a confident look right in her eyes and bold "casual" touches. 💦
How to realize that sex is the wrong thing?
I started hearing questions like this a lot, so I decided it was time to write a post and talk a little bit!
I have a few criteria to answer all these questions😏
- You feel discomfort when kissing.
It can be felt right away. No emotion, you are not interested.
- You imagine another/other person in bed.
Fantasies go beyond the normal and you see others during sex.
- You compare her to others.
When the comparison goes beyond and you are no longer embarrassed to tell her about it.
These are straightforward criteria that say it's time for a change. But remember, the important thing is how you feel!
A new kind of pleasure that we experience every day
Braingasm is the goosebumps on the body. From the stimulation of erogenous zones, such as the breasts, the neck, the lips, stroking... These particular goosebumps, are what stimulate different triggers.
- Sonic. When you just feel good from the sound of a whispered, sexy voice.
- Visual. When you are ecstatic just from what you see.
- Role-playing. When you enjoy the increased attention to yourself.
What did I say all that for? For you to use these simple triggers in seducing a babe🔥
Believe me, even the smallest details will cause a sea of pleasure.
The bravest sexual fantasies
The other day there was a couple, nice, adequate. Came in with a pretty simple problem. Although they think otherwise.😁
The couple has unusual sexual fantasies that they don't act out, but use as a way to get aroused.
And their fantasies are: group sex, rape, domination, trying on different roles in bed, and whipping. Wouldn't you agree that's not so scary?
And so, while working with them, I wondered, how many people face the same problems? How do they accept the situation? How do they manage it?
I'll continue the topic in my next post. In the meantime, I wanted to ask you. Do your sexual fantasies interfere with your intimate life?
What is cybersex?
It's a mini kind of sex. The only difference is that the action takes place over the phone and video chat.
You know, sweeties, this kind of sex is a good alternative to long distance intimacy. I've seen it firsthand.
To my clients, for the sake of variety, I recommend using cybersex. No need to be at a long distance, you can have a good game at work too. I think it's quite a great option.
Like, you're at work and you have an animal urge to have sex. All you have to do is go to a secluded place and call a babe. Where she will slowly expose her body on camera and show how she satisfies herself.
Try all the options
There are guys who focus on stimulating only the girl's pussy. They don't touch her breasts or other intimate parts of her body😏
These are the kind of guys I wanna scold! Cuz they deprive the girl of full enjoyment.
Okay, not to scold, but to give some good advice🙌
Don't get hung up on pussy stimulation!
It's not the only erogenous zone in a woman's body. Besides it, there are many others: clitoris, nipples, buttocks, legs, neck...
If you rely only on the stimulation of one area, then she will not get the necessary excitement and pleasure! But if you connect different places, different techniques, your tigress will be ecstatic🔥
Why can men have poor erections?
To begin with, I would like to say that this is most likely a temporary problem related to the influence of external factors. Weak erection occurs in many men, no matter what age.
And based on my experience, I wrote the most frequent factors affecting potency.💋
➕ Fatigue and overwork. It's inherent in all of us. Weakness, malaise, it leads to failures in sexual desire and raising the erection.
➕ Stress and psychological problems. Stress and depression prevent a man from fully relaxing, enjoying sex and surrendering to pleasure.
➕ Thirst for new sensations. Tired of everyday life and familiar positions. In this case, you need to work on variety in bed. Do not be afraid, and try new positions and practices.
All problems are solvable, the main thing is to find the cause and start working with it!
Some girls have a naturally weak sensitivity.
That's a normal situation, you have to develop it and work on it. The bad thing is that many don't know about it. So sex suffers, and no understanding in bed with a partner.
If your baby is not sensitive in bed, try two options.
The first. Pair masturbation, where you both fondle yourselves. In this way, she will be able to find the most cherished areas and simultaneously develop her sensitivity.
The second. Gets a solution to the here and now. Where the sex toy is connected to the bed. Due to which a more powerful stimulation of the clitoris goes. During penetration, you focus your attention on the clitoris, not on the girl's pussy.
Both options are nice, one works as a cumulative effect, the second helps to solve the problem immediately on the fact. The choice is yours.💋
At times it is really hard to tell if sex has become dull
As a rule, it happens late, when a couple has a lot of problems, quarrels and misunderstandings. It is only at this point they realize that it is time to change their tastes and habits in bed. But I'm always in favor of identifying the cause and recognizing trouble in time!
Let me tell you a few signs that sex has become tedious.
- Sex acts are becoming less and less frequent. They may be once every two months.
- Sex turns into a duty. There is no real desire to do it.
- Partner in bed becomes annoying. Literally, to piss you off for no reason.
- Passion and complete attraction to each other disappears. You no longer experience much pleasure and it becomes more and more difficult to get excited each time.
Not about types of sex now, but about a sexual game I encourage every couple to play...
Animal sex
What should you do?
- Choose a time and a place where you can spend the evening just the two of you
- Choose an outfit that you won't be sorry to tear. Underwear, T-shirt, pants.
- Walk and touch each other all day, as if warming up for the evening. You can kiss, touch, caress each other. No orgasm or penetration.
- In the evening, at the highest peak of pleasure, you can let yourself go and throw out all the energy and excitement.
You can tear off each other's clothes, use a little roughness, pull the baby's hair, slap her buttocks, have sex all over the house.
Fire and passion are guaranteed for you! I promise it will be hot🔥
The cunny-removal technique
That's when the baby gets frantically excited, and you caress first the clitoris, then the labia, and finally the anal hole. In simple terms, engage all parts of the intimate areas.
And don't be frightened, nothing is complicated here, it's much easier in practice! 💋
During cunny or masturbation, move away from the clitoris, go to the labia, finish on the anal hole. That's all it takes.
The girl will be absolutely delighted, believe me!
Do we need long foreplay?
Prolonged foreplay is not just a girl's whim, it's pure physiology.
👉🏻 During foreplay the hormone dopamine is released into the blood, which helps psychologically prepare for sex.
Girls begin to produce lubricant, due to the flow of blood to the clitoris, which itself increases in the process. The pussy narrows, which aggravates the sensitivity of both partners. Nipples swell, harden, and breasts are poured.
After a few long minutes of arousal, the girl is ready for penetration.🤤
So why, many still have short foreplay?
Anal plug
That's what you need for your first anal sex. An option for those babes who wanna try it, but are very afraid of it. This small plug doesn't penetrate deep into the back hole, but just lets you know if a girl will like the sensations or not.
Find it in any sex shop or intimate online store.
What can you do?
- Excite the babe to a proper degree, so that she languishes with desire.
- Lubricate the plug abundantly with lube and penetrate the back hole of the babe. Careful, it gets hot.
- Then you can proceed to penetration or cunny.
Try it, sweeties, I think after a few times of this kind of sex, you stand a good chance of having passionate anal sex.
Mistakes in cunnilingus 🍒
Get ready, sweeties, the information will be really helpful.
Monotony. The up and down movements alone do not bring pleasure to a girl. It gets boring and over time, ceases to excite. Therefore, use your hands, pay attention to the clitoris, pussy, play with temperatures.
Routine. One place, one technique, one time and atmosphere quickly get bored. What can you do? Change the approach, techniques, places and times.
Always the same pose. We wanna pay special attention to this, because, as a rule, men choose only one pose and it is most often missionary, which is not very sympathetic to the girls.
Read it again, tigers, fix it and don't make the same mistakes. Why correct them later, right?
What should the first sex be like?
It's exciting, reverent, and very stressful. Yes, sweet ones, that's why you have to show yourself in all your glory. And I'm just gonna tell you what to consider for the first time:
- Be prepared.
Here's the cardinal rule of the first time. Put aside all doubts about your looks, about your skills, be confident and courageous.
- Do not experiment.
If you have in your head a lot of fantasies and different games, leave them for the future, but for now act on the classics.
- Take your time with foreplay.
In the first sex it is especially important. Not only will you excite the babe, you'll show her how important she is to you.
- Guide the girl.
As a rule, the first time they are very shy and withdrawn and if you take the whole process into your own hands, she will not only thank you, she will idolize you.
I'll give you time to digest what I've written and continue later!
How long can a girl go without sex?
If we do not have sex - we get irritable, even more unhealthy, our mood begins to jump, we try to relieve the tension "with our own hands". But!
Self-handedly never replaces a quality orgasm obtained from a man.
Every girl's libido is completely different and depends 100% on a woman's health and hormones.
If her health and cycle are okay, it's normal to want sex every day. Right, yeah, yeah...
Keep going when you're on top.
Not every man can bring a girl to orgasm, let alone finish it properly. Statistics show that men get lost at the end and can't finish the job.☝🏻
I'll share a very personal experience. I had a boyfriend, everything was great about him, we went out in the evenings, had fun and had a good time. The guy knew a lot about sex and was good.
But, there was one downside, he didn't know what to do after orgasm. Every time I was at my peak, he would just stop and look at me. That made me either lose myself or just not be able to experience all the delights of ecstasy.
So, sweeties, please, never stop! Even if the girl is already at her peak, keep moving your tongue, your cock, your hands.
Is it worth it to make fantasies come true?
Let's continue the subject of fantasies. It seems like a rather trivial question.
Let's look at the first situation, where there are sexual fantasies as a way of arousal. That’s a normal reaction. If you're aroused by talking to your babe about how much she wants group sex, so be it.
There's nothing wrong with that. These conversations, you hear only you, outside the bed, no one knows about them. And you take great pleasure in saying these words.
The second situation, is it necessary to translate them into real life? The answer is no, not necessarily. You can spend your whole life dreaming about being dominated by a girl in a leather suit over yourself, without having to translate your thoughts into reality. It's up to you, and no one else.
Should the initiative in sex come only from a man?
I worked with a client the other day, a stubborn woman in no other way.
Like many others, she has a lot of complexes, beliefs and stereotypes. Which certainly get in the way of her sex life. Even though she says otherwise.
In seven years of marriage, she has never once offered her husband games or any innovations in bed.
That's because society has historically made a woman a secondary role in a relationship. Because of this, many are afraid to show their desires, to talk about them and to have sex in general.
Her situation inspired my post. Not only should the initiative come from you, let the ladies work a little too. And you will enjoy their labor. All of you! 💋
When is the best time to have sex?
In the morning, in the afternoon, in the evening, at night... Is there a fundamental difference for the body? Well, at least for the female body there is.
Here we need to remember the need for relaxation and a kind of preparation for intimacy for women.
Our excitement does not appear at the snap of a finger - it needs time. Therefore, it is not very suitable for us in the morning, when the body is still "asleep".
The peak of female libido comes in the evening - that’s a fact.
But the opposite is true for men! Mornings are better for you, although for you it's not that important.
Yep, somehow nature has unsynchronized us🤨
But this problem can be solved very easily - just "warm up the girl".
Popular myth about anal sex
Yesterday I worked with a man who has some kind of mindset. If a couple is willing to try anal sex, then one of the partners is of non-traditional sexual orientation.
I don't really get the connection between anal sex with a girl and a different orientation at all. It's not like she offered to strapon him😁
Actually, the mindset is really confusing, silly and questionable. Well, we'll work with him some more, I liked him, complex and therefore exciting!
No conclusion, I just meant to share what kind of queries clients come to me with. Everyone! 💋
How to make the 69 position a tad better?
69 is a long time favorite pose in both oral and normal sex. No doubt about it, it's beautiful and gorgeous. But it can get pretty damn uncomfortable in it. Agree? 😁
So, I've written a few rules on how to make the position more comfortable and convenient.
- Use pillows so that your neck doesn't get stuck and you and your baby can fully relax.
- Do not be afraid to try lubricants, they will only make the process more pleasant.
- Use toys, do not stop only at oral caresses, try different experiments.
- Find the most comfortable position for yourself. With a large difference in height, try to adjust to each other as comfortably as possible.
Use these small rules, sweet. With them, the sensations will only get better and the pleasure will take on a new level.🤤
One of the techniques for perfect penis masturbation
While playing in bed, when it hasn't come to penetration, ask your babe to try "basket weaving."
You only need to tell her how to proceed. Trust me, it won't be a big deal.😉
She needs to weave her fingers together, making the palms of her hands like a basket. Then, she should put these fingers on the head of the penis and make wiggling, stroking movements.
One thumb should stimulate the frenulum, the rest of the hand should continue to make movements. Next, pass the cock through the hole between the fingers, squeezing and lowering the basket. Repeat the same thing several times.
All you have to do is memorize the technique, fix the post and offer your baby to play.🔥
To cum or not to cum in anal sex?
If everything is more or less clear with the issue of vaginal and oral sex, then anal sex, remains a mystery.
Lemme tell you what I think about it based on my knowledge and practice.
1️⃣ Yeah, a girl can not get pregnant, that’s a fact.
2️⃣ No guarantee that you and your baby won't get infections after sex. The microflora there is completely different.
3️⃣ The inside of the anus, very sensitive mucosa – the consequences may not be very pleasant for the girl.
So I advise you not to take any chances, and always use a condom. You can use a very thin one, so that sensitivity is not violated, and make sure you use a lot of lubricant.