How Not to Turn into a Poor Lover in a Girl's Eyes Even Before Sex
The first thing girls definitely pay attention to: a guy doesn't flirt or touch. That’s something that immediately deprives you of any chance not only for sex, but even for any subsequent communication...
Therefore, flirt is crucial to charm the girl.
Be sure to tell her compliments, use all your charm, touch her.
All this gradually turns the girl on and brings you smoothly to bed.
What gives away bad lovers?
A bad lover is boring in communication and flirting: does not give his hand, does not hug, does not spend time on her back, does not try to "grope...
Such a guy will be so-so in sex, I'll tell you: boring, monotonous and frankly weak, to characterize it in one word.
What do girls crave in bed?
Read closely, tigers!
- Get pleasure.
To be more attentive to a man in bed, to treat them with reverence and to consider all the girls' preferences and requests.
- Show initiative.
So that they too can control sex, start it and end it, as they really want to.
- More variety.
Toys, massage, different atmosphere.
- Long foreplay.
To be able to get aroused to the right degree and enjoy sex.
- Mutual consent.
All experiments, the sex itself took place only with the consent of both parties. Rather than when one wants it badly.
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Failures in sex
So, you wanna have sex, you prepare for it, you think about it, everything seems fine, but at the right moment you can't do it.
There can be many reasons for this, but as a rule, only THREE are important.
1️⃣Serious excitement.
You can get excited just from a picture of sex, or just from insecurity.
Excitement breeds fear!
2️⃣You had too much alcohol before sex.
Alcohol destroys the body from the inside, dampening testosterone and sexual desire.
3️⃣Serious stress.
For example, stress over work, you may be going through some tough times right now because of the economic situation, and that, lovers, is all very detrimental to sex.
Sex on the first date
It's doubt, worry, euphoria. This may be a revelation to you, but guys are prone to doubt, too.😁
You can say YES if:
- You have a mutual sympathy with the girl.
- You're sure you've got everything you need, condoms and lubricant.
- You have no illusions about continuing the relationship after sex.
When do you have to say NO?
- If you feel uncomfortable or have even the slightest doubt
- You take sex too seriously.
I wrote only my experience and knowledge gathered over several years of work, it is up to you, my lovers, to decide in any case.
Never skimp any time on cunny🍑
The fact is that men are prone to quick and too assertive caresses, and therein lies their mistake.
But if you give the process more than 10 minutes, believe me, your babe will get high.
After all, you will not only warm her up, but also easily bring her to orgasm.
👉🏻How can you proceed?
- Start by slowly caressing and kissing the pussy area. Blow, lick, nibble, just very gently and carefully.
- Move on to the clitoris and the pussy itself. Start slow movements.
- Speed up the movements, at the onset of orgasm. Connect a hand and a sex toy, for more powerful stimulation of the clitoris.
The steps are simple, working, tested in practice!
Interesting statistics
Not long ago I was analyzing my female clients for the past six months, and I really wanna share the results with you.
The percentage of girls who have orgasms:
- 20-30% get a vaginal orgasm.
They can easily cum, get excited, and then cum again.
- 30-40% have a clitoral orgasm.
Such as from petting or masturbation.
- 30-40% do not experience orgasm at all.
Nor do they enjoy masturbation, much less penetration
- 5-10% have not experienced orgasm at all.
They have no knowledge of what it is...
Statistics aren't important, what's really relevant is that you can work with it! That's what I do every day for you 🙌
Sex in marriage is radically changed!
And not just sex, girls' approach to sex as well. I'll share what I've noticed among my female clients.
- Aesthetics are really all that matter to them.
It's no longer enough just to kiss, these girls are more conscious and it's important to them that the environment around them is perfect. So, sweeties, don't be lazy, take time for the atmosphere.
- They have shame and fear.
For their own reasons, many get caught up in giving birth to these feelings. Tell her and show her that she is safe and can trust you.
- There are worries and households.
The main enemy of sex. All the tasks and chores around the house take a lot of energy. It is a fact, please help babe, let her delegate some of the chores to you. Then believe me, she will find the energy for sex and other games.
I hope I covered everything in detail and you will find the idea useful!
How to perform a long foreplay properly?
And afterwards have passionate sex😉
- Flirt during the day.
Scientists have found that sexting during the day promotes persistent arousal in bed. Words work better on a person than sexy pictures, so feel free to write and talk
- Touch each other throughout the day.
Casual touches, are a powerful trigger for arousal. Play innocent, touch the most sensitive areas in a girl's body, don't let her forget that you want sex.
Sweeties, do not assume that these are some trivial things. Maybe they are, but they are proven and always work, so just use them.
Sex stimulants
Well, I’m not an advocate of additional stimulants of arousal. Unless they are aphrodisiacs or pheromones. Anything else I take very negatively.☝🏻
There can be side effects after taking it for a long time. For example, high blood pressure, headaches, whole body tremors and addiction. Already after a few takes, men lose an erection, and without the magic pill it is very difficult to raise it. That’s not good.
Therefore, I ask the sweeties to always think about their health first. You can increase sexual desire by other safer methods.💋
A quick finish is one of the most popular problems among men!
That’s unpleasant, to say the least, and it ruins the whole buzz and the mood for the next sex☝🏻
But I didn't start this conversation for nothing, I wanna voice the reasons for this problem:
- It's all in the head.
More often than not, a man sets himself up for failure, worries, worries about something... and he just comes early.
- It's about hormones.
Problems with weight, directly affect the hormones, sometimes there is a failure, which is why, and as a consequence, rapid ejaculation
- Taking medications.
For a variety of reasons, but medications have a special effect on the function of the genitals.
Here you can attribute many reasons, but the main thing to do is to pull yourself together and find a way out of this situation. You can go to a specialist for counseling, such as me a sexologist, or you can continue to feel the discomfort of another "speed bump"...
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Everyone's understanding of masculinity is different!
But here is a survey of American scientists showed what girls think masculine men should be.😁
1️⃣ Show empathy. This includes emotion, tactile contact, soulful giving.
2️⃣ Help with household chores. Those men who help with household chores tend to have no problems in sex; they are more attracted to girls.
3️⃣ Stick to equality. When you're a couple, you deal with all the troubles together.
4️⃣ Ability to express yourself. Don't be shy about your hobbies and always keep a well-groomed look.
Why do you think I wrote this? As it's important to girls! These points will not only add to your masculinity, but also make sex more vivid.
Girls appreciate the smallest details, and these are essential!
Why is it essential to praise her naked body?
I have no idea why many guys are stingy with compliments about a woman's body.
Frankly, I don't get it, for the life of me. It's not hard to say a few words about a girl's naked body and say nice things. Do you know what that means to girls?
First of all, you raise her self-esteem, which affects her sex life later on.
Secondly, you inspire her to experiment. The more liberated a girl is in bed, the more she wants to express herself in it.
If a guy has a really big ...
Not every day I hear questions like this, but they are nevertheless relevant.😁
The average penis length when aroused is about 13 cm, with a pussy length of 15 cm. If the length of the penis exceeds the length of the pussy, in most cases the girl feels uncomfortable.
So, the right preparation is important here.
- Pay special attention to foreplay. As much time so that the girl is ready to accept you as much as possible.
- Be sure to use lubricant.
- Do not rush the first thrusts.
- Choose safer positions where the girl herself can control her movements. Try, for example, the horsewoman.
- Think of a stop word and use it in a critical situation.
My advice, I think, will help a lot of people! Don't be shy, use it.💋
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Let men look at you!
A man loves with his eyes, it's no secret.
In bed, it's a little more complicated. Agree that in life, with clothes we try to hide all the flaws in your figure.
Sure, no need to undress at first request in front of a guy, if you have a complex, but you have to gradually inflame his interest, allowing him to fully enjoy you!
Thus, the ability to undress beautifully in front of a man to show your body in the most favorable angle - a whole science...
Anal Sex Mistakes
Today I suggest we talk about the mistakes that men mostly make in anal sex:
- Neglect of preparation.
Just remember, foreplay is just as important here as it is in regular sex. By the time of penetration, the babe should already be as ready as possible to accept you.
- Unwillingness to use condoms.
If anal sex is not protected, there is a great risk of getting an infection or worse. You can take ultra-thin condoms and get high.
- Insufficient lubrication.
That’s more important than vaginal sex. The more lube you have, the more you both will enjoy it.
Always start slowly, don't use fast movements, don't use brute force!
Today I decided to share with you one of the coolest techniques in cunnilingus🍑
It's total ecstasy! Excitement and pleasure, all together...
The feedback from my patients is, "Aah, this is the bomb!"
The gist of the technique is to draw all the letters of the alphabet with your tongue during cunnilingus.
You have to try to make sure that by the last letter, your girlfriend has reached orgasm💦
Tigress lie down in a comfortable position, first relax her with light strokes and... get to the action!
With your tongue, start drawing the letters of the alphabet in order.
But please do not think too long, it is not necessary to stop and remember every letter, if you miss one, it's okay, continue drawing further.
Guys who have no idea where and what they like in bed
Was dating a friend and he was sharing about problems with his wife and complaining that she wasn't touching his dick right.
It's not about the girl, it's about the friend. That's what I told him. After all, if he himself doesn't know what moves he likes, what turns him on and arouses him, how is a girl supposed to know about it?
👉🏻Who is familiar with this problem, I suggest you do this:
- Have a romance and show the babe what kind of caresses you like.
Suggest a joint masturbation where you fondle your cock and look into the girl's eyes. Or put the babe's hands on your dick and show her the moves.
The main thing is to try it, because after that you will get only pleasure...
Natural Aphrodisiacs
With care for you, I’ve made a small list of things you can use in everyday life.
All natural and healthy!
- Oysters, black and red caviar, salmon.
Activate the high production of zinc, which contributes to the production of testosterone and sex drive
- Nuts.
Relieve fatigue, which gives strength to have sex. Useful for testosterone and sperm
- Chocolate.
Promotes the production of serotonin, raises the mood, immerses in a state of slight euphoria
- Celery, avocado, strawberries, apples.
Increase mood by producing the hormone melatonin.
Bear in mind candles with spices and spices: vanilla, cardamom, melissa, wild rose, basil, all these scents act as an aphrodisiac for two partners.
What are aphrodisiacs and how do they work?
In recent times, many of you are concerned about the topic of aphrodisiacs. I suggest you get to the bottom of how they work and what they are used for.
An aphrodisiac is a stimulant of the libido, created to excite a person and to improve the sexual dysfunction.
They are found in foods, oils, supplements, plants, spices. For me, I am an advocate of natural products and herbs.
How do aphrodisiacs work?
- They influence the subcortical structures of the brain, increasing the body's tonus, improving blood circulation, after which we feel invigorated and full of energy.
- Increase sexual desire.
- Increase the sensitivity of erogenous zones.
The main thing to realize is that an aphrodisiac is not a magic pill, but rather a sexual stimulant.
Erotic massage - a long and sweet foreplay
It requires no preparation, no expenses, no skills, all you need is your desire! And I think you have plenty of it. So let's keep it and use it in the near future:
- Start with the head.
With slow, massaging motions, press slightly on the head with the pads of your fingers. Move down the crumb's neck, continuing to massage it gently and tenderly
- Use oil and candles.
Which have pheromones, aphrodisiacs and just a relaxing scent. It helps to create a relaxing atmosphere
- Stroll around her erogenous zones.
Avoid touching her pussy ahead of time, you'll still have time to do it. Caress her earlobes, her wrists, her buttocks, the inside of her thighs.
- Roll her over onto her stomach.
Pass massage motions on the back, neck, go down to the buttocks and legs, literally take 5 minutes for this action.
Only after that move on to a more intimate massage or passionate sex...💋
Top cunny poses
But first, I'd like to add a few words. To ensure that everything goes perfectly:
- Keep the stubble in mind. It shouldn't be there.
- Give the babe a chance to visit the bathroom, if she feels like it. That way she'll just be more comfortable.
Hovering Eagle Pose.
A girl lies on her back, spreading her legs to either side, you at this time arrange yourself between her legs. All the charms and sensitive places are open to you.
Horsewoman.
Everybody has already imagined how it's done, right? You lie down on the couch, the babe climbs on top, saddling your face.
Forbidden fruit.
Almost a doggie-style only for cunny. A girl lies down on her stomach, lifts her buttocks, you get behind her. Easy position for further penetration.
My advice is to try all the poses, since each one is hot and good in its own way... 🤤
What to do with a girl?
Sweeties, you have no idea how many times a day I hear such questions in my consultations. Still I’m sympathetic to them, as not every guy has enough imagination to please his girlfriend😁
So to help you out I have written a short list of things you can do with your girlfriend in the evening:
- Go to a bar with live music.
Where it's romantic and buzzing to spend time. Girls adore such places.
- Take a walk around the city.
Say nice words, talk on simple topics
- Play an erotic game.
Along the way arranging a little romance, and then have hot sex
- Visit a spa together.
Believe me, it brings you closer and relaxes you at the same time.
- Watch a romantic movie.
Afterwards, have slow sex...
All actions are really simple. You just need a desire and a positive attitude!
Dull family sex
I was working with a couple the other day, they have been married for quite some time and are going through a difficult time.
After several years of marriage, sex in their family had completely changed. Sex had become boring, infrequent, monotonous and sluggish. The man has lost his attraction, the girl doesn't want sex at all.
After an hour of communication, I realized that the problem is too deep, but has a solution.
👉🏻It's all about misunderstanding their own and their partner's desires. They simply don't know how to treat each other. They don't get what kind of caresses they like, what positions turn them on, and what to do in general. Hence the conflicts and misunderstandings.
Know what I wanna say? That their situation confirms, all the methods and techniques that I write, all for a reason!
The more you get to know the babe, the better your sex will be.
Anal sex is one of men's most desirable fantasies!
It's like forbidden fruit, it's sweet, but almost unattainable...
If you do everything right, which we will talk about, the baby will get pleasure, enjoyment and incredible heat of passion.
What are the rules to pay attention to:
- I recommend having anal sex no more than once every 12 days. During this period the girl will be able to fully recover
- Use of a condom. For full protection and prevention of unwanted consequences
- Using a lubricant designed only for anal sex. A water-based lubricant is perfect
- Before sex, it is advisable to take a hot bath. This is good for relaxing the girl and her anal muscles
- It is better to start penetration with a finger or a small-sized anal plug.
Whether double penetration is pleasurable?
Those who have at least once experienced double penetration are divided into two types. Some of them can't be forced anymore, the others are in complete ecstasy and like a drug crave for more!
The feelings and sensations of the girls are like this. If done right, they will experience the most powerful emotional excitement. On a physical level, the sensations of total maximum stretching, intense pressure and friction on the septum between the two holes. Plus, with the right approach, an incredible orgasm.
But in terms of emotion, double penetration, it's total submission, which some people just need. It's exciting and exhilarating.
Outercourse or sex without penetration
It is intense kissing, rubbing the genitals against surfaces, oral caressing, but without penetration.🤤
It brings out passion, spices up the bed, gives novelty and excitement.
I recommend practicing WITHOUT penetration at least once a month.
Especially if you have been in a relationship long enough.
You can try masturbation, frotation, oral sex, whatever your imagination allows.
The main rule, no penetration!
Believe me, intimate life will play with new, juicy colors.
Anvil Pose
One of the most vivid and beautiful sex positions. If you desire new sensations, passion, bright emotions, I advise you!
How is it done?
- The girl lies on her back, you settle on top. The babe presses her legs to her chest, to her comfortable degree. You penetrate her and begin the movements. Throughout sex, she keeps her legs close to her chest, you rest your hands on the surface.
Deep penetration, a bright and intense release of adrenaline, strong sensations are guaranteed for you.
Each girl has secret fantasies, but not all of them can confess them!
You can endlessly ask, interrogate and torture, or you can choose a milder way.
Like using an erotic game or a romantic movie. Ask leading questions, go in from afar and hint at her secret desires.
In most cases, the most shy babes, give away their secrets. Well, you just have to remember and put them into practice.
Consider right now, what can be organized in the near future?
A game or watching a movie?
This post is motivation for you!
Don't wait, but act💋