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Sex in the morning has many advantages, but evening sex also has benefits.
Suitable for those who love late-night sex and don't go to bed early 😁
On my own, I'll point out a few pluses, sweeties.
- Nothing distracts you in the evening. You can quietly enjoy each other after a hard day's work.
- In the evening, the male testosterone rises, and that's the best time to experiment.
- The girl gets the necessary portion of pleasure, due to the long caresses and foreplay. You're not in a hurry, just enjoying each other.
As you can see, even from a physiological point of view, the evening is suitable for good and passionate sex. Think about it.💋
First orgasm at 35
I was dealing with a girl yesterday, and we had a deeply reverent session. She's pretty shy and reserved in her communication. Sweet, funny, modest.
She came in with this problem - she is 35 years old and hasn't had an orgasm in 8 years...
She hasn't had sex or masturbated in all that time. For her own reasons.
Now she has a boyfriend, and she can't cum at all. Both of them are totally confused and don't get the situation.
In fact, it's not the boyfriend or the girl, it's her hormones, which have been "sleeping" for a very long time.
As a rule, it takes a lot to awaken the sexuality and desire in bed again for such girls.
The goal of sex for this couple right now is to make a really deep connection!
With massages, deep emotional sex techniques, and passionate play, not just penetration.
Dirty talk is a thing worth practicing in couples
These are "dirty" erotic conversations before and during sex. After all, they are exactly what you need to create the right heat🔥
But here's the problem - guys and girls have no idea how to talk about sex and what to say while doing it...
And all you have to do is set the mood for pleasure, start with a couple of "dirty" phrases, and then make variety little by little.
And I've just prepped some super-sweet words for you ;)
These are the perfect phrases to master Dirty Talk👇🏻
"Tell me what you want and I'll do it."
"I've been thinking about you naked all day."
"Can you imagine how much I want you?"
"I wanna be inside you."
And try using "dirty names" for your girlfriend - little rascal, naughty slut (trust me, lots of women get turned on😉 ), daddy's girl and the like.
And the word "fuck" in general should live forever in your sex lexicon👌🏻
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Posture is one of the ways to lengthen the intercourse
So you need to grasp one law dictated by our physiology.
When the position is comfortable and, if I may say so, passive, you get arousal slower. In this case, and the onset of orgasm is easier to control.
In other words, you don't need to become a conqueror of "sexual bends" and repeat crazy poses from ancient Chinese legends.
Suitable positions you are accustomed to!
Separately allocate spoons (it's a musthave for this purpose) and the position when a man sits and a girl on top.
Yeah, it sounds trivial and "boring".
But not for nothing they say - everything brilliant (or maybe even sexy😁) is simple ;)
If you are allergic to condoms
In case you are faced with a similar problem, no worries, now I'll detail everything.
Allergies can appear in the form of itching, redness, irritation, swelling. It's not a pleasant thing...
First of all. You must realize that allergies can be not always to condoms, they can occur to lubricant and (or) the material, such as sex toys.
Second. You can find a replacement for the simple condom. Everything has been developed for allergy sufferers for a long time now. You can use:
- Polyurethane or hypoallergenic latex models. Sold in sex shops and online stores.
- Isoprene condoms, not only do they not cause allergies, they are more durable than latex condoms.
As you can see, everything can be solved if the problem is detected in time!
Ever had a problem like this?
Condoms with different flavors
So many questions come up when I suggest buying condoms in various flavors to my customers. What can I do, many of us are skeptics 😀
Let's take a look at the perks they offer:
- A wide variety of flavors.
Come in lemon, chocolate, berry, fruit, vanilla, orange, etc.
- Ideal for sensitive people who cannot stand the smell of latex.
There are many of these.
- They add flavor to oral caresses.
Which only makes sex more enjoyable and brighter.
I think it's everyone's choice to buy or not, but why not try something new for a change 😈
Mind if I smoke?!
This post is not about the dangers of smoking...
However, if you're on a first date and you have no idea if your girlfriend smokes, be sure to ask her opinion about it!
"Do you mind if I smoke in front of you?"
Well, afterwards, if you're already spending time together, respect your sweetheart and show concern for her health, so step away for a smoke.
After, use gum, mouth spray...
Girls' fantasies are like a separate art form
They are almost inaccessible and depraved...
In my practice, I've met numerous fantasies, from the most innocent to the most perverted and even creepy.
What do girls keep silent about when they feel like doing it themselves?
- Sex in nature.
For girls, it is romance and crazy adrenaline in one bottle. Summer is coming, which means that this topic is getting hot, we're going to talk about it a lot
- Sex with a stranger.
As a rule, sex with strangers is very passionate. You can try role-playing.
- Sex in a public place.
Danger arouses everyone, that is why public places are so tantalizing. You could start with sex in a car, for example.
Everyone ❤️
Other people's relationships
Over and over again the same question flies in from you in my personal messages👇🏼
"I met a cool girl. I'm very attracted to her. But there's one drawback: she has a boyfriend (husband)."
And normally after a preface like that, there are two questions:
- How to sleep with this girl?
- Is it okay if I wanna sleep with this girl?
Tigers, I can't give you any specific advice about this, I won't preach to you, but I will share my opinion on the subject.
There are plenty of free girls around, different ones, for all tastes - it's better to go and look there...
👉 If a girl has a boyfriend (husband), then you stay away from her. That's the rule!
But! Life is multifaceted and varied, and there can be many opinions about it...
Erotic foot massage
A girl's feet have more than 70 thousand nerve endings. This is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones.
So, I recommend as a foreplay from time to time to arrange such a massage 🤤
Recipe for a good massage: dim light, massage oil, and that's all you need...
First.
Put the girl's feet on your lap, and start kneading one with your two thumbs. Starting with the toes and ending with the heel.
Second.
Alternate kneading with light tweezing. Strengthen the movement with the knuckles, kneading, slightly twisting the foot.
Third.
Massage each toe of the foot, and then scroll to the right and left. Any slight movements will come off. Twist the ankle several times counterclockwise.
Well, when you've stretched your feet, you can get down to more serious and sweet foreplay!
"Perfect sexual partner"
Sure, there's no such thing as perfect, that's why I put it in quotes ;)
It's more like something you can and should strive for👇🏻
Good physical shape.
And it's important not only from an aesthetic point of view - sports increase the production of "male" hormones. Needless to say, they are the ones that improve your sex life :)
"Lightness" and attentiveness.
This is me talking about boys' ability and willingness to TALK about sex. Which again, has a positive effect on it😉
Sense of humor.
Well I won't even comment here - it's a skill that simplifies your whole life. But still, I can tell you more about sex
Determination and even a little insolence.
It's exciting😈
Italian sex
That is the kind of sex where there is passion, love, lust, mad excitement.🔥
That's where the karezza technique comes in handy.
No roughness, brutality and quickness, only smooth movements and passion!
👉🏻 The essence of karezza is that you can do everything except the orgasm itself, and it will be bright and juicy at the end. Kissing, stroking, and slow masturbation are okay.
- Regular sex releases lots of dopamine, the hormone of joy, but during long and lingering sex, oxytocin, the hormone of affection, is also injected into your bloodstream.
It makes the sex more vivid, the orgasm hotter, and the process more beautiful.
The more serious you are about sex, the more boring it will be.
That's a point I've been able to understand for years in my practice... You can't imagine how many clients come to me with problems, while making one mistake:
👉🏻 They are too serious in bed.
On the one hand, that's a good thing. You can immediately see the responsibility and seriousness of their intentions. On the other, it doesn't bring the spontaneity and emotion that is so necessary in sex.
- No need to have sex with a serious face, but to approach the process responsibly.
- Give free rein to the fantasy, while taking care of safety techniques
- Excite with spontaneity, but prepare some tricks in advance.
How to keep the passion alive?
Many clients, with all their desire, can't keep the passion that they had before. So, let me give you a couple of simple tips so you can always keep sex at a desirable level!
- Do not be lazy.
Don't forget to make time for each other, even if you're very tired at work. There's a fine line between laziness and boredom.
- Always study each other.
Don't think you've studied your partner from A to Z. Each of us is prone to change, changing tastes, preferences and attitudes
- Talk to each other.
Especially about sex and problems. The more you talk about intimate life, the sweeter it will be with you
- Be unpredictable.
Spontaneity and unpredictability have been shown to be very arousing.
Take action and don't give thanks!
All sorts of attitude
I see them daily with my clients. Some are unaffected, but most are negatively reflected.👆🏻
Here are the most common attitudes I encounter:
- Sex is not as important to girls as it is to men.
- Girls cannot take the initiative, they have to be more modest.
- You need to satisfy the girl, otherwise she will cheat.
- Everyone likes anal sex, and it's common.
So, what happens in the end when they feel that way? They make mistakes in sex and can't figure out what the true cause of all the problems is.
👉🏻 And I suggest, for the sake of experimentation, think, honey, and write out on a piece of paper all the problems troubling you. Listen to yourself, then imagine that this or that attitude is just an imposed opinion, it means nothing and you don't have to believe in it.
That's what most couples never do and commit a mistake
Not talking after sex👐🏻
Neither after a day nor after an hour. While it should be done within a few MINUTES after sex.
This is especially important in the first phase of a relationship when you need to learn and discover each other's preferences.
No need to omit or flatter your partner - it won't be good for sex.
Many people don't realize HOW valuable this is to your relationship✔️
When exactly to arrange this feedback after sex?
At the moment when you have already "cooled down" emotionally and physically.
No need to rush☝🏻
Pose for cunnilingus and a passionate evening with your babe
Heir to the throne is one of the buzziest positions for girls' sensuality and dynamics.
Really handy when you wanna give her pleasure and see how nice your caresses feel.
👉🏻 The way it's done:
- The girl sits on a pouffe or chair, placing a pillow under her back. She puts her legs up slightly and throws them on your shoulders. You kneel on the floor, gently caressing the baby's belly and breasts with your hands. And pussy, of course!
Already imagined how you are gonna do it?
And how your girlfriend will get high in the process? Can you imagine? ☺️
What to do if you don't have any desire for sex?
You arrive from work, exhausted, and you have a whole bunch of other things to do requiring your attention. And your girlfriend obviously desires to spend time actively indulging each other in bed.
You tell her "no", ending up with this "acrid" feeling of guilt.
It begins to creep into your head, prevents you from having a proper rest, and throws bricks in the stability of your relationship...
I've encountered this situation regularly in counseling, and you shouldn't let it get to the point of trouble!
You need to get rid of this guilt as it is normal to be tired and want no sex.
The desire of the partners cannot always coincide☝🏻
The best way out of the situation is to say right to your face about the problem.
"Honey, I just have no energy today. I dream of squeezing all the juices out of you, and I'll definitely do it tomorrow."
All✔️
So, don't fill your head with crap - just talk to each other ;)
A few rules for flirting
I've said many times before that sex starts long before the process itself!
Flirting determines how hot your bed will be tonight and whether you'll be satisfied 😈
- Watch condition.
You can't seduce a girl in a dull and depressed state. If it is, then leave the flirting for later.
- Keep visual contact.
Look into the eyes and talk to the girl, the contact must be at least 3 minutes to hook her emotionally.
- Smile.
No need to bared all your teeth, a slight smile is enough.
- Touch the girl.
Say a word, gently run the pad of your finger over her bare shoulder.
Now I'm calm, sweeties, cuz I know for sure that you'll seduce the babe one hundred percent!
Experiment with positions and rhythm
Cuz that's the key to a successful and vivid orgasm for both partners, sweeties! I spend hours working every day with men who are fixated on the same actions and poses and then have trouble in bed.
Remember, every girl has her own key to orgasm!
Depending on the position you choose, different areas are stimulated.
For example:
- In horsewoman, leaning forward stimulates the clitoris and the G zone at the same time
- In doggy-style, the circular movements of the penis stimulate the whole pussy area, which makes the sensations of both of them only more pleasant.
Each position has its own zones and its own rhythm, so try everything and see how baby responds!
Concentration on orgasm
It would seem normal, wouldn't it? The more a person wants to experience an orgasm, the faster it will be.
👉🏻 Actually, the opposite effect works here.
The more focused you are on having an orgasm, the slower you will have one. Because in the process you won't notice basic things and pay attention to the easy ways, there will only be one ORGASM in your mind.
I advise you to try two things:
- Relax and let the situation go for a while. Focus only on the process.
- Try masturbation together, where everyone will show what kind of caresses they like.
That way you have a better chance of having an orgasm than when you're fixated on it!
If she refuses a blow job
There are two ways out!
Leave the subject and don't get high, or show your girlfriend how it's done VISUALLY and let her know that it's a perfectly normal sexual practice!
The more your beloved visually observes sex scenes, the more she gets used to and agrees to something...
So let's choose an erotic movie for the next night...
One with a hot blowjob, sex, passion 🔥
Turn it on and watch it with her!
After watching it offer her to do the same with your dick.
Prepare in advance a lubricant with her favorite flavor or cream and chocolate, so she will taste good sucking your dick...
Here is a simple action like this will help take your girlfriend out of her comfort zone and give you a hot and voluptuous sensation.
Lots of couples really don't see why they should discuss the subject of sex...
It's an old belief that's hard to work with 🧐
I spend 3-4 months with some clients to get this important fact across to them.
But if you imagine for just a moment that you are explicit about your desires to each other instead of hiding them for years, then sex will immediately "take on" a more interesting twist.
👉🏻 What can you discuss?
- Problems buried in your subconscious.
- What you dislike most about sex. You can say it bluntly, in a gentle way to avoid many problems.
- Other options. If told what you don't like, offer some alternative.
- Something that you like. You should definitely talk about it, cause next time the girl will try harder to please you.
In fact, these are perfectly simple rules that you can follow in the near future!
Blindfolded sex boosts sensitivity
I've long thought to tell you how blindfolded sex affects the senses and enhances arousal!
- Smell.
Light candles with alluring scents that have pheromones or aphrodisiacs. The scent from the candles, will set you on a wave of excitement
- Touch.
Use massage. Your touch on the girl's body will feel more powerful and stronger, she will concentrate only on them
- Hearing.
Whisper and moan. Say in a whisper a couple of pleasant words, turn on the girl only with your voice. The receptors will sharpen and the girl will concentrate only on your voice.
See how many benefits a simple blindfold can bring!
Sudden sex
It doesn't matter how long a guy and a girl have known each other...
If during a walk in the park you take your beloved by the hand, gently stroke his wrist, hug him, press your breasts to him, he will not be disappointed 💋
Then try to start hitting on him (within the limits of decency, naturally!) in the most unexpected place for it, for example, in a crowded restaurant or cafe just on a Friday night.
Unobtrusively take off your shoes and unobtrusively stroke his pants under the table with your toes in the "causal" place... Mmmm, he's guaranteed a total hoot, I promise...
Then I advise you, for example, already in the elevator, to whisper vulgarities in his ear, which finally put him in the right mood.
This kind of girl's behavior excites men insanely 🤤
How to liberate a girl in bed?
This topic came up especially during my consultations before the summer season. And you know what I tell everyone?
👉🏻 Act gradually!
You shouldn't move abruptly from the domestic topic right away to the sexual topic. This method will not bring success, and the girl will only lock herself up and will not be ready for further conversation...
What is the right way to do it?
Try without pressure, in a calm atmosphere, but also without extra ears and talking or already in the process of foreplay, ask her leading questions, for example:
"Does it feel good when I caress you there?"
"Would you like to try a new position?"
"I'd love for you to try this technique."
I think everyone gets my point!
The point remains the same: we act gradually, without pressure, and necessarily in a relaxed environment!
Glide Techniques
Pack a small amount of massage oil, slowly and erotically first pour it on each other's bodies. Then gently move on to gentle touching.
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I've found a really cool variation of the sliding technique, which I'm eager to share with you:
The girl begins to slide on the penis with the pubic area between her breasts, and then, when the guy is already burning with impatience, she gently presses her genitals against the penis and imitates friction.
You can regulate the pace yourself, depending on your desires. Tigers, I guarantee these movements will blow your mind🔥
Proper stimulation of the G zone
So what if I named two positions where stimulation would be perfect? 🔥
The first.
The girl lies on her stomach, lifting her buttocks exactly towards you, with a pillow under her belly. This way she is more open and her pelvis is elevated for penetration.
The second.
The horsewoman's pose. Perfect for stimulation. Babe controls the angle and depth of penetration. She can increase the pressure on the area, or decrease as she wants.
Two absolutely versatile positions to give an unbelievable experience.
The coolest way to make sex more vivid
I advise the technique of nine entries for those clients bored with the familiar poses, techniques, & feel like trying something new!
What to do?
- After penetration choose a rhythm of movements. I advise to stick to a moderate rhythm
- Make three shallow penetrations and a deep one
- Five shallow and one deep
- Take a few seconds to enjoy the girl and the sensations you get from sex
- Then do nine shallow thrusts and one full power deep.
Stick to the same rhythm until you both experience a vivid orgasm 💦
Believe me, it will be unforgettable!