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Lesson on how to draw a map of her erogenous zones
Today I'm sharing with you one simple but highly effective way to finally learn about your babe's erogenous zones.
Ask your beloved to take a blank sheet of paper and draw a picture of a naked girl. Then invite her to color in one color those zones considered to be erogenous on her body.
Also, she should remember and choose which ones are the most sensitive to caressing and paint them in the picture with a brighter color 🎨
The drawing is ready!
Then discuss together the most desirable way of affecting each of the erogenous zones highlighted in bright color for her🤤
As you can see, such a simple method replaces the very dialogue that you are often afraid to start...
Such practice lets you spend pleasant time together and discover new possibilities at the same time as diversify your sex👌
Perfect cunnilingus
Actually, there are loads of rules about cunnilingus. Some days, it's important to know them, and sometimes it's worth turning off your head! Still, I've put together some basic rules for you, just to make it easier.
Read them and fix to yourself:
- Always start gently, even if you have passion and fire blazing inside.
- Do not look at the girl constantly, only sometimes watch for her reaction with your eyes.
- Hold to one tempo and one technique, if you feel that her orgasm is close, don’t stop
- Keep an eye on the stubble. If there’s a slight stubble, don't poke your chin in the pussy itself.
Which rules to apply is up to you to decide! But I'll tell you a secret, they all work.
Trite but effective 🍑
Well, is she experiencing a real orgasm or just faking it?
Got a question like that from a subscriber recently! Okay, I've got it, let's get to the bottom line.
Lots of people think an orgasm always looks like this: a girl arching her back, moaning wildly, convulsing, scratching her man's back...
But that's no indicator that your baby is actually cumming...
The signs are much deeper and more tantalizing.
An orgasm is a powerful nerve signal that travels through the spine to the brain.
- First there's a heartbeat.
- Then the muscles contract and are not always noticeable.
There may be cramps in the legs, arms and vaginal muscles
- At the onset of orgasm the pupils dilate and the clitoris pulsates
- All this is accompanied by moaning, screaming, or just languid and heavy breathing.
- Her cheeks and cleavage may become red.
Does your girlfriend have these signs during orgasm?
Girl left for someone else
Tiger, did you know that your girlfriend can go to someone who can deliver an orgasm?
I know lots of people are gonna e-mail me right now that I'm the one who's writing this. That orgasm is not the key thing, but love is the major factor...
If a girl loves a guy, she will accept him for who he is.
At first, maybe yeah, your girl will put up with it while love is really getting to her, and then... she'll just get tired of putting up with it!
Oh, right!
Coz dissatisfaction leads to health problems, as excitement sets in, but the discharge, as such, is not there.
And a girl needs discharge, i.e. an orgasm💦
So, tigers, reflect, if you don't satisfy your girlfriend, then don't wonder why she dumped you...
How to attract girls?
That's the question my subscriber asked me yesterday.
Honestly, it's an interesting issue, and I don't mind getting up at five in the morning and writing a post on the subject.
I list some actions to be more attractive:
- Build adequate self-esteem.
Holding a stiffness and insecurity won't make you sexy in the eyes of a babe.
- Discuss sex with the girl.
The more you talk about sex, the more you will know what the girl likes, and thus can satisfy her.
- Show initiative.
In sex and in life. If you don't have energy, zeal and initiative, after a while you may become boring to a girl.
It's simple enough, and the main thing is that it works!
Massage is the easiest way to get a girl ready to have sex with you
Sure, directly suggesting a girl to get a massage is, let me tell you, too crude a hint.
So, first, start by massaging her shoulders. Then act on the circumstances.
Yep, yep, just walk up to your beloved and start massaging her shoulders. Be sure not to do it intensely, so as not to cause unpleasant painful sensations.
And watch her reaction from time to time.
If you see that she likes it, massage her shoulders a little more, then her neck, the back of her head, and then tell her that it is uncomfortable for you to massage her sitting down. It's better to find a place for her to lie down.
You know what to do next, I guess...
Sexual Inferiority Complex
My wife no longer wants me, what is wrong with me? I guess I'm no longer a sexy macho man for her.
That's the complaint most patients have been coming to me with lately.
When a woman or man determines how sexy she or he is by the behavior of a partner, it's a sexual inferiority complex.
She wants me at any time of the day, so I'm fine. She doesn't want me, I'm not okay.
Except that it works the other way around: when you feel desirable, a woman comes in for that energy.
Remember the rule: the most desirable is the man who desires himself!
Tiger, if you are addicted to a woman's behavior, you need to fix it...
Work together on a sex playlist 🎼
Hey, did you know that with a certain amount of rhythmic music and enough volume, even the heart starts to contract to that rhythm.
I immediately thought, what if even the heart, which by the way we don't control ourselves, the movements can certainly be tweaked?
There are even cycles of perfect friction, where the alternation of short and fast movements with slow and deep ones is calculated based on the average heart rate and muscle contraction. But that's the tricky part...
Tigers, you can achieve primitive mutual rhythm just by having sex to music.
Any... Better, of course, that you both like it 👍
Emotional and Sensitive
That's how most girls can be described. Yeah, statistics say so.
👉🏻 Let me take my client as an example! She came in with a problem of emotional dissatisfaction. She gets an orgasm, everything seems great, but she doesn't feel satisfied after sex. No calmness, no adrenaline, no pleasure.
After talking to her, it turned out that she simply lacks attention from a man. During sex and outside of it. She feels no return from her partner, emotionally. And this is an important detail for girls.
To avoid such situations, I urge, sweethearts, don't be stingy with caresses!
Sex in the morning has many advantages, but evening sex also has benefits.
Suitable for those who love late-night sex and don't go to bed early 😁
On my own, I'll point out a few pluses, sweeties.
- Nothing distracts you in the evening. You can quietly enjoy each other after a hard day's work.
- In the evening, the male testosterone rises, and that's the best time to experiment.
- The girl gets the necessary portion of pleasure, due to the long caresses and foreplay. You're not in a hurry, just enjoying each other.
As you can see, even from a physiological point of view, the evening is suitable for good and passionate sex. Think about it.💋
First orgasm at 35
I was dealing with a girl yesterday, and we had a deeply reverent session. She's pretty shy and reserved in her communication. Sweet, funny, modest.
She came in with this problem - she is 35 years old and hasn't had an orgasm in 8 years...
She hasn't had sex or masturbated in all that time. For her own reasons.
Now she has a boyfriend, and she can't cum at all. Both of them are totally confused and don't get the situation.
In fact, it's not the boyfriend or the girl, it's her hormones, which have been "sleeping" for a very long time.
As a rule, it takes a lot to awaken the sexuality and desire in bed again for such girls.
The goal of sex for this couple right now is to make a really deep connection!
With massages, deep emotional sex techniques, and passionate play, not just penetration.
Dirty talk is a thing worth practicing in couples
These are "dirty" erotic conversations before and during sex. After all, they are exactly what you need to create the right heat🔥
But here's the problem - guys and girls have no idea how to talk about sex and what to say while doing it...
And all you have to do is set the mood for pleasure, start with a couple of "dirty" phrases, and then make variety little by little.
And I've just prepped some super-sweet words for you ;)
These are the perfect phrases to master Dirty Talk👇🏻
"Tell me what you want and I'll do it."
"I've been thinking about you naked all day."
"Can you imagine how much I want you?"
"I wanna be inside you."
And try using "dirty names" for your girlfriend - little rascal, naughty slut (trust me, lots of women get turned on😉 ), daddy's girl and the like.
And the word "fuck" in general should live forever in your sex lexicon👌🏻
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Posture is one of the ways to lengthen the intercourse
So you need to grasp one law dictated by our physiology.
When the position is comfortable and, if I may say so, passive, you get arousal slower. In this case, and the onset of orgasm is easier to control.
In other words, you don't need to become a conqueror of "sexual bends" and repeat crazy poses from ancient Chinese legends.
Suitable positions you are accustomed to!
Separately allocate spoons (it's a musthave for this purpose) and the position when a man sits and a girl on top.
Yeah, it sounds trivial and "boring".
But not for nothing they say - everything brilliant (or maybe even sexy😁) is simple ;)
If you are allergic to condoms
In case you are faced with a similar problem, no worries, now I'll detail everything.
Allergies can appear in the form of itching, redness, irritation, swelling. It's not a pleasant thing...
First of all. You must realize that allergies can be not always to condoms, they can occur to lubricant and (or) the material, such as sex toys.
Second. You can find a replacement for the simple condom. Everything has been developed for allergy sufferers for a long time now. You can use:
- Polyurethane or hypoallergenic latex models. Sold in sex shops and online stores.
- Isoprene condoms, not only do they not cause allergies, they are more durable than latex condoms.
As you can see, everything can be solved if the problem is detected in time!
Ever had a problem like this?
Concentration on sex
A couple of months ago I read an article, where scientists suggested an exercise of concentration on sex.
I, sure, was too intrigued with such an exercise😈
I recommended it to my clients, and I’m gonna tell you about it!
It has already brought positive results.
The essence of the exercise is to perform several stages:
Stage 1. You caress the girl's body without touching, to the juiciest and sweetest spots.
Stage 2. You fondle everywhere, but without penetration or orgasm.
Stage 3. You rub against each other with your whole body, but with no cumming or penetrating into the girl's pussy.
Stage 4. The girl caresses your body, but doesn't touch your cock. She touches everything but it.
Stage 5. You penetrate the girl's pussy and start slow sex
Stage 6. You bring yourself and the babe to orgasm.
Memorize the sequence, coz it will take your sensations to the next level, bring passion back to bed and focus only on sex.
How you start sex is how you enjoy it and reach orgasm.
There's a great rule of thumb - the rule of an effective start.
Here are a few criteria you need to follow:
- Don't rush to stimulate pussy right away.
Start with kissing, stroking, passionate whispering. Leave the pussy caresses for later...
- Don't be silent.
Compliment her, girls love with their ears, so why not use it?
Tell her how sexy she is today and how much you like her or enjoy her...
- Be careful with breasts.
Remember that the girl needs time to get excited, if you start biting her nipples right away you won't make a wow effect, just embarrass her...
Only after all these actions you can move on to the clitoris, and... to more adult games!
Here are 3 types of tempos
Which can bring you an incredible amount of pleasure in bed, drive you to a hot orgasm and blow your mind!
What are these tempos?
👉🏻 Fast and no foreplay.
It's when you have sex at a very high rate of speed in a public place. There's a flavor and a twist to this tempo.
👉🏻 Long and savoring.
Most often used in slow sex when there is time to enjoy each other. Add circular and twisting movements to this tempo.
👉🏻 Medium tempo.
Almost every couple uses it. Foreplay of 5-7 minutes and 2-3 poses during sex. I suggest adding twisting movements for a more passionate experience.
What do you say, my sweeties, what tempo do you use the most?
Threesome fantasies
Last week, I dealt with a client who has fantasies of threesomes. Which is causing him a lot of problems.
Nope, the problems aren't in the sex, they're in his head!
He's been dating a girl, long enough, and sometimes during sex with his lover he imagines having sex with two girls at once...
This is perfectly normal, not a vice, but simple fantasies.
They heat you up, excite you, excite you!
You can dream your whole life about two girls at once, but be satisfied with one babe. Whether to tell a girl about it or not is a moot point...
It depends on how she feels about it. But no one can forbid you to think about it for sure!
If she doesn't take the initiative in sex...
Then there's a reason for that, tigers!
There's a good reason why a girl may not want sex and be lethargic in her desires, believe me.
Causes are always there and sometimes they are the most trivial. Let's see what are they?
- Sex may not be as important to her as it is to you.
Because she may not have an orgasm and doesn't see the point in it.
- A mismatch of sexual constitutions.
But there are times when you might want to have sex all the time and she just needs it twice a week, so why bother?
- It's easier for her to please herself.
Again, it's about your skills and ability to bring the baby to orgasm. If you can't do it, then she can do it on her own.
- You have turned her down before.
Think back, maybe she approached you earlier and hinted at sex, but you repeatedly said no. This offends a lot of girls.
There's a lot of non-standard sex, techniques and tricks
And I try to share with you almost all of them, cos tastes vary from person to person.💋
I'm gonna give you an unusual technique, the silk carpet. Some technique, which helps to bring the baby an extraordinary pleasure in bed. I advise you to use it during foreplay, until the penetration.
What to do? Take two silk handkerchiefs, put the baby in a doggie-style position. Cover the girl's eyes with one handkerchief and stroke her body with the other. Gently stroke her buttocks, breasts, nipples, pussy, then make the girl settle on the handkerchief.
Further, move the handkerchief up and down until the girl is at the peak of pleasure or does not cum at all.
Keep in mind that only gentle and careful movements should be there☝🏻
Riding on the back
For couples where the babe lacks control. Where she wants to master the process, the movements and the depth of penetration.🤤
How to perform.
Look carefully at the picture to avoid injury. Take a lying position, the girl lies on your back, leaning on the bed with her arms and legs. She starts to move, at this time you, tigers, you can support her by the hips and help.
The only downside to this pose is that the girls have to work hard. Cause reverse horsewoman requires a lot of strength.
But on the other hand, I think the effort is worth it, since the sensations will be unforgettable. Plus, the pose is good for anal sex.
Who else but me can tell you what NOT to do in bed?
That's right, no one.
So, I've made you a list of the most popular mistakes that men make in sex.
Especially, I often notice them in couples with several years of relationship:
- No feedback.
Some men are so silent that it really annoys girls.
- Taking porn as a model.
When in bed, demanding of a girl what she's seen in porn. But it is not a model, and you shouldn't be guided by it.
- Monotony in bed.
When they use the same techniques and tricks, and it all lasts for years.
In fact, everything is quite simple. Avoiding these mistakes is quite real, so I'm writing you plenty of great stuff!
All sorts of attitude
I see them daily with my clients. Some are unaffected, but most are negatively reflected.👆🏻
Here are the most common attitudes I encounter:
- Sex is not as important to girls as it is to men.
- Girls cannot take the initiative, they have to be more modest.
- You need to satisfy the girl, otherwise she will cheat.
- Everyone likes anal sex, and it's common.
So, what happens in the end when they feel that way? They make mistakes in sex and can't figure out what the true cause of all the problems is.
👉🏻 And I suggest, for the sake of experimentation, think, honey, and write out on a piece of paper all the problems troubling you. Listen to yourself, then imagine that this or that attitude is just an imposed opinion, it means nothing and you don't have to believe in it.
That's what most couples never do and commit a mistake
Not talking after sex👐🏻
Neither after a day nor after an hour. While it should be done within a few MINUTES after sex.
This is especially important in the first phase of a relationship when you need to learn and discover each other's preferences.
No need to omit or flatter your partner - it won't be good for sex.
Many people don't realize HOW valuable this is to your relationship✔️
When exactly to arrange this feedback after sex?
At the moment when you have already "cooled down" emotionally and physically.
No need to rush☝🏻
Pose for cunnilingus and a passionate evening with your babe
Heir to the throne is one of the buzziest positions for girls' sensuality and dynamics.
Really handy when you wanna give her pleasure and see how nice your caresses feel.
👉🏻 The way it's done:
- The girl sits on a pouffe or chair, placing a pillow under her back. She puts her legs up slightly and throws them on your shoulders. You kneel on the floor, gently caressing the baby's belly and breasts with your hands. And pussy, of course!
Already imagined how you are gonna do it?
And how your girlfriend will get high in the process? Can you imagine? ☺️
What to do if you don't have any desire for sex?
You arrive from work, exhausted, and you have a whole bunch of other things to do requiring your attention. And your girlfriend obviously desires to spend time actively indulging each other in bed.
You tell her "no", ending up with this "acrid" feeling of guilt.
It begins to creep into your head, prevents you from having a proper rest, and throws bricks in the stability of your relationship...
I've encountered this situation regularly in counseling, and you shouldn't let it get to the point of trouble!
You need to get rid of this guilt as it is normal to be tired and want no sex.
The desire of the partners cannot always coincide☝🏻
The best way out of the situation is to say right to your face about the problem.
"Honey, I just have no energy today. I dream of squeezing all the juices out of you, and I'll definitely do it tomorrow."
All✔️
So, don't fill your head with crap - just talk to each other ;)
A few rules for flirting
I've said many times before that sex starts long before the process itself!
Flirting determines how hot your bed will be tonight and whether you'll be satisfied 😈
- Watch condition.
You can't seduce a girl in a dull and depressed state. If it is, then leave the flirting for later.
- Keep visual contact.
Look into the eyes and talk to the girl, the contact must be at least 3 minutes to hook her emotionally.
- Smile.
No need to bared all your teeth, a slight smile is enough.
- Touch the girl.
Say a word, gently run the pad of your finger over her bare shoulder.
Now I'm calm, sweeties, cuz I know for sure that you'll seduce the babe one hundred percent!
Experiment with positions and rhythm
Cuz that's the key to a successful and vivid orgasm for both partners, sweeties! I spend hours working every day with men who are fixated on the same actions and poses and then have trouble in bed.
Remember, every girl has her own key to orgasm!
Depending on the position you choose, different areas are stimulated.
For example:
- In horsewoman, leaning forward stimulates the clitoris and the G zone at the same time
- In doggy-style, the circular movements of the penis stimulate the whole pussy area, which makes the sensations of both of them only more pleasant.
Each position has its own zones and its own rhythm, so try everything and see how baby responds!