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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
How to get rid of attitudes?
Over the years I've worked with numerous attitudes.
Like shyness in bed, small penis, and a tangle of problems.
Frankly speaking, it's not always easy for me and my clients to get each other and to build our work. These are pretty complicated and confusing cases 🙃
But I give everyone a simple exercise at the beginning to work through the attitudes and eliminate them!
👉🏻 Exercise:
- Write out 10 attitudes about sex.
- Identify the positive and negative attitudes.
- Determine what can be done.
That’s the easiest exercise you can perform without a relationship psychologist and then work through it.
It's not just the guys who get turned on😜
When you don't take off your girl's clothes and fuck her right there.
And when you come home after a great night out and everything hints at its great continuation...
Just lift up her dress or skirt, slide aside her underwear, put her in a doggy style and give her what she wants.
And she does, trust me ;)
The crucial point is that the girl should be pretty aroused by this point.
So, touch her more often on the street (even in "indecent" places), and include lingering kisses even in the elevator.
Then when you get home, she will ALREADY be wet💦
One of my favorite role-playing games🙈
I advise it to anyone and everyone coming to me for a consultation or just wondering how you can diversify sex.
It's called the desire sector.
Its essence is the following - a girl and a guy should draw a circle on a piece of paper, divided into segments.
The number is not crucial, but it is better to have more than 10.
And each segment will match some kind of desire - half of them yours, the other half hers.
Oh, how much you are gonna learn about each other😈
You choose your wishes one by one - with your eyes closed, you point to a part of the circle.
Let's suppose the 69 pose fell out, cunny, ending on your chest, and so on.
The game will bring adrenaline into your sex life even at the stage of choosing desires😅
So, go ahead - just be reasonable in your desires;)
Here are two kinds of orgasm
Tigers, now here is some helpful and exciting information. Be sure to read it thoroughly😉
I feel like everyone has had moments when you seem to get an orgasm, but you weren't satisfied. Or there was such a pleasure that you didn't even wanna cum. That's because you experienced a different kind of orgasm.
We have two kinds of orgasm - psychological and physical.
Physiological orgasm is the release of sexual and muscular arousal that builds up in the process. When the genitals get too much blood flowing to them, and we have no more strength to endure.
Psychological is the sensation, the sexual pleasure, when you reach a peak, enjoy yourself and there is a sense of satisfaction inside.
As a rule, guys are capable of two kinds of pleasure, but with girls it is more complicated. They can only have a psychological orgasm. Which depends on foreplay, emotion, and the quality of arousal.
Bear this in mind when you play with your babe💋
What do ladies crave in bed?
Last night, instead of going to sleep, I read a study by American scientists! Sure enough, I wrote a post in the morning.
Study topic - what do girls want in bed?
Read closely, tigers!
- Get pleasure. For a man to be more attentive to them in bed, treat them reverently and keep in mind all the girls' preferences and requests.
- Show initiative. So that they can control sex too, to start it and end it as they really want.
- More variety. Toys, massage, varied atmosphere.
- Long foreplay. So they can be excited to the right degree and enjoy sex.
- Mutual consent. For all the experiments, the sex itself passed only by consent of the two parties. And not when one wants it badly.
Tigers, all points are really helpful!
Great way to prolong sex
I know that lots of people can't have long-lasting sex. There are reasons for that, which we won't dig into today.
I'll just tell you a mega useful tip to help prolong sex and enjoy each other's bodies longer😈
Use slow penetration!
Don't start with a great pace and speed right away.
First, the girl needs time to get used to the size inside, and second, you'll make it worse for yourself.
Better start with reciprocating movements, lasting about 3 seconds.
Then gradually speed up, and if you feel orgasm approaching, stop inside the girl, take a couple of deep breaths and ... and continue the friction.
Concentration on sex
A couple of months ago I read an article, where scientists suggested an exercise of concentration on sex.
I, sure, was too intrigued with such an exercise😈
I recommended it to my clients, and I’m gonna tell you about it!
It has already brought positive results.
The essence of the exercise is to perform several stages:
Stage 1. You caress the girl's body without touching, to the juiciest and sweetest spots.
Stage 2. You fondle everywhere, but without penetration or orgasm.
Stage 3. You rub against each other with your whole body, but with no cumming or penetrating into the girl's pussy.
Stage 4. The girl caresses your body, but doesn't touch your cock. She touches everything but it.
Stage 5. You penetrate the girl's pussy and start slow sex
Stage 6. You bring yourself and the babe to orgasm.
Memorize the sequence, coz it will take your sensations to the next level, bring passion back to bed and focus only on sex.
How you start sex is how you enjoy it and reach orgasm.
There's a great rule of thumb - the rule of an effective start.
Here are a few criteria you need to follow:
- Don't rush to stimulate pussy right away.
Start with kissing, stroking, passionate whispering. Leave the pussy caresses for later...
- Don't be silent.
Compliment her, girls love with their ears, so why not use it?
Tell her how sexy she is today and how much you like her or enjoy her...
- Be careful with breasts.
Remember that the girl needs time to get excited, if you start biting her nipples right away you won't make a wow effect, just embarrass her...
Only after all these actions you can move on to the clitoris, and... to more adult games!
Here are 3 types of tempos
Which can bring you an incredible amount of pleasure in bed, drive you to a hot orgasm and blow your mind!
What are these tempos?
👉🏻 Fast and no foreplay.
It's when you have sex at a very high rate of speed in a public place. There's a flavor and a twist to this tempo.
👉🏻 Long and savoring.
Most often used in slow sex when there is time to enjoy each other. Add circular and twisting movements to this tempo.
👉🏻 Medium tempo.
Almost every couple uses it. Foreplay of 5-7 minutes and 2-3 poses during sex. I suggest adding twisting movements for a more passionate experience.
What do you say, my sweeties, what tempo do you use the most?
Threesome fantasies
Last week, I dealt with a client who has fantasies of threesomes. Which is causing him a lot of problems.
Nope, the problems aren't in the sex, they're in his head!
He's been dating a girl, long enough, and sometimes during sex with his lover he imagines having sex with two girls at once...
This is perfectly normal, not a vice, but simple fantasies.
They heat you up, excite you, excite you!
You can dream your whole life about two girls at once, but be satisfied with one babe. Whether to tell a girl about it or not is a moot point...
It depends on how she feels about it. But no one can forbid you to think about it for sure!
If she doesn't take the initiative in sex...
Then there's a reason for that, tigers!
There's a good reason why a girl may not want sex and be lethargic in her desires, believe me.
Causes are always there and sometimes they are the most trivial. Let's see what are they?
- Sex may not be as important to her as it is to you.
Because she may not have an orgasm and doesn't see the point in it.
- A mismatch of sexual constitutions.
But there are times when you might want to have sex all the time and she just needs it twice a week, so why bother?
- It's easier for her to please herself.
Again, it's about your skills and ability to bring the baby to orgasm. If you can't do it, then she can do it on her own.
- You have turned her down before.
Think back, maybe she approached you earlier and hinted at sex, but you repeatedly said no. This offends a lot of girls.
There's a lot of non-standard sex, techniques and tricks
And I try to share with you almost all of them, cos tastes vary from person to person.💋
I'm gonna give you an unusual technique, the silk carpet. Some technique, which helps to bring the baby an extraordinary pleasure in bed. I advise you to use it during foreplay, until the penetration.
What to do? Take two silk handkerchiefs, put the baby in a doggie-style position. Cover the girl's eyes with one handkerchief and stroke her body with the other. Gently stroke her buttocks, breasts, nipples, pussy, then make the girl settle on the handkerchief.
Further, move the handkerchief up and down until the girl is at the peak of pleasure or does not cum at all.
Keep in mind that only gentle and careful movements should be there☝🏻
Riding on the back
For couples where the babe lacks control. Where she wants to master the process, the movements and the depth of penetration.🤤
How to perform.
Look carefully at the picture to avoid injury. Take a lying position, the girl lies on your back, leaning on the bed with her arms and legs. She starts to move, at this time you, tigers, you can support her by the hips and help.
The only downside to this pose is that the girls have to work hard. Cause reverse horsewoman requires a lot of strength.
But on the other hand, I think the effort is worth it, since the sensations will be unforgettable. Plus, the pose is good for anal sex.
Who else but me can tell you what NOT to do in bed?
That's right, no one.
So, I've made you a list of the most popular mistakes that men make in sex.
Especially, I often notice them in couples with several years of relationship:
- No feedback.
Some men are so silent that it really annoys girls.
- Taking porn as a model.
When in bed, demanding of a girl what she's seen in porn. But it is not a model, and you shouldn't be guided by it.
- Monotony in bed.
When they use the same techniques and tricks, and it all lasts for years.
In fact, everything is quite simple. Avoiding these mistakes is quite real, so I'm writing you plenty of great stuff!
The "Grave" Technique
Sexy, slow and languid technique. It arouses, excites and brings truly magical sensations😉
Characteristic differences: tardiness, caution and complete focus on the senses. Everyone writes and compares the sensations to riding on a swing. When at the moment of approaching orgasm, you slow down, freeze and feel with every cell of your body.
As for me, this technique is something intimate and awe-inspiring. When there is visual contact, when you breathe and hear each other's breathing, and get high on the process.
Slow, tweaking movements, little stops in spades, visual contact, that's all there is to know. Try it and enjoy it!
Looking for sex with a "call girl"
I guess plenty of people wouldn't say no!
This kind of sex is always unexpected, sexy, erotic and incredibly hot🔥
The truth is, even being in a relationship, you can afford to make it happen!
That's right, my sexy cowboys! It's all in your hands.
And perhaps even today you will take it off for one night!
All you have to do is bring the role-playing game "Slutty Call Girl and the Client" to life.
This is the most perverted and erotic game, not only will give passion, but also novelty, emotion, zest in sex with your beloved!
It's important to the gals
So it should be equally valuable to you, bunnies. Know why? Cos it affects sex, of course!
Girls need you to look at them in their underwear. Not just looking, but worshipping with a look. You're in the process, she's undressed, standing sexy and hyped up in sexy lingerie, and it's important to stop in the moment here. Look her over from head to toe, eat her up with your eyes, tell her how beautiful she is and how lucky you are to have her. It's not that hard, huh?
I mean, the difference in micro-sensations between you and us is completely different. If you can not wait to take off her underwear, the girl at this moment wants to feel like a queen, and enjoy the rapture in her eyes.
A few minutes of attention in her favor and hot sex is assured to you! I know it💋
Open pose
What's so good about it? That's right, with everything open. So, the girl's enjoyment is guaranteed😉
One of the open poses is the motorboat. I dunno who called it that, but there are even worse names. And we're talking about cunnilingus here. I know plenty of girls like this pose.
It's where the baby's wide open for you. All her holes are available to you. You can lick, you can tongue, you can penetrate with your tongue. In the pussy, in the anal hole, on the clitoris. That's what I advise you to do. Just don't forget the slow start!
There's both trust and total surrender to the situation, y'all tigers☝🏻
I also wanna add, to keep her more comfy, have the girl leaning on the edge of the couch or bed. And put a soft pillow under her lower back. Then the process is easier for everyone!
You won't have sex without it
Well, lots of options around here in general😅
And today I was gonna mention the tactile contact. That moment which brings you closer to each other the most.
And how to touch a girl properly so that it doesn't seem too intrusive?
I guess the most famous "technique" is to read her hand.
Naturally, you have no idea about it, just try to be funny at this moment😅
A more "down-to-earth" option is to praise her manicure. It will be an excuse to take her hand and touch her fingers in a special way😏
Oh, and it's always nice for us when a man pays attention to details.
And for your BODIES to touch each other, show her something on your phone - that's an excuse to sit closer to her. Just don't do it too briskly, but as if casually sitting a little closer💦
Well, no one cancelled improvisation.
If you grasp the principle of these "accidental" touches, you won't need such preparations any more, go ahead😉
Lesson on how to draw a map of her erogenous zones
Today I'm sharing with you one simple but highly effective way to finally learn about your babe's erogenous zones.
Ask your beloved to take a blank sheet of paper and draw a picture of a naked girl. Then invite her to color in one color those zones considered to be erogenous on her body.
Also, she should remember and choose which ones are the most sensitive to caressing and paint them in the picture with a brighter color 🎨
The drawing is ready!
Then discuss together the most desirable way of affecting each of the erogenous zones highlighted in bright color for her🤤
As you can see, such a simple method replaces the very dialogue that you are often afraid to start...
Such practice lets you spend pleasant time together and discover new possibilities at the same time as diversify your sex👌
Perfect cunnilingus
Actually, there are loads of rules about cunnilingus. Some days, it's important to know them, and sometimes it's worth turning off your head! Still, I've put together some basic rules for you, just to make it easier.
Read them and fix to yourself:
- Always start gently, even if you have passion and fire blazing inside.
- Do not look at the girl constantly, only sometimes watch for her reaction with your eyes.
- Hold to one tempo and one technique, if you feel that her orgasm is close, don’t stop
- Keep an eye on the stubble. If there’s a slight stubble, don't poke your chin in the pussy itself.
Which rules to apply is up to you to decide! But I'll tell you a secret, they all work.
Trite but effective 🍑
Well, is she experiencing a real orgasm or just faking it?
Got a question like that from a subscriber recently! Okay, I've got it, let's get to the bottom line.
Lots of people think an orgasm always looks like this: a girl arching her back, moaning wildly, convulsing, scratching her man's back...
But that's no indicator that your baby is actually cumming...
The signs are much deeper and more tantalizing.
An orgasm is a powerful nerve signal that travels through the spine to the brain.
- First there's a heartbeat.
- Then the muscles contract and are not always noticeable.
There may be cramps in the legs, arms and vaginal muscles
- At the onset of orgasm the pupils dilate and the clitoris pulsates
- All this is accompanied by moaning, screaming, or just languid and heavy breathing.
- Her cheeks and cleavage may become red.
Does your girlfriend have these signs during orgasm?
Girl left for someone else
Tiger, did you know that your girlfriend can go to someone who can deliver an orgasm?
I know lots of people are gonna e-mail me right now that I'm the one who's writing this. That orgasm is not the key thing, but love is the major factor...
If a girl loves a guy, she will accept him for who he is.
At first, maybe yeah, your girl will put up with it while love is really getting to her, and then... she'll just get tired of putting up with it!
Oh, right!
Coz dissatisfaction leads to health problems, as excitement sets in, but the discharge, as such, is not there.
And a girl needs discharge, i.e. an orgasm💦
So, tigers, reflect, if you don't satisfy your girlfriend, then don't wonder why she dumped you...
How to attract girls?
That's the question my subscriber asked me yesterday.
Honestly, it's an interesting issue, and I don't mind getting up at five in the morning and writing a post on the subject.
I list some actions to be more attractive:
- Build adequate self-esteem.
Holding a stiffness and insecurity won't make you sexy in the eyes of a babe.
- Discuss sex with the girl.
The more you talk about sex, the more you will know what the girl likes, and thus can satisfy her.
- Show initiative.
In sex and in life. If you don't have energy, zeal and initiative, after a while you may become boring to a girl.
It's simple enough, and the main thing is that it works!
Massage is the easiest way to get a girl ready to have sex with you
Sure, directly suggesting a girl to get a massage is, let me tell you, too crude a hint.
So, first, start by massaging her shoulders. Then act on the circumstances.
Yep, yep, just walk up to your beloved and start massaging her shoulders. Be sure not to do it intensely, so as not to cause unpleasant painful sensations.
And watch her reaction from time to time.
If you see that she likes it, massage her shoulders a little more, then her neck, the back of her head, and then tell her that it is uncomfortable for you to massage her sitting down. It's better to find a place for her to lie down.
You know what to do next, I guess...
Sexual Inferiority Complex
My wife no longer wants me, what is wrong with me? I guess I'm no longer a sexy macho man for her.
That's the complaint most patients have been coming to me with lately.
When a woman or man determines how sexy she or he is by the behavior of a partner, it's a sexual inferiority complex.
She wants me at any time of the day, so I'm fine. She doesn't want me, I'm not okay.
Except that it works the other way around: when you feel desirable, a woman comes in for that energy.
Remember the rule: the most desirable is the man who desires himself!
Tiger, if you are addicted to a woman's behavior, you need to fix it...
Work together on a sex playlist 🎼
Hey, did you know that with a certain amount of rhythmic music and enough volume, even the heart starts to contract to that rhythm.
I immediately thought, what if even the heart, which by the way we don't control ourselves, the movements can certainly be tweaked?
There are even cycles of perfect friction, where the alternation of short and fast movements with slow and deep ones is calculated based on the average heart rate and muscle contraction. But that's the tricky part...
Tigers, you can achieve primitive mutual rhythm just by having sex to music.
Any... Better, of course, that you both like it 👍
Emotional and Sensitive
That's how most girls can be described. Yeah, statistics say so.
👉🏻 Let me take my client as an example! She came in with a problem of emotional dissatisfaction. She gets an orgasm, everything seems great, but she doesn't feel satisfied after sex. No calmness, no adrenaline, no pleasure.
After talking to her, it turned out that she simply lacks attention from a man. During sex and outside of it. She feels no return from her partner, emotionally. And this is an important detail for girls.
To avoid such situations, I urge, sweethearts, don't be stingy with caresses!
Sex in the morning has many advantages, but evening sex also has benefits.
Suitable for those who love late-night sex and don't go to bed early 😁
On my own, I'll point out a few pluses, sweeties.
- Nothing distracts you in the evening. You can quietly enjoy each other after a hard day's work.
- In the evening, the male testosterone rises, and that's the best time to experiment.
- The girl gets the necessary portion of pleasure, due to the long caresses and foreplay. You're not in a hurry, just enjoying each other.
As you can see, even from a physiological point of view, the evening is suitable for good and passionate sex. Think about it.💋