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Loud moans - violent orgasm
Boys, don't be silent😉 Stop being shy, it's time to moan and scream with pleasure during sex.
It really turns us on!
Moans and screams are expressions of pleasure. They stimulate the sexual arousal of two partners. They raise your libido and ours.
Yelling in bed has been proven to increase orgasm!
Plus, when a girl hears your voice in bed, she knows for sure that you like sex.
Nope, I'm not urging you to scream at the top of your voice on purpose right now. Just asking, if you wanna moan with pleasure, don't be shy!
Ambience around sex
I mean the atmosphere and routines in the bedroom.
All couples get used to each other sooner or later, it's normal!
But as a rule, because of this, the girls get very vigilant.
Even during penetration, they notice everything...
The order in the bedroom, the scattered pants, panties and T-shirts. It just pisses them off👿
So they can't focus on the sex, the sensations and the orgasm...
And that turns into a problem, let me tell you!
That's why I suggest you to notice such things and eliminate them as soon as possible😉
Scheduled sex tonight, great!
Before you start, take a few minutes to prepare the atmosphere.
Dim the lights, draw the curtains, close the windows, light the candles. After that, have passionate sex!
Watch out for alcohol before sex
You know that alcohol is good for relaxing and relieving tension. But I still don't recommend drinking a lot of it before a date👆🏻
Not cause I'm such a prude, nope, it's just that alcohol can mess up your night pretty good.
There are plenty of studies on how bad alcohol affects your penis.
If you overdo it a little bit, it might not harden!
And if you do decide to have a drink on a date or before sex, my advice is this:
- Always drink in moderation. Two shots of hard liquor or two or three glasses of wine at most.
- If you feel too much, drink strong black tea and refuse to have sex until you feel better.
Simultaneous orgasm
Using a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris is the easiest way to help a girl reach orgasm at the same time as her man. 🔥
For men, an erectile ring can help them stay hard for longer. In addition, it increases the pleasure of intercourse.
Abandon your goal, if it prevents you from being "here and now" and enjoy intimacy with your partner.
Breathe deeply and relax – maybe you just need to put everything else out of your mind and let yourself be in the moment to achieve an orgasm together. 😏
How to get rid of attitudes?
Over the years I've worked with numerous attitudes.
Like shyness in bed, small penis, and a tangle of problems.
Frankly speaking, it's not always easy for me and my clients to get each other and to build our work. These are pretty complicated and confusing cases 🙃
But I give everyone a simple exercise at the beginning to work through the attitudes and eliminate them!
👉🏻 Exercise:
- Write out 10 attitudes about sex.
- Identify the positive and negative attitudes.
- Determine what can be done.
That’s the easiest exercise you can perform without a relationship psychologist and then work through it.
It's not just the guys who get turned on😜
When you don't take off your girl's clothes and fuck her right there.
And when you come home after a great night out and everything hints at its great continuation...
Just lift up her dress or skirt, slide aside her underwear, put her in a doggy style and give her what she wants.
And she does, trust me ;)
The crucial point is that the girl should be pretty aroused by this point.
So, touch her more often on the street (even in "indecent" places), and include lingering kisses even in the elevator.
Then when you get home, she will ALREADY be wet💦
One of my favorite role-playing games🙈
I advise it to anyone and everyone coming to me for a consultation or just wondering how you can diversify sex.
It's called the desire sector.
Its essence is the following - a girl and a guy should draw a circle on a piece of paper, divided into segments.
The number is not crucial, but it is better to have more than 10.
And each segment will match some kind of desire - half of them yours, the other half hers.
Oh, how much you are gonna learn about each other😈
You choose your wishes one by one - with your eyes closed, you point to a part of the circle.
Let's suppose the 69 pose fell out, cunny, ending on your chest, and so on.
The game will bring adrenaline into your sex life even at the stage of choosing desires😅
So, go ahead - just be reasonable in your desires;)
Here are two kinds of orgasm
Tigers, now here is some helpful and exciting information. Be sure to read it thoroughly😉
I feel like everyone has had moments when you seem to get an orgasm, but you weren't satisfied. Or there was such a pleasure that you didn't even wanna cum. That's because you experienced a different kind of orgasm.
We have two kinds of orgasm - psychological and physical.
Physiological orgasm is the release of sexual and muscular arousal that builds up in the process. When the genitals get too much blood flowing to them, and we have no more strength to endure.
Psychological is the sensation, the sexual pleasure, when you reach a peak, enjoy yourself and there is a sense of satisfaction inside.
As a rule, guys are capable of two kinds of pleasure, but with girls it is more complicated. They can only have a psychological orgasm. Which depends on foreplay, emotion, and the quality of arousal.
Bear this in mind when you play with your babe💋
What do ladies crave in bed?
Last night, instead of going to sleep, I read a study by American scientists! Sure enough, I wrote a post in the morning.
Study topic - what do girls want in bed?
Read closely, tigers!
- Get pleasure. For a man to be more attentive to them in bed, treat them reverently and keep in mind all the girls' preferences and requests.
- Show initiative. So that they can control sex too, to start it and end it as they really want.
- More variety. Toys, massage, varied atmosphere.
- Long foreplay. So they can be excited to the right degree and enjoy sex.
- Mutual consent. For all the experiments, the sex itself passed only by consent of the two parties. And not when one wants it badly.
Tigers, all points are really helpful!
Great way to prolong sex
I know that lots of people can't have long-lasting sex. There are reasons for that, which we won't dig into today.
I'll just tell you a mega useful tip to help prolong sex and enjoy each other's bodies longer😈
Use slow penetration!
Don't start with a great pace and speed right away.
First, the girl needs time to get used to the size inside, and second, you'll make it worse for yourself.
Better start with reciprocating movements, lasting about 3 seconds.
Then gradually speed up, and if you feel orgasm approaching, stop inside the girl, take a couple of deep breaths and ... and continue the friction.
Concentration on sex
A couple of months ago I read an article, where scientists suggested an exercise of concentration on sex.
I, sure, was too intrigued with such an exercise😈
I recommended it to my clients, and I’m gonna tell you about it!
It has already brought positive results.
The essence of the exercise is to perform several stages:
Stage 1. You caress the girl's body without touching, to the juiciest and sweetest spots.
Stage 2. You fondle everywhere, but without penetration or orgasm.
Stage 3. You rub against each other with your whole body, but with no cumming or penetrating into the girl's pussy.
Stage 4. The girl caresses your body, but doesn't touch your cock. She touches everything but it.
Stage 5. You penetrate the girl's pussy and start slow sex
Stage 6. You bring yourself and the babe to orgasm.
Memorize the sequence, coz it will take your sensations to the next level, bring passion back to bed and focus only on sex.
How you start sex is how you enjoy it and reach orgasm.
There's a great rule of thumb - the rule of an effective start.
Here are a few criteria you need to follow:
- Don't rush to stimulate pussy right away.
Start with kissing, stroking, passionate whispering. Leave the pussy caresses for later...
- Don't be silent.
Compliment her, girls love with their ears, so why not use it?
Tell her how sexy she is today and how much you like her or enjoy her...
- Be careful with breasts.
Remember that the girl needs time to get excited, if you start biting her nipples right away you won't make a wow effect, just embarrass her...
Only after all these actions you can move on to the clitoris, and... to more adult games!
Here are 3 types of tempos
Which can bring you an incredible amount of pleasure in bed, drive you to a hot orgasm and blow your mind!
What are these tempos?
👉🏻 Fast and no foreplay.
It's when you have sex at a very high rate of speed in a public place. There's a flavor and a twist to this tempo.
👉🏻 Long and savoring.
Most often used in slow sex when there is time to enjoy each other. Add circular and twisting movements to this tempo.
👉🏻 Medium tempo.
Almost every couple uses it. Foreplay of 5-7 minutes and 2-3 poses during sex. I suggest adding twisting movements for a more passionate experience.
What do you say, my sweeties, what tempo do you use the most?
Threesome fantasies
Last week, I dealt with a client who has fantasies of threesomes. Which is causing him a lot of problems.
Nope, the problems aren't in the sex, they're in his head!
He's been dating a girl, long enough, and sometimes during sex with his lover he imagines having sex with two girls at once...
This is perfectly normal, not a vice, but simple fantasies.
They heat you up, excite you, excite you!
You can dream your whole life about two girls at once, but be satisfied with one babe. Whether to tell a girl about it or not is a moot point...
It depends on how she feels about it. But no one can forbid you to think about it for sure!
Is there an orgasm or not❓
I had a session with a girl the other day, and frankly, it was a very confusing one!
For two hours she told me that she did NOT have an orgasm at all. We were going over the relationship, how her and her husband's dialogue was structured, and generally about their sex life and health.
It wasn't until two hours later that I realized that she had misinterpreted her problem...
She has an orgasm, but only not with her husband, but alone with herself.
👉🏻 And those, are two completely different situations.
Cause the work gets built differently. If there is no orgasm just with your husband, then you have to make contact.
So I thought of writing to you about this situation.
‼️ Important! The context and the problem itself play an important role in the anamnesis.
The main thing is to grasp the essence and deal with it, and build further steps to solve the problem from this.
This way you will not only make your life easier, but we will find the right way out faster!
Revealing the secret of a rock hard erection
What to do? It's simple, my lovers!
Take a contrast shower 20 minutes before sex.
Only that it should be a real contrast: first ice water, then hot one.
A little later your girlfriend (already powerless) will be begging you to stop...
Guaranteed 😉
Plus such a contrast shower is good for your immune system.
Be healthy, my sexy tigers, surprise your girls with stone erections 🍌 and great immunity!
She's ashamed of her labia
Ah, my lovelies, what a juicy topic we're about to deal with... The other day I worked with a girl who was self-conscious about her labia.
Know how it affects her? Pretty, pretty nasty.
👉🏻 She hasn't had a single cunny in the last few years, she doesn't have sex with the lights on, her husband refuses many poses and experiments.
It all started a long time ago when her first boyfriend told her that her labia were ugly.
The young, shallow jerk (pardon the expression), ruined a girl's entire sex life.
I mean, is that normal?
I thought, what if your girlfriend has a similar complex?
I would never know, but I can give you some mega-cool advice.
- Every sex tell your girlfriend what a wonderful pussy she has, what beautiful and juicy lips, a small and neat clitoris ...
Little by little you will give her the feeling of comfort and joy in your embrace!
Statistics don't lie
I recently analyzed the statistics on lack of sex in couples for a major publication and was horrified by the numbers!
Statistically, 46% of girls don't wanna have sex with their man😱
That's almost half, sweeties!
So, I decided to write you a post on the reasons for these rejections.
Stress condition. The most popular reason.
Lack of orgasm. When a girl doesn’t reach an orgasm in bed, she has no understanding why she needs sex.
Insecurity and complexes. If she doesn’t love her body or gets not enough attention.
Monotony in bed. Not only guys like novelty, girls also get bored of everything familiar.
Resentment against the man. From the most profound to the most banal resentment.
All of these reasons can be dealt with and solved!
The "Grave" Technique
Sexy, slow and languid technique. It arouses, excites and brings truly magical sensations😉
Characteristic differences: tardiness, caution and complete focus on the senses. Everyone writes and compares the sensations to riding on a swing. When at the moment of approaching orgasm, you slow down, freeze and feel with every cell of your body.
As for me, this technique is something intimate and awe-inspiring. When there is visual contact, when you breathe and hear each other's breathing, and get high on the process.
Slow, tweaking movements, little stops in spades, visual contact, that's all there is to know. Try it and enjoy it!
Looking for sex with a "call girl"
I guess plenty of people wouldn't say no!
This kind of sex is always unexpected, sexy, erotic and incredibly hot🔥
The truth is, even being in a relationship, you can afford to make it happen!
That's right, my sexy cowboys! It's all in your hands.
And perhaps even today you will take it off for one night!
All you have to do is bring the role-playing game "Slutty Call Girl and the Client" to life.
This is the most perverted and erotic game, not only will give passion, but also novelty, emotion, zest in sex with your beloved!
It's important to the gals
So it should be equally valuable to you, bunnies. Know why? Cos it affects sex, of course!
Girls need you to look at them in their underwear. Not just looking, but worshipping with a look. You're in the process, she's undressed, standing sexy and hyped up in sexy lingerie, and it's important to stop in the moment here. Look her over from head to toe, eat her up with your eyes, tell her how beautiful she is and how lucky you are to have her. It's not that hard, huh?
I mean, the difference in micro-sensations between you and us is completely different. If you can not wait to take off her underwear, the girl at this moment wants to feel like a queen, and enjoy the rapture in her eyes.
A few minutes of attention in her favor and hot sex is assured to you! I know it💋
Open pose
What's so good about it? That's right, with everything open. So, the girl's enjoyment is guaranteed😉
One of the open poses is the motorboat. I dunno who called it that, but there are even worse names. And we're talking about cunnilingus here. I know plenty of girls like this pose.
It's where the baby's wide open for you. All her holes are available to you. You can lick, you can tongue, you can penetrate with your tongue. In the pussy, in the anal hole, on the clitoris. That's what I advise you to do. Just don't forget the slow start!
There's both trust and total surrender to the situation, y'all tigers☝🏻
I also wanna add, to keep her more comfy, have the girl leaning on the edge of the couch or bed. And put a soft pillow under her lower back. Then the process is easier for everyone!
You won't have sex without it
Well, lots of options around here in general😅
And today I was gonna mention the tactile contact. That moment which brings you closer to each other the most.
And how to touch a girl properly so that it doesn't seem too intrusive?
I guess the most famous "technique" is to read her hand.
Naturally, you have no idea about it, just try to be funny at this moment😅
A more "down-to-earth" option is to praise her manicure. It will be an excuse to take her hand and touch her fingers in a special way😏
Oh, and it's always nice for us when a man pays attention to details.
And for your BODIES to touch each other, show her something on your phone - that's an excuse to sit closer to her. Just don't do it too briskly, but as if casually sitting a little closer💦
Well, no one cancelled improvisation.
If you grasp the principle of these "accidental" touches, you won't need such preparations any more, go ahead😉
Lesson on how to draw a map of her erogenous zones
Today I'm sharing with you one simple but highly effective way to finally learn about your babe's erogenous zones.
Ask your beloved to take a blank sheet of paper and draw a picture of a naked girl. Then invite her to color in one color those zones considered to be erogenous on her body.
Also, she should remember and choose which ones are the most sensitive to caressing and paint them in the picture with a brighter color 🎨
The drawing is ready!
Then discuss together the most desirable way of affecting each of the erogenous zones highlighted in bright color for her🤤
As you can see, such a simple method replaces the very dialogue that you are often afraid to start...
Such practice lets you spend pleasant time together and discover new possibilities at the same time as diversify your sex👌
Perfect cunnilingus
Actually, there are loads of rules about cunnilingus. Some days, it's important to know them, and sometimes it's worth turning off your head! Still, I've put together some basic rules for you, just to make it easier.
Read them and fix to yourself:
- Always start gently, even if you have passion and fire blazing inside.
- Do not look at the girl constantly, only sometimes watch for her reaction with your eyes.
- Hold to one tempo and one technique, if you feel that her orgasm is close, don’t stop
- Keep an eye on the stubble. If there’s a slight stubble, don't poke your chin in the pussy itself.
Which rules to apply is up to you to decide! But I'll tell you a secret, they all work.
Trite but effective 🍑
Well, is she experiencing a real orgasm or just faking it?
Got a question like that from a subscriber recently! Okay, I've got it, let's get to the bottom line.
Lots of people think an orgasm always looks like this: a girl arching her back, moaning wildly, convulsing, scratching her man's back...
But that's no indicator that your baby is actually cumming...
The signs are much deeper and more tantalizing.
An orgasm is a powerful nerve signal that travels through the spine to the brain.
- First there's a heartbeat.
- Then the muscles contract and are not always noticeable.
There may be cramps in the legs, arms and vaginal muscles
- At the onset of orgasm the pupils dilate and the clitoris pulsates
- All this is accompanied by moaning, screaming, or just languid and heavy breathing.
- Her cheeks and cleavage may become red.
Does your girlfriend have these signs during orgasm?
Girl left for someone else
Tiger, did you know that your girlfriend can go to someone who can deliver an orgasm?
I know lots of people are gonna e-mail me right now that I'm the one who's writing this. That orgasm is not the key thing, but love is the major factor...
If a girl loves a guy, she will accept him for who he is.
At first, maybe yeah, your girl will put up with it while love is really getting to her, and then... she'll just get tired of putting up with it!
Oh, right!
Coz dissatisfaction leads to health problems, as excitement sets in, but the discharge, as such, is not there.
And a girl needs discharge, i.e. an orgasm💦
So, tigers, reflect, if you don't satisfy your girlfriend, then don't wonder why she dumped you...
How to attract girls?
That's the question my subscriber asked me yesterday.
Honestly, it's an interesting issue, and I don't mind getting up at five in the morning and writing a post on the subject.
I list some actions to be more attractive:
- Build adequate self-esteem.
Holding a stiffness and insecurity won't make you sexy in the eyes of a babe.
- Discuss sex with the girl.
The more you talk about sex, the more you will know what the girl likes, and thus can satisfy her.
- Show initiative.
In sex and in life. If you don't have energy, zeal and initiative, after a while you may become boring to a girl.
It's simple enough, and the main thing is that it works!
Massage is the easiest way to get a girl ready to have sex with you
Sure, directly suggesting a girl to get a massage is, let me tell you, too crude a hint.
So, first, start by massaging her shoulders. Then act on the circumstances.
Yep, yep, just walk up to your beloved and start massaging her shoulders. Be sure not to do it intensely, so as not to cause unpleasant painful sensations.
And watch her reaction from time to time.
If you see that she likes it, massage her shoulders a little more, then her neck, the back of her head, and then tell her that it is uncomfortable for you to massage her sitting down. It's better to find a place for her to lie down.
You know what to do next, I guess...