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How to get to her body
Tigers, when you're not together yet, but you're already meeting at the "come over to my place" stage, for example, to see a movie.
But you haven't had sex yet...
You're still afraid to touch her, so you don't scare her off.
You wonder if you can hug her or caress her, you really don't know what her reaction to such actions will be...
Tiger, in this case, take her leg and start giving her a gentle foot massage... Yes, yes!
First one, then the other.
I'll tell you right away, it's not very intimate, but nice!
She will definitely appreciate it👌
And, most importantly, it officially captures permission for you to "touch her body."
What are aphrodisiacs and how do they work?
In recent times, many of you are concerned about the topic of aphrodisiacs. I suggest you get to the bottom of how they work and what they are used for.
An aphrodisiac is a stimulant of the libido, created to excite a person and to improve the sexual dysfunction.
They are found in foods, oils, supplements, plants, spices. For me, I am an advocate of natural products and herbs.
How do aphrodisiacs work?
- They influence the subcortical structures of the brain, increasing the body's tonus, improving blood circulation, after which we feel invigorated and full of energy.
- Increase sexual desire.
- Increase the sensitivity of erogenous zones.
The main thing to realize is that an aphrodisiac is not a magic pill, but rather a sexual stimulant.
Wanna see the list of natural aphrodisiacs?
Erotic massage - a long and sweet foreplay
It requires no preparation, no expenses, no skills, all you need is your desire! And I think you have plenty of it. So let's keep it and use it in the near future:
- Start with the head.
With slow, massaging motions, press slightly on the head with the pads of your fingers. Move down the crumb's neck, continuing to massage it gently and tenderly
- Use oil and candles.
Which have pheromones, aphrodisiacs and just a relaxing scent. It helps to create a relaxing atmosphere
- Stroll around her erogenous zones.
Avoid touching her pussy ahead of time, you'll still have time to do it. Caress her earlobes, her wrists, her buttocks, the inside of her thighs.
- Roll her over onto her stomach.
Pass massage motions on the back, neck, go down to the buttocks and legs, literally take 5 minutes for this action.
Only after that move on to a more intimate massage or passionate sex...💋
Art of seduction
I've learned how to seduce guys I like since I was so young.
And if with guys everything is often clear, then the seduction of girls is another test, here you never know which one you will run into (may the girls forgive me, but it's true).
But one thing is certain - a skillfully delivered speech, a couple of successful compliments and talk about what's most important to her, and 80% of the girl is ready to go on a second date ...
So here's a tip: find something in the girl that she doesn't know or doubt about herself and compliment her.
That is, if the girl definitely looks very beautiful, tell her that you think she is very charismatic or smart.
Don't say the obvious, but look for something to latch on to👌
It's hard with girls, and it's silly to deny it.
Tigers, let's face it, some of you like subtlety and romance. Others like it rough and rude...
Try the following tactic to figure out what you're dealing with.
Take your girlfriend's hand, look her in the eye.
Without any reason, just hold out her hand with the palm up and see if she will put hers there.
▫️If she holds her hand in yours and stares deep into your pupils, it almost certainly means yes.
▫️If she asks you "what?", "why?", "what is it?" , giggles, or squints to the side, chances are it's a "no."
At least not yet.
In both cases, it's appropriate to stroke her hand with your other free palm, gently let go, and start talking about extraneous things.
The signal has been sent and the response has been received, so it's time to take a time out... Yes, yes!
You know how to intrigue us too, don't you, tigers?
First sex... what pose to choose
... Sweat runs like a hail, excitement is high, you have no idea what to do and panic hits you😰
Hold still! Hey, what am I here for?
Today I'll tell you what pose to choose for the first sex to spend time with no extra nerves and bring only pleasure to each other:
- First. Your task is to find a position comfortable for both of you. No need to jump on the girl at once and cover her body with yourself.
- Second. Always start with the missionary position.
It's the most emotional intimacy. You are pressed tight to each other, your bodies are united, and the girl feels protected and feels a special thrill.
Missionary pose, the most suitable and right option for the first intimacy!
Exaggerating your potential
Another hugely popular mistake many people make in bed!
I'll tell you more 👉
Each person initially has his own, so-called, PLAN in sex, own ideal, so to speak...
But here's the problem, most often this ideal is something imposed on us, it's not yours.
It's taken from porn movies, friends' talks, romantic movies, articles from the internet.
👉🏻 Well, in the very process of sex you try to stick to this bar.
But when you realize that you can't do it, (like having sex in the same position for 45 minutes), you start worrying and blaming yourself for it...
So, please, don't make the same mistake, don't look at others, don't overestimate your capabilities!
Random caresses
Care to play a game of passion?
I'm gonna disappoint you a little bit, the game won't be with me, but with your baby!
In a pleasant environment, relaxed and fully prepared you need to find all the "secret" places on the body of the other half...
The game is called "Casual caresses."
What to do?
👉🏻 Take 20 sheets of paper, on each we write the 20 most desirable and sensitive erogenous zones on your body, the girl does the same.
After we put the sheets in two hats (any container) and draw one by one and then caress that erogenous zone of the partner, which you fell out.
No rules in the stimulation of erogenous zones, you can leave this point to your imagination and act on the situation.
Only 40 pieces of paper... But the impressions you get for the rest of your life!
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Let's play, huh?
In my experience, that's a cool way for couples who've been together for a long time or recently.
The psychology of attraction is a complicated thing, and not everything is so unambiguous, but if no serious problems exist in the relationship and you just need to throw some "firewood on the fire" - it's fine to try it!
This is a matter of imagination...
Ranging from the banal cross-dressing in the maid, stewardess or nurse, to play the mini-story, where you accidentally cross paths in a cafe, hotel or theater, etc.
Oh, come on, have you tried playing with your beloved?
Failures in sex
The situation is common to many people!
- You feel like you want to have sex, you prepare for it, you think about it, everything seems fine, but at the right moment you can't do it.
The reasons for this can be many, but as a rule, only three are important.
One. A lot of excitement.
You can get excited just from the picture of sex, or just from the uncertainty of their strength.
Excitement breeds fear!
Two. You had too much alcohol before sex.
Alcohol destroys the body from the inside, dampening testosterone and sexual desire.
Three. Severe stress.
For example, stress over work, you may be going through a tough time right now because of the economic situation, and this, lovers, all very detrimental to sex.
Admire other girls
You think I'm kidding? Well, I'm not...
I'm serious, guys ;)
By the way, this is a cool way to get out of the friendzone👌
If you share company, talk to other girls more, compliment them, and show strong interest.
For example, "You sing cool! I've always admired talented people."
And your girl, to put it mildly, will be surprised, angry, and eager to prove that she's just as good, she has talent, too.
Make her fight for your attention!
How not to be a bad lover in a girl's eyes even before sex
The first thing girls definitely pay attention to: a guy doesn't flirt or touch.
The first thing that girls definitely notice is that a guy doesn't flirt or touch, and that immediately deprives you of any chances not only for sex, but even for any kind of subsequent communication...
Therefore, it is crucial to learn how to flirt, how to charm a girl.
Be sure to tell her compliments, use all your charisma, touch her.
All this gradually turns the girl on and brings you smoothly to bed.
What gives away bad lovers?
A poor lover is boring in communication and flirting: he doesn't hold hands, doesn't hug, doesn't walk on her back, doesn't try to "grope", grab her butt, as an example...
Such a guy in sex will be so-so, I will tell you: dull, monotonous and frankly weak, if to characterize in one word.
Think about it, are you doing the right thing?
Loud moans - violent orgasm
Guys don't be silent😉 Stop being shy, it's time to moan and scream with pleasure during sex.
It really turns us on!
Moans and screams are expressions of pleasure. They stimulate the sexual arousal of two partners. They raise your libido and ours.
Screaming in bed has been proven to increase orgasm!
Plus, when a girl hears your voice in bed, she knows for sure that you like sex.
Nope, I'm not urging you to scream at the top of your voice on purpose right now. Just asking, if you wanna moan with pleasure, please don't be shy!
Watch out for alcohol before sex
You know that alcohol is good for relaxing and relieving tension. But I still don't recommend drinking a lot of it before a date👆🏻
Not cause I'm such a prude, nope, it's just that alcohol can mess up your night pretty good.
There are plenty of studies on how bad alcohol affects your penis.
If you overdo it a little bit, it might not harden!
And if you do decide to have a drink on a date or before sex, my advice is this:
- Always drink in moderation. Two shots of hard liquor or two or three glasses of wine at most.
- If you feel too much, drink strong black tea and refuse to have sex until you feel better.
Wanna have hotter, richer sex
I know you do! 😉
So here are some simple ways to help you improve sex and make the experience brighter🔥
▫️Dedicate more attention to foreplay.
The longer the foreplay lasts, the more your girlfriend will get turned on and therefore it will be easier to give her pleasure
▫️Say dirty words.
Girls love dirty words before and during sex, the sound of a man's low voice arouses and excites
▫️Be unpredictable.
This doesn't mean attacking her from around the corner, just need to surprise her as often as possible
👉🏻If you are used to having sex in bed, surprise her and move to the kitchen or bathroom.
Keep a balance of talking in sex
Let me explain what I mean.
It's just that my fellow sexologists like to periodically give opposite advice😅
That you have to talk to each other all the time in sex, or a man has to be a "dominator" and do what he wants. And then my tigers don't know what to do at all...
And you have to look for the golden mean, as always.
Yeah, if every 5 minutes to ask "Well? Is it good? Am I doing it right? Are you sure?", then...
The girl will just run out of your apartment.
So learn to recognize when she likes it - the back archs, rapid breathing, dilated pupils, and she cried out louder than usual :))
That way you won't seem insecure, but on the contrary, you're very versed in sex😏
Only the most skillful lovers are capable of this.
Phone sex.
Yeah, yeah, take your time laughing😅
Be open to all new things ;)
After all, hot talk is a great way to start foreplay before you're even in bed.
Do you think it will be awkward, silly, and the conversation will be saturated with embarrassment?
If you just be yourself and just admit that you WANT her here and now, where is the room for embarrassment?
Believe me, when a man whispers into my phone about what he would do to me and how, I don't think "oh how embarrassing"😅
I think about WHEN we're going to meet.
How to make sure that a girl doesn't reject you when she meets you?
Tigers, all you have to do is to meet her properly!
Remember: never try to approach a girl from behind.
Please leave the technique with the "coming up behind" and sexy whispering to the soap operas.
This only scares or annoys the girl, and no more...
From the front only.
Open posture.
Confident look. Charming smile.
Try it and no thanks 🙌
Mistakes in sex
Today we're taking an in-depth look at traumatic positions.
Oh, sweeties, you have no idea how many strange positions I've encountered in my practice.
And okay, if clients would just try them, no, they also get injured.
Let's take and look at the pose - "tight pussy".
The name is fire🔥 and everyone is excited, but... even just looking at the picture makes me cringe.
I imagine the man's back arching and then his lower back hurting after the act, his arms getting stiff, and the girl's legs dangling in different directions looking for a cramp...
Unless you are acrobats and athletes, sweeties, forget about the "tight pussy"!
All-time lure technique
Tigers, yesterday I was on my way back from my friends and, while walking, I recalled a secret seduction technique that works 100% of the time.
I read about it in my youth and often shared it among my friends, as practice showed that it does work!
So if you are trying to seduce a beautiful woman for a night of hot sex, then present it as if it's all about her...
What I mean.
For example: "(Name), honestly I've hardly ever had thoughts of sex on the first date. But you're so amazing, it's like the desire is in the air. Have you always been such an uninhibited pussycat/tiger/tigress, etc.?"
Remember, tigers, ALL, well absolutely all members of the weaker sex love to be seen as uninhibited, fun and erratic personalities, as opposed to the boringness that everyone avoids.
So what I mean to tell you is that if you skillfully push this emotion, everything will play out just right👌
I guarantee it :)
Marital duty or the one who owes sex
Yesterday I met a client who still believes that the concept of marital duty plays an important role in sex.
That's why he has so many problems in bed...
When you don't want to have sex, you feel guilty, and if sex does happen, it's "automatic" with no change...
So there you go, sweeties, marital duty is like unicorns, just as mythical and fictional 😉
👉 Don't wanna have sex tonight?
Okay, so there's a reason, you'll do it tomorrow, for example.
👉 Is your girlfriend tired and can't pay proper attention to your penis?
No problem, she'll give you an awesome blowjob later.
Once you realize this fact, believe me, all questions will fall away and life will become much easier!
Choosing the right moves
No matter how many posts I write, it seems like there will always be not enough information and I always have something to tell you!
Today I'm going to give you one more buzzing and practical tip.
Use TWO kinds of tongue movements in cunny:
🍑 Soft.
Licking, circular movements, longitudinal and transverse, and a combination thereof
🍑 Firm.
Rubbing, tickling, pressing, slightly intensified movements on the clitoris, nibbling, assertive sucking.
Don't forget to watch the girl's reaction in the process.
Lack of sex
I see that many people care about this topic, as it is really always topical!
Oh, you have no idea how much info I have, believe me, I have piled up enough material over the course of my practice!
👉🏻 The most important reasons for lack of sex:
Stress, domesticity, attachment.
Those are the causes that my clients really often encounter.
Let's say you run into a similar problem:
Everything is fine in your marriage or relationship, but no sex for a long time...
What can you do?
- Give freedom to each other.
- Start taking care of your appearance.
- Do something new together.
And the main way out of this situation is to work on the relationship.
Wanna have a simultaneous orgasm?
Work together on... sex playlist 🎼
Oh, did you know that with a certain amount of rhythmic music and enough volume, even the heart starts to contract to that rhythm.
I immediately thought, what if even the heart, which by the way we don't control ourselves, the movements can certainly be tweaked?
There are even cycles of perfect friction, where the alternation of short and fast movements with slow and deep ones is calculated based on the average heart rate and muscle contraction. But that's the tricky part...
You can reach a primitive mutual rhythm simply by having sex to music.
Girls, let men look at you!
A man loves with his eyes, it's no secret.
In bed, it's a little more complicated. Agree that in life we try to hide all the flaws in our body with the help of clothes.
Of course, you should not undress at first request in front of a guy, if you suffer from complexes, but you have to gradually inflame his interest, giving him the chance to fully enjoy you!
So, the ability to undress beautifully in front of a man to show your body in the most favorable angle - a whole science...
Show your feelings in public
Says one of the important rules of seduction! It's all about emotions and our heads...
I have many female clients whose problems with the opposite sex began with this.
The guy doesn't want to pay attention to her in public, she freaks out, doesn't tell him anything, the clod of resentment grows...
And, if you think about it for a minute, it benefits you tigers in the first place.
You will seduce the girl first, show your attention to her, excite her desire and she will be insanely happy 😌
Where to start❓
Here's a tip:
Take her by the shoulders, hug her gently, kiss her neck, whisper a few dirty words in her ear, kiss the corner of her lips...
Great way to prolong sex
I know that many people can't have long-lasting sex. They have their own reasons for that, which we won't dig into today.
I'll just tell you a mega useful tip to help prolong sex and enjoy each other's bodies longer😈
Use slow penetration!
Don't start with a great pace and speed right away.
First, the girl needs time to get used to the size inside, and second, you'll make it worse for yourself. Better to start with reciprocating movements, lasting about 3 seconds.
Then gradually speed up, and if you feel orgasm approaching, stop inside the girl, take a couple of deep breaths and ... and then continue the friction.
Keep it in mind and use it!
Whether it's worth 'splurging'on a date?
Renting a car, leasing an apartment, borrowing clothes, that sort of thing... can work and can be used in seduction.
At the same time, I wish to warn you that trying to pretend that you are not you at all, but someone much richer, cooler, more influential and nobler is absolutely unacceptable if you are going to build a long-term relationship with a girl.
All secrets sooner or later come out.
But if we are talking about cynical seduction, then there are no limits to perfection!
A real seducer always tries to make a woman feel great!
Give her a fairy tale with a beautiful prince in the title role.
And she's at your feet...
But any fairy tale ever ends to give way to the next one.
Yeah, that's not good, yeah, a lot of people will judge me.
But I'm just showing you the options for seduction, and whether you use them or not is your own choice, tigers!
The key to quality sex - proper mindset
Identify the moment when you and your partner crave intimacy. Perhaps it's after a nap, watching a movie together, trusting conversation, or a couple of glasses of wine?
Be honest with your partner and speak directly about what you want. If you need a hot bath and a light foot massage in order to get in the right mood, say so.
Fitting sexy lingerie and shoes, your favorite perfume, reading erotic books, mutual caressing - all these things can send the desired signal to your brain.