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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
Without which sex toy you cannot have anal sex
Well, maybe you will, but not as successful...
I don't think my boys have any idea what I'm talking about, but the girls do😏
I'm all about the anal plug.
Yeah, it's not just a way to get pleasure like many people think.
📌An anal plug is a must in preparation for anal sex. It will gradually relax the sphincter muscles, so your dick won't "push out".
Masturbation is really harmful and it's time you...
Stop thinking like that😉
People used to masturbate, masturbate and will keep masturbating.
And if you have no permanent partner, it's even useful. After all, the production of male seminal fluid is a regular process and it needs to be emptied regularly.
Any norms about the frequency of masturbation do not exist, just don't set any records☝🏻
In general, the body cannot even notice the difference between masturbation and sex.
One BUT❗️
Masturbation shouldn't be dry - it can damage the mucosa and nerve endings.
And you shouldn't squeeze your dick too hard. You won't feel so tight inside the girl and it may affect your sensitivity.
When it falls at the most crucial moment...
Your penis, and your self-esteem along with it.
Let me reassure you right away: people come to me regularly for consultations with this problem. And often, it's solved in one session.
So, now I'll tell you what to do in this "horrible" situation👌🏻
First, reassure your partner.
Yeah, you're a little shocked yourself, but think of her. Just now she was the most desirable, and here's the precipitous drop👎🏻
Believe me, the cockroaches in our heads start saying bad things...
So, tell her something like, "You're so beautiful, it's not just my head that's turned off."
I mean, you've got ten fingers and a tongue. That's more than enough for a woman's orgasm.
Boys, are ya ready to experiment?
Then I'm sharing with you the best position😏
"Dolphin" - you kneel and the girl lies on her back with her hips raised, throwing her legs over you.
For more comfort, put a pillow under her thighs and rest your feet on something.
Why the pose is so hot❓
Thanks to the unusual angle of penetration, giving you a whole new sensation. And the same angle will provide the strongest stimulation of the G-spot.
So, both will be happy👌🏻
And the "dolphin" even looks nice.
BTW, I've always wondered how men feel about this hobby...
Communication in sex is more important than experience
And that's what my online counseling client from yesterday proved! Such a hot guy... I think I was drooling when I talked to him.
👉🏻 So, tigers, he has one rule: he always starts conversations with girls first and asks what they like in bed first.
That said, he doesn't know many techniques, he hasn't had many mistresses, and in general, he heard about many novelties from me for the first time. Which I was very surprised about, to tell you the truth...
Why is that? Coz he listens and hears girls!
And this once again proves my theory: the more you communicate with your beloved before and after sex, the less embarrassed you are, the better your chances of success you will get!
Frigid or frozen?
There are girls who feel nothing... No excitement, no pleasure from sex, no orgasms 😱
By the way, in the case of frigidity - most girls work on it on their own with sexologists.
In the case of "freezing," however, the phrase "I don't feel anything" usually means the following: "I haven't yet discovered the sensitive parts of my body and haven't learned how to interact with them in a way that makes them feel."
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Do petting, caresses, and note your beloved's reactions more often.
"Unfreeze" her, finally.
Observe, ask her where she likes and where she doesn't like it, what if I kiss/bite/lick her? And so on...
Let's talk about something naughty
Since the early hours of yesterday, I had a client who commits a huge mistake every time he has sex.
👉🏻 He tries too hard to hold back his orgasm.
Why the mistake?
Cuz he can't fully focus on his sensations, he's not controlling his movements, he's not watching the girl, and he's only thinking about his FAST orgasm...
When things take a turn like that, I think it's wrong! It's not fatal if you cum before the babe, a little embarrassing yes, but not fatal.
You can always continue the act with your finger or tongue, then cum, and start again...
If you feel an orgasm coming soon, try to do a breathing practice, just breathe, I've described dozens of techniques.
If it doesn't let go and you're about to cum, DO IT and stop blaming yourself for it!
What's the best pose to practice the first anal sex?
First, you have to choose not an interesting and unique position, but the safest and most comfy one. After all, the main interest for the first time is not in the pose - all the passion is in the "first time"😉
And I'll give you at once the THREE most fitting (that is, painless) poses👇🏻
Spooning.
That's when you're both lying on your side and my tiger enters her from behind. Spoons are great not only for controlling your movements, but also for the feeling of maximum intimacy with your partner.
Doggy style.
Familiar and handy, but here a huge responsibility lies on the man. Listen to the girl's requests and wishes!
Horsewoman.
The best pose for the first anal sex. A girl can fully control the depth and speed of the dives in it👌🏻
That's it, the question is answered, the knowledge is armed - now go to battle, my sexy fighter😈
If there is no lube, she is not horny.
Another popular idea favored by many people.
The topic of lube is extremely common and relevant at any time, because it determines how enjoyable sex and the sensation of intercourse in general will be!
Girls think that they get aroused slowly so that a man would think badly of them, or, on the contrary, they proceed faster to sex, expecting that a man's erection would drop 😱
The main thing is to take the initiative:
- Buy lube and explain that it's common practice, so the two of you will enjoy penetration
- Choose correctly and opt for the best and hypoallergenic lubricants to avoid irritation and negativity on the part of the girl
- If the babe is not moistened enough underneath, you need to use lubricant every penetration or masturbation.
It really makes sex more enjoyable for the two of you!
Case study
As an example, I had a consultation with a young couple on Friday, extremely polite people. They were really nice to talk to.
The problem was that they hadn't had sex for a year... A year without sex, constant problems, arguing and fighting over nothing, misunderstanding and resentment of each other.
We started to look into it, and the reason turned out to be absolutely trivial.
👉🏻 The girl has no orgasm at all, she hates some moments in bed, respectively, she does not understand why she should have sex if she has no pleasure from it.
The conclusion is absolutely trivial, as well as the situation itself: both take control of themselves and establish an emotional connection and physical intimacy.
Through erotic massages, sexy dates, simple conversations and role-playing.
Tigers, you keep repeating the same mistake
You try to force sex on a girl too early...
No need to hint at sex in any way at the very beginning of communication with a girl, veiled or directly in the forehead (it doesn't matter), just forget about it and that's it...
As silly as it may sound, but the way to sex with a girl is not through sex!
We, girls, find such a failing path too presumptuous, annoying, and rude...
Remember this, tigers!
Shower and masturbation
Yesterday I had a consultation with a girl who can only experience orgasm with the help of a shower.
And this is a real problem for her. She is obsessed with just that and thinks everything is lost....
You know you can almost always solve the problem!
👉🏻 Stimulating her pussy this way has no negative consequences, it's just another way to have a vivid orgasm.
That's what I'm trying to tell you all about... 👇
I suggest you and your girlfriend also try shower games for a change.
You can kiss each other's body under the water jets, caress the erogenous zones, and at one point lower the shower head to the girl's pussy and start slow stimulating movements, gradually intensifying them.
Just please watch the temperature of the water!
Anal sex can be enjoyable
I was recently organizing my notes and found some very practical steps toward pleasurable anal sex for the TWO of you:
▫️Forget sudden anal sex.
You can't wake up in the morning and offer your babe entry into her hole.
▫️Take a mini anal training session.
Introduce anal plugs into sex little by little and practice cunny at the same time to give the girl time to get used to them.
▫️Use your fingers.
I advise you to always start with them. Lubricate the back hole, insert a finger and stretch the entrance, so the girl can relax and not be frightened by the entrance of your penis.
▫️Use rimming.
Well this is a very hot activity in general. Licking the back hole will not only excite you, it will relax your baby, give her time to get used to it and bring hot sensations🔥
One of my recommended positions for anal sex
This is one of 15 popular positions in the world.
👉🏻 How to perform:
- After careful preparation, lay the babe on her back.
- Lubricate the back hole with lube and penetrate with your finger.
- Raise her legs as shown in the picture, so that they are almost near your face.
- Come into the girl very slowly and start gentle friction.
You will experience the most pleasant and deepest penetration for both anal (and vaginal) sex in this position.
The babe will be relaxed, control will be in your hands, both of you will only get high!
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Isn't it harmful to have sex every day?
I wish people would come to me for counseling with problems like that😅
Sure, you can.
Even two, three or four times a day. I don't know where you're gonna find that kind of time and partners🔥
You can, cause every person is different.
There's such a thing as sexual constitution - the body's need for sex. So, as much as your body wants and can, let it have it.
I'll tell you even more than that.
Daily sex exercises your cardiovascular system, improves your sleep, boosts your immune system, and even reduces the risk of prostate cancer in men👌🏻
How to give a girl a hint about a BJ?
That's a classic question😅
If a blowjob didn't happen in your first few times, there's a high risk that she's the "This? In the mouth? No way!"
The way to solve this problem is to give her a cunny or another way to make her want to please/thank you👌🏻
The way of demanding a blowjob, in advance, is a lose-lose. You need to hint and frankly talk to her and implant the idea of giving you a blowjob.
Also, try to relax her as much as possible before sex👇🏻
An erotic massage, a romantic setting, and be sure to turn off the lights.
Sometimes massage is just out of place.
Yeah, yeah, that's me talking about the most workable and famous foreplay.
Now I'll tell you a story from a former client of mine👇🏻
So he met a girl on Tinder. Conversation went rapidly and the same day he asked her to meet him at the skating rink.
She got cold at the rink and "I suggested to find a warmer place" - they went to his place🔥
He did everything nicely, and the girl initially showed a strong interest - mutual desire.
But when he came home he gave her a "session" of massage for some reason🤦🏼
As a result, the girl was so relaxed that she craved sleep😂
Sex was there, but on a downward spiral...
Asking the client why he was doing it - "just really wanted to make her feel good"...
So, my boys.
Massage is good, but in moderation and to the point.
What ANY girl wants
I mean, you do realize how carefully we prepare for sex, huh?
EVERY girl feels like to be desired and loved - she wanna see it in your eyes.
Do u know how to quench that desire?
Undress the girl SLOWLY.
Focus on every cell of her body as you undo the buttons of her shirt. And when you're done, go up to her neck and kiss her lips, take your bra off unhurriedly. Then go up to her thighs with slow, incremental movements of your fingers and take off her panties...
Believe me, as a woman and a sexologist, it WORKS🔥
Sometimes you can't even undress her all the way - I dunno why, but it gives a totally different feeling😏
Especially when I've made an effort with my choice of beautiful (and expensive, geez) lingerie.
So, take your time - appetite comes with the meal😈
For a good morning😉
Coffee in bed for your beloved girl is a win-win option to start a new day, and it will not only show love, but also care.
So, the recipe is simple: you choose the time when your tigress is still purring in bed, discreetly go to the kitchen, conjure up the preparation, and bring her a fragrant drink in bed.
BTW, your smile, tiger, even a little embarrassed, is a must ;)
A light breakfast accompanying the coffee - depending on the situation and your mutual desire.
Hugged you❤️
Orgasm without sex
👉🏻 In Estonia, a yoga instructor learned how to induce orgasm with her mind.
Without any additional stimulation of the clitoris or other erogenous zones...
Do you think it's just words? Well, not.
This was confirmed by scientists who conducted three experiments.
Here's what they found out:
- The first one was a five-minute orgasm.
- The second orgasm was 10 minutes.
- The third is not specified...
But what's interesting is that immediately after the orgasm her level of the hormone prolactin increased by 25% the first time, and by 48% the second time. Prolactin, by the way, is produced by the pituitary gland during orgasm.
I'll keep an eye on the news, but for now the fact remains... Thought-power orgasm is real 🔥
Even a simple blow job can be turned into a masterpiece.
Tigers, I know how many of you love oral sex...
And it's great, I'll tell you, cos it's variety and bliss all in one, don't you agree with me?
So, I advise you to use one rule...
👉🏻 Try rubbing your dick on your girlfriend's cheeks during a blow job.
This brings you an incredible high, not to mention it just brings variety to the usual up and down movements.
Plus the girl won't even notice it, as she's completely captivated by the process...
Well, if you add a tasty lubricant or something edible to this action, it will be pleasant not only for you, but believe me, your girlfriend will enjoy the process just as much...
Lubricants and their purpose
The theme of lubes is not fully disclosed and still leaves lots of questions...
Let me tell you, sweeties, what kinds of lubricants are divided into, what they are intended for and, of course, I'll voice a couple of my fave🔥
Oil-based.
Mostly grease-based, soft, gentle and well absorbed.
They are perfect for erotic massage but incompatible with condoms.
Water-based.
The most popular and versatile.
Suitable for oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Silicone.
Not always compatible with sex toys. But suitable for sex marathons, lovemaking and sex under the shower due to its durability on the body.
With anesthetic.
Recommended for anal sex. The best option!
They have pain-relieving and healing effect.
Meditative sex
A special kind of sex where you completely surrender to your sensations and belong in the moment of penetration only to the babe.
Anyone who thinks it's all bullshit, wait till you try it, you won't be able to keep your hands off!
Slow movements and breathing are essential in this kind of sex:
- During the slow movements, eliminate all extraneous thoughts from your head.
Take deep breaths and make an "a-ah" sound as you exhale. Keep this rhythm of breathing throughout sex.
Be sure not to rush anywhere, nor are you supposed to think about anything.
Try to focus on the babe, her scent, her energy, her movement and her naked body...
Meditative sex itself is not difficult, here, the main thing is to do everything right.
The sensations will be simply inexpressible 🔥
Body Care
Lately, I often encounter men who have literally neglected themselves. Unclear hairstyle, unpleasant scent, unironed and unkempt clothes...
How can you seduce a girl with such an outward appearance, and still think about having sex with her?
And it's only the outward signs available... What's underneath the clothes? Only a man knows 😄
Keep in mind, every detail about you is important to girls!
From your appearance, to your scent, to where you take her... Minimal self-care will transform you in her eyes, make you a passionate lover and a pleasant companion:
- Shower
- Washing
- Shaving
- Ironed and clean clothes
- Lightly scented shower gel or perfume
- Hairstyle
It's not hard, eh?
But the result is a joy for both of you.
The whispering of a loved one excites girls much more than porn movies
According to statistics: 85% of girls are turned on by sexual whispers in their ears...
Why? It's simple, tigers. The ears and the back of our heads are two of our body's most pronounced erogenous zones.
It has been scientifically proven that the more hissing and grunting sounds in a whisper, the more sexy it seems to a woman's ear.
Many girls call whispering a "cerebral orgasm", and for many, it is precisely whispering that is an erotic fetish.
Tigers, I advise you to try whisper therapy tonight🔥
Orgasm in a few seconds
Sweeties, I give you a proven and long-tried way to bring a babe to maximum pleasure in the minimum amount of time🔥
First, we excite the girl to the point of insanity:
- Fondle her ears, neck, breasts, stomach and thighs with your tongue.
- Then we go down to her clitoris and proceed to gently caress it.
Lightly wrap your lips around the head of the clitoris, creating a slight vacuum with your lips.
- Keep moving your tongue up and down on the head, gaining speed faster and faster.
- After a few seconds, set a fast tempo for yourself and move your lips until the girl explodes in a sweet orgasm.
"I have too much to do besides sex."
I had a client with this mindset the other day.
To be honest, I was surprised that he came at all with this mindset, but...
Okay, I'll elaborate👇🏻
He was a good-looking and extremely educated guy of 25. So, I was doubly surprised when he told me that he hadn't been in a relationship in five years. There hadn't even been SEX - not once, not ever👐🏻
Ultimately, you know what his problem was?
He said that career, money, education are primary - girls will come on their own.
But you can't fool me😏
In fact, the fear of interacting with girls mastered him so much that he just justified it by "prioritizing career and stuff."
He felt it on his own - he was just afraid to admit it to himself👐🏻
So, it was enough for me to work through that thought and stimulate him to do new things.
So, my tigers, REMEMBER.
It is OK to not be in a relationship and to prioritize other tasks.
Orgasm in... a few minutes
Sweeties, I give you a proven and long-tried way to bring a babe to maximum pleasure in the minimum amount of time🔥
First, we excite the girl to the point of insanity:
- Fondle her ears, neck, breasts, stomach and thighs with your tongue.
- Then we go down to her clitoris and proceed to gently caress it.
Lightly wrap your lips around the head of the clitoris, creating a slight vacuum with your lips.
- Keep moving your tongue up and down on the head, gaining speed faster and faster.
- After a few seconds, set a fast tempo for yourself and move your lips until the girl explodes in a sweet orgasm.
Orgasm in... a few minutes
Sweeties, I give you a proven and long-tried way to bring a babe to maximum pleasure in the minimum amount of time🔥
First, we excite the girl to the point of insanity:
- Fondle her ears, neck, breasts, stomach and thighs with your tongue.
- Then we go down to her clitoris and proceed to gently caress it.
Lightly wrap your lips around the head of the clitoris, creating a slight vacuum with your lips.
- Keep moving your tongue up and down on the head, gaining speed faster and faster.
- After a few seconds, set a fast tempo for yourself and move your lips until the girl explodes in a sweet orgasm.