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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
Buy your girlfriend some new erotic lingerie
And just leave it on the bed in a beautiful package without further ado.
She'll see what's going on😈
But don't go overboard with the "uniqueness" of the lingerie (especially if it's the first of its kind in her collection).
Thin threads between her legs, or no fabric at all, might just scare her off...
Although, you know, you can take your chances👌🏻
If it's too much for her, you'll just buy another one (just keep her calm and tell her it's no big deal).
And if she comes out to you wearing THIS...
Well, don't hold yourself back🔥
Ears are a key female erogenous zone
We love with our ears, literally and figuratively.
But I'm not gonna talk about compliments, I'm talkin' about what you need to DO with her ears.
Heavy breathing, lightly touching them with your lips, maybe even nibbling and licking her ears.
All of this is almost guaranteed to increase her desire. And during sex it will increase the degree of your bodies🔥
But also don't forget to whisper dirty and affectionate words to her, depending on the situation.
"I wanna feel every part of your body."
"You were too bad today, I can't just leave it at that."
And so on.
Everything you don't already know about squirt
First of all, squirt is the process of secreting urine.
Whoa, whoa, don't rush off in all directions😅
It's not "urine" in the usual sense, but a completely different fluid. But I'd rather let you know that than your partner in the process.
And secondly, even if you don't think your girlfriend is capable of it - don't jump to conclusions❗️
Squirt is not just the result of G-spot stimulation. Only completely inexperienced lovers think this way.
In order to bring a girl to fireworks you need:
Long and high quality foreplay (15 minutes) - she must be sufficiently aroused.
Sex "classic"😅, not shorter than 15 minutes - remember the tricks I told you about.
And only after that is G-spot stimulation. This can also take 15 minutes, so plug in the cunny😈
What should you know before having sex with a virgin?
First of all, be sure that she is of age😅 And only then act. And don't forget the condom.
Normally, a girl admits her peculiarity before she starts sex and you have only one right answer: "Okay, let's try it"✅
You don't need any extra emotions or questions - don't dig yourself a virgin's grave.
Also, don't turn on the "sex guru" by any means - it just looks ridiculous. Just be attentive, empathetic, and admire her beauty.
Ignore any of her failures. Remember your first time, my favorite "sex giant"😏
Try not to make the sex last two minutes. Otherwise, it won't leave the best imprint on her sex life.
Wanna know what the girls say about you to each other?
Almost everything😅
Sure, somewhere there is a perfect world where people listen to the advice of psychologists and tell no one and nothing about their relationships.
But we don't live in it👌🏻
And being afraid of what she says about you to someone is just silly. Don't you have confidence in yourself?
With that kind of doubt, that's what you're going to demonstrate.
So, if you want your partner to stop talking about "it" - talk to her yourself.
Find out what she lacks in sex and if you do not do what she does not like. Introduce variety in the "geolocation" of your sexual exploits and and suggest role-playing😈
Of course, the girl won't stop discussing your sex at all. But she will talk about it with admiration, causing the envy of her friends.
I often advise this technique during my consultations
And I regularly try it out in practice🌚
📌9 & 1
The idea behind the technique is special penetration.
The man first teases the girl by making 9 small "entrances" (staying inside) into her by 2-3 centimeters and...
And on 10 makes a deep and "sensual" entry.
And then 8/2, 7/3, 6/4...
And reaching 1/9, you can start again from the beginning.
The technique diversifies and even prolongs the male sexual clock😏
Try it, but don't forget to thank me later.
"Girl, I need your help: there's not enough brightness in my life"
Take a walk with me - you're glowing all over, you...
You're gonna get sick from that compliment. Ambulance, firemen, police, gas service - all here urgently😅
These are the kinds of compliments that still live on, along with their authors.
But then, how to do compliments right.
The technique of attract - repel (you can do it the other way around).
The point is that a compliment should have more than just the sweet "you can drown in your eyes" (attract) part. It's sugary sweet and trivial.
You need to add the opposite emotion to the compliment - "but I'm a great swimmer, I'm not in danger of that" (repulsed).
That is, you need something to soften that tension after the compliment - a joke is ideal.
What do you need to do to arouse her?
Tease, tease, and tease again.
The best time to do this is obviously foreplay.
How to tease her?
First with words - they'll heat her up🔥
For example, "You're cooler than any of my fantasies, I adore you and your soft/smooth," etc.
Then start teasing her with actions👇🏻
The slower you go to the epicenter (vagina), the more aroused she gets.
Isn't that what you're aiming for?
Then, your path looks something like this👇🏻
Ears, neck, shoulders, chest and shoulders again.
Shoulders, breasts, special attention to your nipples, hand reaching for your pubes and back to your breasts💦
See what I mean?
If you don't overdo this waiting (probably no more than 5 minutes), the girl will be ready to pounce on you.
Her legs will be shaking, her nipples will be hard and her pussy will be wet - everything is ready for your "coming"👌🏻
The chief assistant to successful sex
Your music playlist.
That's the key to loosen up a girl and relieve the tension in the air😉
As the saying goes, music binds us together.
The music will dictate the rhythm to both of you & you'll literally be an extension of each other.
So you realize how important music is - the rhythm will even make your hearts beat almost in sync.
How to choose the right music?
It's easy.
There are plenty of ready-made "music for sex" playlists on various platforms.
But I'm a terrible audiophile and I put them together for myself, so here's a tip👇🏻
Pick up a couple of appropriate songs in her audio and put them on that very playlist.
Believe me, your sexual attraction grows by times with your fave music🔥
Girl wanna see you on fire.
Not literally, for sure.
Burning with passion during sex🔥
Believe me, more than once I've met men who are complete logs in sex. Yeah boys, that word is unfairly assigned only to girls😤
They literally didn't make a single sound and just followed the "back and forth" technique the entire sex.
And I'm screaming, wriggling, giving off the whole spectrum of moans and trying to talk to him...
📌 A girl needs to hear and see reciprocity during sex.
So, my sexy interns👇🏻
Before sex, say what you're expecting. And during sex, say what you like.
That's the science.
One technique to boost your partner's confidence
Girls have this problem of insecurity during sex.
"Is he enjoying himself?"
"Am I doing everything right?"
"Shit, I must be like a log..."
I think you get the motive.
Naturally, the main weapon to boost our confidence is your words, moans, and on and on down the list.
But I promised you a technique, so here you go👇🏻
Hold your breath for 10-15 seconds and then press your body against your partner. The moment she hears your heart beat fast, her heart will melt.
It's not the only one💦
Be sure to keep the technique in mind, then I'm waiting for sex reports from the battlefield😉
Sex doesn't end at the point where you cum
Fortunately, most men are aware of this "amazing" fact.
But not everyone...
Seems to me that in my second year of university I was in a relationship with a guy (wow, what an extraordinary story).
I was inexperienced and shy about all my desires.
And as you've probably already realized, this guy totally ignored them - shot back and that's it.
And I thought, "that's the way it's supposed to be."
Fortunately, I wasn't with him for long.
And then I found myself in the hands of someone who really knew what a woman wants😈
What I'm getting at here...
If all of a sudden, you're a "shot and done" kind of fuck, then change immediately. Otherwise no one will want a second sex with you❗️
Isn't it harmful to have sex every day?
I wish people would come to me for counseling with problems like that😅
Sure, you can.
Even two, three or four times a day. I don't know where you're gonna find that kind of time and partners🔥
You can, cause every person is different.
There's such a thing as sexual constitution - the body's need for sex. So, as much as your body wants and can, let it have it.
I'll tell you even more than that.
Daily sex exercises your cardiovascular system, improves your sleep, boosts your immune system, and even reduces the risk of prostate cancer in men👌🏻
How to give a girl a hint about a BJ?
That's a classic question😅
If a blowjob didn't happen in your first few times, there's a high risk that she's the "This? In the mouth? No way!"
The way to solve this problem is to give her a cunny or another way to make her want to please/thank you👌🏻
The way of demanding a blowjob, in advance, is a lose-lose. You need to hint and frankly talk to her and implant the idea of giving you a blowjob.
Also, try to relax her as much as possible before sex👇🏻
An erotic massage, a romantic setting, and be sure to turn off the lights.
Sometimes massage is just out of place.
Yeah, yeah, that's me talking about the most workable and famous foreplay.
Now I'll tell you a story from a former client of mine👇🏻
So he met a girl on Tinder. Conversation went rapidly and the same day he asked her to meet him at the skating rink.
She got cold at the rink and "I suggested to find a warmer place" - they went to his place🔥
He did everything nicely, and the girl initially showed a strong interest - mutual desire.
But when he came home he gave her a "session" of massage for some reason🤦🏼
As a result, the girl was so relaxed that she craved sleep😂
Sex was there, but on a downward spiral...
Asking the client why he was doing it - "just really wanted to make her feel good"...
So, my boys.
Massage is good, but in moderation and to the point.
Is a woman's "no" a "yes"?
Oh, that's my fav question in one-on-one men's counseling sessions. After all, no correct answer to this question is🤷🏻♀️
Yep, a woman's "no" is just as much a "no" as a man's, and a child's, and a Martian's. You don't have to try to bang your head against such a wall.
But there are situations where "no" implies quite the opposite.
When we say it in such a voice, with such intonation and with such fire in our eyes that it sounds like a yes. In these moments it's just a game👐🏻
But many men stubbornly see ANY "no" as a hint. Especially those who, after a "no" in private, start all over again with even more zeal😅
And what do YOU usually do - try to dig up the "yes" in a woman's "no"?
Feel a special passion for women's feet?
Believe me, you are not alone👌🏻
Foot fetish is the most common sex fetish among men. And I totally get why, I look at mine sometimes myself...
But you won't believe it, foot massage brings pleasure not only to you😅
After all, there are incredibly many highly sensitive nerve endings in the feet. Therefore, the movements should be light and gentle, but not ticklish.
And no need to be ashamed of your predilections, what nonsense.
Foot massage is not just pleasant, but also incredibly intimate. When a man loves you all over and even your feet...
It's incredibly arousing💦
So, boys, don't be shy.
Right now, admit it - have a special love for women's feet?
What do you need to know about successful sex in the shower?
I'm gonna "surprise" you right now, but the main problem with showers is water.
It washes away all the natural lubricant, saying "hello" to painful friction and microcracks.
That's why, our main hero is lubricant.
Lubricant is silicone if you're planning to do it without a condom, and non-silicone if you're planning to do it with one.
BTW, open the condom beforehand - it's hard to do with wet and trembling hands.
One of my fave sex positions
In this pose, I'm in complete control of the process - I set the rhythm myself, I decide how deep the cock will enter, and yet my partner has access to every millimeter of my body.
So, my sexual geniuses, guess what I'm talking about?
Yeah, my favorite pose is the horsewoman. Classic, sitting, reverse, Asian...
I could go on and on until you stop.
Maybe this loyalty to the horsewoman has to do with my addiction to equestrianism.
You can also use the whip in both situations😈
What I'm getting at, I have a favor to ask of you.
Please do not stretch the girl's buttocks sideways in the horsewoman's pose. Otherwise, you will reduce the tightness of the contact between the penis and the vagina, and this will only make the girl's orgasm more distant.
How to diversify sex?
That's one of the most common problems in couples counseling.
In fact, there are a lot of options. But today I'm going to tell you just a couple, there must be a little bit of a good thing😈
Check out a sex shop with her.
The first and most workable way. There is a whole store of options for variety there. And you don't have to be ashamed of your desires and follow stereotypes.
Just try it🔥
Sex in front of the mirror.
This kind of uncomplicated technique gives you a completely different perspective on sex, literally and figuratively. You'll see her all over - her breasts, her legs, her back, her eyes...
And the best option for sex in front of the mirror is doggie👌🏻
The basic rule of BDSM is don't miss out if you want to try it
📌 One of the partners dominates and the other one submits.
That is, no balance is possible in BDSM. So choose the roles in advance.
And how do you even bend your partner to those four scary letters?
Well, for starters, remember my words - almost every woman wants you to be dominant. 👇🏻
Spanking her gorgeous ass, playing with an ice cube, blindfolding her, and so on.
If she was okay with all of this mentally and bodily - offer to try "tying"👐🏻
The most fundamental and safe technique, you can start with handcuffs for simplicity. And then tape and knots.
Once you've heard the theory, go to practice😉
I'll give you time to do that for now, and then we'll move on to the next stages of BDSM a little later.
How to stimulate the clitoris properly?
I thought there was nothing to discuss, but...
Circular motion is everything.
You've seen the way a girl does it during sex, right?
That's exactly how you should do it - you can't do it better than a clitoris owner😅
Also, change the speed and strength of the pressure of these circular movements.
Continuing these movements, enter your vagina with your free hand (not all of course, but one or two fingers). Here also change the speed and strength, but it is desirable to play with the depth💦.
With such simple manipulations you will warm up your partner before your main "dish".
That's all the science for you.
Now try it on your partner and then tell me everything😈
You won't have sex with her without it
Well, lots of options here 😅
But today I was going to mention the tactile contact. That moment that brings you closer than anything else.
So, what is the right way to touch a girl so that it doesn't seem too intrusive?
Telling you the most effective options👇🏻
Arguably, the most well-known "technique" is to read her hand.
Naturally, you don't know anything about it, just try to be funny at that moment😅
A more "down-to-earth" option is to praise her manicure. It will be an excuse to take her hand and touch her fingers in a special way😏
Yes, and we are always pleased when a man pays attention to details.
And to make your bodies touch each other, show her something on your phone - it will be an excuse to sit closer to her. Just do it not too briskly, but as if casually sitting a little closer💦
Boys, wanna get unusual emotions?
Then offer your partner a Scottish blowjob.
I have no idea what's Scottish about it, but the point is this👇🏻
The girl drinks something hot (tea, coffee, hot chocolate) and proceeds to oral caressing.
But the main thing here is not to overdo the temperature😅
And here is another cold option with ice cubes or ice cream.
From a girl's point of view, awkward, but interesting.
But the men we experimented with reported a storm of new sensations🔥
It all depends on the first move
That's what the first rule for anal sex sounds like 🍏
And these are not just loud words, the more proper you enter the anal hole of the babe, the more enjoyable the whole sex will be later on.
Start too abruptly, the girl might stop you and won't want to continue...
Start too slow, she might not like it...
The best option is to start with smooth movements and the right position:
- The entrance should be smooth without too much pressure, without any sudden movements.
- The rhythm is such that the girl moves her hips to your beat. This work should be synchronized.
- The pose is on your side, spooning or standing.
BTW, this rule has long been tried out by my clients and has proven itself well!
So, keep it for yourself and use it, sweethearts!
Porn - right or wrong, harmful or normal?
The first thing you need to realize is that porn is a business. It's just a pretty picture that has almost nothing to do with reality.
And a pretty pic has nothing to do with the ease, comfort and pleasure of porn actors📌
So trying to achieve it is unwarranted and just plain stupid.
Is it okay to watch porn?
Absolutely, but with one important point. Porn shouldn't be a substitute for sex.
Without which sex toy you cannot have anal sex
Well, maybe you will, but not as successful...
I don't think my boys have any idea what I'm talking about, but the girls do😏
I'm all about the anal plug.
Yeah, it's not just a way to get pleasure like many people think.
📌An anal plug is a must in preparation for anal sex. It will gradually relax the sphincter muscles, so your dick won't "push out".
Masturbation is really harmful and it's time you...
Stop thinking like that😉
People used to masturbate, masturbate and will keep masturbating.
And if you have no permanent partner, it's even useful. After all, the production of male seminal fluid is a regular process and it needs to be emptied regularly.
Any norms about the frequency of masturbation do not exist, just don't set any records☝🏻
In general, the body cannot even notice the difference between masturbation and sex.
One BUT❗️
Masturbation shouldn't be dry - it can damage the mucosa and nerve endings.
And you shouldn't squeeze your dick too hard. You won't feel so tight inside the girl and it may affect your sensitivity.
When it falls at the most crucial moment...
Your penis, and your self-esteem along with it.
Let me reassure you right away: people come to me regularly for consultations with this problem. And often, it's solved in one session.
So, now I'll tell you what to do in this "horrible" situation👌🏻
First, reassure your partner.
Yeah, you're a little shocked yourself, but think of her. Just now she was the most desirable, and here's the precipitous drop👎🏻
Believe me, the cockroaches in our heads start saying bad things...
So, tell her something like, "You're so beautiful, it's not just my head that's turned off."
I mean, you've got ten fingers and a tongue. That's more than enough for a woman's orgasm.
Boys, are ya ready to experiment?
Then I'm sharing with you the best position😏
"Dolphin" - you kneel and the girl lies on her back with her hips raised, throwing her legs over you.
For more comfort, put a pillow under her thighs and rest your feet on something.
Why the pose is so hot❓
Thanks to the unusual angle of penetration, giving you a whole new sensation. And the same angle will provide the strongest stimulation of the G-spot.
So, both will be happy👌🏻
And the "dolphin" even looks nice.
BTW, I've always wondered how men feel about this hobby...