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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
What Kills a Woman's Desire
This question and learning the answers to it prevents many problems and misunderstandings in bed.
I'll tell you a couple of things I've noticed in my clients. Remember 🙌
- Refusing to shower before sex.
And this is necessary at all times. First, hygiene standards should be followed, and second, you'll both just feel good.
- Bright light.
When the light is too bright, girls feel uncomfortable, they feel self-conscious and other discomfort, so always use a dimmed light.
- Rapid change of techniques and tricks.
Remember that you can not quickly switch from one technique to another, the girl may not have time to understand you.
- Nipple biting and pinching.
Women's breasts are very sensitive, pulling, biting and pinching nipples is not recommended.
Saved for yourself? Bear this in mind!
Morning Yoga.
Sweeties, remember my post about how guys are always on the lookout for the G-spot?
Well, I decided to offer you a sex pose in which stimulation of this cherished zone will be the most effective!
This pose is called Morning Yoga.
The girl raises her legs to her face as much as she can. You settle in front, rest your hands on her legs, and penetrate her.
It's just like the picture above.
In this pose you'll find the perfect angle of penetration, deep and very effective for G-spot stimulation.
Plus, you can add one tip to this position 👇
Let the girl additionally stimulate the clitoris with her hand during penetration.
SEX only
So!
You have decided to date a girl exclusively for sex.
In this case, it is important for you to build the right boundaries: between you there should be no love, no affection and, by the way, friendship too.
You spell out for each other what you expect from this interaction. Even the number of times a week you will meet, and whether it is acceptable to come to your partner spontaneously for hot sex.
This includes determining what is acceptable to you in sex, what is not, and what you have no experience in, but are curious to try.
You both decide if you will use protection. If not, you exchange recent certificates and discuss in advance what you will do in case of an unplanned pregnancy.
You discuss the consequences of breaking the agreement!
Including what happens if one or both of you feel ready for another stage of the relationship... It's clear, sweeties!
If it's only sex, it's only SEX...
The safest protection against pregnancy
I need to warn you right away, I'm not a gynecologist to give accurate predictions, but I did make a short review for you.
We are talking about intrauterine contraception.
According to experts - this is one of the most reliable ways to protect against pregnancy.
- Intrauterine device.
It prevents the introduction of an ovum into the endometrium for further development.
- Intrauterine hormonal system.
It releases a hormone that prevents the development of the egg and pregnancy.
- Hormone ring.
A silicone device that releases hormones that have contraceptive effects. It works for 21 days and requires regular changes.
Honestly, a condom is the most ideal option. But it's up to the two of you to decide either way. Now you know what protection is available and how you can use it🙌
I encourage EVERY one of you to try it
Petting, you've heard of it, right? It's when you fondle each other, but without penetration👌🏻
BTW, I often recommend my clients to try out petting in their counseling sessions.
Of course, not during the consultation itself😏
Passionate hugging, kissing, erotic massage, light playful touching and even mutual masturbation - all this refers to petting.
It helps to diversify your personal life and find sudden erogenous zones in your partner😈
Standing sex - deep penetration guaranteed
More often than not, I advise my clients to practice it in the shower.
Wet and smooth bodies, your hands sliding and kissing under the water jets...
All this is incredibly exciting (just don't forget the lube) 💦
And the most comfy, safe and effective 😈 pose is when you stand behind her.
There's also the popular option of facing her with your leg up when leaning against the wall, but...
I had a client break her arm like that☝🏻
So, enjoy it, and be safe✅
How to excite a girl with a fragrance...
Your perfume? 🤔
Oh, easy, you just gotta know what to choose.
And you have to choose a perfume that contains male essential oils:
📌 Cedar, basil, anise, patchouli and thyme.
Personally, I like the smell of thyme aroma oil best☝🏻
But they all with their fragrance will awaken not only a woman's desire, but yours too😏
They'll tone you up, mobilize your manhood and boost your self-confidence.
So, when choosing your next perfume, remember this advice of mine.
What could be more important in sex than a penis?
The penis is not the key thing in sex. The most crucial thing is the brain✅
It is the brain to help you and your partner get the most pleasure.
"Sex is too rushed, too mechanical, and all men's attention is focused on breasts and genitals."
That's what the girls most often complain about in my counseling sessions☝🏻
Not about the size of their boyfriends' dicks.
Gentle, warming and sensual caressing of her body is what every girl wants from sex. Put your hands, lips, and tongue to work for that.
Also, to make sure their boys know how to handle their dick properly and not follow the ancient "back and forth" technique 🤷🏻♀️
That's why you've heard the phrase "size doesn't matter." It only matters from an aesthetic point of view.
How to give her an unforgettable erotic massage
In fact, everything is quite simple, and you don’t need to have any special skills.
That’s an erotic massage - the main thing here is your feelings and desires. But I’ll remind you about the basic techniques all the same😉
Stroking.
Gentle and pleasant - stroking is the best way to start a massage.
Squeezing.
Performed with both hands, and great for the back and buttocks.
Stretching or "kneading."
Well, here it's just like with the dough, only using your partner's body. Only, please, knead with LOVE.
These three techniques will be more than enough to simultaneously relax and excite your partner🔥
Most importantly, don't forget the massage oil.
Love this part of a girl's body better
That's me talking so loftily about the cleavage - the hollow between a woman's beautiful breasts☝🏻
The perfect place to start their caresses.
After all, when a man slowly dips his hand or several fingers into your cleavage...
It's some special feeling that instantly makes something inside me light up🔥
After gently caressing and kissing the cleavage from top to bottom - you can move on to the breasts themselves.
Take your time to take off the girl's clothes and caress her breasts from her back. At the same time, kissing the back of her head and the area just above her shoulder blades.
And now, you can tear off her clothes😈
Be careful - she's gonna have to go back home😅
Or she stays at your place...
The tightest body contact of your life
You're guaranteed if you wanna try what I'm about to tell you😏
The body-body massage technique is about sliding your bodies over each other. You will literally and figuratively soak each other with every millimeter.
The main condition for such massage is enough space and oil. Well, and the appropriate atmosphere with dim lights, aroma candles and music.
All these conditions you can lay on yourself, but give her the dominant position in the process. A woman's body in oil must lead the process🔥
How to get out of the Friendzone and no longer be the nice guy?
And I'll tell you right away - there's only one way out of this trap.
Let her know clearly and confidently your intentions, that you are not a friend. You like her as a girl and you're going on a date tomorrow.
Yeah, that's right, no snot❗️
Answer "no" - don't ever talk to her again. From now on, start working on yourself and finally open your eyes to the dozens of girls around you👌🏻
At some point, you're bound to realize that she's "average" and unique just doesn't exist.
And once you get past that point you'll never find yourself in the friendzone again. Just be careful, that same "regular" will probably want to be with you now.
Now play with her on your own rules😉
Role-playing should be prepared for.
Not "I'm the boss, you're the secretary".
Of course, we're not talking about incredible acting skills. But the atmosphere should be favorable to play games :)
In this case, be sure to dress up in costumes and run to a sex shop for a whip. The main objective of the role-playing games - appear in front of each other in unusual ways, and know how to bring this partner.
Especially important is that this desire to experiment was mutual, otherwise no one will get pleasure.
So there is no need to make a sudden masquerade - the person may simply not be ready for this.
Go ahead, ask your partner about sexual fantasies😈
Interesting technique I often suggest to my clients
It's especially good if the fire of your passion has died down a bit...
All right, here we go.
It's called a sex timer. The idea is that you set a time limit on penetration😈
You fondle each other as much as you want - kissing, stroking, massaging, petting, and on and on down the list.
And when the timer runs out (generally start with 5 minutes) you can let your hands and not only them🔥
Why would that work, you ask me?
Oh, simply because our brain wants everything that is forbidden and unavailable. Even if it's forbidden for 5 minutes ;)
Oh, did I mention that women are full of erogenous zones?
You just need to know how to find them and treat them right😉
And the quest should start with the face.
Yeah, yeah, you're not a ravenous barbarian in search of a woman's clitoris, are you? 😅
Women have tiny, indistinguishable hairs on their face - they are extremely sensitive. When a man properly touches my face, I get goosebumps all over my body and lose control over him.
How to touch properly, then?
Telling. The touch should be as light as possible - you need to feel those hairs. Stroke your cheeks and temples with your fingertips, moving from the bottom up and from the center to the edge of your face.
Certainly, your hands have the greatest effect during kissing😏
Headache & sex
👉🏻 Let's look at the reasons why your girlfriend may refuse to have sex with you:
She's self-conscious about her body.
Many studies show that the more self-conscious a girl is about her appearance, the less she wants to have sex
She's not satisfied with sex.
A headache is like a reason to say no to intimacy, but the problem is much more serious and complicated
She has a real headache.
Yes, a lot of people can just say no due to feeling sick and malaise. And that's okay!
Here lies the main question: how do YOU properly react to such statements?
- If it happens infrequently, you can not react, and just postpone the caresses to another day, because the problem is probably not.
- If refusals and excuses happen systematically, you need to work out and find the problem.
Men get too excited while searching for their girlfriend's G-spot!
You, literally, set yourself the goal to find this point, by all means, so all sex comes down to the search...
And, of course, all attention is paid only to this point and nothing else 😱
That's kind of normal, isn't it? You want to please your baby more 🙌
But answer me please, will you enjoy this kind of sex when all the action, starting with foreplay, is only tied to constantly feeling for the G-spot...
I think not!
In cases like this, honestly, a girl is waiting for her pussy to be left alone and not tormented anymore...
So, lovers, don't focus all your attention only on this detail!
If you once failed to find the desired area, well, don't worry, because you'll come back to your goal after a while.
Top 5 places to have summer sex
While it's summer and hot, sweeties, I suggest you take advantage of the moment and have sex wherever you feel like it 🥰
Combine business with pleasure 😉
At the beach. Grab a blanket or towel, lay your babe on her back, love her gently on the beach under the moonlight & the sound of the surf
In a tent. Vacationing in a tent is the perfect opportunity for a change of scenery and to have sex WITHOUT the home atmosphere
In the hayloft. Personally, this is very exciting to me, if you have the opportunity, take it, but do not forget to put a blanket under your back.
Near a tree. In the woods, lean the girl against a tree, caress her body with a twig or a blade of grass and then enter gently into her pussy and have passionate sex.
Seize the Wave
If you have no idea how to tune your beloved on an erotic wave - give her a foot massage. You don't have to exert yourself, panting, wiping sweat from your forehead...
▫️ Warm her feet in your palms
▫️ Slowly stroke them, but don't tickle them
Massage each little toe, rub your fingers on the bones and knead your heels.
By the way, you can add massage oil for better sliding and extra moisturizing of the skin.
You'll see, the girl is so much relaxed from your massage that she wants you to reciprocate...
As practice shows, in 80% of cases far from massage 😉
So, I suggest including foot massage in foreplay as a bonding ritual 🙌
Instructions for making love in the car
Sex in the car is a great way to diversify your love life and bring a dose of adrenaline into it.
So, I decided to share with you my fave poses😏
🔻The horsewoman is my all-time favorite. Of course, it's most easily "performed" in the back seat in the car.
🔻Doggy style - conquers in both the reclined front seat and the back seat.
🔻Sitting, face-to-face is the most arousing option. The chance to look into each other's eyes solves a lot.
BJ: The driver's blow job is an enduring classic. There's not even much to tell, just remember to look at the road😅
How to know if a girl is thirsty for sex?
Watch out for these things👇🏻
The primary point to give away our wish for sex - the body.
Compulsive movements, like stroking the edge of the glass, will appear. The girl will feel like touching your body more often. She will provoke "accidental" contacts at every appropriate opportunity.
And if the girl began to flirtatiously fix her hair and bare her neck - you should be on the low start a long time ago🔥
After all, it's a sign that in her head you're already doing it.
Personally, I've also noticed for myself how my heartbeat quickens and my breathing becomes deeper.
But it takes an experienced male eye to notice that😏
And my goal is to make your eyes experienced!
Sounds kind of silly, but you get my point😅
I hope you don't miss those "feminine signs" now.
4 magical buttons to trigger a woman's squirt
Or rather "spots."
Let's start with the most famous one for all:
The G-spot is 4-5 cm away from the entrance (along the front wall) to a woman's pussy.
You enter her along the front wall and with 2 fingers, as if calling her orgasm out🤌🏻
A-spot is also on the front wall of her pussy, but a little deeper. To reach it, you have to enter as deep as possible while making side-to-side movements with your hips.
K-spot - it is found on the back wall of the vagina. You can stimulate it ONLY during anal sex, but it is worth it😏
U-spot - is located near the urethra. You need to stimulate it with circular movements of your thumb and G-spot stimulation.
That's it, boys, flooding is guaranteed💦
Anxiety is one of the main enemies of quality sex
It arises due to its deficiency.
And many guys try to "relieve" the excitement by all kinds of methods.
📌 The main way to overcome anxiety is to get as much practice as possible.
But I'm sure you've heard this advice a thousand times before. So, especially for you, I'll give you another one😉
Admit to yourself that there is a problem.
Yay, you haven't had sex in a long time and are somewhat insecure.
Is it horrible, and high time to send ya to universal judgment?
Nah, of course, this situation is totally normal.
What to tell a girl if she asks you when you had sex❓
The truth, but in a beautiful sauce.
You really did have a "break" for a while - you were too busy with work/study/self-development and other very important things.
After that answer, her opinion of you will only improve.
And she will want to distract you more often from self-development😈
There's something extra exciting about sleep sex
Yeah, yeah, I know a lot of guys experience special emotions next to a sleeping woman😈
The incredibly alluring feeling of having her completely at your mercy. She's also wearing such a thin tank top and short shorts...
The desire to take them off is stronger than ever.
So, at such a moment you don't have to wake up the girl to have sex at all - try to start acting while she's sleeping💦
Dip your hand into her shorts and very affectionately play with her pussy.
If you hear your partner's quiet satisfied sighs, it's time to get rid of her extra clothes🤌🏻
Lazy sex also brings pleasure.
Personally, I sometimes move my hips on purpose "in my sleep" or lean too close.
I'm sure your girlfriend does the same and wants the same thing...
So, do ya know the 3 most sensitive parts of a girl's body?
I'm sure you've already named the clitoris and the nipples😏
But about the third one guys sometimes, without realizing it, for some reason forget...
I'm going to add a little intrigue and tell you a story.
Last week a beautiful young couple came to me for a consultation. The problem was as follows:
"The girl was "screaming" about the lack of sensuality in their sex, but the guy didn't understand the problem - he was more than happy with everything."
And what do you think?
It took me 20 minutes to find the source of the problem👇🏻
They weren't kissing at all❗️
Yeah, as you correctly realized, a girl's third hypersensitive zone is her lips.
After all, it's very important for a girl to know that a guy wants her, not just her body. Just kissing is the best way to prove it.
And if everything goes "sensually" sex becomes much hotter🔥
You can have sex during your period
Sometimes making love even reduces a girl's pain. Personally, I was lucky enough to do it😏
So, do not be afraid, there is definitely no harm to health from it.
But here with getting pleasure everything is individual.
So, you need to talk to your partner. If she and you are fine with it, then why aren't you still getting pleasure in "those days"?
The only condition is that you use condoms.
I don't need to tell you why, right?
Oh, God, how I love a man's beautiful hands.
And believe me, I'm not alone in this love😏
It's not just about aesthetics - this is more for fitness trainers, not for me. The important point is what and how you do with your hands during sex.
Of course, you can just grab onto her breasts or thighs and do nothing else. But that, to put it mildly, is not enough.
So, remember.
📌Your hands should actively want and take all of a woman's body, without exception. And only in rare moments, "claw" at her.
I'll give you as many as three pros of this approach👇🏻
- Girls trivially like to be uncontrollably wanted and such caresses are the best way to prove it.
- There's a good chance you'll bring her orgasm closer thanks to them.
- And you'll definitely fine-tune yours while you're distracted by the work of your hands😉
Intramammary sex
There's nothing to be afraid of, you have to get ready for heavenly pleasure😈
Intramammary sex is when a girl makes your dick a "hot dog" between her breasts (sorry, funny to me for some reason😅).
At your discretion, this option can be both part of foreplay and a full-fledged substitute for regular sex (for once).
And if your partner also works her hands and mouth while doing it...
It'll be your free flight into space.
But there is one very important point.
📌Don't even think about driving your dick inside her beautiful bust without lube.
Otherwise, it will go completely "rough"...
From experience, silicone lube glides the best.
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Good sex is long sex
Rule that doesn't work
And sadly, lots of people keep believing it. But long sex can get trivial as boring💤
Remember, the only thing that matters in sex is its quality.
And if you don't believe it, then imagine the situation.
You, in a fit of wild passion, start undressing her right up against the wall (maybe even tearing something). You turn her around, grab her by the hair and start actively violating her "personal boundaries"😈
This shouldn't last more than five minutes.
Otherwise, all the passion just dissolves.👐🏻
So, you don't need to plug in the prolongation techniques I talk about here every time.
Act on the situation😉