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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
Choosing a partner is a matter of seconds.
Tigers, I bet I can prove to you that our brain is, after all, faster than you and I think. And when it comes to choosing a mate, even more so...
When you like her, you know it in a split second... Yes, yes!
Pay attention to the fact that when you flip through a huge number of photos, for example, in Tinder, suddenly you stop and go back only to some photos with her, which "hooked" it is unclear. But very quickly... hooked.
When you browse the website of some portrait photographer with a bunch of his work with beautiful girls.
You can scroll through very quickly and soon come back to one of the pictures you liked the girl in that split second.
Cool?!!!
Tiger, you can like some girl lightning fast like that, too.
Sexual Inferiority Complex
My husband no longer wants me, what is wrong with me? I guess I'm not sexy for him anymore...
How to regain my former sexuality?
Lately more and more women clients have been coming to me with similar problems...
When a woman defines how sexy she is by the behavior of her man - this, my sweets, sexual inferiority complex.
If he wants you at any time of the day or night, then you are okay.
If he doesn't, there's something wrong with you.
Except it works the other way around...
When you feel desirable, it's the energy that comes from you that gets the man.
It's comparable to the energy of a fire to which moths flock... Remember, sweethearts!
The most desirable woman is the one who desires herself!
Sexual problems derive from psychological causes
Due to the lack of education and open discussion, each person forms his sexual behavior based on his childhood experiences, his own first sexual experience and stereotypes absorbed from his environment, from various books, magazines, movies...
Often, the sexual inferiority complex is the root of sexual deviations:
▫️ decreased sexual desire
▫️ decreased sexual feelings
▫️ lack of desire and dissatisfaction with sexual intimacy
▫️ Fear of the opposite sex and sexual intimacy
▫️ fears of sexual intimacy
▫️ low self-esteem.
These are those deviations, sweet ones, that almost every person encounters.
Psychological peace of mind, a state of inner confidence and security are directly related to the quality of your sex life!
If not dealt with in time, sexuality becomes frustrated and depression can develop, which will only worsen the reluctance of intimacy, closing the circle...
The best words for a stranger
Before you start a talk with a girl you don't know, don't make the most trivial and stupid mistake that many guys make...
Don't jump out from behind her back with a ready-made "Hi, how are ya?!" phrase...
On the contrary, try to catch the girl's gaze and count the feedback, come to the front and give her a chance to consider you first.
"Hi, your face looks pretty familiar. Uh, have we met before?"
Here's an example of how to say hi and initiate a conversation with a stranger.
The girl, of course, will frantically try to remember where you've seen each other...
So, seize on her confused look: tell a couple of jokes or interesting facts, and then confess that you do not actually know her, but you really liked her...
If you gotta go deep
In the world of poses, we have a particular passionate and divine one that combines everything: deep penetration, passion and playfulness 🤤
The pose with raised legs belongs to this category.
The most important advantage of this pose is the deep penetration of the penis.
During intercourse it is possible to choose such friction that the penis will penetrate into the girl's pussy as much as possible.
This position is not complicated...
The girl is lying on her back, you penetrate into the pussy with your penis in front of her, simultaneously lifting her legs on your shoulders.
That's where the sweetest part comes in...
Her legs are one of the strongest erogenous zones, which means that during foreplay or an act they can be kissed, licked, gently nibbled.
Show your feelings in public
That's one of the great rules of seduction!
It's all about emotions and our heads... I know many female clients who have had problems with the opposite sex from this very beginning.
The guy doesn't want to pay attention to her in public, she freaks out, doesn't tell him anything...
And, if you think about it for a minute, it benefits you tigers in the first place.
You'll seduce the girl first, show her attention, excite her desire and she'll be insanely happy 😌
Here's a tip:
Take her by the shoulders, hug her gently, kiss her neck, whisper a few dirty words in her ear, kiss the corner of her lips...
She will not only enjoy your actions, adrenaline will "do its job" and wind her up properly ...
And that's all you need!
Dangerous Beauty
Among all the fashion tricks, with which girls subdue the strong half of mankind, the heel has the greatest power.
It is women's shoes with heels subconsciously trigger sexual desire in men...
It not only makes women's legs visually more groomed and slender, but also adds boldness 🔥
By the way, scientists have proved this fact, studying the work of the brain of the strong half of mankind, with the help of various photos.
It turned out: when seeing images of girls in heels the participants of the experiment had on the monitor illuminated the part of the cerebral cortex, which actively works during sex.
Of course, that’s uncomfy and unhealthy to walk in stilettos every day, but when a girl needs a "trump card", believe me, guys, she knows where to find it...
A cheat sheet of foreplay options
What I've got for you today, tigers, you'll thank me and more than once, is a brief cheat sheet of foreplay options:
▫️ Rub her feet, toes, knees, hands, hips, waist, dimples-all attractive body parts
▫️ Kiss all of the above, and don't forget something else
▫️ Squeeze her in your strong embrace. You can also run your hand through her hair and lightly massage her
▫️Touch once in particularly sensitive places to create an emotional swing. Then be sure to kiss passionately.
▫️ Blow lightly on her neck or, for example, when you want to remove a strand of hair from her face.
And, of course, your intense and passionate gaze is the cherry on the cake!
Sex game online
If your beloved is far away, you want her wildly, and she is still shy of virtual - offer her to play online in the bathroom.
Let her lie down in the bathtub with a lot of foam. That way she will be completely naked at the same time, but sort of hidden.
And then - your imagination to the rescue. Try to boss her around, let her touch herself, stroking, pinching where you say.
And imagine your hands...
And don't forget that there are sex toys suitable for use in water...
Everybody ❤️
What is the difference between a girl and a woman:
A girl unripe internally:
▫️ sobs often
▫️ uses any method to make you fall in love with her
▫️ makes a whole dramatic event, reshaping himself to fit you
▫️ becomes comfortable
▫️ eats, drinks, listens to what you do
▫️ drags out dates for 6-8 hours or even a day
▫️ tries to get acquainted with your family and friends, to attach you, to tell the whole world about your relationship...
A woman who knows her worth:
▫️ Don't like me? Get out, I'm on my own. And yes, I have a full life with room for dates with men worthy of me. Next!
I can say the same for boys & mature men.
French Kissing
Sweeties, today we're going to talk about one of the major mistakes in kissing, which is an abundance of tongue...
Please don't shove your tongue into your girlfriend's mouth when kissing, as if you've decided to put it all the way in there.
Your tongue should be gentle, sensitive to the movement of her tongue, like the touch of a butterfly's wings...
The girl should not choke on its presence in her mouth, but savor the very process of kissing. Otherwise, she will have the feeling that she is not kissing, and chews overcooked squid, trying to get rid of it as quickly as possible ...
So, I urge you to act more gently and delicately when kissing💋
Sex after the sweet and flirtatious period
Not long ago, a couple came to me for help with a very popular problem! The girl has no desire to have sex. For the past three months, she feels no attraction to her partner. And this, of course, is very frustrating and stresses the guy out.
👉🏻 The fact is that their sweet period is over and a new phase of the relationship has begun.
The infatuation and emotionality are gone, only awareness and understanding are left. It's at this stage that couples most often have a lot of problems, especially women.
And, in fact, the attraction to the partner is not lost, it just becomes less. There is a sharp decrease in the number of intercourse, but the quality of intercourse increases!
This is normal, and no need to panic!
You can try to diversify sex, go on a date more often, take an unplanned vacation.
Headache & sex
👉🏻 Let's look at the reasons why your girlfriend may refuse to have sex with you:
She's self-conscious about her body.
Many studies show that the more self-conscious a girl is about her appearance, the less she wants to have sex
She's not satisfied with sex.
A headache is like a reason to say no to intimacy, but the problem is much more serious and complicated
She has a real headache.
Yes, a lot of people can just say no due to feeling sick and malaise. And that's okay!
Here lies the main question: how do YOU properly react to such statements?
- If it happens infrequently, you can not react, and just postpone the caresses to another day, because the problem is probably not.
- If refusals and excuses happen systematically, you need to work out and find the problem.
Men get too excited while searching for their girlfriend's G-spot!
You, literally, set yourself the goal to find this point, by all means, so all sex comes down to the search...
And, of course, all attention is paid only to this point and nothing else 😱
That's kind of normal, isn't it? You want to please your baby more 🙌
But answer me please, will you enjoy this kind of sex when all the action, starting with foreplay, is only tied to constantly feeling for the G-spot...
I think not!
In cases like this, honestly, a girl is waiting for her pussy to be left alone and not tormented anymore...
So, lovers, don't focus all your attention only on this detail!
If you once failed to find the desired area, well, don't worry, because you'll come back to your goal after a while.
Top 5 places to have summer sex
While it's summer and hot, sweeties, I suggest you take advantage of the moment and have sex wherever you feel like it 🥰
Combine business with pleasure 😉
At the beach. Grab a blanket or towel, lay your babe on her back, love her gently on the beach under the moonlight & the sound of the surf
In a tent. Vacationing in a tent is the perfect opportunity for a change of scenery and to have sex WITHOUT the home atmosphere
In the hayloft. Personally, this is very exciting to me, if you have the opportunity, take it, but do not forget to put a blanket under your back.
Near a tree. In the woods, lean the girl against a tree, caress her body with a twig or a blade of grass and then enter gently into her pussy and have passionate sex.
The basic secrets of oral sex
Oral sex is one of the best ways to give pleasure to your beloved.
Yet, not all men know the secrets of how best to make a girl feel good:
🍑 With most girls, the most sensitive place for caressing is at the base of the clitoris.
🍑 The vast majority of women are skeptical of copious salivation during cunny
🍑 The use of fingers during cunny likes not all girls.
🍑 It is always more comfortable to do cunny using professional lube. You can use lube in different flavors.
Either way, it's better than feeling your fingers slobbering inside your pussy from time to time
🍑 High tempo cunny looks cool only in porn and movies, but in real life a girl is more likely to cum at a pace most comfortable for her...
Playing Sherlock Holmes. Surveillance
Stalking your loved one's personal space is a great foolishness in couples: sneaking around to check phone contents, accounts, going through personal belongings...
These actions will only further damage the relationship in the couple! Indeed, a loving partner is not capable of cheating.
Whoever wants to leave is sure to leave.
Who wants to cheat - will cheat.
It's all 👆 a matter of time.
So, should you play Sherlock Holmes, using deductive methods to only add to the pain of the relationship?
Remember, tigers, testing means NOT trusting...
Why he needs your orgasm
Tigers, it's no secret that you like it when your girlfriend cums.
It's easy to explain, but the interesting thing is that the explanation has more than one reason. And all of them are worth your attention.
Coz in most intercourse, we, girls, are the ones who use the penis to get the long-awaited orgasm!
Finding this👆 fact greatly increases your self-esteem.
Let me remind you that during orgasm a huge amount of oxytocin is produced, which strengthens the relationship in the couple and increases trust between the partners.
So, tigers, if you wanted to strengthen your relationship with your beloved, make sure you cum vaginally!
You will really feel the euphoria 🔥
Yes, yes, endogenous opiates are produced during orgasm, so your state after vaginal discharge is incomparable!
Finger sex or fingering
Do you think you've already achieved professionalism in cunnilingus? Do you consider yourselves cunny masters?
I wanna remind you that besides the tongue there is another important tool, or rather each of you has 10 of them, I think you know what I mean... ✋🤚
So, fingering is a special sexy technique that involves only the fingers of the hands.
Fingering, by the way, can be a prelude to sexual intercourse, or it can become the "main course".
This technique has no restrictions, except for the girl's wishes...
Moreover, the technique has a lot of possibilities...
How to trust after cheating?
If you are in a classic monogamous relationship and you were cheated on, the question "How to trust a man again?" is irrelevant. The answer is no way.
You will no longer regain the ability to trust this person the way you trusted before. And you have two options: either to be in a relationship with him on and just take your mistrust as a given and inevitable, or break up. Well, living with staying in the relationship, agonizing and tormenting yourself with the question, "How to trust?" - is not an option. It's just neurotic self-mockery and nothing more.
Scarfing or sexual asphyxiation
Recently, despite all the danger, more and more couples are beginning to use this practice.
Sweeties, I think many of you have a question: why risk your life for a moment of pleasure?
In fact, it's simple and straightforward - the orgasm 💦 from using scarfing is actually much stronger.
The blocking of the airways in the body begins to develop hypoxia or oxygen starvation, which primarily affects the brain.
As a consequence, the blood vessels dilate, and the lack of oxygen affects the very area of the brain that is responsible for orgasm and can cause a real euphoria!
It's how you go inside her that matters.
Tigers, men's fav "back and forth" movement is a classic, but it is with these movements that you ignore the vast number of erogenous zones of a woman's pussy. Yep, yep!
So, I suggest that you diversify the friction, drawing a pelvis like a figure of eight and changing the angle of entry into the pussy.
With such movements you'll give much more pleasure not only to yourself, but also to your tigress.
A little tip:
in missionary position, don't forget to put a couple of pillows under her buttocks so that her thighs rise to the level of the penis.
This way the penetration will be much deeper and the stimulation of the front wall of the pussy stronger.
For the same effect in the doggy style position, put a couple of pillows under her knees to raise her buttocks again.
Go ahead and no thanks, my sexy fighters ❤️
I'm begging you... to caress me a little longer.
Tiger, if you're used to going in "dry," pounding your girlfriend and rushing into the shower like an Olympic champion, don't be surprised if she has a headache all the time next time. What do you want?!
Why?
Because we, girls, don't need this kind of bowling at all...
... Explore her body by touch, stroking, kissing, lightly nibbling, but please don't go to the main action, be patient 🙌
Play with her, listen to her moans, breathe with her in unison and whisper in her ear "You are so beautiful", "I want you so much", "My love, you taste so good today", "Your breath turns me on"...
It all works!
I got a prude, and we haven't even kissed yet! What to do?
Let me reassure you right away - there is a way out!
Ask your beloved to send you goodbye air kisses 💋
What? Air kisses?
It might be old-fashioned, but it's also a very bonding technique...
Especially if when you do so, it's as if you catch her kiss and press it against your heart area ❤️
It will be a great start to a great journey!
Not sure about your penis size and sex abilities?
You bet! Most of you guys were sexually enlightened by hardcore pornography.
And porn is staged in the truest sense of the word!
Perfect smooth bodies, dicks the size of unicorn horns, sex for an hour in a million different positions...
You've been imbibing the wrong ideals, and now you suffer from not conforming to them, my sweet stud!
Relax, start appreciating yourself and watch some regular amateur porn 🍓
The girl agreed to have sex on the first date. Is she easy-going?
Sweeties, you amaze me sometimes.
I mean, not even you, but the way your mind listens to other people's opinions...
Let me explain. Most of you were raised by your mothers with Soviet and post-Soviet mentality, which broadcasted about "until the wedding, no-no" or "one girl and for life"!
It's much clearer these days. People are more aware of their desires and body needs.
There are opportunities to act and get to know yourself with minimal negative consequences.
And, when you feel like judging or labeling someone, ask yourself from whom such attitudes came in your head...
What Kills a Woman's Desire
This question and learning the answers to it prevents many problems and misunderstandings in bed.
I'll tell you a couple of things I've noticed in my clients. Remember 🙌
- Refusing to shower before sex.
And this is necessary at all times. First, hygiene standards should be followed, and second, you'll both just feel good.
- Bright light.
When the light is too bright, girls feel uncomfortable, they feel self-conscious and other discomfort, so always use a dimmed light.
- Rapid change of techniques and tricks.
Remember that you can not quickly switch from one technique to another, the girl may not have time to understand you.
- Nipple biting and pinching.
Women's breasts are very sensitive, pulling, biting and pinching nipples is not recommended.
Saved for yourself? Bear this in mind!
Morning Yoga.
Sweeties, remember my post about how guys are always on the lookout for the G-spot?
Well, I decided to offer you a sex pose in which stimulation of this cherished zone will be the most effective!
This pose is called Morning Yoga.
The girl raises her legs to her face as much as she can. You settle in front, rest your hands on her legs, and penetrate her.
It's just like the picture above.
In this pose you'll find the perfect angle of penetration, deep and very effective for G-spot stimulation.
Plus, you can add one tip to this position 👇
Let the girl additionally stimulate the clitoris with her hand during penetration.
SEX only
So!
You have decided to date a girl exclusively for sex.
In this case, it is important for you to build the right boundaries: between you there should be no love, no affection and, by the way, friendship too.
You spell out for each other what you expect from this interaction. Even the number of times a week you will meet, and whether it is acceptable to come to your partner spontaneously for hot sex.
This includes determining what is acceptable to you in sex, what is not, and what you have no experience in, but are curious to try.
You both decide if you will use protection. If not, you exchange recent certificates and discuss in advance what you will do in case of an unplanned pregnancy.
You discuss the consequences of breaking the agreement!
Including what happens if one or both of you feel ready for another stage of the relationship... It's clear, sweeties!
If it's only sex, it's only SEX...
The safest protection against pregnancy
I need to warn you right away, I'm not a gynecologist to give accurate predictions, but I did make a short review for you.
We are talking about intrauterine contraception.
According to experts - this is one of the most reliable ways to protect against pregnancy.
- Intrauterine device.
It prevents the introduction of an ovum into the endometrium for further development.
- Intrauterine hormonal system.
It releases a hormone that prevents the development of the egg and pregnancy.
- Hormone ring.
A silicone device that releases hormones that have contraceptive effects. It works for 21 days and requires regular changes.
Honestly, a condom is the most ideal option. But it's up to the two of you to decide either way. Now you know what protection is available and how you can use it🙌