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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
Your orgasm is always up to you
... That's why it's important, sweeties, to explore your body while masturbating:
▫️Start by changing hands
Get new sensations, and your brain develops.
▫️Change your position
You can masturbate in more than just sitting on a chair, couch, bed. Try lying down and relaxing...
By the way, you can bring your knees in and out while masturbating and listen to your new sensations.
▫️Move not only your hands
In sex, you use your hips, twisting them. Include these same movements in your masturbation and note for yourself how they affect your orgasm.
▫️Vary your movements with your hands
Don't just go up and down, add twisting, involve finger stimulation or, if you haven't tried it, use your other hand to roll your dick between your palms. Feelings - fire!
Quality and varied self-satisfaction is not just masturbation or as they say, "jerking off.
This way you explore your body and find out what you like more so that your orgasm is unforgettable 💦
I can't be without you
The greatest thing in a relationship is your self worth 🙌
It's the confidence that you're an awesome partner and have high value just because you are, you don't need proof to feel cool or tough!
And this sense of self worth is not dependent on external circumstances, it comes from within you...
So what are the signs of low self-esteem:
▪️Your self-esteem depends on those around you
▪️Doing things I don't want to do, but it's for my partner's sake
▪️Not formed personal boundaries
▪️Fear of expressing my emotions and feelings
▪️Fear of being vulnerable
▪️Anything you don't like to do
Sweet, there are many more signs of low self-esteem in real life.
Sexual problems tend to have psychological causes
Due to a lack of education and open discussion, everyone shapes their sexual behavior based on childhood experiences, their own first sexual practices.
Often, it is the sexual inferiority complex that is the root of sexual deviations:
✔️ decreased sexual desire
✔️ decreased sexual feelings
✔️ unwillingness and dissatisfaction with sexual intimacy
✔️ fears during sexual intimacy
These are the abnormalities, sweet ones, that almost every person encounters.
Psychological peace of mind, a state of inner confidence and security are directly related to the quality of your sex life!
Blind Date
Internet dating and virtual romances that grow into real relationships have long been the norm.
But it's you on the Net, no matter how hard you try, who has no luck...
On dating sites you can't find a single suitable candidate for a prince or princess.
Why does this happen?
Dating sites and apps are now leading the way in the search for your other half.
Your heart beats more often as soon as you get the message, "You have a new match!"
And the endless stories of couples who have found happiness on the Web simply oblige you to consider every man or woman who has "liked" a message as a possible option for a serious relationship.
Isn't that why they all come here?
No! Men with no clear goals or a step-by-step plan for achieving it register on dating sites.
The basic secrets of oral sex
Oral sex is one of the best ways to give pleasure to your beloved.
Yet, not all men know the secrets of how best to make a girl feel good:
🍑 With most girls, the most sensitive place for caressing is at the base of the clitoris.
🍑 The vast majority of women are skeptical of copious salivation during cunny
🍑 The use of fingers during cunny likes not all girls.
🍑 It is always more comfortable to do cunny using professional lube. You can use lube in different flavors.
Either way, it's better than feeling your fingers slobbering inside your pussy from time to time
🍑 High tempo cunny looks cool only in porn and movies, but in real life a girl is more likely to cum at a pace most comfortable for her...
Playing Sherlock Holmes. Surveillance
Stalking your loved one's personal space is a great foolishness in couples: sneaking around to check phone contents, accounts, going through personal belongings...
These actions will only further damage the relationship in the couple! Indeed, a loving partner is not capable of cheating.
Whoever wants to leave is sure to leave.
Who wants to cheat - will cheat.
It's all 👆 a matter of time.
So, should you play Sherlock Holmes, using deductive methods to only add to the pain of the relationship?
Remember, tigers, testing means NOT trusting...
Why he needs your orgasm
Tigers, it's no secret that you like it when your girlfriend cums.
It's easy to explain, but the interesting thing is that the explanation has more than one reason. And all of them are worth your attention.
Coz in most intercourse, we, girls, are the ones who use the penis to get the long-awaited orgasm!
Finding this👆 fact greatly increases your self-esteem.
Let me remind you that during orgasm a huge amount of oxytocin is produced, which strengthens the relationship in the couple and increases trust between the partners.
So, tigers, if you wanted to strengthen your relationship with your beloved, make sure you cum vaginally!
You will really feel the euphoria 🔥
Yes, yes, endogenous opiates are produced during orgasm, so your state after vaginal discharge is incomparable!
Finger sex or fingering
Do you think you've already achieved professionalism in cunnilingus? Do you consider yourselves cunny masters?
I wanna remind you that besides the tongue there is another important tool, or rather each of you has 10 of them, I think you know what I mean... ✋🤚
So, fingering is a special sexy technique that involves only the fingers of the hands.
Fingering, by the way, can be a prelude to sexual intercourse, or it can become the "main course".
This technique has no restrictions, except for the girl's wishes...
Moreover, the technique has a lot of possibilities...
How to trust after cheating?
If you are in a classic monogamous relationship and you were cheated on, the question "How to trust a man again?" is irrelevant. The answer is no way.
You will no longer regain the ability to trust this person the way you trusted before. And you have two options: either to be in a relationship with him on and just take your mistrust as a given and inevitable, or break up. Well, living with staying in the relationship, agonizing and tormenting yourself with the question, "How to trust?" - is not an option. It's just neurotic self-mockery and nothing more.
Scarfing or sexual asphyxiation
Recently, despite all the danger, more and more couples are beginning to use this practice.
Sweeties, I think many of you have a question: why risk your life for a moment of pleasure?
In fact, it's simple and straightforward - the orgasm 💦 from using scarfing is actually much stronger.
The blocking of the airways in the body begins to develop hypoxia or oxygen starvation, which primarily affects the brain.
As a consequence, the blood vessels dilate, and the lack of oxygen affects the very area of the brain that is responsible for orgasm and can cause a real euphoria!
It's how you go inside her that matters.
Tigers, men's fav "back and forth" movement is a classic, but it is with these movements that you ignore the vast number of erogenous zones of a woman's pussy. Yep, yep!
So, I suggest that you diversify the friction, drawing a pelvis like a figure of eight and changing the angle of entry into the pussy.
With such movements you'll give much more pleasure not only to yourself, but also to your tigress.
A little tip:
in missionary position, don't forget to put a couple of pillows under her buttocks so that her thighs rise to the level of the penis.
This way the penetration will be much deeper and the stimulation of the front wall of the pussy stronger.
For the same effect in the doggy style position, put a couple of pillows under her knees to raise her buttocks again.
Go ahead and no thanks, my sexy fighters ❤️
I'm begging you... to caress me a little longer.
Tiger, if you're used to going in "dry," pounding your girlfriend and rushing into the shower like an Olympic champion, don't be surprised if she has a headache all the time next time. What do you want?!
Why?
Because we, girls, don't need this kind of bowling at all...
... Explore her body by touch, stroking, kissing, lightly nibbling, but please don't go to the main action, be patient 🙌
Play with her, listen to her moans, breathe with her in unison and whisper in her ear "You are so beautiful", "I want you so much", "My love, you taste so good today", "Your breath turns me on"...
It all works!
I got a prude, and we haven't even kissed yet! What to do?
Let me reassure you right away - there is a way out!
Ask your beloved to send you goodbye air kisses 💋
What? Air kisses?
It might be old-fashioned, but it's also a very bonding technique...
Especially if when you do so, it's as if you catch her kiss and press it against your heart area ❤️
It will be a great start to a great journey!
Not sure about your penis size and sex abilities?
You bet! Most of you guys were sexually enlightened by hardcore pornography.
And porn is staged in the truest sense of the word!
Perfect smooth bodies, dicks the size of unicorn horns, sex for an hour in a million different positions...
You've been imbibing the wrong ideals, and now you suffer from not conforming to them, my sweet stud!
Relax, start appreciating yourself and watch some regular amateur porn 🍓
The girl agreed to have sex on the first date. Is she easy-going?
Sweeties, you amaze me sometimes.
I mean, not even you, but the way your mind listens to other people's opinions...
Let me explain. Most of you were raised by your mothers with Soviet and post-Soviet mentality, which broadcasted about "until the wedding, no-no" or "one girl and for life"!
It's much clearer these days. People are more aware of their desires and body needs.
There are opportunities to act and get to know yourself with minimal negative consequences.
And, when you feel like judging or labeling someone, ask yourself from whom such attitudes came in your head...
Evening, power, sex
Sweethearts, the one who first offers this pose to his other half, the one who gets the power...
Despite the fact that the man in this position is the most active, you will be able to possess your girlfriend, to give her pleasure in all its facets.
The girl should kneel on the edge of the bed, and the man is behind her standing on straight legs.
One of his hands caresses the woman's breasts, and the other caresses her clitoris.
In this case, you perform simultaneous friction, giving your beloved indescribable sensations...
So, I give you the power, sweet 👑
The self-esteem test
One of the main markers reflecting low self-value is emotional dependence on your partner.
When your world crumbles without him, when you feel terrible without his message, when you can't do anything with your life if he's distant...
Recognize yourself?
When you need your partner more than he needs you...
That's 👆 what it is, a major marker of low self-esteem!
And it's not about a man or a woman at all.
Because if you eliminate that partner and replace him with a new one (assuming his value is as high for you), history will repeat itself...
The reason is low self-esteem, and problems in the relationship with your partner only reflect it like a litmus test...
Who is the most common person to meet on the Net
In online dating services, as I refer to my extensive experience in this field, frankly speaking, finding your ideal partner is not very difficult.
On Tinder, for example, I found many high-tech guys, IT pros, sports fans, divorced men, and ordinary guys from labor professions.
By the way, I often use dating sites to find useful contacts. Sometimes professional car mechanics, "husband for an hour", massage therapists, tutors, personal trainers promote their services here.
Acquaintance on dating sites for a serious relationship is real!
Maybe it will take time, the main thing is not to get discouraged and not to agree to dubious meetings that contradict your beliefs.
Choosing a partner is a matter of seconds.
Tigers, I bet I can prove to you that our brain is, after all, faster than you and I think. And when it comes to choosing a mate, even more so...
When you like her, you know it in a split second... Yes, yes!
Pay attention to the fact that when you flip through a huge number of photos, for example, in Tinder, suddenly you stop and go back only to some photos with her, which "hooked" it is unclear. But very quickly... hooked.
When you browse the website of some portrait photographer with a bunch of his work with beautiful girls.
You can scroll through very quickly and soon come back to one of the pictures you liked the girl in that split second.
Cool?!!!
Tiger, you can like some girl lightning fast like that, too.
Sexual Inferiority Complex
My husband no longer wants me, what is wrong with me? I guess I'm not sexy for him anymore...
How to regain my former sexuality?
Lately more and more women clients have been coming to me with similar problems...
When a woman defines how sexy she is by the behavior of her man - this, my sweets, sexual inferiority complex.
If he wants you at any time of the day or night, then you are okay.
If he doesn't, there's something wrong with you.
Except it works the other way around...
When you feel desirable, it's the energy that comes from you that gets the man.
It's comparable to the energy of a fire to which moths flock... Remember, sweethearts!
The most desirable woman is the one who desires herself!
Sexual problems derive from psychological causes
Due to the lack of education and open discussion, each person forms his sexual behavior based on his childhood experiences, his own first sexual experience and stereotypes absorbed from his environment, from various books, magazines, movies...
Often, the sexual inferiority complex is the root of sexual deviations:
▫️ decreased sexual desire
▫️ decreased sexual feelings
▫️ lack of desire and dissatisfaction with sexual intimacy
▫️ Fear of the opposite sex and sexual intimacy
▫️ fears of sexual intimacy
▫️ low self-esteem.
These are those deviations, sweet ones, that almost every person encounters.
Psychological peace of mind, a state of inner confidence and security are directly related to the quality of your sex life!
If not dealt with in time, sexuality becomes frustrated and depression can develop, which will only worsen the reluctance of intimacy, closing the circle...
The best words for a stranger
Before you start a talk with a girl you don't know, don't make the most trivial and stupid mistake that many guys make...
Don't jump out from behind her back with a ready-made "Hi, how are ya?!" phrase...
On the contrary, try to catch the girl's gaze and count the feedback, come to the front and give her a chance to consider you first.
"Hi, your face looks pretty familiar. Uh, have we met before?"
Here's an example of how to say hi and initiate a conversation with a stranger.
The girl, of course, will frantically try to remember where you've seen each other...
So, seize on her confused look: tell a couple of jokes or interesting facts, and then confess that you do not actually know her, but you really liked her...
If you gotta go deep
In the world of poses, we have a particular passionate and divine one that combines everything: deep penetration, passion and playfulness 🤤
The pose with raised legs belongs to this category.
The most important advantage of this pose is the deep penetration of the penis.
During intercourse it is possible to choose such friction that the penis will penetrate into the girl's pussy as much as possible.
This position is not complicated...
The girl is lying on her back, you penetrate into the pussy with your penis in front of her, simultaneously lifting her legs on your shoulders.
That's where the sweetest part comes in...
Her legs are one of the strongest erogenous zones, which means that during foreplay or an act they can be kissed, licked, gently nibbled.
Show your feelings in public
That's one of the great rules of seduction!
It's all about emotions and our heads... I know many female clients who have had problems with the opposite sex from this very beginning.
The guy doesn't want to pay attention to her in public, she freaks out, doesn't tell him anything...
And, if you think about it for a minute, it benefits you tigers in the first place.
You'll seduce the girl first, show her attention, excite her desire and she'll be insanely happy 😌
Here's a tip:
Take her by the shoulders, hug her gently, kiss her neck, whisper a few dirty words in her ear, kiss the corner of her lips...
She will not only enjoy your actions, adrenaline will "do its job" and wind her up properly ...
And that's all you need!
Dangerous Beauty
Among all the fashion tricks, with which girls subdue the strong half of mankind, the heel has the greatest power.
It is women's shoes with heels subconsciously trigger sexual desire in men...
It not only makes women's legs visually more groomed and slender, but also adds boldness 🔥
By the way, scientists have proved this fact, studying the work of the brain of the strong half of mankind, with the help of various photos.
It turned out: when seeing images of girls in heels the participants of the experiment had on the monitor illuminated the part of the cerebral cortex, which actively works during sex.
Of course, that’s uncomfy and unhealthy to walk in stilettos every day, but when a girl needs a "trump card", believe me, guys, she knows where to find it...
A cheat sheet of foreplay options
What I've got for you today, tigers, you'll thank me and more than once, is a brief cheat sheet of foreplay options:
▫️ Rub her feet, toes, knees, hands, hips, waist, dimples-all attractive body parts
▫️ Kiss all of the above, and don't forget something else
▫️ Squeeze her in your strong embrace. You can also run your hand through her hair and lightly massage her
▫️Touch once in particularly sensitive places to create an emotional swing. Then be sure to kiss passionately.
▫️ Blow lightly on her neck or, for example, when you want to remove a strand of hair from her face.
And, of course, your intense and passionate gaze is the cherry on the cake!
Sex game online
If your beloved is far away, you want her wildly, and she is still shy of virtual - offer her to play online in the bathroom.
Let her lie down in the bathtub with a lot of foam. That way she will be completely naked at the same time, but sort of hidden.
And then - your imagination to the rescue. Try to boss her around, let her touch herself, stroking, pinching where you say.
And imagine your hands...
And don't forget that there are sex toys suitable for use in water...
Everybody ❤️
What is the difference between a girl and a woman:
A girl unripe internally:
▫️ sobs often
▫️ uses any method to make you fall in love with her
▫️ makes a whole dramatic event, reshaping himself to fit you
▫️ becomes comfortable
▫️ eats, drinks, listens to what you do
▫️ drags out dates for 6-8 hours or even a day
▫️ tries to get acquainted with your family and friends, to attach you, to tell the whole world about your relationship...
A woman who knows her worth:
▫️ Don't like me? Get out, I'm on my own. And yes, I have a full life with room for dates with men worthy of me. Next!
I can say the same for boys & mature men.
French Kissing
Sweeties, today we're going to talk about one of the major mistakes in kissing, which is an abundance of tongue...
Please don't shove your tongue into your girlfriend's mouth when kissing, as if you've decided to put it all the way in there.
Your tongue should be gentle, sensitive to the movement of her tongue, like the touch of a butterfly's wings...
The girl should not choke on its presence in her mouth, but savor the very process of kissing. Otherwise, she will have the feeling that she is not kissing, and chews overcooked squid, trying to get rid of it as quickly as possible ...
So, I urge you to act more gently and delicately when kissing💋
Sex after the sweet and flirtatious period
Not long ago, a couple came to me for help with a very popular problem! The girl has no desire to have sex. For the past three months, she feels no attraction to her partner. And this, of course, is very frustrating and stresses the guy out.
👉🏻 The fact is that their sweet period is over and a new phase of the relationship has begun.
The infatuation and emotionality are gone, only awareness and understanding are left. It's at this stage that couples most often have a lot of problems, especially women.
And, in fact, the attraction to the partner is not lost, it just becomes less. There is a sharp decrease in the number of intercourse, but the quality of intercourse increases!
This is normal, and no need to panic!
You can try to diversify sex, go on a date more often, take an unplanned vacation.