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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
If you do not know what kind of lube to buy, purchase water-based.
That’s the best choice if you do not pursue any particular goal. "Water-based lube is the most versatile, it's suitable for any purpose, it goes well with condoms and, importantly for me and Tommy, it doesn't ruin toys😏
The only downside is that it uses up quickly and dries out faster than other types, but this is compensated for by the relatively low cost.
It is highly important to remember that silicone and oil/grease based lubricants MUST NOT be used with condoms as they lose their strength. I guess a sudden pregnancy from a broken condom is not in your plans👨👨👦
Let's make cozy evenings
Romance is the key to a strong and warm relationship. Our job is to create the atmosphere. Here are some examples for a romantic date:
— Take a walk down a beautifully decorated street. Choose one where there are beautiful installations and admire them. Don't forget to bring something hot in a thermos to keep you warm!
— An evening with hot chocolate. A perfect night out for those who, like me, don't like powdered chocolate drink from bags! Make it yourself and add more marshmallows, chocolate syrup, whipped cream and chocolate shavings – whatever you want.
— Make a homemade picnic. Think back to the days of summer: lay a blanket on the floor and have a sit-down! We turn on the sounds of the fire on the TV and enjoy the atmosphere! You can also roast marshmallows on the "fire"😁
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Ero-Twister
That’s one of the games for those who really want to spend time passionately and interestingly. New thrills are guaranteed!
This game has everything, liberation, passion, intrigue. Twister is already quite an interesting game, but if you add undressing, then, uh, what passion is to be waiting for you.🔥
How to play. By the usual rules: spin the arrow, put your hands and feet on the placed circles. Yet if you lose, the loser must remove the item of clothing. Start with the top.
Imagine a half-naked girl, crucified in circles, in an interesting position and all her charms open only to you. It's sex and passion in one package.
It's exciting, it's erotic, for every cell of the body. I advise you to try it👌🏻
If there is no orgasm
It is common to see a situation where the main problem with sex in a couple is that the girl only gets an orgasm in private or has never had an orgasm at all and just doesn't know what it is
The essence of the solution to this problem is to introduce the girl to orgasm and help her achieve it. Without further ado, let's begin!
The first step. It starts with her masturbation. In doing so, she can caress herself in front of her partner or alone with herself. The goal is to find her own pleasure.
The second stage. The most basic and important. You are aroused together, but, the girl caresses her clitoris herself, and when she feels the approaching orgasm, the guy penetrates her at this moment with his cock. Doing a few thrusts, she gets a discharge.
She fondles herself, feels the approaching orgasm, the guy penetrates, the girl cums. And already after several times like that, she will have a connection between penetration and orgasm! 😉
Changing Places
Many people think that it is almost impossible to have passionate sex at home. After all, you get bored with the atmosphere, the positions, and the sensations. In fact, things are not so bad.
Try changing places in the same sex act. That’s something that will help beautify sex, even at home. Get a new charge of emotion, passion and arousal☝🏻
Start with the common position on the couch, where the girl is a wild horsewoman. Then move to the armrest and try out the doggy style. Move to the doorway and use the standing pose.
Move into the kitchen and have passionate sex on the table. Finish the sex in the shower with only wet bodies, sexual arousal and pleasure.
Look at how many places I've written just by thinking for a few minutes. It's the perfect sex, after all. And believe me, all these places and positions, you can do even in 20 minutes. Tested it on myself! I think you can come up with a lot more if you want to💋
It's all in our heads
Complexes, shyness and other nonsense about your body, it all comes from our head! Yeah, from the beautiful, lovely, but sometimes so complicated😁
Today, for instance, there was a client with a major complex in his head. Regarding the missing muscles. And to tell you a secret, he looks hot. Yet someone put it into his head that having good sex requires muscles like Vin Diesel.
Let me put it this way, yeah, we like guys with muscles, but we also like many other things. Like caring, a proper attitude, and good sex.
Also girls can feel the difference between a guy who's uptight and a guy who's confident. In bed and in life. Oh, and please, stop being shy. Forget the word altogether. Only confidence and absence of complexes will help you conquer a girl! 💋
Intimacy and Trust
The key to good sex! As cliché as it sounds, in fact, that's how it works!
A lot of people think that nature has put it in our heads to have good sex. Ha, no, it's not that simple. For girls, what matters is emotional intimacy, a gentle approach, and trust in your partner. It's like the foundation of good sex😉
And you can't even argue here, those who do this sit in my office with problems in their sex lives. They balk, resent it, and then go along with it.
Now think about how good your sex is and how much you are emotionally intimate with your partner. If not enough, it's worth changing things up. Try, for example, rapprochement massages, truth night, date nights with conversation.
Thus, in small steps, get closer to each other, then sex is gonna take off to the next level!
Influence her subconscious: Intertwine your fingers
The subconscious mind doesn't rely on words, but it believes poses, gestures, sounds, smells... These are all tricks of NLP and practical psychology, it's hard not to take advantage of it in the 21st century.
So, I'm sharing another tip👇🏻
When you take a girl's hand, hold her hand so that your fingers intertwine. A woman's body perceives such a gesture as extremely intimate.
Do not be sourpuss, turn on the lights
I'm not arguing, in some ways complete darkness turns you on as you cannot see your partner and do not know what's waiting for you and it leads to even more pleasure and passion.
Take it from me, those who deal with this in the dark all the time have much to lose. If you are shy about having sex in the light, however, start with the semi-darkness. This will help overcome the feeling of shyness.
Sex, in this case, is gonna give you not only physical, but also moral pleasure. When observing your partner, it not only hots you, but also brings a special feeling that you will want to repeat constantly.
Eye contact
Sex, blowjobs, cunnilingus. This is where eye contact is important. For girls it's an awe-inspiring moment☝🏻
In fact, some of my female clients tell me daily how much they miss the looks. Especially in a blowjob. Well, they do not like it when guys close their eyes and tilt their head back. No matter how nice it is. It's essential for girls.
Blowjobs and contact are highly closely related. Cause the eyes speak volumes, girls read your pleasure, approval and encouragement in them. This reciprocal passion and mutual recoil.
So, the next time, try one thing. Throughout the whole process, watch and observe the baby. Watch her tongue, how her lips squeeze the penis, how her tongue moves along the head. You will get excited and she will feel pleasure and importance in return.
Changing poses
What does it give us? Many people believe it's just variety. But in fact, it's much more than that.☝🏻
Changing positions in the same sex act helps to prolong sex itself. Moreover, for both men and women.
It's like a little reboot for the brain and body. Both an emotional and physical level. During that small period of time when you change positions, the arousal wanes and subsides, and the body relaxes. Then a new build-up arise and everything starts up again.
I don't think many people knew that, and it's good for you to remember that!
Warm orgasms
Tigers, you know how girls pay attention to every detail in sex. That many factors influence their arousal and climax. Even such as the temperature in the room.☝🏻
The results of studies prove this. They showed that girls who have sex in a warm environment get aroused faster and experience orgasm much more intensely. The cold, on the other hand, slows down orgasms and keeps girls from relaxing.
I'll tell you how I feel about this. Well, I find it incredibly difficult to relax in a cold room. I can't even get my leg out from under the covers, much less undress and ride a man.
So watch the temperature in the room and enjoy! 💋
"Strangers" Role Playing
Nothing excites as much as a "strangers" role-playing game! Well, agree with me, eh? 😉
⚡For me, this scenario is the one giving a kick-ass charge of emotion. Wild excitement and surreal orgasms.
Who needs it?
When you've been in a relationship for a long time and it feels routine, you want spice and something new. This role-playing game would be perfect.
Dry sex
Not long ago I worked with a couple with a clear problem of dry sex. No proper arousal, and thus painful sensations.☝🏻
I'll be honest, that's a problem with a lot of my clients. 53% of the girls I work with do not experience enough arousal.
Let me name a couple of mistakes triggering dry sex.
• High expectations and thinking that arousal is like the first year of a relationship.
• Lack of expectation of lube secretion.
• Refusing to realize that one's own lubrication is mostly lacking.
• Penetrations without preparation and so on.
So I guess you can imagine the first steps to take in this situation. Use lubricant, of course! And then, gradually deal with the problems that have accumulated because of it.
Girls like variety
Nope, not in the sense of changing partners, girls like it when you behave differently.
First you're a rough and feisty dork, taking her by the hair and doing what you want. And then you're the gentle, affectionate, romantic kitten who kisses her every finger. You can alternate these patterns at least several times in one intercourse, or you can change the image once a month.
The main thing is for her to see that you can be anything, and she can be anything with you.
If you wanna try new things, start with bonding
Discussion
Generally, in all aspects of sex (and relationships in general) the most important stage is conversation. I had a friend who was crazy about submission, but went into a wild panic when she was tied up.
Choice of material
There is no need to rush to the ropes for shibari, not the first time will do and terry robe belt, may approach and the usual belt from pants, but there already need skill not to cause your partner discomfort
Straightforward binding
Ideally, you should undress your partner first. I think that it is clear that it is a little bit more difficult to undress a tied up person than usual. Tighten hard enough so that your "ward" can't free himself, but don't overdo it. Blue, swollen hands are extremely unsexy, just take your word for it, don't check at home.
(Yes, you can use handcuffs, but you shouldn't, because you lose that most intimate moment of binding.)
The deeper the better!
There was a couple the other day who had a firm, ironclad conviction. The deeper the cock, the more pleasurable it would be for the girl. Do you think that’s the right position?
Right, nope! Not always a large size is pleasant to girls. In many cases it can cause extremely painful sensations during deep penetration. She probably won't tell you, just tolerate it.
So I wanna tell you not to get hung up on that. Keep it in the middle. Make an emphasis on slow movements and caresses, on different angles of penetration and erogenous zones. This, as experience shows, brings more results.☝🏻
The classic version of foreplay
Well, let me tell you all about it. Yeah, the classic, as everywhere else, exists. It is undoubtedly liked by many girls.
There are only caresses with hands, lips and tongue. And the rule is one, go down her body from top to bottom.
Start with kisses, slowly and delicately go down her neck with your lips. Pay attention to her shoulders and watch the reaction of her body. Feel the payoff from her. Caress her breasts, slowly lowering to her belly. Pay attention to it, as well, with your tongue. Again stop and feel her recoil. Knead your buttocks with your hands and caress your legs. Along the way, remove your attention to erogenous zones such as your wrist and ears.
As a rule of thumb, this will take 10-20 minutes, depending on the pace. Write down and enjoy, sweets😉
Sleepy sex
I think we've all had that kind of sex. And sometimes, it's the sweetest sensation. And it's a separate kind of sex, by the way.☝🏻
What's good about this type of sex? So the fact that the head at this moment does not work at all. It's clean and bright. Thoughts don't get in the way of enjoying each other's bodies, which means the sensations are pleasant.
Sleepy sex, also called lazy one. You can have it in the morning, when you are awake and ready for a new day. Or in the evening, when you are tired and incapable of any experimentation, you are in bed sleepy just enjoying the process.
I would say that this kind of sex once a month is worth having. It brings variety, gives you a charge of emotion and excitement. I advise you not to worry and not to think about positions, use the position on your side, face to face, or when the girl lies with her back to the guy.
No one demands a fast pace or any sudden movements from you. Slow penetrations will work too.😉
How to diversify the caresses
Sometimes even new positions do not bring the right arousal
So what to do? Not to give up, nope, for sure. In addition to new positions, there are a lot of other ways to diversify. And one of them I'll tell you😏
Cool or warm your lips and tongue. This is what to really beautify any oral caresses. It will present a whole magnificent emotion and sensation.
Chill with ice or a cold drink.
Warm it up with hot tea or warm water.
That's all, no more costs are required from you😉
That's relevant to the girls
Which means it should be equally important to you.
It's essential for girls that you look at them in their underwear. Not just looking, but worshipping them with your eyes. You're in the process, she's undressed, standing sexy and hyped up in her lingerie, and this is where it's crucial to stop in the moment. Look her over from head to toe, devour her with your eyes, tell her how gorgeous she is and how lucky you are to have her. Not that hard, is it?
After all, the difference in micro-sensations between you and us is completely different. If you can not wait to take off her underwear, the girl at this moment wants to feel like a queen, and enjoy the rapture in her eyes.
A few minutes of attention in her direction and hot sex is guaranteed for you! I know it💋
How to enjoy condoms?
They are uncomfortable, slippery, always get in the way, and generally ruin the whole experience.
Yet the thing is, you have to get used to them, it's a situation you have to ACCEPT, cause it's the only way to guarantee protection!
Mistake number one
Many condoms are selected incorrectly. You have to consider everything, size and width, quality and materials. As soon as you find the right model for you the feeling, trust me, is to be completely different.
Mistake number two
Putting it on at the wrong moment. Only on a fully hard penis, a condom is put on. After foreplay and just before penetration.
Remember this and make them a part of your sex life, then you will love condom sex!
Something extreme
It's getting cold outside, which means there are fewer and fewer places to play with each other and break some rules! Though the desire to diversify sex is not going anywhere.
Do you know what this means? That it's time to think about where to have extreme sex. I'll give you an idea.💋
How about to play in the car? As for me, that's a good substitute for sex on the street. Especially since plenty of girls are turned on by men behind the wheel. Turns them on the thought of being taken in the back seat of a car.
A couple of tips for the brilliant carrying out. Prepare the car in advance. Heat it up to the right temperature, turn on light music, choose an uncrowded place. Try poses, horsewoman and lying on the seat. One option is the girl controls the process, the second one is only you oversee the movements.
Yeah, you may say this kind of sex is awkward, still in such discomfort lies the pleasure!
The foreplay of a day
Nothing excites as much as the anticipation of sweet and forbidden! Wouldn't you agree that the anticipation of sex is extremely exciting?
By the way, for some clients, as a therapy, I advise to devote one day just to foreplay. And at least once you should try it, too.
Such a day is incredibly beneficial for sex. You get excited, everything inside trembles with anticipation, and the upcoming sex. Plus, you close the girl's need to feel her importance in your life and give birth to a deep emotional attachment. Didn't see that coming? And it really is!
Look what you can do on this day:
• Take a subtle hint in the morning, about sex in the evening. With a passionate whisper, a note, or a kiss.
• Throughout the day, use Dirty talk in practice.
• All day to correspond with the babe, send lewd photos and texts.
• When you get home, get an erotic massage and have passionate sex.
That's the whole plan for the day. Take advantage💋
Wish-book✨
What is the problem with many couples?
It's that both cannot agree about new experiences and poses, are embarrassed to say what they want and lose a lot from it!
I had just one of those couples yesterday. We've been working for a long time, and I advised them on different practices and conversations, but in the end they only agreed on one way. Get a notebook of their desires.
What's its idea. Tell each other on a piece of paper about their secret desires. Say what you really want to try in bed. The idea is not new, still it works.
It goes like this❗️ Make a notebook, put it in a conspicuous place. When you want to play and try something new and extraordinary, write down your idea there. The girl will see the record, think about it during the day, digest it all a thousand times in her head and agree to play.
Start a notebook, write there all your desires, look every night and enjoy the sex. That's a great idea, I guess!
Talk about it
Most of my clients tend to make mistakes in sex. That's normal, still when you know what to do, it's much better! ☝🏻
Many people stay silent about the onset of orgasm in a blowjob.
That’s a popular mistake that I personally have picked up on.
At this point, the following happens. The orgasm comes, the girl is lost and doesn't know what to do. The man cum either in her mouth or on her face.
Some girls react normally, but there are those who run out of the room and panic. Believe me, it scares a lot of them. Not that it's a global mistake, but still worth paying attention to!
Please, do not be stingy with a bit of emotion.💋
Realize, telling her about the onset of orgasm is not scary, it's just necessary for girls.
Try to warn her beforehand about the orgasm. Then there won't be frightened eyes and strange faces. And there will be only pleasure!
Blindfold your eyes and...
Turn on the secret erogenous zones and sharpen your receptors!
Oh, by the way, blindfolded masturbation fuels the relationship too😉
It's like a little game, taking away the shyness in a couple, finding secret zones and allowing a good exploration of each other's bodies.
What to do:
The great thing is that there's nothing complicated about it. You just need to find a light scarf, sit down, opposite one another, blindfold each other. Fondle, touch, kiss and masturbate on each other.
And voila, a spicy orgasm for two is guaranteed!
Problems with erection
One of the burning questions right now is, "If you masturbate a lot, can you have erection problems?"
Some kind of escalation, honestly. And an excuse to discuss the topic😁
Yes, with frequent masturbation, erection problems can occur. Not physiological though, no, emotional. It's like a side effect. After which there is an overworking and addiction, to pleasure. Sexual desire decreases, and you don't want to have sex with a girl at all anymore.
Do not be frightened, though, as this is only a temporary addiction not difficult to solve.
Take a break. Both in masturbation and sex. Forget about it altogether for a while. Allow the body to wean and recover and everything will go back to the way you want it!
Well, just in case, I remind you, there has to be a measure to everything, so don't get too carried away! 💋
Erotic dreams
Tell me, have you ever had erotic dreams? Any consequences from them? Cause that happens too.😁
Recently I had lunch with a friend and she shared an interesting one. Her husband has been having erotic dreams for a year. Both with and without her involvement. Nope, it's not that it bothers them, just that the aftermath can be bizarre.
Her husband wakes up and molests her in the middle of the night. And very treacherously, with wild eyes and no tolerance for rejection. She said this: "Dasha, I don't know what to do anymore. Once I woke up when he was inside me, moving, slapping my butt and looking at me. I was wildly frightened".
Basically, there is no problem here! Most likely the reason is that he is overthinking about sex, fantasizing, watching porn. The brain is overactive, constantly imagining it, and these situations happen.