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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
Let her know that you find her sexy
Most girls, even the pretty ones, don't think they're beautiful enough.
I know it sounds weird, but it's a fact.
Even behind a mask of confidence and bitchiness can hide insecurity about own beauty and attractiveness. I know what I'm talking about, cause I had a similar problem before met Tommy🤷♀️
In short, the secret is simple: make her beauty stand out from the other girls and she will make you stand out from the other men❤️
Combine penetration and clitoral stimulation
Why choose between two kinds of pleasure when you can combine them? During classical sex, a guy's hands are almost always free. Now you know what to keep them busy😏
Tell the guy how to handle your clitoris gently and properly, and the gamut of pleasure is ensured for the two of you.
Girls adore stimulation from both sides. When he plays with the clitoris with one hand, and the other, going inside with two fingers and bending them stimulates the front wall🔥
Monotony is not always a bad thing
If you are a fan of sex once a week in the missionary position at the same pace — most likely you will be left, or at least cheated to meet the needs of sex. Yet, for a girl to have an orgasm, there are 3 minimum conditions you need to satisfy
🔶 Thoroughly arouse her
Quality foreplay rarely lasts less than 10 minutes, and the girl should be wet afterwards
🔶 Comfortable environment
Whether it's the cold room, the neighbors/parents behind the wall or dirty sheets, all of these may prevent a girl from having an orgasm, so take care of her comfort beforehand
🔶 A bit of monotony
To reach the peak, we need monotonous, one-way caresses. Find a position in which you both feel comfy, a medium pace, not too abrupt movements and be patient — these are the ingredients of the cocktail called "orgasm"
The main thing is not to abuse this advice, otherwise you risk turning from a sexy male who gives her one orgasm after another into a boring and dull lover🤢
Girls are predators, and predators have a keen sense of smell
Trust me, even during a coronavirus pandemic, smell remains a crucial factor.
It can immediately favor you or, conversely, repel you. Keep this in mind when interacting with other people, as that's exactly what she gets to remember and recall. Moreover, for this you do not need to take a bath of Armani perfume — simply be clean.
The natural smell contains pheromones capable of arousing your partner. These are not fictions, but a scientifically proven fact. Expect the effect as in the Axe commercials should not be expected, but nevertheless it happens. After all, that memorable pleasant smell, combined with the sympathy, is a reminder of you.
Your advice doesn't work!!!
No it doesn't, my friend. Everything we write about, we have tested in practice and all of our tips work.
❗️You just have to consider two things.
First: there are no universal tricks that work for everyone, yet there are some kind of patterns that many people are partial to. It is essential to understand which of them are appropriate in a certain context.
Second: a person must feel sympathy. If there is none, even the most powerful spells may be useless, and you will seem like an oddball.
So read already our tutorials and start to apply, instead of making up excuses 😉
Sex in the water
👌 Yep, it's okay to have sex in the water. But from my experience — and I have quite a few — it's almost always uncomfortable. In the shower, in the tub, in the pool or the lake — that’s all passionate, romantic, but awkward.
⛔️ Plus, there's always a chance of slipping and hitting the water.
💦 And yeah, friend, remember once and for all, as water is an anti-lubricant. That is, it will make it harder, not easier, to make penetration.
So leave the games in the shower as just games, and move on to full-blown sex in a more appropriate place.
If you do not know what kind of lube to buy, purchase water-based.
That’s the best choice if you do not pursue any particular goal. "Water-based lube is the most versatile, it's suitable for any purpose, it goes well with condoms and, importantly for me and Tommy, it doesn't ruin toys😏
The only downside is that it uses up quickly and dries out faster than other types, but this is compensated for by the relatively low cost.
It is highly important to remember that silicone and oil/grease based lubricants MUST NOT be used with condoms as they lose their strength. I guess a sudden pregnancy from a broken condom is not in your plans👨👨👦
Let's make cozy evenings
Romance is the key to a strong and warm relationship. Our job is to create the atmosphere. Here are some examples for a romantic date:
— Take a walk down a beautifully decorated street. Choose one where there are beautiful installations and admire them. Don't forget to bring something hot in a thermos to keep you warm!
— An evening with hot chocolate. A perfect night out for those who, like me, don't like powdered chocolate drink from bags! Make it yourself and add more marshmallows, chocolate syrup, whipped cream and chocolate shavings – whatever you want.
— Make a homemade picnic. Think back to the days of summer: lay a blanket on the floor and have a sit-down! We turn on the sounds of the fire on the TV and enjoy the atmosphere! You can also roast marshmallows on the "fire"😁
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Ero-Twister
That’s one of the games for those who really want to spend time passionately and interestingly. New thrills are guaranteed!
This game has everything, liberation, passion, intrigue. Twister is already quite an interesting game, but if you add undressing, then, uh, what passion is to be waiting for you.🔥
How to play. By the usual rules: spin the arrow, put your hands and feet on the placed circles. Yet if you lose, the loser must remove the item of clothing. Start with the top.
Imagine a half-naked girl, crucified in circles, in an interesting position and all her charms open only to you. It's sex and passion in one package.
It's exciting, it's erotic, for every cell of the body. I advise you to try it👌🏻
If there is no orgasm
It is common to see a situation where the main problem with sex in a couple is that the girl only gets an orgasm in private or has never had an orgasm at all and just doesn't know what it is
The essence of the solution to this problem is to introduce the girl to orgasm and help her achieve it. Without further ado, let's begin!
The first step. It starts with her masturbation. In doing so, she can caress herself in front of her partner or alone with herself. The goal is to find her own pleasure.
The second stage. The most basic and important. You are aroused together, but, the girl caresses her clitoris herself, and when she feels the approaching orgasm, the guy penetrates her at this moment with his cock. Doing a few thrusts, she gets a discharge.
She fondles herself, feels the approaching orgasm, the guy penetrates, the girl cums. And already after several times like that, she will have a connection between penetration and orgasm! 😉
Changing Places
Many people think that it is almost impossible to have passionate sex at home. After all, you get bored with the atmosphere, the positions, and the sensations. In fact, things are not so bad.
Try changing places in the same sex act. That’s something that will help beautify sex, even at home. Get a new charge of emotion, passion and arousal☝🏻
Start with the common position on the couch, where the girl is a wild horsewoman. Then move to the armrest and try out the doggy style. Move to the doorway and use the standing pose.
Move into the kitchen and have passionate sex on the table. Finish the sex in the shower with only wet bodies, sexual arousal and pleasure.
Look at how many places I've written just by thinking for a few minutes. It's the perfect sex, after all. And believe me, all these places and positions, you can do even in 20 minutes. Tested it on myself! I think you can come up with a lot more if you want to💋
It's all in our heads
Complexes, shyness and other nonsense about your body, it all comes from our head! Yeah, from the beautiful, lovely, but sometimes so complicated😁
Today, for instance, there was a client with a major complex in his head. Regarding the missing muscles. And to tell you a secret, he looks hot. Yet someone put it into his head that having good sex requires muscles like Vin Diesel.
Let me put it this way, yeah, we like guys with muscles, but we also like many other things. Like caring, a proper attitude, and good sex.
Also girls can feel the difference between a guy who's uptight and a guy who's confident. In bed and in life. Oh, and please, stop being shy. Forget the word altogether. Only confidence and absence of complexes will help you conquer a girl! 💋
Intimacy and Trust
The key to good sex! As cliché as it sounds, in fact, that's how it works!
A lot of people think that nature has put it in our heads to have good sex. Ha, no, it's not that simple. For girls, what matters is emotional intimacy, a gentle approach, and trust in your partner. It's like the foundation of good sex😉
And you can't even argue here, those who do this sit in my office with problems in their sex lives. They balk, resent it, and then go along with it.
Now think about how good your sex is and how much you are emotionally intimate with your partner. If not enough, it's worth changing things up. Try, for example, rapprochement massages, truth night, date nights with conversation.
Thus, in small steps, get closer to each other, then sex is gonna take off to the next level!
Influence her subconscious: Intertwine your fingers
The subconscious mind doesn't rely on words, but it believes poses, gestures, sounds, smells... These are all tricks of NLP and practical psychology, it's hard not to take advantage of it in the 21st century.
So, I'm sharing another tip👇🏻
When you take a girl's hand, hold her hand so that your fingers intertwine. A woman's body perceives such a gesture as extremely intimate.
What's natural is not ugly.
I want everyone to remember once and for all: there is no norm❗️
People are pretty different. Extremely different. And what seems normal and ordinary to some people is something crazy and unacceptable to others, and vice versa.
So do not obsess the whole "if other people do it?" thing. Anything that suits you and your partner is the norm. The main thing is that it really suits you both👩❤️👨
How to figure out what your partner thinks is normal and what is unacceptable? Naturally, our favorite way — with words through our mouths, by asking questions and talking about sex.
No talk about sex — no normal sex👆
Let’s talk a little bit about cunny
Well, most guys find cunnilingus to be something humiliating and even wrong. For me, it is incorrect to ask for things you are not willing to give yourself, so the owners of such a position can say farewell to blowjob😡
The biggest question is: how?
Act gentle, like a kitten drinking milk from a saucer😂
🔸 Start off extra gently and tenderly, barely touching with the tip of your tongue
🔸 Alternate up and down, right and left
🔸 Do not put all the effort on your tongue, help yourself with your neck movements, otherwise you will get tired quickly
🔸 Gradually build up the tempo and strength of the pressure, just not overdo it
🔸 Watch the girl's reaction carefully, compare what you do and how she responds
🔸Your main target is the clitoris. At times you can move down to the very entrance, the second most sensitive point for girls.
Remember, your goal is to give the girl pleasure, so don't be shy to ask her how she likes it better❤
Every gentleman should have his own...
Light BDSM set😏
Not every girl dares to be frankly perverted, but to be whipped a little bit, probably none of them would mind. In addition to flogging, such kits include masks, gags, handcuffs and various clamps.
If you both fancy trying some of this stuff, but have any doubts, that's a great option.
Tenderness in life = passion in bed
I'm gonna let you in on a little secret for all girls: It's the details that matter to girls.
Make her know you love and want her without telling exactly that you do. Nothing complicated is needed, just kiss her in the morning, tell her she's pretty, hug her when she's cooking❤
We just melt from such displays of attention🤷♀️
Tommy seems to have found out about this tip before I did and takes advantage of my little weakness all the time... Not that I'm offended 😉
Map your partner's erogenous zones
If you still have not discussed this point — now is the time. Do not be afraid to ask your chosen one over a cup of tea after dinner where her sensitive zones are.
Yeah, he might choke on a cookie😂😂, but in addition to valuable information, you'll get a plus sign for wondering how to give him more pleasure.
With a map in your head of where the best places to caress your partner are, you will, if not get your hands on a shortcut to his heart, at least you will know how to cut your way to orgasm.🥰
How to get sexier?
One of the sexiest things in a man, which absolutely all girls bite on, is his self-confidence.
A man is not afraid of his desires, no matter how taboo they may be, he knows exactly what he wants. A man sees a beautiful girl and does everything to see her on himself in no time.
Wanna be more confident? 💪🏻
Then your shoulders should be squared, your chin up, demeanor always calm, and speech unhurried.
With such a man around, girls are guaranteed to pay attention to him. And concentrated attention on you is already half the battle😏
Girls like variety
Nope, not in the sense of changing partners, girls like it when you behave differently.
First you're a rough and feisty dork, taking her by the hair and doing what you want. And then you're the gentle, affectionate, romantic kitten who kisses her every finger. You can alternate these patterns at least several times in one intercourse, or you can change the image once a month.
The main thing is for her to see that you can be anything, and she can be anything with you.
If you wanna try new things, start with bonding
Discussion
Generally, in all aspects of sex (and relationships in general) the most important stage is conversation. I had a friend who was crazy about submission, but went into a wild panic when she was tied up.
Choice of material
There is no need to rush to the ropes for shibari, not the first time will do and terry robe belt, may approach and the usual belt from pants, but there already need skill not to cause your partner discomfort
Straightforward binding
Ideally, you should undress your partner first. I think that it is clear that it is a little bit more difficult to undress a tied up person than usual. Tighten hard enough so that your "ward" can't free himself, but don't overdo it. Blue, swollen hands are extremely unsexy, just take your word for it, don't check at home.
(Yes, you can use handcuffs, but you shouldn't, because you lose that most intimate moment of binding.)
The deeper the better!
There was a couple the other day who had a firm, ironclad conviction. The deeper the cock, the more pleasurable it would be for the girl. Do you think that’s the right position?
Right, nope! Not always a large size is pleasant to girls. In many cases it can cause extremely painful sensations during deep penetration. She probably won't tell you, just tolerate it.
So I wanna tell you not to get hung up on that. Keep it in the middle. Make an emphasis on slow movements and caresses, on different angles of penetration and erogenous zones. This, as experience shows, brings more results.☝🏻
The classic version of foreplay
Well, let me tell you all about it. Yeah, the classic, as everywhere else, exists. It is undoubtedly liked by many girls.
There are only caresses with hands, lips and tongue. And the rule is one, go down her body from top to bottom.
Start with kisses, slowly and delicately go down her neck with your lips. Pay attention to her shoulders and watch the reaction of her body. Feel the payoff from her. Caress her breasts, slowly lowering to her belly. Pay attention to it, as well, with your tongue. Again stop and feel her recoil. Knead your buttocks with your hands and caress your legs. Along the way, remove your attention to erogenous zones such as your wrist and ears.
As a rule of thumb, this will take 10-20 minutes, depending on the pace. Write down and enjoy, sweets😉
Sleepy sex
I think we've all had that kind of sex. And sometimes, it's the sweetest sensation. And it's a separate kind of sex, by the way.☝🏻
What's good about this type of sex? So the fact that the head at this moment does not work at all. It's clean and bright. Thoughts don't get in the way of enjoying each other's bodies, which means the sensations are pleasant.
Sleepy sex, also called lazy one. You can have it in the morning, when you are awake and ready for a new day. Or in the evening, when you are tired and incapable of any experimentation, you are in bed sleepy just enjoying the process.
I would say that this kind of sex once a month is worth having. It brings variety, gives you a charge of emotion and excitement. I advise you not to worry and not to think about positions, use the position on your side, face to face, or when the girl lies with her back to the guy.
No one demands a fast pace or any sudden movements from you. Slow penetrations will work too.😉
How to diversify the caresses
Sometimes even new positions do not bring the right arousal
So what to do? Not to give up, nope, for sure. In addition to new positions, there are a lot of other ways to diversify. And one of them I'll tell you😏
Cool or warm your lips and tongue. This is what to really beautify any oral caresses. It will present a whole magnificent emotion and sensation.
Chill with ice or a cold drink.
Warm it up with hot tea or warm water.
That's all, no more costs are required from you😉
That's relevant to the girls
Which means it should be equally important to you.
It's essential for girls that you look at them in their underwear. Not just looking, but worshipping them with your eyes. You're in the process, she's undressed, standing sexy and hyped up in her lingerie, and this is where it's crucial to stop in the moment. Look her over from head to toe, devour her with your eyes, tell her how gorgeous she is and how lucky you are to have her. Not that hard, is it?
After all, the difference in micro-sensations between you and us is completely different. If you can not wait to take off her underwear, the girl at this moment wants to feel like a queen, and enjoy the rapture in her eyes.
A few minutes of attention in her direction and hot sex is guaranteed for you! I know it💋
How to enjoy condoms?
They are uncomfortable, slippery, always get in the way, and generally ruin the whole experience.
Yet the thing is, you have to get used to them, it's a situation you have to ACCEPT, cause it's the only way to guarantee protection!
Mistake number one
Many condoms are selected incorrectly. You have to consider everything, size and width, quality and materials. As soon as you find the right model for you the feeling, trust me, is to be completely different.
Mistake number two
Putting it on at the wrong moment. Only on a fully hard penis, a condom is put on. After foreplay and just before penetration.
Remember this and make them a part of your sex life, then you will love condom sex!
Something extreme
It's getting cold outside, which means there are fewer and fewer places to play with each other and break some rules! Though the desire to diversify sex is not going anywhere.
Do you know what this means? That it's time to think about where to have extreme sex. I'll give you an idea.💋
How about to play in the car? As for me, that's a good substitute for sex on the street. Especially since plenty of girls are turned on by men behind the wheel. Turns them on the thought of being taken in the back seat of a car.
A couple of tips for the brilliant carrying out. Prepare the car in advance. Heat it up to the right temperature, turn on light music, choose an uncrowded place. Try poses, horsewoman and lying on the seat. One option is the girl controls the process, the second one is only you oversee the movements.
Yeah, you may say this kind of sex is awkward, still in such discomfort lies the pleasure!