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Hey-hey, my goodies! I'm Alice, I'm sexologist by education. Stay tuned for new posts about how to get pleasure 🔥 Buy Ads: @Fuller_b
Opinions are divided, so let's not hesitate to discuss it!
I want you to know that masturbation is normal!
For men and women alike, it is inherent in nature, and is not considered cheating on your partner. Moreover, that’s a good option to get discharge and satisfaction, in some cases to one partner, and sometimes to both at the same time.
And now to the key!
Masturbation cannot destroy relationships, but an inadequate attitude towards it, has a certain power. And this is where simple jealousy is to blame! Jealousy of porn movies or naked girls in pictures. Cause many girls immediately begin to look for flaws in their bodies and think this is about them.
I advise in such a situation to talk to the babe. Tell her how natural and not embarrassing it is. And then offer to play together. Take a quality porn movie and watch it. Show her that it's not so scary in reality.
Shibari Goosebumps
You know how much I adore this technique and ready to share about it forever. Well, since it has a huge amount of sensuality, aesthetics and eroticism👆🏻
And lately guys have started asking, "Dasha, can you describe how a girl feels in the process?"
When tied properly, this is what a girl feels:
- A slight tickling pain.
- A strong and growing arousal. By affecting the erogenous zones.
- Hopelessness and helplessness, turning into trust and acceptance.
- A pulsation in the frozen muscles that she didn't even know she had.
And all of this comes almost immediately!
Ultimate sensations from having sex on one's side
Face-to-face, it's considered an intimate gesture. That's why many people neglect it. In fact, they shouldn't, cause it's a chance to play it adult😉
Visual contact, so vital to girls here works 100%.
Psychologically, it is a feeling of complete trust, emancipation.
And from the physiological point of view, deep penetration and magical orgasm.
Try different positions: spooning, meringue, close contact. Whichever one you two like best, use that one.
Try it and keep it in mind! 💋
Stomach and nipples
Not only girls' erogenous zone, but yours too guys☝🏻
And since, you tend to forget about your sensitive spots, I decided to remind you💋
Nipples. They're not as sensitive as girls, but! The skin around them is very thin, and nibbling feels nice.
The lower abdomen is where the nerve endings congregate. Bordering next to the penis, which means that excitement is guaranteed. Sweet slips of the tongue, biting the skin, to excite anyone. Try playing with cold and warmth, they will aggravate arousal.
Why do you think this post was read to you? Yep, so that you show it to the girl, or ask her to play with you in the process. Do not forget about yourself and enjoy sex.
Instructions for first anal sex
That’s pretty reverent and emotional sex. Thus why it's important to get it right. And I'll help you with that a little bit😉
The most important thing is to prepare properly. This determines what kind of sensations you will deliver to your baby girl.
You'll need lube and your desire. Let the girl take a comfortable position. I recommend the standing position. It's more comfortable for anal sex. Lubricate, get down on your knees, and start running your finger up and down her anal hole.
Very gently and smoothly, press the entrance with your finger and use your tongue. Go in 2-3 cm. Penetrate deeper with your finger until you feel the girl's limit.
Our goal is to overcome the girl's embarrassment, remove her fears, and experience pleasure from anal stimulation. Try it!
Self-confidence. Tip #42
Cool exercise, crew. If you're about to have a conversation with a babe you want and you're feeling insecure, before you do
📌 TALK TO YOUR FRIEND OR OLD ACQUAINTANCE.
Get it? You're dating a girl you're NOT afraid of, not shy about, pirate. Talk to her for at least 15 minutes on the phone - right before your date and, trust me,
YOU'LL BE A LOT MORE RELAXED.
You just talked to a living, REAL woman, and nothing happened, you didn't die, you didn't pee your pants in fear. Your brain will remember that and you'll be as calm as a macho Spaniard on your date.
👉🏻 And in general, be friends and talk to girls more - it will help!
Sex Tip #40
Pirate. For God's sake,
📌 NEVER NICKNAME HER VAGINA
Some guys do it - they make up all kinds of "bushies", "holes"🤦🏻 If you're smart enough, sailor, during the first sex, and in general at the first stages of a relationship to blurt out something like that
- DON'T BE SURPRISED WHEN SHE RUNS THE FUCK OUT OF THERE.
Cause vagina/chest nicknames are the lot of established couples. They have their own jokes and long term relationships, and if you get the idea to say
"I like your hedgehog so much,"
and she tells you to fuck off, you know I'm on her side, you deserve it.
P.S. Although someone likes it, but don't count on it🤷🏻
Sex tip #38. Simple, juicy.
Pillow. Get a regular pillow or order a SPECIAL pillow (ebay to help) and put it under her ass during sex (in missionary position). Or like this pic ☝🏻
WHY DARE I RISK WITH THE PILLOW?!" you ask, and i'll answer:
You'll change the angle of "entry", the penetration will become deeper and more sensitive to her. Especially helpful if you don't have a particularly big boarding hook📏
In short 👉🏻 Gals are spoiled by padding. I didn't make it up, team, the technique is as old as the world, but for some reason few people use it.
She won't want a pillow later, mark my words.
Why go to a sex shop together?
Trust me, there's no shame in it. Never think you'll look ridiculous or someone might be poking their fingers at you.
You can always consult with salespeople as they know all about how to diversify your sex lives and breathe a new lease of life into your relationship.
In this way you may see your partner's reaction to all kinds of toys.
I'm sure each of you can find something to suit you.
Psychological barrier in women
Spectating is one of them. Instead of enjoying the sensations during sex, a woman focuses her attention on how her breasts look, and ends up not getting the desired pleasure.
Almost all of the problems in sex have to do with psychological barriers, not with the way the body works.
Imagine that there are pedals in each person's head responsible for arousal.
The gas pedal and the brake pedal, responses to arousal, including visual images and emotional context, and you need to learn to control them.
I am frequently approached with a question:
Does size matter?
It certainly matters, but not as much as men used to think.
If you have an outstanding size, you must be careful and slow, otherwise your partner will get nothing but unpleasant sensations.
And in case you have a modest size, I would advise positions when you are behind, as this contributes to deeper penetration and sharper sensations.
Massage is the leader in choosing foreplay
A massage candle can come in handy for more excitement of your partner. Light it and leave for 20 minutes. After that your bedroom is to be filled with a stimulating aroma creating the necessary atmosphere.
Wait until the candle is at a comfortable temperature for you and becomes liquid.
The melted wax will turn into a gentle warm oil. Neatly pour it onto your hands and begin.
Press the stop button in the elevator😉
I get that’s a rather uncommon action, though if you dare to do it, it’s gonna bring adrenaline and thrills into the relationship.
The elevator should be appropriate: clean and fairly bright.
A suitable time for privacy is in the middle of the night. There is less chance that a dispatcher to be interested in you.
The presence of lubrication in the girl is a sign of arousal?
In fact, the female body is more complicated. Far from all cases of arousal and lubrication coincide.
The presence or absence of lubrication in women is a reflex of the body to something that may lead to sex.
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This process happens automatically, though it does not indicate at all the degree of a woman's arousal.
So how to figure it out?
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A woman reveals it to you with her body. Her breathing and heartbeat are rapid and her movements are smooth. She'll direct you to her sexual energy herself.
How to prolong the intercourse?
Let's stop endlessly trying to have an orgasm at the same time and remember one of the main rules - the girl has to experience an orgasm first.
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Unfortunately, women cannot have an orgasm just from penetration, so you have to arouse her enough.
After that, try to find the peak of your pleasure. This is the moment when the orgasm comes immediately, even if you have stopped all attempts to get it.
For this you need to practice a little: masturbate and control this moment, then continue so that when approaching the point of no return you stop and continue further.
Why make up a safe word?
And even though some will say now, "We're not in 50 Shades of Grey!"
I'm gonna stand my ground. The safe word is insanely helpful in many situations!
Let’s say, you decide to play hardball and the girl is not ready for all the experiments, she may panic.
But awarding of a safe word, she’ll feel more comfortable in experiments.
It's like an airbag for her, and a sign for you that it's time to stop.
Where do misconceptions about sex come from?
Talking to people for 10 hours a day about sex, I realized how much we are misled.
As an example, one couple yesterday where the two of them have a persistent delusion:
Good sex should end with a simultaneous orgasm.
So what actually happens? Both reach orgasm in separate ways, the guy is faster, the girl takes longer. Or vice versa. Yet since they have a dissimilar belief, conflicts arise in the background, perpetual deliberation and, of course, problems with sex. Both think they are doing something wrong.
Only in movies do they show two people experiencing pleasure at the same time. But it's a film, after all, lots of things are made up there.
You shouldn't believe in myths, fairy tales, and movie plots. It's better to think straight and assess the situation. It will be much easier, trust me😉
Sexy, slow and languid technique
The "Grave" technique excites, arouses and gives a truly magical experience😉
Slowness, caution and complete focus on the senses... Everyone writes and compares the sensations to riding on a swing.
When the moment of approaching orgasm, you slow down, stop and feel with every cell of your body😍
And for me, this technique is something intimate and awe-inspiring. When there is visual contact, when you breathe and hear each other's breathing, and get high from the process.
Sexting — exchange of intimate texts or photos
If you have been in a relationship for a long time, texting tends to escalate into solving domestic problems.
It is in such cases, I advise to practice sexting.
First of all, it's insanely hot. Imagine sitting at work, your babe sends you naked pictures and lecherous texts? It's a turn-on, isn't it? Secondly, it brings variety to intimate life.
There are a few rules of thumb here. Like everywhere else, it's not that simple.
- Always send photos without your face and spontaneous photos. For example, your torso with your pants down.
- Put aside your shyness and unnecessary excitement.
And enjoy the photos and the passionate texts!
Manipulation in communication. Tip #43
Hey! Guys! Raise your hand who wanna manipulate chicks!?
FOREST OF HANDS, I SEE, SEE! 👀
Then here's a tough technique:
👉🏻 LEARN 5-10 "SMART" WORDS, AND THEN PUT THEM IN THE CONVERSATION.
Just be sure not to overspeak, pirate! Not the part: you don't need to talk in scientific terms or you'll just look like a NERD. For an hour, utter 1-2 compound words:
🗣 "You know, I have the most real caffeine addiction."
or
🗣 "Yeah, occasionally I play computer games. It's escapism, but I rarely gamble."
Get it, pirate? 99% of the time she'll let it pass her lips, she won't elaborate on the meaning of the words - so as not to look stupid🤷🏻
AND THAT'S WHAT WE NEED.
She'll get a "Yep, I'm dumber than he is" in her head. And that makes you a better person, it's a POINT to your credibility.
And if she asks back, condescendingly explain it to her. She's still a step below you😅
She interrupts you while you're talking? Wrong, tip #41
Do not let a girl you don't know interrupt you, pirate. In her mind, this will take you down a notch, right away💁🏻
If she breaks you off, you should gently (BUT STRONGLY!) say:
🗣 "Let me finish," and complete your speech as if nothing had happened. If she STILL won't shut up (well, there are unruly ladies out there), then say it harder:
I do not like you to interrupt me. Let me finish!
That's it. You have shown that you are a man - you LEAVE your right to respect☝🏻 And you yourself notice that she will listen to you ALWAYS, even if she burrows to say something.
Compliments, guys. You gotta know how to do them. Tip #39
So, all this stuff about "pretty eyes" - cool, sure, but we're PIRATES - so we hit with a volley of all the guns so that she'll be knocked up🤤
The most killer compliment is the one she WANTS to hear.
Look: ladies are VERY concerned about their appearance. And every, well just EVERY girl is trying to make herself stand out from the rest.
WHAT IS OUR GOAL?! 👇🏻
Right!!! Figure out what she pays the most heed to, what her "thing" is, and tell her about it.
Keep an eye out, sailor: her nails might be the same color as her earrings. Say:
🗣 Wow, your earrings go awesome with your nails. Good taste.
That's it, she's floating! She thinks she has great taste too, she WILL hear that.
It's compliments like this, guys, that make chicks addicted to your approval.
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How to get rid of the stiffness?
That’s most of all true for women. We tend to question our appearance by overestimating our own demands.
During sex, we may wonder what our hair looks like or if our makeup is leaking, instead of enjoying the process.
Negative emotions have the ability to build up in the body, which is why women have trouble releasing emotionally. Believe me, a man feels it, and his arousal decreases.
I advise you to try relaxation techniques, meditation and massage. To learn how to enjoy sex, it is essential to relax and loosen up.
Sunlight increases libido
It is the hormone that makes the body produce melatonin. It improves sleep, but also awakens our sexual desires.
Large amounts of melatonin lead to improved sexual arousal.
Taking short walks outside in the sunlight awakens your sexual potential, especially in winter.
Time for love shack outdoors
Uncommon advice from me, still highly effective. Set aside once a week to change the usual environment for sex, do not limit yourself to your own bedroom, but spend time in a fancy hotel room.
And that's due to a neutral environment, your brain shuts down and stops thinking about things you would do at home — like "fixing the faucet" or "calming the kids down."
It's best to spend time in a place that you don't associate with other memories.
Meditation before sex
You've lost a lot if you've never tried meditating with your partner before sex. Still it's never too late to start!
This way you can feel each other better and increase the degree of arousal.
How to perform?
Sit down next to each other and just look into each other's eyes without letting your partner touch you. Breathe evenly and transfer it to the genital area.
After 20 minutes, you can hold hands and continue. You’re gonna feel when the proper moment for touching comes.
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The male G-spot
It is much easier to find than in girls. Just find the prostate.
The prostate is located 5 cm below the anus. To the touch, it reminds of a rounded formation.
Stimulation of the prostate, when the man is already at its peak, is able to bring him to bliss.
Trying this technique once, no man gives it up again. It is explained by the fact that the prostatic stimulation provides a stronger orgasm than a regular one.
What is the best pose for sex?
I can say without a doubt it's doggy style.
Girls, get on all fours and let him enter you from behind. Then extend your arms forward and lower yourself onto your chest, your butt should be above head level.
In this position we control the depth of penetration. If we arch our back, it's a shallow penetration. If we touch the lower back, we feel a more intense contact.
In this position the pressure on the head of the penis increases, which means it will be an unforgettable pleasure for your boyfriend, too.